Thinking on “Opportunity to win” Winners see possibilities; Losers see problems.
Thinking on “Destination” Losers see the pain Winners see the gain;
Thinking on “Obstacle” The Winner sees an answer for every problem; The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
Thinking on “Trend” Winners see the potential; Losers see the past.
Thinking on “Target” The Winner sees a green near every sand trap; The Loser sees two or three sand traps near every green.
Thinking on “Living” Winners enjoy being in the present and learn from the past. Losers live in the past.
Thinking on “Choices” Winners think about how they can achieve. Losers give excuses.
Thinking on “Fear” Winners face their fear, accept it and take the leap. Losers dwell in their fear.
Thinking on “Win and loose” A Winner is not afraid of losing; A Loser is secretly afraid of winning.
Thinking on “Direction” Winners think whether the crowd is going in the right direction. If not, he will walk the other direction. Losers follow the crowd.
Thinking on “Learning” Losers consider themselves as an expert even though they know little. Winners believe there are always things to be learn.
Thinking on “Goal” Winners have dreams; Loser have schemes.
Thinking on “Leading” Losers refuse to think so they follow. Winners think and lead.
When The Winner Speak
Saying on “Listen” Winners listen. Losers fight for every chance to talk.
Saying on “Help” “The winner asks, "May I help?" The loser asks, "Do you expect me to do that?”
Saying on “Topic” Winners choose what they say; Losers say what they choose.
Saying on “Skill” A winner doesn't talk about what he'll do if he wins, but knows what he'll do if he loses. A loser doesn't know what he'll do if he loses, but talks about what he'll do if he wins
Saying on “Explanation” A Winner explains ;
A Loser explains away.
Saying on “Argument” Winners use hard arguments but soft words; Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Saying on “A Way” A Winner says, “Let’s find a way”; A Loser says, :There’s no way”.
Saying on “Improvement” A Loser says “That’s the way it’s always been.” A Winner says, “There should be a better way to do it”;
Saying on “Possibility” The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible"; The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."
Saying on “Doing” Winners say," I must do something"; Losers say, "Something must be done."
Saying on “Mistakes” When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault." When a Winner makes a mistake, he says," I was wrong";
Saying on “Correction” A Winner shows he’s sorry by making up for it;
A Loser says “I’m sorry” but does the same thing next time.
When The Winner Act
Acting on “Behavior” Losers doubt. Winners are certain.
Acting on “React” Winners are humble. Losers are egoistic.
Acting on “Dream” Losers dream in bed. Winners dream in the day.
Acting on “Value” Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values. Winners stand firm on values but compromise onpetty things;
Acting on “Do-It-Yourself” Winners make it happen; Losers let it happen.
Acting on “Working” A Winner works harder than A Loser, and has more time;
A Loser is always “too busy” to do what is necessary.
Acting on “Problem” A Winner goes through problems;
A Loser tries to go around it.
Acting on “Solution” Winners focus on solutions. Losers focus on problems.
Acting on “Crisis” Winners find opportunities in crisis. Losers complain about crisis.
Acting on “Commitment” “A winner makes commitment. A loser makes promises.”
Acting on “Promise” Winners make commitment and keep them no matter what. Losers make promises that they always break.
Acting on “Compromise” A Winner knows what to fight for and what to compromise on;
A Loser compromises on what he shouldn’t and fights for what isn’t worth fighting about.
Acting on “Goal” Winners set goals. Losers lack goals.
Acting on “Planning” Winners plan. Losers hate having a plan.
Acting on“Responsibility” Losers blame others. Winners take responsibility.
Acting on“Program” The Winner is always has a program; The Loser always has an excuse.
Acting on “Positive” “The winner persistently programs his pluses; the loser mournfully magnifies his minuses.”
Acting on “Achievement” Winners are persistent and will do whatever it takes to achieve their goal. Losers give up when obstacles pop up.
Acting on “Work” Winners work hard. Losers avoid work.
Acting on “Consistency” Winners take action consistently. Losers refrain from taking action and lack consistency.
Acting on “Wholeheartedly work” Winners give their best for the things that they decide to do. Losers work half heartedly in everything that they do.
Acting on “Solution” The Winner is always part of the answer; The Loser is always part of the problem.
Acting on “Improvement” Winners always find a better way to do things. Losers stick to one way of doing things.
Acting on“Trying more” Winners try different strategies when they are not getting the results they want. Losers do the same thing over and over again expecting different results.
Acting on “Skill” Winners continue to hone their skill every other day without fail. Losers make little effort in honing their skill.
Acting on “Control” Winners control their own destiny. Losers leave everything to their fate.
Acting on “Comfort Zone” Losers stay in Their comfort zone. Winners constantly expand their comfort zone.
Acting on “Time Management” Winners manage their time well and indulge in high value activities that will bring them closer to their goals. Losers lack time management skills and indulge in time wasting activities like playing games and watching re runs for the umpteen time.
Acting on “Failure” Losers fear failure and avoid them at all cost. Winners take failure in their stride and learn from them.
Acting on “Present” Winners enjoy being in the present and learn from the past. Losers live in the past.
Acting on “Personal Development” Winners make personal development a priority. Losers neglect personal development.
When The Winner live with others
With Others on “Teamwork” Winners are a part of the team; Losers are apart from the team.
With Others on “Empathy” Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you." Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would, not want them to do to you";
With Others on “Help” Winners help others to win. Losers refuse to help and think only about their own benefit.
With Others “Respect” A Winner respects those who are superior to him And tries to learn Something from them.
A Loser resents those who are superior and rationalizes their achievements.
With Others on “Like minded People” Losers find like minded people like themselves that will drag them to failure. Winners find like minded people like themselves that can bring them to greater height.
NOW IT’S YOU, WHO MUST DECIDE TO BE THE WINNERORLOSER!!! Thank You Very Much Sompong Yusoontorn