HEAD OF DEPARTMENT LEADERSHIP
DEVELOPMENT COURSE
Today’s session
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What is feedback? What isn’t?
Giving positive and negative feedback
Creating a climate for feedback
The...
Leadership Capability Framework
L2.4 Uses evidence- informed decision
making
L2.8 Communicates with influence
L2.14 Inspir...
…but before we start
• You now have 10 minutes in your table groups
to discuss any issues that have cropped up in
your rol...
Session One
• What is feedback?
• What isn’t it?
Share ideas in your group and then write your
ideas in the handouts for t...
Session One
• Brainstorming conversations you need to have
using proximal circle
Conversations I need to have...
Session Two
• Conversation: From the Latin 'con', means
'with' or 'towards'; 'vertere' meaning 'to turn'.
Conversation...t...
Planning
• Organise your thinking so you're clear about
what you want to communicate.
• With this person, what do you want...
The environment
• Consider where you are having the
conversation:
• Are you likely to be disturbed?
• Is is quiet enough f...
Timing
• Generally the closer to the incident that
requires a following conversation, the more
emotion over reason will pr...
When inviting them to have the
conversation listen with your eyes!
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Physical space
Head position
Eye positio...
Nine common errors
- Harvard Business Review

• Can you guess any of these?
• 3 minutes to write down any you can think of
Nine common errors
- Harvard Business Review

• Now you have 5 minutes to move around the
room and see if anyone shares yo...
Nine common errors
- Harvard Business Review
• 1. Falling into a combat mentality.
Never make it a ‘win/ lose’
scenario.
•...
Top tips for a productive environment
•
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•

Always have the conversation face to face
Don’t have the conversation in fr...
BREAK
• 9:50- 10:00
Session Three
The Conversation:
• Listening
• Speaking and Language prompts
The Conversation: Listening
“We have two ears and one mouth so that we
can listen twice as much as we speak.” Epictetus
The Conversation: Listening
Think about a time when you felt that you were
not listened to…

How do you
know they were
not...
1. Why are they good listeners?
2. What skills did they show?
Some other tips for listening:
• Go to your handout pages 4-5 and highlight/
underline particular tips that you need to
fo...
Let’s try it
• Pair up: Talker and Listener
What you want from a holiday…
Listener: Practice active listening.
• After 1 m...
Speaking: Remember your P’s
Here are 7 P’s to feedback & difficult conversations
• What is the purpose of your conversatio...
The conversation: top tips
• Use ‘I’ statements, rather than ‘you’
statements
• Discuss action/ behaviours (related to thi...
For feedback…use the hamburger
For difficult conversations… focus on
asking rather than telling
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What could you do?
What will you do?
Wha...
Difficult conversation: example
I really value you in the department as someone who
makes a positive difference and someon...
Sharing your ideas: Opening phrases
• Discuss in your groups some opening phrases
you could use in a difficult conversatio...
Session Four: Scenarios
• Tripod model: two having the conversation
and an observer
• Each person will pick a conversation...
Feedback
• What did you notice about how you were
responding?
Break
11:25 - 11:35
Round two… Scenarios
• Complete the same activity with your scenario
• (7 minutes conversation- 3 minutes feedback)
Overall Debrief
•

How do you know when it has gone well? How do you
know when it hasn’t?

•

Then what do you
do?
Next session
• Global trends shaping education and an
Introduction to Design Thinking
• Presenters: Simon Breakspear and Y...
• Reflections and evaluations
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  • Lucie and Jayne 10;00-10;40
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  • Ho d leadership 3 final

