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Inheritance
Our Legacy
by Julie Carboni
Old Traditions
Jewish Oral
Tradition
stories were past
down from
generation to
generation
Still part of modern
Mantle/Blessing
Promise was given to
Abraham
Isaac passing on the
the blessing to Jacob
Jacob passed the
blessing on to all his
sons
Mantle/anointing
passed down from
Elisha to Elijah
Adopted Men influenced by their
upbringing
Moses raised in the
Kings Palace helped
his mentality to look
beyond slave
mentality to
kingdom mentality
Samuel influenced
by Eli the priest.
They could choose to follow after David or
their natural fathers (evil or good Kings).
Joash was hidden from Athaliah and raised
by the priest Jehoiada and did what was right
in the sight of the Lord (2 Chronicles 24:2)
Kings in Old Testament
Our legacies/inheritance
What is passed down from our
families
What traits
Stories, Traditions, culture
Patterns
Application: Share with one person near
you (a new person) a positive trait or
tradition passed down in your family
Power Differential
pebble verses a Boulder
Examples of legacies
Modern Jews- Holocaust Stories
Genogram
1. A system in delusion and denial
2. Idealization of parents – fantasy bond
3. Control madness
4. Intergenerational (will be passed on)
5. Approval must be earned
6. Rigid roles
7. Closed system
8. Rigid family boundary
9. Secrets – no talk rule
10. Compulsive / addictive
11. Perfectionistic
12. Frozen feelings
13. Shaming / blaming
14. Punishing / permissive
15. Unhealthy competition
16. Roles assigned by system ( each
individual exists for family needs – no
choice
17. Rigid or enmeshed ego boundaries,
cultural boundaries, intra-family
boundaries
18. Disables will – loss of freedom
Hero Dad’s scapegoat
Little parent Mom scapegoat Little princess Confidante Sacrifice
Victim (physical illness) Dad star victim Lost Child Religious one Family referee
Parents’ parent Underachiever Rebel Rascal Offender
Dad’s buddy Designated patient Perfect one Cute one Mascot
Family counselor Addict Mom’s buddy Clown Loser
Winner Surrogate spouse Saint Sunshine Sick one
Genius Caretaker Pretty one Overachiever Family scapegoat
Mom’s enabler Athlete The problem
Heroine Peacemaker
All Members of the Family are Co-dependent
Roles of Children in Family
Addicted to:
Addict
Worry
Sadness
Religion
Roles:
Super
Spouse
Enabler
Martyr
Addicted to:
Alcohol, Drugs
Work, Power,
Sex, Food
Religion
Gambling, Rage
Roles:
Offender
Victim
Rebel
Family
Scapegoat
Profile of a Dysfunctional Family System
Addict Co-addict
INTIMACY
NON
Bradshaw, John, Bradshaw On: THE FAMILY, A Revolutionary Way Of Self Discovery, Health Communications, 1998
JULIE’S GENOGRAM
infidelity when GM was pregnant with youngest
Died when my father was 15 heart attack
Alcoholic Nag, Anxiety, Catholic divorced, Mom 11
DV
immigrated Ireland
infidelity started when Mom was pregnant with youngest
0-10 temper, abusive
Work-alcoholic
DAD divorced on my 13th bd MOM
Julie
13
12 11 10 7
X
Dad influence
Dad’s Influences Adaptations Outcome
Overly Anxious Mother Fragile Ego, Perfectionist, Rigid,
Insecure
Attention from other Women showing
interest made him feel worthy
Domestic Violent home Shut down emotions, 0 - 10 temper,
physically abusive
Narcissistic traits
Alcoholic Father died when he was 15 Work alcoholic Harsh parent, difficulty showing
emotions other than anger
Julie’s Influences Adaptations Outcome
Abusive Father, DV towards Children
bad temper, felt divorced from Dad
during divorce as well
Co-dependency, people pleaser UNDER JESUS BLOOD LINE
Worked through Co-Dependency (in
earlier years)
Enmeshed Mother perfectionist, never feeling good
enough
Worked on healthier boundaries
Parentified Rejection, Abandonment by Father Healing in process
We usually pick a spouse that resembles the parent/
caretaker we have the most
unresolved/pain issues from.
Harville Hendrix
Family Burdens vs Heirlooms
Burdens Heirlooms
Divorce-Infidelity
Anxiety - tension
Temper/Anger/
Hostility
Poverty
Health Conditions
Depression
Addiction
Insecurity/Low self-
Recipes-Food
Humor
Stories
Intelligence-Wisdom
Faith
Love
Non- Judgment
Giftings
We get to choose what we want to take on
Our True Inheritance
We are in the blood line of Jesus
Christ!!
