A Collection
Of LIFE Lessons

OH TEIK BIN
A
Collection
Of
LIFE Lessons
Oh Teik Bin
ii
THE GIFT OF DHAMMA SURPASSES ALL OTHER GIFTS
Title: A Collection Of LIFE Lessons
Author: Oh Teik Bin
Teluk Intan, Perak...
iii
DEDICATION
“A Collection Of LIFE Lessons”
is dedicated in ever loving memory of
My late Parents
OH KHAY LENG ( 1924 – ...
iv
CONTENTS
Dedication/Acknowledgements
Preface
1
I Have Learned…
2
Gems Of Wisdom
3
Food For Thought From The Aliens
4
Hu...
28
29
30

I Feel A Great Friend Would…
Contemplation. Aspiration…
Miscellaneous

v

196
205
211

Preface
My previous Dhamm...
May All Beings Be Well And Happy!

1

OH TEIK BIN

1

I HAVE LEARNED…

I’ve learned….
That happiness and sorrow
are part a...
2
3
4
5
6
2

GEMS OF WISDOM
7
8
9
10
11
12
13
3

FOOD FOR THOUGHT FROM THE ALIENS
14
15
16
17
18
19
20
4

HUMOR AND WISDOM
21
22

So far as he is concerned, a
friend in need is a friend to
keep away from
23
24
25
26
27
28
5

LEARNING FROM HUMOR AND INSULTS
29
30
31
32
33
6

MAY I REFLECT…

34
35
36
37
38
39
40
41
42
7

MY WISE TEACHER SAYS…
43
44
45
46
47
48
49
50
51
52
53
8

WESAK ASPIRATIONS
54
55
56
57
58
59
60
61
62
63
64
65
9

WHAT THE BUDDHA SAID ON WAKEFULNESS
66
67
68
69
70
71
72
10

WISDOM TELLS ME THAT…
73
74
75
76
77
78
79
80
81
11

Wise Child, Great Thoughts
82
83
84
85
86
87
88
89
90
91
92
12

GREAT MINDS, GREAT THOUGHTS
93
94
95
96

Leo
Tolstoy
97

Abraham
Lincoln
98

Swami
Vivekananda
99

Charles
Dickens
100

William
Shakespeare
101
102
13

YOUR VIEWS, BUDDHA’S VIEWS
103
104
105
106
107
108
14

SUPERHEROES’ THOUGHTS
109
110
111

Great things cannot
be achieved quickly.
Patience is needed
undoubtedly.
112
113
114
115
116
117
15

ISN’T IT SO… PONDERINGS
118
119
120
121
122
123
16

PRICELESS LIFE LESSONS I’VE LEARNED…
124
125
126
127
128
17

OF VIRTUES AND VALUES

1

1 The dangers of intoxicating drinks are very real. Apart from threatening one’s
physica...
129

Any sexual misconduct (adultery, rape, sexual exploitation and so on) will eventually
bring pain to the transgressor ...
130

When one does not observe the rules of morality
one will fall into states of sorrow and misery.
Greed, Hatred and Delusion are the ‘Devils’ within
That are the true root cause of Dukkha or suffering.
131

Parents have ...
132
133
134
18

PICKS OF PECULIAR PICS
135
136
137
138
139
140
19

A DEVA ASKS …
141
142
143
144
145
146
20

GOOD MENTAL FOOD
147
148
149
150
151
152
153
154
155
156
157
21

20 FAVORITE CHINESE PROVERBS
158
159
160
A gem is not polished without rubbing,
161
nor a man perfected without trials.
162
163
22

INSIGHTS FROM CLEVER QUIPS
164
165
166
167
168
169
170
171
23

WHAT HAVE WE DONE TODAY?
172
173
174
24

WISE ONES, WISE THOUGHTS
175
176
177
178
179
25

SPIRITUAL TONICS
180
181
182
183
184
26

SO, WHAT WILL MATTER…?
185
186
187
188
189
190
27

YOUR CONSTANT COMPANION
191
192
193
194
195
196
28

I FEEL A GREAT FRIEND WOULD…
197
198
199
200
201
202
203
204
205
29

CONTEMPLATION, ASPIRATION…
206
207
208
209
210
211
30

MISCELLANEOUS

1

Beware of the Ego! One who is filled with pride, conceit and is boastful cannot
relate well with...
212
212

Being mindful in our thoughts, speech and actions is a most important quality of the
mind. A lack of mindfulness ...
213

The unmindful person oftentimes makes foolish mistakes in his speech and deeds.
This affects adversely his interactio...
214
214

Reflection
Reflection
Educating the young ones requires much skill and patience.
Educating the young ones require...
215

Reflection

Modern kids are smarter than you think.
Creative and wise ways are needed to educate them.
216
217

We have to be very mindful of
our speech.

