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“There seems to be some perverse human
characteristic that likes to make easy things
Have you been working towards financial independence,
affluence, luxury or overflowing wealth? Are you there yet?
Have you been struggling to realise your dreams? Do
opportunities seem to just slip away at the last minute?
If the answer is yes, then your thought patterns could be holding you back.
There are several ways in which we hold ourselves back from achieving our full potential. In fact, when
you realise or find out how you’ve been holding yourself back it can be quite a shock and a very
You may be stuck in a pattern repeat; or you may have unconscious beliefs holding you back about
actually attracting wealth and financial independence. You may have behaviours that seriously detract
from your ability to unlock abundance, or you may just have fear around pushing the boundaries of your
comfort zone so you don’t always take advantage of the opportunities that arise. Whatever it is, you’ll
get an insight into where you are now and what you can do to get to where you want to be.
Follow the “Six Easy Steps To The Moneyed Mindset” at the end of this document and see
how your world changes. First, let’s talk about how your unconscious mind could be holding you back.
We do like to repeat patterns, don’t we? Have you ever noticed how families tend to follow the same
behavioural trends? Have you ever noticed that success breeds more success and that debt seems to
breed more debt? What about a more extreme example? Have you ever wondered why a child who has
experienced abuse often enters into an abusive relationship as an adult or
becomes an abuser? It’s all about pattern repeat and the circumstances
we attract around us.
The other thing about patterns is that they are often ingrained in our
unconscious and so we repeat them without even realising what we’re
doing. You’ve taken the steps before, several times probably, and so it’s
easy to repeat them. You may not even realise you’ve followed the
pattern so seamlessly until you get out of the other end. Have you ever
done something and then wondered why? Not necessarily because you
didn’t achieve the outcome you wanted but because you did it unconsciously without realising? Well
maybe you’ve got some patterns which you might like to break or change to align and support your
And there’s something else you may not have realised, if you’ve
only ever experienced a shortage or lack of money, then you’ll
find comfort in that environment; it’s familiar. So, if you grew up
with limited money around you then that may well be your
comfort zone. And we all need a push to move out of our
comfort zones don’t we? Or perhaps you’re used to living in an
environment where you make loads of money but then you
spend more or just lose it. Or perhaps you’ve only ever experienced having just enough money to make
ends meet; chasing your tail and feeling relief when it’s just about ok. You might even be attracting
those circumstances so that you can feel those feelings of relief. Are you wondering what you might be
Ask yourself right now “How am I going to feel when I have totally unlimited funds? How will I feel
when I can live my life without any concerns or worry when I spend money? How will I feel when I am
totally financially independent?” Now, if you felt even a remote or minute sense of apprehension or
concern then you might find that your comfort zone is far removed from where you want to be and you
may also have some limiting decisions around whether or not you can achieve it.
The key is then finding the quickest way to release any concerns you have about moving out of your
comfort zone and then break unhelpful patterns so your thought process aligns with your goals and
supports your desires.
You ATTRACT what you think
Our thoughts attract our circumstances. At any given point in time, our thoughts have attracted the
situations we find ourselves in. The good; the not so good; and the really ugly. This can be a very
challenging concept to take on board (especially if you’ve had a tough time) and yet if you can get to
grips with it, you’ll find it will bring you full control over the results you get.
Let’s give you an example. Have you ever thought to yourself “please don’t let that happen” over and
over again ... and then it happened? The fact is that we get
what we focus on. So by focusing on the possibility of
something happening in the way you don’t want it to we
actually draw that situation towards us.
One key point to make is that the unconscious mind does not
process negatives. So, if you’re saying to yourself “please don’t
let me lose that deal” you’re actually attracting the loss of the
deal towards you. Now that will set you thinking!
Everything is controlled by thought. We are what we
NLP and Timeline Therapy are tools and techniques
which aim to achieve the same end goal as the majority
of other techniques for personal and spiritual
development – a clean thought pattern.
“A man is but the product of his thoughts what he
thinks, he becomes.”
Whether it’s positive thinking, Hawaiian Huna, NLP, Shamanism, Buddhism, Martial Arts, Yoga or any
other tool for personal development, the aim is to get us back to ZERO. To return our minds to that
childlike state where curiosity breeds curiosity, we can find things to be passionate about we are
“thought baggage” free so we look at everything as a shiny new experience with an open heart.
