03 A Marriage Proposal Raj


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03 A Marriage Proposal Raj

  1. 1. Raj K Pandey, GPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu, Nepal, rajkpandey2000@yahoo.com, rajkpandey2000@hotmail.comThis is a Matrimonial Enquiry sent to you via www.mybibaha.com! We both are totally stranger to each-other so faralthough I am humbly and very gently sending this profile including attached my Bio-Data, Recommendation Letters,Health Report, Security Clearance, World Bank Recognization and my Latest Photographs to an unknown e-mail ID for ageneral enquiry and information dissemination motive, with an expectation that it may be relevant to someone interested.I am not sure yet, whether the marriage is matter of chance or choice. If this is a matter of chance and luck, I am curious tofind my luck soon! I have used different approach and looking forward to see the anticipated result. Lets see what will bethe consequences in the future as unknown in life is both challenge as well as opportunity which is a part of our life.I am extremely sorry for bothering you! You may simply ignore and delete enclosed profile, CV and working certificatesand/or kindly forward this information among your relatives, female colleagues, lady friend circles and their parents, ifsomeone is also seriously interested for this and has made her mind for the same purpose. Thank you very much for yourkind cooperation in advance. The following section is only for the concerned one and her related family members, where Ihave honestly described my realistic background as marital relationship must be based on the bond of trust and honesty.Dear Friend:Please accept warm regards! I am humbly corresponding with reference to the matrimonial enquiry for your kind rationalassessment purpose for a closed but healthy friendship at the beginning and then possible match in the near future, if bothof us are made for each-other upon our compatibility and comfort! I am a Developmental and Management Practitioner bytraining and profession. This year, probably after few months, I am thinking and planning for my marriage with atleast a University Graduate, but preferred Masters Degree and Job Holder or Self-employed Girl.If the lady is unemployed at present, she should have career-oriented mind after marriage to use her education as well asin enhancing for balanced marital life. The main reason for setting all these minimum practical criteria is to thoroughlyempower the prospective life partner and acquire a reciprocal synergy for our lifelong personal growth and development.For this rationale, I wish to emotionally, morally and psychologically encourage and motivate my ideal life partner for herprofessionalism, edification and overall personality development. But, what I only expect on her intrinsic lady personais: natural compassion in the heart of a well-cultured lady as well as positive attitude and optimistic mind since she will bethe source of an inspiration for a man during difficult circumstances as well as for a positive transformation in our lives.However, the reality talks lauder than dreams! At present, I represent the working class economy: we both must work forour livelihoods. Currently, I have some hundreds of books in the name of property in my own name with a four-roomedcemented home and some pieces of land in Tarai-Sunaul Bazaar, Nawalparashi, which is an outcome of purely mypersonal income! But, I was grown up and educated around Jawalakhel from the age of 10. Consequently, at any cost, wecannot settle in Terai and must dwell in the metropolitan urban areas. Our sisters and all relatives have already establishedtheir own homes in this valley and I/we also must construct a permanent residence in Kathmandu soon, although for atleast few years, we have to happily live in a rental flat on temporary basis, especially around Lalitpur Municipality.As far as my core profession is concerned, I am actively involving with the international developmental organizationssince 1990. When I was exactly 16 years in ninety, I started a career with the UK Governments DFID/Enabling StateProgramme Nepal; Office of the Prime Minister and Council of Ministers; Himalaya Broadcasting Company (HBC)Radio Station; United Nations Population Fund, Country Technical Services Team for South and West Asia (UNFPA,CST for SAWA Countries); DFID/Rural Access Program (RAP); Japan International Cooperation Agency/Japan MedicalAssociation (JICA/JMA) funded School and Community Health Project (SCHP) and Save the Children-Norway(previously Redd Barna, Norwegian semi-government international humanitarian organization). (Please see enclosedresume, working certificates, recommendation letters, health report, security clearance, World Bank recognization, etc.).Moreover, I was also temporarily implicated as an independent Freelancer Consultant for UNICEF/ROSA, USAID/IFESand USAID/NDI for two years. Lately, I was working with the Japan International Cooperation Agency (JICA)/NepalOffice in the capacity of an AS Officer until I shifted to an UN Agency in 2008. Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884/9841 813529, Raj K Pandey (Chhetri), Jawalakhel, Lalitpur (Page 1 of 2)