Spiritual people have a sense of
humor. They don’t bear grudges
against an...
218

When we repeatedly do good
deeds, we will grow spiritually.

A mind that is trained and
directed well will attain
hap...
219

No one is free from faults and
making mistakes at times. We learn
and grow from them.

Love, kindness and compassion
...
To err is Human;
To forgive Divine

220

“Winners never quit;
Quitters never win.”
Notes
Dedication
In Ever Loving Memory Of
Our Beloved Parents

Oh Khay Leng
1924 - 1999

Lim Saw Ghim
1924 - 2012

May they rejo...
With Metta,
Oh Teik Bin, Brothers and Sister
And All In The Family
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  1. 1. A Collection Of LIFE Lessons OH TEIK BIN
  2. 2. A Collection Of LIFE Lessons Oh Teik Bin
  3. 3. ii THE GIFT OF DHAMMA SURPASSES ALL OTHER GIFTS Title: A Collection Of LIFE Lessons Author: Oh Teik Bin Teluk Intan, Perak, Malaysia Front and back cover by Oh Teik Bin Email: ohteikbin@gmail.com Printed for free distribution This edition (2014) : 1000 copies Not For Sale This Dhamma Dana book is a gift, printed solely for free distribution. Lots of other educational and Dhamma material by the same author are available at the following Websites: http://ohteikbin.weebly.com www.dhammatelukintan.blogspot.com www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin www.youtube.com/user/ohlifelessons www.toondoo.com/user/bteikoh www.scribd.com/teikbin http://engagedbuddhists.ning.com/profile/ohteikbin www.twitter.com/TBroh www.facebook.com/ohteikbin No copyright is applicable to this publication and any organizations, societies or individuals are welcome to reprint part or all of it. However, such reprints must be for free distribution. It would be appreciated if the author could be informed by email of any reprint. Printed by: Majujaya Indah Sdn. Bhd (85902-U) 68 Jalan 14E Ampang New Village 68000 Selangor Darul Ehsan, Kuala Lumpir, Malaysia Tel: 03-42916001
  4. 4. iii DEDICATION “A Collection Of LIFE Lessons” is dedicated in ever loving memory of My late Parents OH KHAY LENG ( 1924 – 1999 ) LIM SAW GHIM ( 1924 – 2012 ) ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS My sincere thanks and gratitude go to the following: All Sangha and lay members who have taught the sublime Dhamma and valuable LIFE LESSONS at Persatuan Buddhist Hilir Perak, Teluk Intan since 1987 All my friends who have in one way or other contributed to my growth in the Dhamma This book has been sponsored for free distribution by The Children of Mr. & Mrs. Oh Khay Leng All Other Family Members DEDICATION OF MERITS May all beings share in the merits of this Dhamma Dana. May they find happiness, peace and liberation.
  5. 5. iv CONTENTS Dedication/Acknowledgements Preface 1 I Have Learned… 2 Gems Of Wisdom 3 Food For Thought From The Aliens 4 Humor And Wisdom 5 Learning From Humor And Insults 6 May I Reflect… 7 My Wise Teacher Says… 8 Wesak Aspirations 9 What The Buddha Said On Wakefulness 10 Wisdom Tells Me That… 11 Wise Child, Great Thoughts 1 6 13 20 28 34 42 53 65 72 81 12 13 Great Minds, Great Thoughts Your Views, Buddha’s Views 92 102 14 15 16 Superheroes’ Thoughts Isn’t It So…Ponderings Priceless LIFE Lessons I’ve Learned… 108 117 123 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 Of Virtues And Values Picks Of Peculiar Pics A Deva Asks… Good Mental Food 20 Favorite Chinese Proverbs Insights From Clever Quips What Have We Done Today? Wise Ones, Wise Thoughts Spiritual Tonics So What Will Matter…? Your Constant Companion 128 134 140 146 157 163 171 174 179 184 190
