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  • How To Keep Your Man Happy In A Long DistanceRelationshipLH Surge and Pregnancyhttp://LHSurge.orgBetty asks…Long distance relationships! ?Okay, so I have been in a relationship with the woman that is my soulmate (sounds corny Iknow) for three years. Together we have three kids, 16,12 & 4 two older are hers, and theyounger girl is mine. I am moving away for two years for work in another state and she isstaying in the state here with her boys. After the two years we plan to pack up and move toCali, something we both want. The world dissapers when we kiss and damn are we goodtogether dispite little issues here and there. She is my princess, my best friend and she hasmade me a very happy man. Can a long distance relationship work? Or in your experiencedo they fail. Im stressed out about this and need to know how to keep it all together for twoyears if the % is low.Blissful Relationship answers:If the love is there….and it’s true love….all will work out in the end. You two already have a deepfoundation of love and trust already….love knows no boundaries….so being in another state willnot change that. You two have to have a plan on how the two of your are going to communicatewith one another and how often you two plan on visiting! Work may be your top priority, butwhen moving day comes, it will have to be your relationship…..no matter how hectic your day is,always, and I mean ALWAYS take a minute or two out of each night to tell one another how 1 / 10
  • much you mean to each other. It will be hard and quite painful at times….but that pain you will befeeling will help you get through this and it is a reminder how much she means to you and howmuch you love her….that will stop from any indiscretion from happening. I have been in a longdistance relationship with my soulmate for the past two years! The distance has made usstronger, because we never take each other for granted!! 6 more months to go for me, and I Willfinally get my man back for good!! Good luck, stay positive, it will work out if both your heartsare in it 150%!!!!Susan asks…y wont no one answer my Q?! I need help, Long distancerelationship problem?..Im so stressed out and upset:(?PLZ READ IT, I KNOW ITS LONG BUT I APPRECIATE YOUR HELP! This is my second timeposting because no one is being kind enough to help me..I live in London. However i am from Newyork, and just recently i went to Brooklyn to see myfamily and while i was there i met this really nice man, beautiful personality and just reallygawjus! We flirted alot and i could tell he already had crush on me plus he kept hinting tings outhaha so anyway..yes we got to know each other, he asked me if i will be moving to americaforever and i said yes i will be soon after my collage and all that, he got excited and happy..Sowe started dateing! Fell in love and everyting hes is so adorable, and caring..But the problemis..i came back to London because my mom was ill and he forced me to go see her because hesaid it is important for me to go see her, so i did and he told me to keep int. text and keep inCALL. However, i keep running out of int.text because it is soo damn expensive and eats up mycredits fast so we started emailing each other and he asked me what times he should call mebecause American time is like 5 hours back, so i told him i will text you went to call. But i ran outtext, so i cant tell him to call me its been over two weeks of no contact only because recently ihave been having breathing problems and was in hospital but he doesnt know this, i cant even 2 / 10
  • speak ! I miss him too much! I’m worried he might think i dont like him anymore or im notinterested..but its far from that i love him too much ive not been working so i cant afford int.text…Do you guys think i should email and tell him? I’m scared he is going to think i am lieing ormaking excuses or dont want to talk..Because he asked me more than twice when to call andive been reallly busy like looking aftering my ill mom who was in serious serious condition..Andnow me being illl with chest pains and breathing problems wich is also serious…what the helll:’(..What should i do? I miss him so much, over two weeks of no contact..he is deffinatly notthinking about postive things between both of us!..He sent me a huge paragraph telling me howmuch me misses our conversations and everyting..now im about to reply to him but how shouldi tell him about my late reply due to being ill? Im waay to embarrassed to tell him about notaffording int. text because of being off work and illl, i feel bad for not calling him. I cant hardlytalk..im probably going back to hospital soon. Please help me im really feeling emotional rightnow :’( (PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS ABOUT HOW WERE LIVE TOO FAR AND OURRELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER WORK, IM AWARE HOWEVER I WILL BE MOVING TOAMERICA) Thankyou..Blissful Relationship answers:First of all, your relationship can definitely work! My 2-year relationship has withstood asemester where I was studying in Amsterdam and he was in Boston, and the past year I’vebeen in California while he is still in Boston finishing school. Long distance relationships arehard, but