Chapter 9
Core Elements in Facilitating
Counseling
Objectives:
1.
2.

3.

4.

5.

To learn the core elements that facilitates
counseling
To determine environmental circumsta...
Core Elements
( gives significance to: )

Counseling process

Relationship of
counselor and client
A. External Conditions Influencing
Counseling
A number of considerable factors
have an impact in counseling process
and re...
 Structures
 Facilities
 Physical

Setting
 Proxemics
 Privacy
 Tape Recording
 Note Taking
 Professional Appearan...
Structure
A

joint understanding between the
counselor and counselee/client regarding
the
characteristics, conditions, pr...
Practical guidelines are part of
building structure.
 Time

Limits ( a 50 minute session)
 Action limits (for prevention...
Facilities
 Use/Activities

 Occupants
 Equipment/Supplies
 Space

Utilization
 Access/Circulation
 Environmental co...
Physical Setting
The Room
The room should be comfortable
and attractive. Counseling facilities should
be designed for comf...
Colors of the Room
There can be several meanings for each
color. The most common suggested color of
a room is:
Blue: cooln...
Seating Arrangements

What should be the seating arrangement:
face-to-face or angled?
Is there a designated seat(s) for th...
Counselor needs to experiment to find the
arrangement that is most comfortable
and productive.
Seating Arrangements depend...
Proxemics
Proxemics was coined by researcher E.T.
Hall in 1963 when he investigated man‟s
use of personal space in contras...
Haase and DiMattia defined proxemics as
“the manner in which man regulates the
spatial features of his environment and
con...
Proxemics is all about the room
size, seating, physical distance between
people, seating and furniture
arrangements, and o...
Social distance – conversations among
acquaintances; 4-12 ft; includes space
required for more formal social
interactions;...
Privacy
 Reduced

privacy decreased counselee
self-disclosure and that although spatial
dividers improved counselee‟s
per...
Tape Recording
 Tape

Recording has been widely used in
counselor preparation because of its
training value

 One

provi...
Note-Taking
 Taking

notes should not interfere with
the flow of the interview.

 The

need to explain the purpose of no...
 It

is very important during the first session
to explain to the counselee that the
notes are confidential. It is import...
Professional Appearance and
Concerns
Dress/ Appearance
 Dressing

appropriately is the first physical
characteristic that...
Credentials
 Counselor

should provide some
information about his/her credentials
and position. The rule is to be
complet...
Time
 Arranging

the session for the same time
each week or day can signify the
counselor‟s commitment to the
relationshi...
Confidentiality
 The

extent and limitation of
confidentiality must be explained to the
counselee during the first sessio...
Record-keeping
A

school counselor is required to keep
accurate, detailed, appropriate and
organized records of all couns...
Stress Management
Interviewing or counseling is stressful. It‟s
particularly stressful when counselors are
in the early le...
Client Characteristics Influencing
Counseling
Most successful candidates for traditional
approaches ten to be YAVIS:
young...
B. Counselor Attitudes that Influence
Counseling
The attitudes of counselors, their
approaches to the individual, and what...
Attitudes
An attitude is a point of view about a
situation. It is a relatively lasting cluster of
feelings, beliefs, and b...
 What

you think. (Cognitive Component)

-Beliefs people hold about the object of the attitude
-A person‟s perceptions, o...
Beliefs
 Fundamental

among the counselor‟s
philosophical attitudes is a belief in the
worth and value of each counselee.
 Another

important part of the counselor‟s
philosophical orientation is the belief in the
need for freedom. Erich Fromm ...
A

third cardinal principle of the
counselor is the belief in the desirability
of liberty. Liberty means more than the
ab...
Belief System
 All

counseling theories propose an
interpretation of human nature, from
which a certain style arises.
Ult...
Values
Patterson points out that the counselor‟s
values influence the ethics of the
counseling relationship, the goals of
...
He believes in consciously and directly
manipulating or influencing counselee because:


Each individual‟s philosophy of ...
 An

individual develops a code of ethics, not
from a single source or in a short period of
time, but over a long time an...
Importance of Value
 Value

is built-in in an individual. It is
something positive.