  2. 2. Raj K Pandey, GPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu, Nepal, rajkpandey2000@yahoo.com, rajkpandey2000@hotmail.comAt present, I am working with one of the Specialized Agencies of the United Nations (UN) System, based in Nepal, atHarihar Bhawan, Pulchowk, Lalitpur, in the Administrative Capacity, which is a long-term permanent fixed job.As far as my pedagogical background is concerned, I have completed Double Masters Degree i.e. Masters in BusinessStudies (MBS) and MA Rural Development, both in first divisions. Moreover, at the same time, I am also pursuing thirdmasters degree in Public Administration (MPA) course. I have simultaneously made my mind to enroll for MPhil courseas well to upgrade myself for PhD in a long run of my life, which is one of the most pertinent future dreams for me.Regarding my social background, I am Single (Never Married), Chhetri, 1974 Birth, Aries, 60 kg weight, height 53 withfair complexion. (Please see attached photos). I am none-alcoholic but occasional smoker, extroverted and determinedlaborious person for a set-goal. I am only son with two married and one single sister. Our father used to be local levelpolitician in Triveni-Susta VDC during his youth up to 1970, which is nostalgia for us in these days. On the other hand, heis also an Indian retired army with the pension from India (70) and mother is housewife (67). They both live in hometownto look after home and land and quarterly visit us for a week as well as collecting their pension from Indian embassy.Finally, if you feel comfortable to happily live in a rental house for few years; if you are also seriously searching an ideallife partner; if your inner soul considers that we both might be like minded friends for lifelong and our matching will bethe perfect one; if you trust me as a gentleman by the hub of your heart and curious for a matrimonial relationship, we canmeet as a very goodfriend at first and should try to sincerely understand each-other thoroughly. When our inner chemistry,feeling, manner, interest and ethos are compatible and comfortable for both of us, we will spontaneously and unknowinglyfeel emotional attachment based on heart-to-heart relationship, then we can rationally decide for our marriage-life as soonas possible, basically after obtaining mutual consent and concurrence from our family members and parents.At a very fine and lucky moment, a meeting even with a stranger sometimes may bring major transformation in our lives!Optimistically speaking, who knows future: we both may prove to be the ideal lifelong friends and exact dream partner ofeach-others! For this purpose, you may contact me without any hesitations at (977-01) 98510-86884/9841 813529. Then,if you feel comfort and secure, I will invite you along with your best friends and parents for a courtesy coffee meeting atJawalakhel for our formal introduction that will be the best way to initiate our long lasting cordial relationship. Besidethis, you can assign your reliable relatives and parents as your representative for an initial discussion with our guardiansor myself. Furthermore, alternatively, you may forward your latest snaps and accurate information to us in making alogical family decision for the possibility of amicable relationship, which is based on the bond of trust and honesty.By the way, being an only brother of three my most respectable and loving sisters, I can easily understand that it isextremely difficult in approaching to an unknown person, particularly for the lady. I, therefore, would like to ensure youthat: 1) Names of several referees will be provided at any time in exploring the facts about me and my family background;2) Several meetings among parents/family members will be organized to properly familiarize both the family members; 3)Medical health reports will be submitted; 4) Academic credentials and working certificates will be presented; 5) Yourparents/guardians can independently inquiry and research to verify my background; 6) I/we will certainly facilitate for theacclimatization process to easily adopt our new role and responsibility in the totally new environments; and 7) Sufficienttime will be allocated to closely recognize and understand each-other from insight but the final decision is yours: madam!If your family members wish to meet my parents/guardians to seriously discuss on this issue more broadly, please let meknow so that I can provide you their direct contact address for further detailed discussions. I can also arrange a series ofmeetings among our parents/guardians to materialize our lifelong visualized dreams into the reality. Finally, please referall the attachments with this e-mail and looking forward to hear from you a very positive response soon!With Best Regards!Raj K Pandey Chhetri, (MBS, MA)Jawalakhel, Lalitpur, GPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu (Nepal)Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884/9841 813529rajkpandey2000@yahoo.com, rajkpandey2000@hotmail.com, rajkpandey2000@gmail.com Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884/9841 813529, Raj K Pandey (Chhetri), Jawalakhel, Lalitpur (Page 2 of 2)