that doesn’t mean that they’re impossible if you’re truly crazy about someone, and itsounds like you are!Secondly, not being able to afford international calls and texts is nothing to be ashamed of! Youshould tell him the truth and utilize the great tool that is the internet! Email is great because youdon’t have to worry about the time difference. Phones are so tricky and expensive when youget international. Download a tool like Skype, which also has video calling and instantmessaging from computer to computer. You can even make calls from your computer to his cellphone for a small fee (like, $1 per call, but reception can be spotty). I don’t remember if Londonhas places with free internet access, but even a internet cafe isn’t too expensive for a fewhours a week. Set up a time on the weekend for you guys to meet up online for some instantmessaging. Guys also don’t necessarily need contact every day. Guys can go years withouttalking to someone, but still consider them to be their best friend.I hope you feel better. He probably thinks that you’ve just been super busy with your mom, butyou should tell him about your hospitalization too. I’m sure he wont accuse you of lying, sayingyou were staying in the hospital is a very serious matter. If he can’t be understanding duringthis hard time for you and what you’re trying to do for your mother, then he doesn’t deserveyou anyway. Be strong, good luck! 3 / 10
  • Lisa asks…I’m 30 Years Old & Single Parent. Parents HATE BF bc of actionsoccass. He has Tourettes & they don’t know?My bf and I have been together for a year. My mother is basically the type of woman who youwould think has a personality disorder. Total nutcase, never happy, miserable, always yellingand only happy when her kids are miserable. Her marriage with my father is totally DEAD. JustBLAH. You would never even know they were married. They don’t speak to one another, doanything together, basically don’t even acknowledge the others’ presence. It’s like they areroomates. Every past relationship I’ve been in, I was miserable and my mother was my BFF,always HAPPY and willing to “give advice and help”. I met my BF appr 14 months ago, and Iwas head over heels. Never so happy in my life and it showed. My mother on the other handnever even gave him a chance. She just didn’t like him and made it OBVIOUS which put a lot ofstrain and stress on our relationship.Some more info also to get a better idea of how I’mtreated, I am like the black sheep but for no reason. 2nd girl out of four. I’m basically a pushoverand always seeking approval from everyone. I’ve always done what everyone ELSE wantedand my BF over this past year has been teaching me to be an adult and put my foot down andto open my mouth and not take their shit anymore. My father knew him before me and alwayslike him.Well, anyway, my BF and I had a big fight in September. My family found out through abig-mouth friend and ever since, my mother said that he will never be accepted in our familyagain or welcome in her home. The fight was nothing abusive but me and him did have a HUGEverbal blowout with eachother (it was both our faults). Thing is, my BF has tourettes (notnoticeable anymore except for minor shoulder twitches) and tends to say his “intrusivethoughts” out loud. He will say something totally wrong/disturbing during a fight and once itsettles down, he realizes what he said and apologizes up and down.Besides him having this problem, which I kind of put on the back burner because I know it goesdeeper than what my family knows (Again, they do not know he has tourettes) he is an amazingman! I’ve never had someone LOVE me so much and never give up on our love. We are 4 / 10
  • totally in love with eachother and so nsync with eachother. I’ve never been happy in anyrelationship and I am crazy about him! We took about getting engaged soon and all that. Theydon’t see what were like together. They can’t see the love we have for one another and howdeeply in love we are because we can never e around them as a couple. My family does notknow his issue and I always felt it was none of their business, but considering they basically toldme “I will be without them if I wind up with him for life” I feel like maybe if they knew the truth,that it would help?Again, I’m 30 years old and have a six-year old daughter (who was not present for the fight thatday BTW) I’m a grown-ass women! And my parents and siblings all make their opinions knownand butt in my business 24/7. I refuse to have the type of marriage that my parents have. Mytherapists (I’ve been to three and they’ve all said the same thing to the T) have all said that Ineed to try to distance myself from my family as much as possible. Not cut them off, butdistance myself. They’ve all said that my mother and rest of family are cancer for me. “MiseryLoves Company”. My mother has even said that if I marry him, her and my father will changetheir will and take me out of it and give all my inheritance to my daughter. She also said “Youmay think that you will be happily ever after with him and just keep your relationhip betweenhim and your family separate and it will work, but OHHHHH it’s not! If you wanna spendholidays and the rest of your days alone, go ahead, bc as long as you’re with him, you will bealone bc he will never be accepted again.It’s killing me!!!!!! I’m an adult! I shouldn’t have to be put in this position!My question is…..do I dump him because my family will NEVER accept him again and it will justbe a strain and cause problems? Or do I stay with him because were in love, a deep love I feelI’ll never find again, and just limit my time with family and/or just not speak to them?PLEASE HELP! ALL ADVICE NEEDED ASAP!Blissful Relationship answers:Just have them watch the South Park episode Le Petit Tourettes. 5 / 10