  6. 6. 28 29 30 I Feel A Great Friend Would… Contemplation. Aspiration… Miscellaneous v 196 205 211 Preface My previous Dhamma / Motivational / Inspirational books for free distribution, namely • Dhamma Matters • ‘Why Like That One?’ • LIFE Lessons With Power Points • More LIFE Lessons To Learn • Thoughtful Twitter Tweets To Treasure have received rather good and encouraging feedback. Some readers emailed to say they have benefited from the different chapters in the books. All this spurred me to write more LIFE Lessons that can help the young and old to grow in happiness, peace, compassion, wisdom and freedom of the mind. A Collection of LIFE Lessons is a Dhamma / Educational book of 30 Chapters containing contents that aim to * help spread important points and messages of the sublime Dhamma * inculcate virtues and good moral values particularly among children, students and youths * convey invaluable LIFE Lessons in our troubled times of growing anxiety, insecurity and stress A Collection of LIFE Lessons is written in a pictorial and graphic way to make for easy reading. Today, in a time when most people especially the younger generation are hooked on things like Facebook, Smart phones, online games, internet chat and the attractions of the iPad, iPod and so on, the reading of books that are wordy and filled with textual writings has lost its appeal. It is hoped that the format of A Collection of LIFE Lessons will draw more readers to learn LIFE Lessons. Most of the contents in the book have been drawn from my postings on the following Web Sites: • • www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/presentations www.toondoo.com/user/bteikoh
  7. 7. May All Beings Be Well And Happy! 1 OH TEIK BIN 1 I HAVE LEARNED… I’ve learned…. That happiness and sorrow are part and parcel of life.
  8. 8. 2
  9. 9. 3
  10. 10. 4
  11. 11. 5
  12. 12. 6 2 GEMS OF WISDOM
  13. 13. 7
  14. 14. 8
  15. 15. 9
  16. 16. 10
  17. 17. 11
  18. 18. 12
  19. 19. 13 3 FOOD FOR THOUGHT FROM THE ALIENS
  20. 20. 14
  21. 21. 15
  22. 22. 16
  23. 23. 17
  24. 24. 18
  25. 25. 19
  26. 26. 20 4 HUMOR AND WISDOM
  27. 27. 21
  28. 28. 22 So far as he is concerned, a friend in need is a friend to keep away from
  29. 29. 23
  30. 30. 24
  31. 31. 25
  32. 32. 26
  33. 33. 27
  34. 34. 28 5 LEARNING FROM HUMOR AND INSULTS
  35. 35. 29
  36. 36. 30
  37. 37. 31
  38. 38. 32
  39. 39. 33
  40. 40. 6 MAY I REFLECT… 34
  41. 41. 35
  42. 42. 36
  43. 43. 37
  44. 44. 38
  45. 45. 39
  46. 46. 40
  47. 47. 41
  48. 48. 42 7 MY WISE TEACHER SAYS…
  49. 49. 43
  50. 50. 44
  51. 51. 45
  52. 52. 46
  53. 53. 47
  54. 54. 48
  55. 55. 49
  56. 56. 50
  57. 57. 51
  58. 58. 52
  59. 59. 53 8 WESAK ASPIRATIONS
  60. 60. 54
  61. 61. 55
  62. 62. 56
  63. 63. 57
  64. 64. 58
  65. 65. 59
  66. 66. 60
  67. 67. 61
  68. 68. 62
  69. 69. 63
  70. 70. 64
  71. 71. 65 9 WHAT THE BUDDHA SAID ON WAKEFULNESS
  72. 72. 66
  73. 73. 67
  74. 74. 68
  75. 75. 69
  76. 76. 70
  77. 77. 71
  78. 78. 72 10 WISDOM TELLS ME THAT…
  79. 79. 73
  80. 80. 74
  81. 81. 75
  82. 82. 76
  83. 83. 77
  84. 84. 78
  85. 85. 79
  86. 86. 80
  87. 87. 81 11 Wise Child, Great Thoughts
  88. 88. 82
  89. 89. 83
  90. 90. 84
  91. 91. 85
  92. 92. 86
  93. 93. 87
  94. 94. 88
  95. 95. 89
  96. 96. 90
  97. 97. 91
  98. 98. 92 12 GREAT MINDS, GREAT THOUGHTS
  99. 99. 93
  100. 100. 94
  101. 101. 95
  102. 102. 96 Leo Tolstoy
  103. 103. 97 Abraham Lincoln
  104. 104. 98 Swami Vivekananda
  105. 105. 99 Charles Dickens
  106. 106. 100 William Shakespeare
  107. 107. 101
  108. 108. 102 13 YOUR VIEWS, BUDDHA’S VIEWS
  109. 109. 103
  110. 110. 104