Also, think about how your thoughts actually shape your life. Think about the following statements and
what they actually create:
Sense the difference when you read the statements below out loud.
• I can’t make money unless I’m working • There are opportunities to make money
really hard (think about the barrier this everywhere, I just need to make sure I’m
puts in the way of wealth … and in the right place to pick up on them. I’m
potentially your health) excited to find a way of making money in
my sleep so that I am free to enjoy my
• In 3 years time I’m going to be really • I have the potential for financial freedom
wealthy and significant wealth right now.
• I’ll never win the lottery • People do win the lottery and so I too can
win the lottery if I buy a ticket.
• No-one makes much profit in the first year • With the right product, set up and concept
of business – you’re lucky to break even you can make money in any market and
Can you see the difference? Does it feel different when you say it? Remember, you get what you
expect, so cleaning up your thoughts can raise your expectations dramatically. Just imagine what you
could achieve if you believed 100% that you would achieve whatever you set your mind on.
So, if you can take this concept on board then you have the control to change your thoughts and attract
WHAT YOU WANT into your life. Why not attract your full prosperity towards you?
You can’t attract from “NOT HAVING”
Success doesn’t come from a place or feeling of “NOT
having” or “LACK”. Have you ever noticed that when
something goes wrong, you might think to yourself, “Does
this mean I’m going to have a bad day?” And then guess
what, something else goes wrong!
Well, this is because the vibration and thoughts you give off
attract certain circumstances. So, the GREAT news is that it also works the other way. Have you ever
noticed that when you’re having a fantastic day, you know the kind, when nothing can touch you,
everything just seems to go well.
Therefore, the key to things going well is the way you think and feel. It’s about maintaining your state.
The key to really attracting financial prosperity is to behave and feel as if you already have it. So, that
doesn’t mean you should rush out and spend loads of money but it does mean that you can feel how
you would feel if you were totally affluent.
Think about it now, what thoughts would be going through your mind? What would you be feeling?
Would you be excited, would you be really peaceful? Would you be totally relaxed, would you be
feeling thankful? Whatever it is, step into that moment and really feel those emotions and think those
thoughts. The art to really attracting what you want is to feel as if you have already achieved it, every
Esther & Jerry Hicks have a really nice trick to change your thought patterns. They suggest that every
time you catch yourself having a thought like “why don’t I have this yet?” you could change it to “won’t
it be fantastic when I figure this out and get what I want. I cannot wait!” Can you appreciate how the
feeling of optimism and confidence that you will work it out is a better place to be than feeling that life
is unfair because you don’t have it yet?
What is NLP?
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a powerful, practical and results-orientated method of coaching
your conscious and unconscious mind to align with your desires and goals. NLP allows you to make
changes within a very short space of time – even minutes – getting you on track quickly to live a more
integrated and purposeful life.
What does that mean? If your unconscious values, beliefs, decisions and thought patterns are aligned
with your goals and objectives, you will achieve them easily. No matter what you want; financial
Wealth and independence, a new relationship, a career you love; whatever you want, you can have it.
Conversely, if your conscious mind is wants to achieve financial independence and yet your unconscious
mind holds a belief that ‘the unknown is frightening’ or ‘financial independence is only for the lucky’ or
that ‘it’s good to have the security of a job and a salary’, then you’re pulling in two directions. And if
you’re pulling in two directions how easy will it be to achieve what you want? Not very easy!
NLP is a series of tools and techniques created by Bandler and Grinder that allow us to understand how
we organise our thinking, feeling, language and behaviour. Every one of us forms unique internal
mental maps of our surroundings based on the way we filter and perceive information via our five
senses. The way we filter information affects our thoughts, feelings, language and behaviour. Our
behaviour directly creates an outcome or result.
With NLP, you learn how to grow from every single life experience and, more importantly, find
happiness in the NOW and attract the right opportunities to you. What’s more, it helps you to find
happiness in what is actually happening right now, rather than repeating the message of “when I get
there, I’ll be happy.” Just imagine, if you could feel great, no matter what is going on
around you. What would that be like?
Will I still have to work to achieve what I want?