    1. 1. HEAD OF DEPARTMENT LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT COURSE
    2. 2. Today’s session - What is feedback? What isn’t? Giving positive and negative feedback Creating a climate for feedback The skills of giving feedback: Listening and Speaking - Scenarios
    3. 3. Leadership Capability Framework L2.4 Uses evidence- informed decision making L2.8 Communicates with influence L2.14 Inspires and motivates others to high performance
    4. 4. …but before we start • You now have 10 minutes in your table groups to discuss any issues that have cropped up in your role that you might want to discuss, using the expertise and experience in the room.
    5. 5. Session One • What is feedback? • What isn’t it? Share ideas in your group and then write your ideas in the handouts for this session
    6. 6. Session One • Brainstorming conversations you need to have using proximal circle
    7. 7. Conversations I need to have...
    8. 8. Session Two • Conversation: From the Latin 'con', means 'with' or 'towards'; 'vertere' meaning 'to turn'. Conversation...to turn with and towards. • What if every difficult conversation was an opportunity to turn with someone towards something?
    9. 9. Planning • Organise your thinking so you're clear about what you want to communicate. • With this person, what do you want to turn towards in the conversation? • Look for several things you respect about the person. Go in positive. • Have clear in your mind any requests about what you want to change or be done differently.
    10. 10. The environment • Consider where you are having the conversation: • Are you likely to be disturbed? • Is is quiet enough for a conversation? • Can you be overheard? • Is the setting appropriate?
    11. 11. Timing • Generally the closer to the incident that requires a following conversation, the more emotion over reason will prevail: anger, frustration, fear, stress • It is natural to feel these things, but do you want them to play a part in your conversation? • Choosing the ‘right’ time is just as important as the place.
    12. 12. When inviting them to have the conversation listen with your eyes! • • • • • • • Physical space Head position Eye position Mirroring Arm position Nervous gestures Foot movement
    13. 13. Nine common errors - Harvard Business Review • Can you guess any of these? • 3 minutes to write down any you can think of
    14. 14. Nine common errors - Harvard Business Review • Now you have 5 minutes to move around the room and see if anyone shares your ideas. • Find a partner and share one idea each. If the other has it- tick it off. • Try to tick off all of your ideas as you circulate around the room.
    15. 15. Nine common errors - Harvard Business Review • 1. Falling into a combat mentality. Never make it a ‘win/ lose’ scenario. • 2. We try to oversimplify the problem. There might be a lot of issues involved- take your time... • 3. We don't bring enough respect to the conversation. Respond in a way that you will be proud of. • 4. We lash out – or shut down. • 5. We react to provocationsaddress the behaviour, but don’t rise to it! • 6. We get "hooked." Know your vulnerabilities and stay in control if poked there! • 7. We rehearse. Go in with strategies, not learned phrases. • 8. We make assumptions about our counterpart's intentions. You can only truly know your position. Be open to understanding theirs. • 9. We lose sight of the goal. Keep your preferred outcome, how you would like your relationship to be and what obstacles you might face in mind.
    16. 16. Top tips for a productive environment • • • • Always have the conversation face to face Don’t have the conversation in front of others Present facts rather than opinion Create opportunities to enable them to engage and put across their point of view
    17. 17. BREAK • 9:50- 10:00
    18. 18. Session Three The Conversation: • Listening • Speaking and Language prompts
    19. 19. The Conversation: Listening “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” Epictetus
    20. 20. The Conversation: Listening Think about a time when you felt that you were not listened to… How do you know they were not listening?
    21. 21. 1. Why are they good listeners? 2. What skills did they show?
    22. 22. Some other tips for listening: • Go to your handout pages 4-5 and highlight/ underline particular tips that you need to focus on because they don’t come easily.
    23. 23. Let’s try it • Pair up: Talker and Listener What you want from a holiday… Listener: Practice active listening. • After 1 minute the listener should summarise ¾ main issues or criteria that they have heard the talker express. • 1 min to review how well they demonstrated active listening behaviours. • Swap and repeat.
    24. 24. Speaking: Remember your P’s Here are 7 P’s to feedback & difficult conversations • What is the purpose of your conversation? • Have you prepared your evidence for your conversation? • What do you plan to say? • Try to start and end on a positive note • Think about how are you perceived by the person you are having a conversation with? • Practice, practice, practice • Remember, you have the power in this conversation.
    25. 25. The conversation: top tips • Use ‘I’ statements, rather than ‘you’ statements • Discuss action/ behaviours (related to this instance) rather than the person and don’t take verbal attacks personally • Avoid ‘But’ if you can. Negative language can change the tone of a conversation • Regularly clarify & summarise the key points, the action points and agree the next step.
    26. 26. For feedback…use the hamburger
    27. 27. For difficult conversations… focus on asking rather than telling • • • • • • • • What could you do? What will you do? What impact is that having on you? Who will you contact? How will you do that? How do you feel about that? Where do you want to take it from here? What’s stopping you from doing that?
    28. 28. Difficult conversation: example I really value you in the department as someone who makes a positive difference and someone who has a lot to give. That’s why I want to talk to you about an issue that has come up because it has the potential to to affect our relationship and I don’t want that to happen. I would really like to know what you think about this...
    29. 29. Sharing your ideas: Opening phrases • Discuss in your groups some opening phrases you could use in a difficult conversation. • Upload them onto Padlet to share. • link http://padlet.com/wall/8c5d1lq3bw
    30. 30. Session Four: Scenarios • Tripod model: two having the conversation and an observer • Each person will pick a conversation they would like to practice (as the initiator)that is in their ‘stretch’ area. • 7 minutes each + 3 minutes feedback
    31. 31. Feedback • What did you notice about how you were responding?
    32. 32. Break 11:25 - 11:35
    33. 33. Round two… Scenarios • Complete the same activity with your scenario • (7 minutes conversation- 3 minutes feedback)
    34. 34. Overall Debrief • How do you know when it has gone well? How do you know when it hasn’t? • Then what do you do?
    35. 35. Next session • Global trends shaping education and an Introduction to Design Thinking • Presenters: Simon Breakspear and Yong Zhao • December 2nd whole day
    36. 36. • Reflections and evaluations

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