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He tells th phone num t be s teacha hat shtext/p g ld yo te he Rumor mmunity. n as a •• W Is sext icture u give yo websi strip design ail address, Jamal has no your co situatio ing a /video ur messa child abou m . u us e this • Wha crime? comic only your e- gister ? ges? t GUIDELINES ed to re w do yo ith your child MODERATOR ROLE ; once t shou to join e are need • Ho tw that ld you m about momen rstand a text both and na ed 13. ve him ild unde online or in and can know yet turn you gi your ch out back ? should • Does hing is put be taken ., on a social t advice rding somet , it cannot place (e.g • Wha privacy? n online ow rega from childre ge messa in the wrong t nts kn ild abou The moderator should introduce the topic. If n ld pare g informatio end up ng site)? your ch t shouThe small group format is flexible and makes it • Wha tes collectin ? networ ki u give s? ould yo eo message websi e age of 13 vice sh id unde r th •W hat ad xt/picture/v g te sendin crime?easy for parents to engage in in-depth discussions multiple group discussions are taking place at • Is se •W xting a hat sh ould yo u both know?with one another. To maximize the quality one time, you may use several moderators orof conversation at adult functions, structure introduce the topic to the larger group. Eachdiscussions as follows: moderator is in charge of facilitating a 20-minute discussion. Speak clearly, and remember that it’s•  et-up: Seat participants in a circle S your job to encourage questions and discussion• Topic Introduction: Allow three minutes to  among your peers. Be sure to take note of any introduce the topic relevant comments and use them to recap and• Discussion time: Have group discuss the topic  close out the discussion. for 15 minutes•  opic recap: Allow two minutes to recap the T discussion MATERIALS Bring copies of any research materials you wish• Total Discussion Length: 20 minutes to share, as well as the discussion cards. Use the prepared questions on the discussion cards provided to stimulate discussion. Questions maySET-UPChoose a moderator prior to the group meeting. also be directed to the attendees at the end of theYour discussions will rely heavily on interaction discussion to encourage feedback.by your participants; however, the designatedmoderator should review the topic in advance. Themoderator should prepare a few sample thoughtsand ideas to jump-start the conversation. Thesediscussions work best when chairs are set up in acircle. Have a flipchart and markers, or a pad andpen available for another participant to take notes.© 2012 Boys & Girls Clubs of America • 2041-12
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  • 3. CYBER SOCIAL BULLYING NETWORKINGJohn, a 15-year-old teen, likes to play XBOX, You have recently learned that Laura, yourespecially XBOX Live, which allows him to teen’s summer camp counselor, has acompete with other players via the Internet. Facebook page that she has been using toYou notice he is spending a lot of time online inform her campers of upcoming events andplaying and chatting with one youth in particular field trips. While the communication betweennamed Harvey. John and Harvey become online Laura and her campers is appropriate, you noticegaming partners. Several days later, John finds a picture she has posted on the page of her without that Harvey has “dumped” him for another some friends where she has a beer in her hand.player. John invites two friends over one evening, •  s a parent, should you approach Laura about the Aand you overhear them telling John that Harvey picture or should you speak with the camp director?has been posting vicious rumors about Johnin online game chat rooms. When your teen’s •  o you know whether there are social networking Dfriends leave, you recognize the opportunity to guidelines in place for staff and campers?address the subject with him. •  ere they a part of your parent orientation? W•  ow do you approach this conversation? H •  hat kind of information is considered W•  hat would you ask? Say? W appropriate for social networking sites?• What steps can you put in place to prevent •  hat are the potential consequences your child W your teen from a similar situation in the future? may encounter later in life from placing inappropriate information on a social networking site? ONLINE MOBILE PRIVACY TECHNOLOGIESIn the living room you overhear Jamal talking Celia and Nikolas have been dating forto his friends about this great blogging several months. Earlier today Nikolas picturewebsite he joined to share his ideas about messaged Celia a risqué photo of himself. Hecomic strip design. He tells them how easy it is then proceeds to pressure her to return the favor.to join; only your email address, phone number Unsure of what to do Celia forwards the pictureand name are needed to register. Jamal has not message to a few of her girlfriends for advice.yet turned 13. Rumors of the photo quickly spread throughout your community.•  hat advice should you give him about W online privacy? •  ow do you use this situation as a teachable H moment with your child?•  hat should parents know regarding W websites collecting information from children •  oes your child understand that once D under the age of 13? something is put out online or in a text message, it cannot be taken back and can end up in the wrong place (e.g., on a social networking site)? •  hat advice should you give your child about W sending text/picture/video messages? • Is sexting a crime? • What should you both know?
  • 4. SOCIAL NETWORKING RESOURCES CYBERBULLYING RESOURCESwww.sprint.com/4netsafety www.sprint.com/4netsafetywww.netsmartz.org/Parents www.netsmartz.org/Parentswww.myclubmylife.com/mediasafety www.myclubmylife.com/mediasafety CYBERBULLYING STATISTICS*Visit cybersafefutures.org to learn more about •  2 percent of youth have been bullied while online. 4social networking. You can also download helpful One in four has had it happen more than once.tips on social networking to help you have meaningful •  5 percent of youth have been threatened online. 3conversations with your children. Nearly one in five have had it happen more than once. •  1 percent of youth have received mean or 2 threatening e-mail or other messages. CYBERSAFEFUTURES.ORG •  8 percent of youth admit someone has said mean 5 or hurtful things to them online. More than four out of 10 say it has happened more than once. •  3 percent of youth admit having said something 5 mean or hurtful to another person online. More than one in three has done it more than once. •  8 percent of youth have not told their parents or an 5 adult about something mean or hurtful that happened to them online. *Based on 2004 i-SAFE survey of 1,500 students grades four through eight. www.isafe.org MOBILE TECHNOLOGIES RESOURCES ONLINE PRIVACY RESOURCESwww.myclubmylife.com/mediasafety www.sprint.com/4netsafetywww.sprint.com/4netsafety/ www.myclubmylife.com/mediasafetywww.pewinternet.org/Reports/2009/ www.onguardonline.gov/topics/kids-privacy.aspxTeens-and-Sexting.aspx www.coppa.org Know that personal information and privacy are valuable — to you, to youth and toAs texting has become central to teen social marketers. Here’s how to help protect you andlife, parents, educators and advocates have grown your teen’s personal information when they’reincreasingly concerned about the role cell phones play online. Follow the simple steps below and learnin teen and young adult sexuality. A new survey from thePew Research Center’s Internet & American Life Project more at www.onguardonline.gov.found that four percent of cell-owning teens aged 12-17say they have sent sexually suggestive nude or nearly WHAT CAN YOU DO?nude images or videos of themselves to someone else • Check out sites your children visitvia text message, a practice also known as “sexting”;15 percent say they have received such images of • Take a look at the privacy policysomeone they know via text message. • Ask questions • Be selective with your permission • Know your rights • Report suspicious websites as appropriate