34 part 1- earthsoft-be happy


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  • Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of happiness;
  • consider these assets & wealth to be happy
  • Know your strengths and weaknesses You can better utilise your strengths and overcome on weaknesses
  • This is a ability of an individual
  • This is a ability of an individual Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues but a parent of all the others
  • th vitalizing power of gratitude. Life – Gratefulness is the key to a happy life that we hold in our hands The poorest human being has something to give which richest cannot buy.
  • , because others do not praise you.
  • Must have role model to follow
  • Nobody is happy, nobody is satisfied, . Your life will be transformed. Complaints stem from a sense of unhappiness and dissatisfaction with the life.
  • 34 part 1- earthsoft-be happy

    1. 1. Making earth little softerEarthsoft Foundation of GuidanceEdge-Aggressive-Reliable-Trust-Honesty-Soft-Obedient-Fun-Transparent
    2. 2. Making earth little softerEarthsoft Foundation of Guidance (EFG) has uploaded followingpresentations at http://myefg.in/downloads.aspxBe mentor using your education, knowledge & experience tocontribute for a social cause & do conduct free training seekinghelp of existing platforms. Kindly share with your friends•Motivation for higher study, Planning for study, Educationguidance, Career guidance, Career available after SSC & HSC•Personality development – 3 files•How to prepare resume, Tips to attend interview successfully•Religion related –To understand basic religion, Do & Don’t tips•Health related - Be vegetarian, Be healthy, Manage health•Corporate - Project management, Assertiveness, Ownership,Effective communication, Leadership, Be entrepreneur•Finance - To avoid speculation in stock market•Social - Women empowerment, Choosing life partner, conflictresolution, stop ragging, stop alcohol, snakebite treatmentAbout us
    3. 3. Making earth little softer• Happiness• Meditate• You are lucky• Search inner strengths• Understand yourself• Express gratitude• Say thank you• Gratitude & Thank you!• Smile please• Connect to good people• Connect to childhood• Connect to nature• Connect to nature• Spend time with beloved• Appreciate others• Help othersIndex• Spread love• Care for the people• Giving & sharing• Be committed• Do not form opinions• Do not form opinions• Forget & forgive• Forgive yourself• Do not compare• Accept as you are• Concentrate on objectives• Listen to others• Effective communication• Understand root cause• Understand root cause• Decide the path & be pure
    4. 4. Making earth little softer• Happiness is a mental state of well-beingcharacterized by positive emotions ranging fromcontentment to intense joy• Happiness is the by-product of other activitiesHappiness
    5. 5. Making earth little softer• Keep cool, practice & enhances concentration• It offers you inner peace• It enhances self control, helps you to analyse &control the situation better and take rightdecisionsMeditate
    6. 6. Making earth little softer• Understand you are graced by so many gifts• Do not take granted all what you have in plenty• Good health, education, profession, friends &family, home, society, spouse, children, etc• Thankful to people from whom you learnt goodpractices, habits, hobbies, ethics & etiquettes• Express gratitude & thank to those & be happy!You are lucky
    7. 7. Making earth little softer• Each individual has infinity potential• Know your strengths, respect & be proud• Try to develop at least one unique strength• Search for the answers• Why is your life useful?• What is great about you?• What is the purpose of existence?Search inner strengths
    8. 8. Making earth little softer• Understand yourself, how wonderful you are!• Know your strengths• You can better utilise your strengths• You respect yourself, Be yourself!Understand yourself
    9. 9. Making earth little softer• Gratitude, thankfulness, gratefulness, orappreciation is acknowledgment of a benefit• Gratitude means thankfulness, counting yourblessings, noticing simple pleasures• Appreciate people who have helped• It helps individuals to be polite & lean• Motivates others continue to help & do good jobExpress gratitude
    10. 10. Making earth little softer• Try the attitude of gratitude• Gratitude is a foundation of a peaceful life, asecure & stable mind & a essence of spirituality.• Gratitude is not an attitude to yourself, it shouldbe a attitude to the life which you show to others• Learning to express Gratitude – take pen &paper , list down which are points making himbad mood. Later ask him to with positive pointsfor which he feels gratitude. The list will be bigExpress gratitude
    11. 11. Making earth little softer• If only the prayer you said in your life “thankyou”, that would suffice• ”Thank you” has a magical quality. There is amusic, melody, sunshine & warmness• Thank you to be uttered with genuine feeling• This word can change merely living to fine artof living, with joy and grace.• It is the secret of successful relationships.• The praise is an investment in own happiness• Offer thanks to God for all what you haveSay thank you
    12. 12. Making earth little softer• Never forget to say Thank you when someonehas helped, supported or guided you• Remember the help forever, small help wouldhave potential to take your life on new path• Good to convey during face to face meeting,with all emotions poured in body language• Else convey by other means of communicationslike email, phone, card,etcSay thank you
    13. 13. Making earth little softerGratitude & Thank you!