 Values

are things, persons, ideas...
Modern Classification of Values
 Instrinsic

and Instrumentsal
 Accidental and Natural
 Primary and Secondary
 Moral a...
Value System
Rev. Bachmeyer describes the value systems
which every individual has are his self-image
and experience. Self...
Acceptance and Understanding
“by acceptance, I mean a warm regard for
him as a person of unconditional self-worth – of
val...
Characteristics of Acceptance: Tyler
identified two components of
acceptance
– “willingness to allow individuals to differ...
Understanding: ability to perceived another‟s
relationships, meanings, content, and
structure. Tyler defined understanding...
Characteristics of Understanding:
 Experiencing

is felt, rather than
thought, known, or verbalized
 Experiencing occurs...
Fiedler’s description of ideal relationship:
 The

counselor is able to participate
completely in patient‟s communication...
Levels of Understanding (Davis):
 Knowledge

about other individuals
 Verbal or intellectual understanding and
behaviour...
Grace, Character, and Culture
Helping grace seems to have five key
attributes: warm concern for and acceptance
of the othe...
Emotional Competence
One of the hallmarks of the self-creating
person. A person who has it is able to
manage their emotion...
 Zero

level – when a person‟s helping is
always contaminated by hidden, distorted
emotion and has an
oppressive, interfe...
C. Internal Conditions that Influence
Counseling
These are growth-facilitating qualities in all
counseling relationships, ...
Rapport
 Described

as a condition essential and
unconditional relationship between
counselor and counselee.

 Rapport

...
Empathy
 Said

to exist when counselors recognize the
feeling a client presents as being the client‟s
and not of their ow...
Buchheimer identified dimensions of empathy:
 Tone

– an expressive and nonverbal
dimension reflected when two people
int...
 Perception

of the counselee‟s frame of
reference – ability to abstract the core of the
counselee‟s concern and to formu...
Five levels of empathic understanding:
Level 1 – verbal and behavioural expressions of
the helper either do not attend to ...
Level 3 – the expressions of the helper in response to the
expressions of the helpee are essentially
interchangeable with ...
Personal characteristics or behaviours that enhance a
counselor‟s ability to provide empathic understanding
include, but a...
Counselor‟s Congruence or
Genuineness
According to Capuzzi and Gross, genuineness
and congruence describe the ability to b...
Five levels of genuineness or counselor’s self-congruence
Level 1 – the helper‟s verbalizations are clearly
unrelated to w...
Level 3 – the helper provides no negative cues
between what he says and what he feels, but he
provides no positive cues to...
Attentiveness
Requires skill in listening and observing, though
which the counselor comes to know and
understand the core ...
Concreteness
Concreteness enables the counselor to remain
close to the client‟s level of feelings and
experiences; it elim...
Five levels of concreteness:
Level 1 – helper appears to lead or allow all
discussion with the helper to deal only with
va...
Level 4 – the helper appears frequently helpful in
enabling the helpee to fully develop in concrete
and specific terms alm...
Respect or Caring
The concept of unconditional positive regard
refers to the acceptance and positive feelings
that the cou...
Levels of the scale of unconditional positive regard or
respect/caring:
Level 1 – verbal and behavioural expressions of th...
Level 4 – helper communicates a very deep
respect and concern for the helpee
Level 5 – helper communicates the very
deepes...
Personal characteristics or behaviours that
enhance a counselor‟s ability to provide respect
and positive regard include, ...
Trustworthiness
Stability and reliability are essential ingredients
in most therapeutic relationships and can offset
some ...
Persuasiveness (Social Influence)
Process of encouraging counselee to take
reasonable and growth-promoting risks, to
make ...
Humor
Handled with care, humor can be a vehicle for
insight, an affirmation of the working alliance, a
true moment of meet...
Immediacy
Ability to deal with the here-and-now factors that
operate within the helping relationship
Personal characteristics or behaviours that
enhance a counselor‟s ability to use immediacy
effectively include, but are no...
Hope
 Final

essential condition of psychotherapy

 Empathy,

trustworthiness, caring, congruen
ce, and persuasiveness a...
D. Counseling Relationship – The
Common Denominator
Most experts agree that the relationship is a
necessary condition for ...
Main Stages of the
Counseling Process
1

• Introduction
• Set the context with the child, how does he feel about being here?