  111. 111. 105
  112. 112. 106
  113. 113. 107
  114. 114. 108 14 SUPERHEROES’ THOUGHTS
  115. 115. 109
  116. 116. 110
  117. 117. 111 Great things cannot be achieved quickly. Patience is needed undoubtedly.
  118. 118. 112
  119. 119. 113
  120. 120. 114
  121. 121. 115
  122. 122. 116
  123. 123. 117 15 ISN’T IT SO… PONDERINGS
  124. 124. 118
  125. 125. 119
  126. 126. 120
  127. 127. 121
  128. 128. 122
  129. 129. 123 16 PRICELESS LIFE LESSONS I’VE LEARNED…
  130. 130. 124
  131. 131. 125
  132. 132. 126
  133. 133. 127
  134. 134. 128 17 OF VIRTUES AND VALUES 1 1 The dangers of intoxicating drinks are very real. Apart from threatening one’s physical health, intoxicants cause the mind to be heedless. 2 Beware of your unwholesome desires. When one cannot accept the reality of ageing, one will suffer from the defilements of desire, greed, lust and craving.
  135. 135. 129 Any sexual misconduct (adultery, rape, sexual exploitation and so on) will eventually bring pain to the transgressor and the victims. We must practice the precept or training rule of refraining from sexual misconduct. Do not betray relationships. Practice contentment.
  136. 136. 130 When one does not observe the rules of morality one will fall into states of sorrow and misery.
  137. 137. Greed, Hatred and Delusion are the ‘Devils’ within That are the true root cause of Dukkha or suffering. 131 Parents have to show exemplary behavior to their children. The young ones catch the vices of greed, lust and anger pretty easily. Unwholesome speech or actions have consequences which will cause hurt, anger or illwill to other people who in turn can react or retaliate against the mindless one.
  138. 138. 132
  139. 139. 133
  140. 140. 134 18 PICKS OF PECULIAR PICS
  141. 141. 135
  142. 142. 136
  143. 143. 137
  144. 144. 138
  145. 145. 139
  146. 146. 140 19 A DEVA ASKS …
  147. 147. 141
  148. 148. 142
  149. 149. 143
  150. 150. 144
  151. 151. 145
  152. 152. 146 20 GOOD MENTAL FOOD
  153. 153. 147
  154. 154. 148
  155. 155. 149
  156. 156. 150
  157. 157. 151
  158. 158. 152
  159. 159. 153
  160. 160. 154
  161. 161. 155
  162. 162. 156
  163. 163. 157 21 20 FAVORITE CHINESE PROVERBS
  164. 164. 158
  165. 165. 159
  166. 166. 160
  167. 167. A gem is not polished without rubbing, 161 nor a man perfected without trials.
  168. 168. 162
  169. 169. 163 22 INSIGHTS FROM CLEVER QUIPS
  170. 170. 164
  171. 171. 165
  172. 172. 166
  173. 173. 167
  174. 174. 168
  175. 175. 169
  176. 176. 170
  177. 177. 171 23 WHAT HAVE WE DONE TODAY?
  178. 178. 172
  179. 179. 173
  180. 180. 174 24 WISE ONES, WISE THOUGHTS
  181. 181. 175
  182. 182. 176
  183. 183. 177
  184. 184. 178
  185. 185. 179 25 SPIRITUAL TONICS
  186. 186. 180
  187. 187. 181
  188. 188. 182
  189. 189. 183
  190. 190. 184 26 SO, WHAT WILL MATTER…?
  191. 191. 185
  192. 192. 186
  193. 193. 187
  194. 194. 188
  195. 195. 189
  196. 196. 190 27 YOUR CONSTANT COMPANION
  197. 197. 191
  198. 198. 192
  199. 199. 193
  200. 200. 194
  201. 201. 195
  202. 202. 196 28 I FEEL A GREAT FRIEND WOULD…
  203. 203. 197
  204. 204. 198
  205. 205. 199
  206. 206. 200
  207. 207. 201
  208. 208. 202
  209. 209. 203
  210. 210. 204
  211. 211. 205 29 CONTEMPLATION, ASPIRATION…
  212. 212. 206
  213. 213. 207
  214. 214. 208
  215. 215. 209
  216. 216. 210
  217. 217. 211 30 MISCELLANEOUS 1 Beware of the Ego! One who is filled with pride, conceit and is boastful cannot relate well with others. Humility is a good virtue to practice. One who has a big ego will suffer within. He will also cause much suffering to others. Diminishing the ‘I’ and ‘Mine’ will bring much peace to the mind.
