Ipc lesson plan 11 sex

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Ipc lesson plan 11 sex

  1. 1. Communicating Sexually<br />The Closest Physical Encounter<br />
  2. 2. What influences our Attitudes Toward Sex?<br />Culture<br />The Mass Media<br />TV (16 and Pregnant, Bachelor)<br />Music (Lady Gaga & Keshavs. Marvin Gaye & Al Green)<br />Print (Playboy vs. Cosmo)<br />Parents<br />Peers<br />Past Relationships<br />Who has the most Influence?<br />
  3. 3. Three General Orientations toward Sex<br />Procreational: sex is for making babies <br />Recreational: sex is for fun<br />Relational: sex is an expression of intimacy<br />What orientation is most accepted in the US?<br />
  4. 4. Changing Attitudes about Sex<br />How have attitudes toward sex changed over the years?<br />Why do you think this is?<br />Is this good or bad?<br />
  5. 5. Sorensen’s research<br />Serial monogamists who had sex prior to marriage vs. Virgins waiting for marriage & sexually promiscuous.<br />Monogomists  healthier attitudes toward sex, higher grades, generally better adjusted.<br />Why do you think this is?<br />The study was done in 1973, how might things have changed since then? <br />
  6. 6. Safe Sex vs. Abstinence? <br />Why do you think this debate is still prevalent in our society?<br />Two sides, two different assumptions<br />Sexuality is something learned.<br />“We don’t want our kids to have unsafe sex or engage in sex without understanding the consequences.”<br />Sexuality is connected to morality.<br />“By teaching safe sex, we are essentially telling our kids it is ok to do it as long as its safe.” <br />
  7. 7. The talk!<br />
  8. 8. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bL33hoaGM6o<br />
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  10. 10. The Talk<br />When is the best time?<br />Are there consequences for starting the talks too young?<br />What should be said?<br />Kids 3-8?<br />Body parts, Privacy<br />8-12?<br />Biological stuff<br />12 and up?<br />Emotional and Relational Consequences <br />
  11. 11. Sexual Invitations and Coercion<br />Why do men typically initiate sex in early relationships?<br />What is date rape?<br />The rape paradox~<br />If you come out  Victimized <br />If you stay quiet  Silenced<br />Both cases, Power is removed…<br />What do you think are some of the causes of date rape?<br />
  12. 12. Sexual Harassment<br />What is sexual harassment?<br />
  13. 13. Sexual Harassment<br />One out of every two working women is sexually harassed at some time. <br />Women sometimes see behavior as more sexually harassing than men do.<br />Various verbal and nonverbal behaviors can be interpreted as harassing, including:<br />comments about a person’s body, dating relationships, or sexual activity<br />touch, especially to vulnerable or intimate body parts<br />
  14. 14. Responses to Sexual Harassment<br />Passive: indirect strategies, such as ignoring the harassment or appeasing the harasser <br />Assertive: directly telling the harasser to stop the behavior; issuing warnings or threats <br />Retalitory: punishing or getting revenge on the harasser <br />
  15. 15. Based on what you learned in this chapter, what strategies would you use to protect yourself from sexual coercion or harassment? <br />Why do you think people misinterpret supposed sexual cues so often?<br />

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