2

• Listen to his issues and conc...
The Stages of the Counseling Process
 Building

a Counseling Relationship
 Working in Counseling Relationship
 Terminat...
Counseling psychology   core elements
Upcoming SlideShare
Loading in...5
×

Counseling psychology core elements

6,102

Published on

Published in: Health & Medicine, Technology
1 Comment
4 Likes
Statistics
Notes
  • Hello can I know what's the meaning of AFGA in your slide number 17? thanks!
       Reply 
    Are you sure you want to  Yes  No
    Your message goes here
No Downloads
Views
Total Views
6,102
On Slideshare
0
From Embeds
0
Number of Embeds
1
Actions
Shares
0
Downloads
80
Comments
1
Likes
4
Embeds 0
No embeds

No notes for slide

Counseling psychology core elements

  1. 1. Chapter 9 Core Elements in Facilitating Counseling
  2. 2. Objectives: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. To learn the core elements that facilitates counseling To determine environmental circumstances that may or may not affect the counseling process To appreciate the importance of the different internal conditions that affect counseling process To develop self-enthusiasm towards the attitudes that contributes to an effective counseling relationship To exhibit the different external conditions influencing counseling through a diorama
  3. 3. Core Elements ( gives significance to: ) Counseling process Relationship of counselor and client
  4. 4. A. External Conditions Influencing Counseling A number of considerable factors have an impact in counseling process and relationship – for better or for worse these factors include the following:
  5. 5.  Structures  Facilities  Physical Setting  Proxemics  Privacy  Tape Recording  Note Taking  Professional Appearance & Concerns  Counselee/Client characteristics influencing counseling
  6. 6. Structure A joint understanding between the counselor and counselee/client regarding the characteristics, conditions, procedures, and parameters of counseling.  Helps clarify the counselor-counselee relationship and give it direction; protect the rights, roles, and obligations of both counselors and counselees; and ensure the success of counseling.
  7. 7. Practical guidelines are part of building structure.  Time Limits ( a 50 minute session)  Action limits (for prevention of destructive behaviour)  Role limits (what will be expected of each participant)  Procedural limits (counselee is given the responsibility to work on specific goals or needs)
  8. 8. Facilities  Use/Activities  Occupants  Equipment/Supplies  Space Utilization  Access/Circulation  Environmental conditions  Windows  Sound  Interior design  Criteria
  9. 9. Physical Setting The Room The room should be comfortable and attractive. Counseling facilities should be designed for comfort and relaxation.
  10. 10. Colors of the Room There can be several meanings for each color. The most common suggested color of a room is: Blue: coolness, being soothing; like the sky, water, and, ice, trustworthiness, friendline ss The least suggested is Black; sophistication, formality, death, depression.
  11. 11. Seating Arrangements What should be the seating arrangement: face-to-face or angled? Is there a designated seat(s) for the client(s)? Does the counselor decide where the client should sit or is it the client‟s choice?
  12. 12. Counselor needs to experiment to find the arrangement that is most comfortable and productive. Seating Arrangements depends with the counselor‟s counseling technique.
  13. 13. Proxemics Proxemics was coined by researcher E.T. Hall in 1963 when he investigated man‟s use of personal space in contrast with “fixed” and “semi-fixed” feature space. Fixed feature space – characterized by unmovable boundaries (divisions within an office building); Semi-fixed space – fixed boundaries such as furniture
  14. 14. Haase and DiMattia defined proxemics as “the manner in which man regulates the spatial features of his environment and conversely the impact of that environment on his subsequent behaviour”.
  15. 15. Proxemics is all about the room size, seating, physical distance between people, seating and furniture arrangements, and other physical features on the counseling relationship. Personal distance – for conversations among good friends; from about 1.5 ft to around 4 ft.; touch is minimal; vision and hearing become important; distance use to interact with friends
  16. 16. Social distance – conversations among acquaintances; 4-12 ft; includes space required for more formal social interactions; hearing and vision are the primary senses involved; often utilized in business Public distance – used for public speaking; distances greater than 12 ft; after 25 ft, interpersonal interaction is not possible (hall); little detail involved in communication; one-way communication
  17. 17. Privacy  Reduced privacy decreased counselee self-disclosure and that although spatial dividers improved counselee‟s perceptions of privacy, self-disclosure failed to increase.  According to AFGA Code of Ethics, “the counseling relationship and information resulting there must be kept confidentially consistent with the obligations of the member as a professional person”.