    14. 14. Making earth little softer• It is a medicine, costing nothing & making youand others happy• It helps in a big way, makes you feel good• A smile can brighten a day• Reduces stress or stressful situation• If you are feeling stressed or nervous, trysmiling thinking of something positiveSmile please
    15. 15. Making earth little softerSmile please
    16. 16. Making earth little softer• Connect with good people• Analyse various personality for great attributesand try to adopt as many• Listen their thought process & observe actions• Understand behavior of good people• Remain surrounded with great peopleConnect to good people
    17. 17. Making earth little softer• You were most happy during childhood, bigdreams but no worries for future• You had true & lovely friends• There was a healthy competitionConnect to childhood
    18. 18. Making earth little softer• Nature has philosophy of giving• It gives wonderful things withoutany expectations, cool air, sunlight,flowing rivers, beautiful lake, denseforest, singing birds.• Spend time in nature with family• Nature offers peace & happinessConnect to nature
    19. 19. Making earth little softerConnect to nature
    20. 20. Making earth little softer• Spend quality time with your beloved• Understand them, their personality, strengths,view points, achievements, liking, etc• Relationship offers mutual respect• Love & care, Take care of their needsSpend time with beloved
    21. 21. Making earth little softer• Appreciate others, will help us to live a better life• We never lose anything in appreciating others,instead we become a better person• Appreciating others indicates our abilities tounderstand others workAppreciate others
    22. 22. Making earth little softer• To give your best with or without appreciation.Don’t let the quality of your work suffer• You are wonderful, say it to friends, colleagues,co-workers, parent, spouse & children• It is greatest incentive for doing the good work• Making others feel good about themselvesbuilds better relationships• Focus on what is right and not on what is wrong• Let us enjoy what we have & not crib for whatwe do not have.• Appreciate people for what they have thanfocusing on their defectsAppreciate others
    23. 23. Making earth little softer• Love everyone, unconditional• Do not hold grudges• Spread love & build the relationship• Be positive, appreciate people, make it a habitSpread love
    24. 24. Making earth little softer• Respect person, everyone has a strength• Care for them, their view point• It is reciprocationCare for the people
    25. 25. Making earth little softer• Learn from nature about its Giving philosophy• Share what you have…education, knowledge,experience, wealth!• God gave you generously. Do the same toothers.• The more you give, the more you receive!• We make a living by what we get. We make alife by what we give.Giving & sharing
    26. 26. Making earth little softer• Highest level of reliability demonstrated to yourpromises• Be honest to yourself• Follow what you say• Remain committed• Develop a brand for you as committed personBe committed
    27. 27. Making earth little softer• Social foundation got build over the philosophyof "Helping others“• Guide using education, knowledge, experience• Guide others to avoid mistakes• Help if someone is benefited• Offer time & efforts wherever possible• Donate to needy, Do not expect in returnHelp others
    28. 28. Making earth little softer• Do not keep judging everyone & every time• It takes persons away• There is no gain in doing so• You might be wrong in judging• Try to understand strengths of others and utilisethose in right ways• Do convey your opinions effectivelyDo not form opinions
    29. 29. Making earth little softerDo not form opinions
    30. 30. Making earth little softer• Do not carry fire in your hand, it burns you only• Develop habit of forget & forgive and get going• It helps you to relieve your burden• Minds reactions to events that determine yourhealth and happiness• Develop & remember the lesson learnt• Letting go of anger and bitterness can workwonders for your attitude, health & relationships.Forget & forgive
    31. 31. Making earth little softer• Forgive yourself if have made blunders &mistakes in past, revisit for corrections• Keep learning from the mistakes and do notrepeat the same mistake again• Avoid guilt feel which develop inferioritycomplex• You can change future by cleansing soul.Forget, forgive & love passionatelyForgive yourself
    32. 32. Making earth little softer• There is no advantage comparing• You have no idea about their journey• Just try to be the best yourself• If you are better, you will become egoistic• If you are not better, you might feel insecure,jealous and increase inferiority complex• Acknowledge millions are better across globeDo not compare