  • Maria asks…Parents hate my BF. He has Tourettes but they don’t know. Mkingme choose. I’m 30 & a MOM!?My bf and I have been together for a year. My mother is basically the type of woman who youwould think has a personality disorder. Total nutcase, never happy, miserable, always yellingand only happy when her kids are miserable. Her marriage with my father is totally DEAD. JustBLAH. You would never even know they were married. They don’t speak to one another, doanything together, basically don’t even acknowledge the others’ presence. It’s like they areroomates. Every past relationship I’ve been in, I was miserable and my mother was my BFF,always HAPPY and willing to “give advice and help”. I met my BF appr 14 months ago, and Iwas head over heels. Never so happy in my life and it showed. My mother on the other handnever even gave him a chance. She just didn’t like him and made it OBVIOUS which put a lot ofstrain and stress on our relationship.Some more info also to get a better idea of how I’mtreated, I am like the black sheep but for no reason. 2nd girl out of four. I’m basically a pushoverand always seeking approval from everyone. I’ve always done what everyone ELSE wantedand my BF over this past year has been teaching me to be an adult and put my foot down andto open my mouth and not take their shit anymore. My father knew him before me and alwayslike him.Well, anyway, my BF and I had a big fight in September. My family found out through abig-mouth friend and ever since, my mother said that he will never be accepted in our familyagain or welcome in her home. The fight was nothing abusive but me and him did have a HUGEverbal blowout with eachother (it was both our faults). Thing is, my BF has tourettes (notnoticeable anymore except for minor shoulder twitches) and tends to say his “intrusivethoughts” out loud. He will say something totally wrong/disturbing during a fight and once itsettles down, he realizes what he said and apologizes up and down.Besides him having this problem, which I kind of put on the back burner because I know it goesdeeper than what my family knows (Again, they do not know he has tourettes) he is an amazingman! I’ve never had someone LOVE me so much and never give up on our love. We aretotally in love with eachother and so nsync with eachother. I’ve never been happy in anyrelationship and I am crazy about him! We took about getting engaged soon and all that. Theydon’t see what were like together. They can’t see the love we have for one another and howdeeply in love we are because we can never e around them as a couple. My family does notknow his issue and I always felt it was none of their business, but considering they basically toldme “I will be without them if I wind up with him for life” I feel like maybe if they knew the truth, 6 / 10
  • that it would help?Again, I’m 30 years old and have a six-year old daughter (who was not present for the fight thatday BTW) I’m a grown-ass women! And my parents and siblings all make their opinions knownand butt in my business 24/7. I refuse to have the type of marriage that my parents have. Mytherapists (I’ve been to three and they’ve all said the same thing to the T) have all said that Ineed to try to distance myself from my family as much as possible. Not cut them off, butdistance myself. They’ve all said that my mother and rest of family are cancer for me. “MiseryLoves Company”. My mother has even said that if I marry him, her and my father will changetheir will and take me out of it and give all my inheritance to my daughter. She also said “Youmay think that you will be happily ever after with him and just keep your relationhip betweenhim and your family separate and it will work, but OHHHHH it’s not! If you wanna spendholidays and the rest of your days alone, go ahead, bc as long as you’re with him, you will bealone bc he will never be accepted again.It’s killing me!!!!!! I’m an adult! I shouldn’t have to be put in this position!My question is…..do I dump him because my family will NEVER accept him again and it will justbe a strain and cause problems? Or do I stay with him because were in love, a deep love I feelI’ll never find again, and just limit my time with family and/or just not speak to them?PLEASE HELP! ALL ADVICE NEEDED ASAP!Blissful Relationship answers:If you really love him and your parents don’t care that you love him, the heck with them. It’snone of their business anyway. If you were in your teens, they have every right to tell you whoyou can and can’t date. But you’re not, you’re 30. You can date who ever. Sure, they can givetheir advice but they can’t say to not date him. I know nothing of your family except for whatyou have said but i’m sure after at least a year, most people in your family will accept him..Besides, you always have his family to spend with during the holidays etc.. 7 / 10