  18. 18. Tape Recording  Tape Recording has been widely used in counselor preparation because of its training value  One proviso attached to the question of ethics is that all recordings are made with the counselee‟s permission and chat subsequent use of recordings is made only with the counselee‟s written consent.
  19. 19. Note-Taking  Taking notes should not interfere with the flow of the interview.  The need to explain the purpose of note taking to a counselee should be clear.
  20. 20.  It is very important during the first session to explain to the counselee that the notes are confidential. It is important to take that explanation a step further and talk briefly about who will have access to the case record.  The counselor should always be prepared to show his/her counselee the notes.
  21. 21. Professional Appearance and Concerns Dress/ Appearance  Dressing appropriately is the first physical characteristic that affects the counseling process (Meier and Davis).  An appearance that matches that of other colleagues is fitting.
  22. 22. Credentials  Counselor should provide some information about his/her credentials and position. The rule is to be completely straightforward.  It is important to let the counselee know something about the counselor. This is also one way of making the counselee comfortable since the counselor will not be a stranger to him/her anymore.
  23. 23. Time  Arranging the session for the same time each week or day can signify the counselor‟s commitment to the relationship. Some counselees measure their importance to the counselor by how often their sessions exceed the scheduled time.  Be explicit with counselee about the length of a session. A typical individual counseling session lasts45 or 50 minutes.
  24. 24. Confidentiality  The extent and limitation of confidentiality must be explained to the counselee during the first session. Many organizations provide confidentiality information in writing.  The counselees also need to understand the kinds of information that cannot be kept confidential.
  25. 25. Record-keeping A school counselor is required to keep accurate, detailed, appropriate and organized records of all counseling sessions, meeting, and discussions.  It is important to ensure that the counselor is aware of the school‟s existing record-keeping system and procedure.
  26. 26. Stress Management Interviewing or counseling is stressful. It‟s particularly stressful when counselors are in the early learning stages.
  27. 27. Client Characteristics Influencing Counseling Most successful candidates for traditional approaches ten to be YAVIS: young, attractive, verbal, intelligent, and successful. Less successful are HOUNDs: homely, old, unintelligent, nonverbal, and disadvantaged; or DUDs – dumb, unintelligent, nonverbal, and disadvantaged.
  28. 28. B. Counselor Attitudes that Influence Counseling The attitudes of counselors, their approaches to the individual, and what they do all influence the counseling relationship to a marked degree.
  29. 29. Attitudes An attitude is a point of view about a situation. It is a relatively lasting cluster of feelings, beliefs, and behaviour tendencies directed towards specific persons, ideas, objects, or groups. It has three components: Cognitive Component, Behavior Component, and Affective Component.
  30. 30.  What you think. (Cognitive Component) -Beliefs people hold about the object of the attitude -A person‟s perceptions, opinions, and beliefs  What you do. (Behavioral Component) -Predispositions to act in certain ways toward the object -The tendency for a person to act in a certain way toward someone or something  What you feel. (Affective Component) -Emotional feeling stimulated by the object -The emotional component and often learned
  31. 31. Beliefs  Fundamental among the counselor‟s philosophical attitudes is a belief in the worth and value of each counselee.
  32. 32.  Another important part of the counselor‟s philosophical orientation is the belief in the need for freedom. Erich Fromm says that people have freed themselves from the old bonds of slavery and feudalism and become individuals, enjoying certain right and liberties, but have not gained freedom in the positive sense of realizing their intellectual and artistic possibilities. Fromm sees the root of this problem in the nature of modern industrial civilization.
  33. 33. A third cardinal principle of the counselor is the belief in the desirability of liberty. Liberty means more than the absence of external restraint. It includes the power to act positively to achieve one‟s chosen goals.
  34. 34. Belief System  All counseling theories propose an interpretation of human nature, from which a certain style arises. Ultimately, one‟s beliefs about how people interact and how they are motivated to achieve will determine what counseling orientation one formulates.
