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  1. 1. ==== ====Learn How To Flirt And Talk To Women|How to Mind Read Women|How To Attract Women,MeetWomen and Date Women.Click Here==== ====Dating Tip 1 - Hygiene Prepare yourself physically - looks, appearance and how you portray yourself to the world. If youare selling your car the first thing to do is to wash and clean it to present it in the best light. Whenselling your house you tidy and de-clutter in order to attract the right buyer at the right price. Thinkabout dating as selling yourself. The first (and the easiest) step on the dating journey is to get thephysical aspects right - take a blinkers-off look at yourself as others see you, starting with yourhygiene. This is a major red flag for women if its not at an acceptable level. Dating Tip 2 - Appearance Keep your dating blinkers off and look at your appearance: ·         Your body - happy with it? If notwhy should she be? ·         Your clothes - are they cleanand suit the situation you find yourself in? ·         Your habits - some you knowyou do, others are unconscious. Red flags all!!! ·         Your interests - are youinteresting to be with? Women date interesting men. ·         Your ambitions - women like todate ambitious men. ·         Your independence - if she seesyou cant look after yourself you cant look after her! Get these first two tips right and you will be ahead of most of your dating rivals. Dating Tip 3 - Emotional Baggage Get your mind right - get in dating mode. De-clutter your mind and overcome the mental barriers tosuccess that everyone carries around with them, especially when dating. Remove any baggageyou might have - poor self image created by previous dating or life experiences or the residual
  2. 2. effects of a past relationship. Next let go of this baggage and leave it behind. If you were looking tobuy something, would you give it a second glance if it had obvious flaws or looked like someoneelse had used it? Why should she look at you if you have obvious flaws? Dating Tip 4 - Confidence Baggage often causes a lack of confidence and this is very debilitating when dating - nothingattracts a woman like confidence. Deep down (or even near the surface!) women are often lookingfor someone to look after them. If you appear confident and able to cope with any situation youimmediately become very attractive to a large number of women especially if there are no otherred flags. Know what confidence is and how you can develop an air of confidence as a major stepin wowing a large number of women. Dating Tip 5 - Conversation Skills Make the most of the things you have to make you more interesting and exciting. Know how tomake conversation, both what to talk about and, more importantly, how to hold a conversation thatleaves your date wanting to talk to you more. This does not just involve talking! There is a secret inbeing an excellent conversationalist and the secret is this - everyones (and I mean everyone!)number one topic of conversation is himself or herself. So when talking with anyone you want toengage with is to talk and ask questions about their favourite subject - themselves! Easy! Add tothat some topics everyone has in common and some tools to keep the conversation flowing andyou are ready to be interested and interesting. Dating Tip 6 - Rapport Know how to establish rapport with women - how to make a connection. Everyone (and onceagain I mean everyone) likes someone who is like him or her. Find out how to find areas incommon with whoever you are talking to. This makes her feel comfortable and want to spendmore time with you. Dating Tip 7 - Read Her Body Language You have probably heard about this subject, but you probably dont use what is right in front yourface - women do. Women are giving signals all the time about how comfortable they are, howinterested they are and whether they are about to leave. Read these signals and swing the datingodds in your favour - know if you are wasting your time and should leave or if you should ask herfor her telephone number now. If your dating requests are getting rejected 80% of the time it canbe very demoralising no matter how positive you are! If you get 80% acceptance suddenly youlook like Superman! Dating Tip 8 - Practice, practice, practice! Practice all the above and be aware of the feedback you get and act on it. Of all the tips this onestep improves the odds of dating success more than any other. No one can expect to get theirdating technique right just by reading dating books about what to do and then rely on it working inthe heat of the moment. What is needed is practice, firstly on your own, then in controlledenvironments and then in real life dating situations. By the time you get there real life dating will
  3. 3. feel comfortable and you will realise you have nothing to lose. How comfortable would you be inthe hands of a surgeon who had not bothered to practice - who turned up in the operating theatreand decided to wing it?Bring that level of professionalism to the dating party so you dont look like an amateur, act like anamateur and get amateur results! Dating Tip 9 - Go Where Women Go! If you are looking to meet women to date, think about where she would go. Where does shesocialise? Where does she go for entertainment? If you want to find tigers you need to go to thezoo. No matter how many times you go to the library you wont find one there unless its a picture!Better still go on a tiger safari in the wild! Think it through and then go there - fish in a well stockedbarrel! Dating Tip 10 - Take Action! Take action and do it now! Its all very well going through the steps above and getting ready to actbut, as General George Patton said, "A good plan vigorously executed right now is far better thana perfect plan executed next week". Decide on your course of action and act. Load the bullet andpull the trigger. You can wait for your dating preparation to be perfect and for the perfect datingopportunity to arise, but the days, months and years will pass by whether you act or not and youare wasting valuable dating time by prevaricating. Its very easy to make excuses but, like it or not,your success is judged by dating results, not by intention. How successful would you feel if theepitaph on your headstone read "He meant to ask a girl on a date"? FACT          Women are dying tomeet acceptable, interesting and entertaining men GOAL          Become acceptable,interesting and entertaining. PLAN          Remove the things thatmake you unacceptable and make the most of things that make you interesting and entertaining. Make finding the right person a priority - not finding any person. Always keep the dating goal inmind. You will need to be committed. Never forget that you do have a choice. You can sit aroundwaiting for good things to happen or go out and make sure good things happen. So get ready fordating - be ready to commit to dates, prepare for let downs but most of all get ready to have fun.So what are you waiting for? Stop making excuses. Stop moaning about your bad luck. Stopwatching TV. Get up off your procrastination and get started. Now!Simon Bennett is committed to helping men who find dating difficult get that date, and the manywomen he talks to who find the lack of acceptable men to date distressing! You can find out moreabout his simple approaches to dating success as well as receive a free dating success reportsand advice by visiting http://www.dating4men.co.uk
  4. 4. Stop failing and start dating!Article Source:http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Simon_Bennett==== ====Learn How To Flirt And Talk To Women|How to Mind Read Women|How To Attract Women,MeetWomen and Date Women.Click Here==== ====

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