1 Peter 1:3-5Amplified Bible (AMP)
3 Blessed [gratefully praised and adored] be the God and Father of our Lord
Jesus Christ, who according to His abundant and boundless mercy has
caused us to be born again [that is, to be reborn from above—spiritually
transformed, renewed, and set apart for His purpose] to an ever-living hope
and confident assurance through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the
dead, 4 [born anew] into an inheritance which is imperishable [beyond the
reach of change] and undefiled and unfading, reserved in heaven for you,
5 who are being protected and shielded by the power of God through your
faith for salvation that is ready to be revealed [for you] in the last time.
Ephesians 1: 5-12 (Passion Version)
5-6 For it was always in his perfect plan to adopt us as his
delightful children, through our union with Jesus, the Anointed
One, so that his tremendous grace that cascades over us would
bring him glory --for the same love he has for his Beloved One,
Jesus, he has for us!
7 -8Since we are now joined to Christ, we have been given the
treasures of salvation by his blood--the total cancellation of our
sins--all because of the cascading riches of this grace. This
superabundant grace is already powerfully working in us and
flooding into every part of our being, releasing within us all forms of
wisdom and practical understanding.
Ephesians 1: 5-12 (Passion Version)
9-10 And through the revelation of the Anointed One, he unveiled
his secret desires to us--the hidden mystery of his long range plan,
which he was delighted to implement from the very beginning of
time. And this detailed plan will reign supreme through every
period of time until the fulfillment of all ages finally reaches its
climax-- when God makes all things new in all of heaven and earth
through Jesus Christ.
11-12 This is why God selected and ordained us to be his own
inheritance through our union with Christ! Before we were even
born, he gave us our destiny; that we would fulfill the plan of God
who accomplishes every purpose and plan in his heart. God’s
purpose was that we Jews, who were the first to long for the
messianic hope, would be the first to believe in him and bring great
praise and glory to God!
John 14:12-14 (Passion)
12 “I tell you this timeless truth: The person
who follows me in faith, believing in me, will
do the mighty miracles that I do--even
greater miracles than these because I go to
be with my Father! 13For I will do whatever
you ask me to do when you ask in my name.
And that is how the Son will show what the
Father is really like and bring glory to him.
14Ask me anything in my name, and I will do
it for you.
What can we do?
Look at our own blood line and
choose what we want to continue
(Heirlooms verses burdens).
Pass down the Blessings to the next
generation. Empowering people/
loved ones with loving statements (I
am proud of you, great job, I believe
in you).
The measure of man’s character is not
what he gets from his ancestors but what
he leaves his descendants

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Inheritance - How Our Family Line Influences Us

  • 2. Old Traditions Jewish Oral Tradition stories were past down from generation to generation Still part of modern
  • 3. Mantle/Blessing Promise was given to Abraham Isaac passing on the the blessing to Jacob Jacob passed the blessing on to all his sons Mantle/anointing passed down from Elisha to Elijah
  • 4. Adopted Men influenced by their upbringing Moses raised in the Kings Palace helped his mentality to look beyond slave mentality to kingdom mentality Samuel influenced by Eli the priest.
  • 5. They could choose to follow after David or their natural fathers (evil or good Kings). Joash was hidden from Athaliah and raised by the priest Jehoiada and did what was right in the sight of the Lord (2 Chronicles 24:2) Kings in Old Testament
  • 6. Our legacies/inheritance What is passed down from our families What traits Stories, Traditions, culture Patterns Application: Share with one person near you (a new person) a positive trait or tradition passed down in your family
  • 8. Examples of legacies Modern Jews- Holocaust Stories
  • 10. 1. A system in delusion and denial 2. Idealization of parents – fantasy bond 3. Control madness 4. Intergenerational (will be passed on) 5. Approval must be earned 6. Rigid roles 7. Closed system 8. Rigid family boundary 9. Secrets – no talk rule 10. Compulsive / addictive 11. Perfectionistic 12. Frozen feelings 13. Shaming / blaming 14. Punishing / permissive 15. Unhealthy competition 16. Roles assigned by system ( each individual exists for family needs – no choice 17. Rigid or enmeshed ego boundaries, cultural boundaries, intra-family boundaries 18. Disables will – loss of freedom Hero Dad’s scapegoat Little parent Mom scapegoat Little princess Confidante Sacrifice Victim (physical illness) Dad star victim Lost Child Religious one Family referee Parents’ parent Underachiever Rebel Rascal Offender Dad’s buddy Designated patient Perfect one Cute one Mascot Family counselor Addict Mom’s buddy Clown Loser Winner Surrogate spouse Saint Sunshine Sick one Genius Caretaker Pretty one Overachiever Family scapegoat Mom’s enabler Athlete The problem Heroine Peacemaker All Members of the Family are Co-dependent Roles of Children in Family Addicted to: Addict Worry Sadness Religion Roles: Super Spouse Enabler Martyr Addicted to: Alcohol, Drugs Work, Power, Sex, Food Religion Gambling, Rage Roles: Offender Victim Rebel Family Scapegoat Profile of a Dysfunctional Family System Addict Co-addict INTIMACY NON Bradshaw, John, Bradshaw On: THE FAMILY, A Revolutionary Way Of Self Discovery, Health Communications, 1998