  35. 35. Values Patterson points out that the counselor‟s values influence the ethics of the counseling relationship, the goals of counseling, and the methods employed in counseling.
  36. 36. He believes in consciously and directly manipulating or influencing counselee because:  Each individual‟s philosophy of life is different, unique, and unsuited to adoption by another.  All counselors cannot be expected to have a fully developed, adequate philosophy of life.  The appropriate places for instruction in values are the home, school, and church.
  37. 37.  An individual develops a code of ethics, not from a single source or in a short period of time, but over a long time and from many influences.  One ought not to be prevented from developing one‟s own unique philosophy because it will be more personally meaningful.  The counselee must have right to refuse to accept any ethic or philosophy of life.
  38. 38. Importance of Value  Value is built-in in an individual. It is something positive.  Values are things, persons, ideas or goals which are important to life. Anything which enables life to be understood, evaluated, and directed are values.
  39. 39. Modern Classification of Values  Instrinsic and Instrumentsal  Accidental and Natural  Primary and Secondary  Moral and Ethnical Values  Religious Values  Cultural Values  Social Values
  40. 40. Value System Rev. Bachmeyer describes the value systems which every individual has are his self-image and experience. Self-image, as defined by Tomas Andres, is a set of assumptions about who we are, about what we expect the future to bring about, whether we succeed or fail, about how we are/ are not competent, about how we should and should not relate to one another.
  41. 41. Acceptance and Understanding “by acceptance, I mean a warm regard for him as a person of unconditional self-worth – of value no matter what his condition, his behaviour or his feelings. It means a respect and liking for him as a separate person, willingness for him to possess his own feelings in his own way. It means an acceptance of and a regard for his attitudes of the moment, no matter how negative or positive, no matter how much they may contradict other attitudes be has held in the past”. -Rogers
  42. 42. Characteristics of Acceptance: Tyler identified two components of acceptance – “willingness to allow individuals to differ from one another in all sorts of ways” – “a realization that the ongoing experience of each person is a complex pattern of striving, thinking, and feeling”.
  43. 43. Understanding: ability to perceived another‟s relationships, meanings, content, and structure. Tyler defined understanding as “simply to grasp clearly and completely the meaning the counselee is trying to convey”.
  44. 44. Characteristics of Understanding:  Experiencing is felt, rather than thought, known, or verbalized  Experiencing occurs in the immediate present  Experiencing can be directly referred to by the individual  Experiencing guides conceptualization  Experiencing is implicitly meaningful
  45. 45. Fiedler’s description of ideal relationship:  The counselor is able to participate completely in patient‟s communications.  The counselor‟s comments are always right in line with what they patient is trying to convey.  The counselor is well able to understand tile patient‟s feelings.  The counselor really cries to understand the patient‟s feelings.  The counselor always follows the patient‟s line of though.
  46. 46. Levels of Understanding (Davis):  Knowledge about other individuals  Verbal or intellectual understanding and behavioural or operational  Derived directly from individuals themselves and is an attempt to step into their perceptual world, to know their internal world, their fears, loves, and anxieties.  Self-understanding
  47. 47. Grace, Character, and Culture Helping grace seems to have five key attributes: warm concern for and acceptance of the other; openness and atonement to the other‟s experiential reality; a grasp of what the other needs for his/her essential flourishing; an ability to facilitate the realization of such needs in the right manner and at the right time; and an authentic presence.
  48. 48. Emotional Competence One of the hallmarks of the self-creating person. A person who has it is able to manage their emotions aware in terms of the basic skills of control, expression, catharsis and transmutation, plus one or two others.
  49. 49.  Zero level – when a person‟s helping is always contaminated by hidden, distorted emotion and has an oppressive, interfering, and inappropriate quality.  When a person does help in an emotionally clear and clean way at some tomes, but also slips over at other times into compulsive, intrusive “helping” without realizing that he or she has done so.  When a person makes this kind of slip much less often, knows when it has happened and can correct it.
  50. 50. C. Internal Conditions that Influence Counseling These are growth-facilitating qualities in all counseling relationships, regardless of the counselor‟s theoretical orientation. Four conditions are – rapport, empathy, counselor congruence or genuineness, and attentiveness.
