A Power Point Presentation offering some tips to help one cope with stress. Done by Bro. Oh Teik Bin, Lower Perak Buddhist Association, Teluk Intan, Perak, Malaysia. Please download for some
A Power Point Presentation offering some tips to help one cope with stress. Done by Bro. Oh Teik Bin, Lower Perak Buddhist Association, Teluk Intan, Perak, Malaysia. Please download for some background music and animation effects.
The way we see things and our attitude are very important in determining how prone we are towards stress. Understand important things such as these : Nothing remains unchanged. Nobody is perfect. Nothing is perfect. There will be always degrees of unsatisfactoriness, conflict, problems and pain. We can’t always get the things we want; sometimes things we don’t want do fall upon us.
Right Views certainly will help us face up with the stresses and pressures of modern life.
No two individuals are the same and they do not have the same capabilities, talents and potentialities. Targeting goals which are beyond us will set undue stress upon ourselves. Eliminate over-ambition and unrealistic expectations. Having set realistic goals, we just need to do our best. It does not matter if not all goals can be realized. It is not the end of things. We can always try again. Don’t Set Unrealistic Goals
As long as we do our best to realize our potential, what others achieve or attain should not worry or trouble us. In fact, all feelings of jealousy, envy and enmity are indeed stressful. It would be very good and positive if we can rejoice at the success of others. Learn to share with them their joys of success. If we get inspiration from others’ success and achievements , then it is positive. Stop comparing with others
It is a fact of life that sometimes we meet with things we don’t want and don’t meet with things we want. Everybody experiences this. Learn to accept things more wisely, with calmness and equanimity. Of course, this takes practice and constant reflection. Our thinking, reactions and attitudes don’t just change overnight. Have patience – allow time for our wisdom to grow and develop. Learn To Accept Inevitable Things
Indecisiveness very often leads to states of tension--anxiety , restlessness, insomnia and other problems can set in. Have the courage to decide after having considered all aspects of the issue or problem, the pros and cons. Of course, there is always an element of uncertainty and we may err. Take that decision and be with it ! What is the worst scenario ? We make a mistake. So what ? We can perhaps learn a valuable lesson of life and we can rise again ! Make Decisions When You Need To
No one is free from problems. Faced with a problem, take time to think and analyze the problem through. What is the actual problem ? What are the causes of this problem ? What steps can I or should I take to resolve the problem ? Having come out with a strategy or plan, then we must ensure that we ourselves implement or execute the plan. Think Problems Through
We can land ourselves into a real mess and get stressed if we don’t care to plan and organize the things we do. More mishaps, accidents and error are liable to occur bringing regret, remorse and tension. When we learn to be more neat, orderly, systematic and organized , our work environment becomes better and our mental states improve. Plan And Organize
Don’t rush, hurry and worry. The mind cannot handle so many things at one go. Faced with many tasks at hand, learn to do or take one thing at a time and doing that thing mindfully is important. Too many people get stressed up because they try to do too many things at one time. Remember : Even super computers can and do break down. Take One Thing At A Time
Procrastinating things and doing things at the last moment generate unnecessary stress. We tense up if we have to work against the clock to meet deadlines. Our effectiveness and efficiency can slide and our physical and mental health can be adversely affected. Learn to schedule your time and work . Procrastination is a bad habit that needs to be got rid of. Avoid Procrastination
When we are faced with problems that we cannot resolve, it is good to talk things over with our parents, teachers, friends and counselors. No man is an island. Sometimes we need to open up or get the load off our chests. We must learn to let go negative thoughts and feelings that weigh us down. Our minds will then become clear and our hearts light. Don’t Bottle Up Feelings
We are not machines. After hours of work or study we need breaks or rests. The body that is weary or exhausted and the mind that is fatigued cannot function properly or efficiently. A study program or schedule must incorporate into it periods of rest. Rest allows the body and mind to be recharged and be ready to take on the coming tasks and challenges. Rest Adequately
Physical exercises are indeed great stress relievers. Be it walking, jogging, swimming or playing a game, a work-out can work wonders to make us feel fresh, alert, energetic and positive. People in sedentary jobs or students who do long hours of academic study in particular need to do physical exercises regularly to maintain their physical and mental health. Exercise regularly
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. How very true this is ! There is always a time for play no matter how busy we are. Take that holiday that you need and pursue that hobby you have always wanted. Stop making that excuse “No Time” when in actual fact we want to win that ‘Rat Race’ and just cannot let go. Beware ! There is a heavy price to pay. We may be stressed out of action. Have Recreational Activities And Hobbies
Nutrition plays an important part for our physical and mental health. Remember the saying, “Health is more important than wealth.” When we fall sick , oftentimes we feel down, upset and depressed. We have to ensure that we take regular meals following sound nutritional principles. Beware of fatty, sugary and junk food . Take A Balanced Diet
If we develop a sense of humor, we can learn not to take things too seriously. This can greatly help to reduce tension. Laughter is indeed a tremendous stress antidote. Enjoy yourself reading a good humor book , watching a comedy movie or video and cracking jokes with your friends. You will be surprised that indeed “Laughter is the best Medicine for many an ‘illness’. Have a sense of humor
Arnold Bennett once said, “ The best cure for worry, depression, melancholy, brooding, is to go deliberately forth and try to lift with one’s sympathy, the gloom of somebody else.” A reaching out to others in need reduces self-centeredness. The more we cut the ‘self’ the less stress the self can feel. A great sense of peace and happiness has come to many who devote their lives in selfless charity work for others. Lend A Helping Hand
Negative thoughts that arise in our minds should be constantly watched and cast out. They bring us down. Thoughts of greed, attachment should be replaced by generosity, charity; anger, aversion, ill-will by love and compassion. The habit of wishing others well and making positive affirmations such as I am happy, I am peaceful, I can succeed, I am well and healthy and so on can go a long way to improve our mental health. Think Good Thoughts
From time to time and particularly when we feel stressed or pressured, the practice of good relaxation techniques can help greatly. Learn to watch your breath ; take deep breaths and exhale slowly. Listening to music, reading, practicing Yoga, Tai Chi and so on are wonderful relaxation techniques . Meditation and visualization techniques where we picture ourselves relaxed in peaceful, serene and beautiful places like a beach, garden or a mountain are proven methods to reduce stress. Practice Relaxation Techniques
The End May You Be Free From All Stress When You Realize What Is Best! With Metta, Bro. Oh Teik Bin