Think of it like this. NLP clears a path. If the path is clear to walk down then you’re much more likely to
reach your goal than if all the old bits and bobs you’ve collected throughout your life are strewn across
the path. Aren’t you?
You can have whatever you want, but it takes work. If you think you can just “consciously” decide that
everything will go your way from now on, without taking action, then things won’t really change.
It’s all very well believing you can have what you want, or indeed you already have what you want
(therein lies the key). But, to reach the goal your behaviour has to support your beliefs. So, if you think
“I’m going to be really wealthy”, don’t sit at home and wait for the financial opportunity of a lifetime to
drop into your lap; go out there and looking for it, talk about it, attend networking events and take
action to achieve what you want.
NLP clears any limiting beliefs that could be holding you back, conscious or unconscious. People often
find that it is an unconscious belief that they are totally unaware of that is preventing you from living the
life you want. NLP helps you to identify and STOP the voice in
your head which questions your ability or says you’re not good
enough. NLP helps you to identify behavioural patterns that
you may have repeated over and over again, though your life;
and then we give you the tools to ditch them!
So, if you’re expecting a walk in the park, you won’t get one!
However, if you’ve decided you want to take control of your life
and you’re willing to get out there and make it happen, then
this is the PERFECT place to start and continue down that path.
Taking Responsibility – Good, Bad & Ugly!
Ok – here’s the part that some people find challenging. In order to be fully empowered we have to take
responsibility for all of our actions, thoughts and emotions. To be clear, another person cannot make us
something or feel a certain way. Based on the circumstances we make a choice. It really is 100% our
own decision every single time.
So, take responsibility for where you are now and then take responsibility for changing it. By doing this,
you empower yourself to make change. You have all the resources you need inside you to achieve
whatever you want.
Every thought (energy) we create builds the reality around us. So we have to take responsibility for that
fact that we create events; events don’t “happen” to us. What’s more, if you take this a step further
then you realise that forgiveness should always be aimed inwards. If our reality is a mirror of our own
thoughts, then the person to whom you should frequently direct love, forgiveness, appreciation and
respect is you. This is the key. Once you learn to master this, it is far easier to attract what you want.
A trick to change your state
Emotions are transient; they move, change and flow. So, you can decide to feel how you want to feel at
any given point. Here’s a little trick to show you how to do it.
Can you remember the last time you felt really happy and you were REALLY enjoying yourself or feeling
another really powerful positive emotion? Put a smile on now. And think about the event which caused
you to feel that fantastic emotion, who were you surrounded by? Was it friends? Was is family? What
could you see? What could you hear? What could you feel? Were you laughing? Were you talking in a
really animated way? How were you standing? How were you moving? How were you breathing? Did
you want it to last forever? Really go into that event and, looking through your own eyes, what are you
seeing? What are you feeling? What are you hearing? Really feel as you’re there, right now? OK. Are you
smiling? Good, now stand in the same way as you were then.
How do you feel? Feel good? Feel great? Feel energised? So, you’ve just discovered how to change your
state by transporting yourself (IN YOUR MIND) to a time when you were having a really fantastic time,
when you were really enjoying yourself. And you can access that time, any time you choose, as a
method to raise your mood and make you smile!
That is how powerful your thoughts are. You could repeat this
exercise for 5 minutes every day and see how your body feels when
you do it. It bet you’ll feel great!
By spending time focussing on a really positive experience every single
day, you can radically uplift your emotional state. Why bother? Well,
we attract things to us (people, opportunities, business, etc) based on
the vibration we give off. It’s a simple law of physics. So, are you going to attract better opportunities if
you down in the dumps and you can’t get out of bed or if you’re out and about loving life? Think about
Want to try something else? Get out your favourite CD, play it on high volume and sing along until it
makes you feel totally alive. Or find a film which makes you laugh until it hurts, and watch it. Or
open a book which makes you smile from ear to ear. Whatever your technique, spend a little time every
week (every day if you can) doing something you really, really enjoy. That way, you (quite literally) lift
your spirits and bring a new perspective to old problems or worries. Why not invest just 10 minutes
every day this week and really enjoy bathing every cell of your body in these feelings of joy and
Six Steps to the “Moneyed Mindset”
1. Honestly assess where you are and get organised – take responsibility
then take steps
Be honest with yourself about where you are in relation to achieving your goal. Where are you
financially? Write EVERYTHING down that you own, owe and have coming in. Identify
realistically what you need to earn or generate to clear any debt and then focus on generating
that sum of money as step one. Then design a realistic timeframe around your financial goals.