  51. 51. Rapport  Described as a condition essential and unconditional relationship between counselor and counselee.  Rapport is generated by the smoothness (lack of awkwardness, bumbling) with which the counselor opens and interacts within the relationship.
  52. 52. Empathy  Said to exist when counselors recognize the feeling a client presents as being the client‟s and not of their own feeling, and are able to communicate back to the client the same feeling so the client can recognize its similarity to the one expressed.  Rogers defined it as “as if it were you own, but without ever losing the „as if‟ quality”.
  53. 53. Buchheimer identified dimensions of empathy:  Tone – an expressive and nonverbal dimension reflected when two people interact in expressive harmony and unity  Pace leads or appropriate timing of counselor  Flexibility or the counselor‟s ability to discard previously thought out tactics or goals if they do not fit the counselee‟s situation
  54. 54.  Perception of the counselee‟s frame of reference – ability to abstract the core of the counselee‟s concern and to formulate it objectively and palatably so that the person can elaborate  Repertoire – resourcefulness with which counselors vary their leading in appropriate ways to apply to both manifest and dynamic content of the counselee‟s expression
  55. 55. Five levels of empathic understanding: Level 1 – verbal and behavioural expressions of the helper either do not attend to detract significantly from the verbal and behavioural expressions of the helpee in that they communicate significantly less of the helpee‟s feelings than the helper has communicated. Level 2 – while the helper responds to the expressed feelings of the helpee, he does so in such a way that he subtracts noticeable affect from the communications of the helpee.
  56. 56. Level 3 – the expressions of the helper in response to the expressions of the helpee are essentially interchangeable with those of the helpee in that they express essentially the same affect and meaning. Level 4 – the responses of the helper add noticeably to the expressions of the helpee in such a way to express feeling a level deeper than the helpee was able express himself. Level 5 – the helper‟s responses add significantly to the feeling and meaning of the expressions of the helpee in such a way as to accurately express feeling levels below what the helpee himself was able to express or in the event of ongoing deep self-exploration on the helpee‟s part, to be fully with him in his deepest moments.
  57. 57. Personal characteristics or behaviours that enhance a counselor‟s ability to provide empathic understanding include, but are not limited to, the following:  Has knowledge and awareness of his/her own values, attitudes, and beliefs and the emotional and behavioural impact they have on his/ her own life  Has knowledge and awareness of his/her own feelings and emotional response patterns and how they manifest themselves in interactive patterns  Has knowledge and awareness of his/her own life experiences and his/her personal reactions to those experiences  Possesses the capacity and willingness to communicate these personal reactions to his/her clients
  58. 58. Counselor‟s Congruence or Genuineness According to Capuzzi and Gross, genuineness and congruence describe the ability to be authentic in the helping relationship.
  59. 59. Five levels of genuineness or counselor’s self-congruence Level 1 – the helper‟s verbalizations are clearly unrelated to what he is feeling at the moment, or his only genuine responses are negative in regard to the helpee and appear to have a totally destructive effect upon the helpee. Level 2 – the helper‟s verbalizations are slightly unrelated to what he appears otherwise to be a feeling at the moment, or when his responses are genuine they are negative in regard to the helpee and he does not appear to know how to employ his negative reactions as a basis for inquiry into the relationship.
  60. 60. Level 3 – the helper provides no negative cues between what he says and what he feels, but he provides no positive cues to indicate a really genuine response to the helpee. Level 4 – the helper presents some positive cues indicating a genuine response (whether positive or negative) in a non-destructive manner to the helpee. Level 5 – the helper appears freely and deeply himself in a non-exploitative relationship with the helpee.
  61. 61. Attentiveness Requires skill in listening and observing, though which the counselor comes to know and understand the core of content and feeling presented by the counselee.
  62. 62. Concreteness Concreteness enables the counselor to remain close to the client‟s level of feelings and experiences; it eliminates misunderstandings and permits clients to correct distortions in their expressions; it fosters client attention to specific problem areas.