  • Mandy asks…What Are Things That Annoy You? Things That You Like?I Need Some Help On What To Add To My About Me So Tell Me What You Dont Like And WhatYou Do Like And Maybe You Can Help Me (:Here Are Mine:I Like: Animals. Friends. Tupac Shakur. Marilyn Manson. Rob Zombie. Pretty Ricky. Twiztid.Insane Clown Posse. Hollywood Undead. Cobra Starship. Nickelback. Will Ferrell Movies. BeingA Pervert. Horror Movies. Zombie Movies. Being Half Black. Video Games. Shane Dawson.Wrestling. Animal Rights Activists. Barbeque Sandwhiches. French Fries. Apple Juice. Pickles.Vampires. Monsters. Fairys. Art. Family Guy. South Park. The Boondocks. Squidbillys. Gir FromInvader Zim. Mtv. Vh1. Futurama. Hookers. Strippers. Tattoos. Piercings. Hot Topic. Spencers.Handcuffs. Monoxide Child. Drunk People, They Are Rather Amusing, As Are People That AreHigh Off Their A**. Shaggy 2 Dope. Kiwis. Black Eyeliner. Spanish. Spongebob Squarepants.Jeff Hardy. Money. Tutus. Ed Hardy. The Smell Of Axe. Stoners. Thugs. That 70s Show. OldSchool Cars. The Sims. Skulls. My Tongue. Blue. Purple. John Cena. Scooby Doo.Documentaries On Scary Stuff Or Cryptids. Mashup’s of Songs. Fruitista Freeze. InvisibleRope Prank. Zoo York Shoes. Lita. Edge. Draven Shoes. Colorful Nikes. Fubu. Black.Doberman Pinschers. Parodies Of Popular Things. Chihuahuas. The Real Word. SpectacularBlue Smith. Jelly Bracelets. The Word Epic. When A Rock Band Covers a Pop/ Hip Hop Song,or vice versa. Burger King’s Icees. “Thats What She Said” Jokes. Hearing That He Still LovesMe After This Long.I Dislike:Uptight People. White Kidds That Think It’s Okay To Say N*gga Now, F.Y.I Your StillWhite, It’s Still Not Okay. People That Are “Addicted” To Sex, Its Not A Drug. People ThatBlame God For Their Problems. Wet Willies, Keep It In Your Mouth, Not In Others Ears. WhenBabies Dont Know How To STFU When There Is Something Important Going On, If Your KidWont Shut Up, Take Them Outside Or Something Geez. People Dissing Our President, YourJust Mad That A Black Man Has Finally Came Up And Is Better Than You. Country Music.Alchoholics. Twilight. Anything To Do With Disney Channel. People That Cant Take A Joke.People That Push Your Beliefs On You, I Dont Push My Beliefs On You, Dont Do It To Me.Spiders. Snakes. B*tches. People That Say Marijuana, Salvia, And Mushrooms Are Bad, TheyAre Natural Drugs, God Obviously Put Them Here For A Reason, They Are NOT Bad UnlessYou Make Them Bad By Taking Too Much. Animal Cruelty. Liars. My Hair. Feet. People That 8 / 10
  • Make Stuff Up About Themselves Just To Seem Cooler. People That Say Stuff About MeHaving An Online/Long Distance Relationship, If The Person Makes You Happy It ShouldntMatter, So You Got A Problem With It? Well Muhh Dear F*CK YOU. Skinny Girls That AlwaysComplain About Being “Fat”. When People Identify Me As White, DO NOT Identify Me AsWhite, I Am Mixed Please Respect That. Pretty Girls That Cant Seem To Understand That TheyAre Gorgeous. How Most, Not All, White People Do Pointless Crimes, At Least Black People’sCrimes Have A Point, If You’re Broke, Go Rob A Bank. Bugs. When People Take Way TooLong To Reply To A Instant Message. When People Claim To Be “In Love” But Then 2 WeeksLater They Break Up And Hate Each Other All Of A Sudden, True Love Never Dies YouFaggoids. People That Think That 2Girls1Cup Was Throw Up In Your Mouth Disgusting, ItWasnt You Pusses. People That Dont Believe In Love, Love Exists Obviously, Do You LoveYour Mother? Father? Sister? Friends? The Only Reason People Say That Is Because TheySuck At Keeping Relationships and Like Blaming Love Instead Of Themselves. Forgetting WhatI Was Going To Say Because I Really Wanted To Say It. Replies To Things That Only Say‘Kk’ or ‘Lol’, Anything One Worded Really, If You Dont Give Me Something To Reply To, NoPoint In Replying. When People Scream, Loudly, On Purpose, In Your Ear.I’ve read over that, and im sorry i sound so mean lol im really not!if you disagree or something please dont make that your entire answer, please answer thequestion first then tell me what you think if you wish i dont care…ooh! wait a new idea forsomething i dont like lol “people that dont answer my question and go off on somethingdifferent” hehe (;please dont be rudee (:thanks (;Burn Loud? Whats That Mean?And Its Okay You Dont Have To Read All Of It lol I Just Put It There Just In Case People DontUnderstand. (:oh burp..lolBlissful Relationship answers:Hate:People farting in public and thinking it is okay.When someone eats and talks with their mouth full.Tapping fingers or pens or anything else on a surface.When girls/women pop their gum….especially when in the doc’s office, and I am reading whilewaiting.Kids using the F word like it is the most common word. 9 / 10
  • Love: The sunrises/sunsets Holding a baby. The smell of a freshly cleaned baby. Watching movies Coming here and answering questions Listening to 50-60-70s music. Aa Powered by Yahoo! Answers LH Surge and Ovulation http://LHSurge.net How To Keep Your Man Happy In A Long Distance Relationship 10 / 10Powered by TCPDF (www.tcpdf.org)