    33. 33. Making earth little softer• Take a break• Stand in front of mirror• Introspect & analyse, know your strengths &weaknesses• Improve on weaknesses, Be happy seeingimprovements within you!• Be confident, happy & peacefulIntrospect
    34. 34. Making earth little softer• You have few weaknesses & hence disliked• Be sincere overcoming those however acceptas you are, as No one is perfect in the world• Don’t carry burden, Take it eazy (not casual)• There is no gains by putting yourself down• Let go of your flaws, Dont feel bad.• Build up your self confidence• Do what you always wanted to doAccept as you are
    35. 35. Making earth little softer• Consciousness /attention on a specific objective• To make sure it is right thing to do from social,educational, financial & jurisdictional aspects• To build on vision and supporting goal, mission,objectives and actions• To develop habit of concentratingConcentrate on objectives
    36. 36. Making earth little softer• Listening & understanding others say accurately• Listening allows to learn & update• Do not just hear, listen with concentration• Allow others to present their views, givereasonable time for everyone, pay attention• It helps better customer satisfaction, greaterproductivity, fewer mistakes, increased sharingof information & creative and innovative workListen to others
    37. 37. Making earth little softer• Communication is like blood flow to human inbusiness• To be successful know & follow good practicesof communication• It builds stronger relationships• Poor communication• Results huge losses to business & individual• Cause the stress to individual or to the team• Create misunderstanding & unhappymoments• Expresses inconsistent message or feeling• Non effective plan or activitiesEffective communication
    38. 38. Making earth little softer• Do not hammer just solutions to the problems• Try to understand, analyse the root causes ofthe problems• Try to set up a action plan to resolve• Life is full of problems, challenges andopportunities, do not run away from those• Learn to face those and try to successfulovercoming those• Learn how to keep cool & peaceful but notcasual while resolving problems• Control the mind, to control the situationUnderstand root cause
    39. 39. Making earth little softerUnderstand root cause
    40. 40. Making earth little softer• Everyone wants something what he or she doesnot have, begin gratefulness for what we have• When you stop complaining & start thinking, youstop criticizing and start appreciating• You will find living rich, graceful, meaningfulworthwhile life which is filled with abundantsource of joy & peace to yourself & around you.• Complaining & criticizing can make life bitter,being grateful makes it positive & happy• You can complain because roses have thorns oryou can rejoice because thorns have roses!• Complaining is not the best way to deal with lifeStop complaining
    41. 41. Making earth little softer• No one is perfect, that’s why pencils haveerasers• I am Nobody, Nobody is perfect so I am perfect!• The spirit of tolerance & acceptance areessential for happy life & peaceful mind.• Expect the world we live is far from perfect.• We are not ourselves a paragon of perfection,so allow others as well not to be perfect.Nobody is perfect
    42. 42. Making earth little softer• When expecting to be perfect is a problem• Obsessive concern over other mistakes• Setting excessively high standards forourselves & others• Unreasonable doubts about others ability toperform the tasks with excellence• An over emphasis on control and benchmark• Perfection & excellence is always a movingtarget!Nobody is perfect
    43. 43. Making earth little softer• Understand your passion• Do what gets you pleasure & joy• Listen the heart, enjoy & be happy!Decide the path
    44. 44. Making earth little softer• Learn to value people• Realise that no one is perfect• Look for merit & not defect• Take the lead in appreciation• We need one another• Give people what they deserve and a little more• Offer thanks to god, every moment of lifeGreat lessons – J.P.Vaswani
    45. 45. Making earth little softer• Health is wealth, Be healthy• Do not drink alcohol• Do not smoke• Don’t be womanizer• Do not speculate & gamble• Don’t get tempted or excited towards bad habits• Do not get pressurized to peers or group• Do regular exercise• Understand the difference between good & bad• Eat vegetarian, hygienic & healthy foodBe pure
    46. 46. Making earth little softerThank You