  63. 63. Five levels of concreteness: Level 1 – helper appears to lead or allow all discussion with the helper to deal only with vague and anonymous generalities Level 2 – helper frequently appears to lead or allow even discussions of material personally relevant to the helpee to be dealt with on a vague and abstract level Level 3 – helper is open and at times facilitative of the helpee‟s discussion of personally relevant material in specific and concrete terminology
  64. 64. Level 4 – the helper appears frequently helpful in enabling the helpee to fully develop in concrete and specific terms almost all instances of concern Level 5 – helper appears always helpful in guiding the discussion so that the helpee may discuss fluently, directly, and completely specific feelings and experiences.
  65. 65. Respect or Caring The concept of unconditional positive regard refers to the acceptance and positive feelings that the counselor has for the child are not conditional upon the child‟s actions or behaviours.
  66. 66. Levels of the scale of unconditional positive regard or respect/caring: Level 1 – verbal and behavioural expressions of the helper communicate a clear lack of respect (or negative regard) for the helpee Level 2 – helper responds to the helpee in such a way as to communicate little respect for the feelings, experiences, and potentials of the helpee Level 3 – helper communicates a minimal acknowledgement of regard for the helpee‟s position and concern for the helpee‟s feelings, experience, and potentials
  67. 67. Level 4 – helper communicates a very deep respect and concern for the helpee Level 5 – helper communicates the very deepest respect for the helpee‟s worth as a person and his potentials as a free individual
  68. 68. Personal characteristics or behaviours that enhance a counselor‟s ability to provide respect and positive regard include, but are not limited to the following:  Respects himself/herself  Views himself/herself as having worth and potential  Can model and communicate this positive selfimage to clients  Can recognize his or her own control needs, and has the ability to use this recognition in a manner that allow clients to direct their own lives
  69. 69. Trustworthiness Stability and reliability are essential ingredients in most therapeutic relationships and can offset some of the confusion and chaos that many counselee experience in their lives.
  70. 70. Persuasiveness (Social Influence) Process of encouraging counselee to take reasonable and growth-promoting risks, to make thoughtful decisions and healthy choices, to disclose and process feelings and experiences that may reawaken pain, and to move forward toward their goals.
  71. 71. Humor Handled with care, humor can be a vehicle for insight, an affirmation of the working alliance, a true moment of meeting in the person person-toperson relationship or a gentle means of confrontation. Warmth Ability to communicate and demonstrate genuine caring and concern for clients.
  72. 72. Immediacy Ability to deal with the here-and-now factors that operate within the helping relationship
  73. 73. Personal characteristics or behaviours that enhance a counselor‟s ability to use immediacy effectively include, but are not limited to, the following:  Has perceptive accuracy in interpreting his/her own feelings for, thought about, and behaviours toward clients  Has perceptive accuracy in interpreting client‟s feelings for, thoughts about, and behaviours toward him/her  Has the capacity for and willingness to deal with his/ her own issues related to clients on a personal as opposed to an abstract level
  74. 74. Hope  Final essential condition of psychotherapy  Empathy, trustworthiness, caring, congruen ce, and persuasiveness all facilitate the development of hope in counselee.
  75. 75. D. Counseling Relationship – The Common Denominator Most experts agree that the relationship is a necessary condition for bringing about change in the individual. Counselee who perceive their counselors as empathic, caring, and credible, and who feel understood by them are likely to progress in treatment; while those have a negative perception of their counselor, whether or not the perception is grounded in reality, are less likely to make progress.
  76. 76. Main Stages of the Counseling Process
  77. 77. 1 • Introduction • Set the context with the child, how does he feel about being here? 2 • Listen to his issues and concerns • Remember this may be the first time he has openly expressed there. 3 4 5 6 7 8 • Try to clarify his problems and concerns by asking open and closed problems • Consider the impact that his concerns are having on him and on his relationships. • Look at his beliefs about his problems. • Look at his attempted solutions • Offer further thoughts and interventions • Monitor and assess change
  78. 78. The Stages of the Counseling Process  Building a Counseling Relationship  Working in Counseling Relationship  Termination of Counseling Relationship
  1. A particular slide catching your eye?

    Clipping is a handy way to collect important slides you want to go back to later.

×