  • 11. JULIE’S GENOGRAM infidelity when GM was pregnant with youngest Died when my father was 15 heart attack Alcoholic Nag, Anxiety, Catholic divorced, Mom 11 DV immigrated Ireland infidelity started when Mom was pregnant with youngest 0-10 temper, abusive Work-alcoholic DAD divorced on my 13th bd MOM Julie 13 12 11 10 7 X
  • 12. Dad influence Dad’s Influences Adaptations Outcome Overly Anxious Mother Fragile Ego, Perfectionist, Rigid, Insecure Attention from other Women showing interest made him feel worthy Domestic Violent home Shut down emotions, 0 - 10 temper, physically abusive Narcissistic traits Alcoholic Father died when he was 15 Work alcoholic Harsh parent, difficulty showing emotions other than anger Julie’s Influences Adaptations Outcome Abusive Father, DV towards Children bad temper, felt divorced from Dad during divorce as well Co-dependency, people pleaser UNDER JESUS BLOOD LINE Worked through Co-Dependency (in earlier years) Enmeshed Mother perfectionist, never feeling good enough Worked on healthier boundaries Parentified Rejection, Abandonment by Father Healing in process We usually pick a spouse that resembles the parent/ caretaker we have the most unresolved/pain issues from. Harville Hendrix
  • 13. Family Burdens vs Heirlooms Burdens Heirlooms Divorce-Infidelity Anxiety - tension Temper/Anger/ Hostility Poverty Health Conditions Depression Addiction Insecurity/Low self- Recipes-Food Humor Stories Intelligence-Wisdom Faith Love Non- Judgment Giftings We get to choose what we want to take on
  • 14. Our True Inheritance We are in the blood line of Jesus Christ!! 1 Peter 1:3-5Amplified Bible (AMP) 3 Blessed [gratefully praised and adored] be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His abundant and boundless mercy has caused us to be born again [that is, to be reborn from above—spiritually transformed, renewed, and set apart for His purpose] to an ever-living hope and confident assurance through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4 [born anew] into an inheritance which is imperishable [beyond the reach of change] and undefiled and unfading, reserved in heaven for you, 5 who are being protected and shielded by the power of God through your faith for salvation that is ready to be revealed [for you] in the last time.
  • 15. Ephesians 1: 5-12 (Passion Version) 5-6 For it was always in his perfect plan to adopt us as his delightful children, through our union with Jesus, the Anointed One, so that his tremendous grace that cascades over us would bring him glory --for the same love he has for his Beloved One, Jesus, he has for us! 7 -8Since we are now joined to Christ, we have been given the treasures of salvation by his blood--the total cancellation of our sins--all because of the cascading riches of this grace. This superabundant grace is already powerfully working in us and flooding into every part of our being, releasing within us all forms of wisdom and practical understanding.
  • 16. Ephesians 1: 5-12 (Passion Version) 9-10 And through the revelation of the Anointed One, he unveiled his secret desires to us--the hidden mystery of his long range plan, which he was delighted to implement from the very beginning of time. And this detailed plan will reign supreme through every period of time until the fulfillment of all ages finally reaches its climax-- when God makes all things new in all of heaven and earth through Jesus Christ. 11-12 This is why God selected and ordained us to be his own inheritance through our union with Christ! Before we were even born, he gave us our destiny; that we would fulfill the plan of God who accomplishes every purpose and plan in his heart. God’s purpose was that we Jews, who were the first to long for the messianic hope, would be the first to believe in him and bring great praise and glory to God!
  • 17. John 14:12-14 (Passion) 12 “I tell you this timeless truth: The person who follows me in faith, believing in me, will do the mighty miracles that I do--even greater miracles than these because I go to be with my Father! 13For I will do whatever you ask me to do when you ask in my name. And that is how the Son will show what the Father is really like and bring glory to him. 14Ask me anything in my name, and I will do it for you.
  • 18. What can we do? Look at our own blood line and choose what we want to continue (Heirlooms verses burdens). Pass down the Blessings to the next generation. Empowering people/ loved ones with loving statements (I am proud of you, great job, I believe in you).
  • 19. The measure of man’s character is not what he gets from his ancestors but what he leaves his descendants