The next step is to write down every skill you have and
work out how you can generate income from each of
those skills. It’s important to take time over this step
because once you have identified honestly where you are,
you may need some time to allow your creative juices to
2. Kick limiting beliefs into touch
Everything has an opposite. So, next time you catch
yourself having a limiting g thought (such as I’m not good
enough to do that etc.) then identify what would be the
total opposite of that thought. Once you have the total
opposite focus on believing that thought 100% every
single day. Let us give you an example. If you are fearful
about something, you don’t delete the fear; you develop
courage and confidence in order to diminish the fear. So,
by cultivating the opposite of the limiting decision you will automatically diminish the limiting
3. Approach everything as if you already have it
Get up every morning and frame your mind and body to feel as if you have already achieved
your goal. Ensure you take time to step into that feeling. Think what you’ll see in your mind,
what thoughts will go through your mind? What will you hear? Take 5 minutes every single
morning to frame your mind to believe that you have already achieved your goal. Use whatever
tools and techniques you need to REALLY believe you already have it!
4. Design the dream and drop it in your timeline – Go for it!
Work out what you really want. Write it down on a piece of paper, detailing what you can see,
hear and feel around you. Ensure you put an EXACT date on it and then write it in the present.
It might read something like this.... “It is now the 21st June 2010 and I can see my new house in
front of me. It’s so large it makes me laugh! I can hear the excited chatter of my friends as they
run in to take a look around. I feel so proud of myself for attracting this towards me in
celebration of my success.” Once you’ve got your dream detailed on a piece of paper I want you
to (in your MIND) go out into the future to the date of achievement. Now, take that goal and
literally drop it into that point in time in your mind. Then step right into that event and see
what you’re seeing, hear what you’re hearing and really feel those feelings of total success.
Then change your view so that you can see yourself in the picture and seal that experience into
5. Behavioural Flexibility
If at first you don’t get to where you want to be – do it differently! The way to achieve what you
want is to take any failure as feedback and change your behaviour. Success is a process of
setting your course and then adjusting your behaviour or direction every time you have new
6. Repeat the steps - make the “Moneyed Mindset” a habit
To gain momentum and to maintain the optimum state to attract success and wealth it’s
important to keep repeating the steps. If you commit to doing this work you will achieve what
you want. Good luck!
How do you use NLP?
Improve your personal life with NLP
Communication - internally & externally
Empowerment & Confidence
Achieving results/targets/goals - weight
mgt; stop smoking
Managing your state & behaviour
Release Negative Emotions; Limiting
Decisions; Resolve inner conflict
Release Trauma & Depression
Improve ALL Relationships
Improve your business & Use NLP
Communication & Training
Coaching & Managing your team
Organisational & Culture Change
Eliminating bad habits/states ;
Negative Emotions; Limiting
NLP in Education
Remove bad study/learning habits
Focus, Goals & State Management –
Release limiting decisions
Use NLP in Sports
State management – ‘in the zone’
Releasing Negative Emotions &
Help Children with NLP
Phobias / Fears
How do you learn NLP?
Fire Dragon Coaching runs a full range of NLP & Timeline Therapy Practitioner Courses
that are certified by the American Board of Neuro-Linguistic Programming.
We run training courses in the UK, Europe, Egypt & the Middle East & the USA.
NLP Certification Programmes
• NLP & Timeline Therapy Practitioner Trainer
• NLP & Timeline Therapy Master Practitioner Training
• NLP Trainers Training – In conjunction with The Tad
Other NLP Training Programmes
• Business NLP & Timeline Therapy Courses
• Fire Dragon Fantabulous™ Course for Women
• Presentation Courses
• Communication Courses for Business & Personal Relationships
The next course we’re running is the Combined NLP & Timeline Therapy Practitioner
Course in Cairo, Egypt.
17th – 23rd January 2010
Go to http://nlp.firedragoncoaching.com/destination-training.html for more information.
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