  218. 218. 212 212 Being mindful in our thoughts, speech and actions is a most important quality of the mind. A lack of mindfulness can lead to much suffering. Poor memory arising out of a lack of attention in what we hear or observe can bring about trouble and conflict to oneself and to others.
  219. 219. 213 The unmindful person oftentimes makes foolish mistakes in his speech and deeds. This affects adversely his interaction with others. Taking intoxicants can lead to one losing his heedfulness. He then can speak or act in ways where he would regret later. Keep your mind clear by not taking intoxicants.
  220. 220. 214 214 Reflection Reflection Educating the young ones requires much skill and patience. Educating the young ones requires much skill and patience.
  221. 221. 215 Reflection Modern kids are smarter than you think. Creative and wise ways are needed to educate them.
  222. 222. 216
  223. 223. 217 We have to be very mindful of our speech. Spiritual people have a sense of humor. They don’t bear grudges against another.
  224. 224. 218 When we repeatedly do good deeds, we will grow spiritually. A mind that is trained and directed well will attain happiness and peace.
  225. 225. 219 No one is free from faults and making mistakes at times. We learn and grow from them. Love, kindness and compassion are high spiritual qualities we must develop.
  226. 226. To err is Human; To forgive Divine 220 “Winners never quit; Quitters never win.”
  227. 227. Notes
  228. 228. Dedication In Ever Loving Memory Of Our Beloved Parents Oh Khay Leng 1924 - 1999 Lim Saw Ghim 1924 - 2012 May they rejoice in the merits of this Dhamma Dana and may they attain The Bliss of Nibbana. Sadhu! Sadhu! Sadhu!
  229. 229. With Metta, Oh Teik Bin, Brothers and Sister And All In The Family A Collection of LIFE Lessons is a Dhamma / Educational book of 30 Chapters containing contents that aim to * help spread important points and messages of the sublime Dhamma * inculcate virtues and good moral values particularly among children, students and youths * convey invaluable LIFE Lessons in our troubled times of growing anxiety, insecurity and stress A Collection of LIFE Lessons is written in a pictorial and graphic way to make for easy reading. Today, in a time when most people especially the younger generation are hooked on things like Facebook, Smart phones, online games, internet chat and the attractions of the iPad, iPod and so on, the reading of books that are wordy and filled with textual writings has lost its appeal. It is hoped that the format of A Collection of LIFE Lessons will draw more readers to learn LIFE Lessons. Most of the contents in the book have been drawn from my postings on the following Web Sites: • www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/presentations • www.toondoo.com/user/bteikoh About the Author Oh Teik Bin is a retired teacher and has been involved in Dhammaduta work for more than 25 years at Persatuan Buddhist Hilir Perak, Teluk Intan. His Dhammaduta and outreach services include guidance classes, community library work, Buddhist Sunday School, Dhamma classes, Youth Camps, Dhamma sharing and Buddhist wake chanting services. Over the Internet, Oh Teik Bin has posted lots of Dhamma and educational material at: http://ohteikbin.weebly.com www.dhammatelukintan.blogspot.com www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin www.youtube.com/ohlifelessons www.toondoo.com/user/bteikoh www.scribd.com/teikbin http://engagedbuddhists.ning.com/profile/ohteikbin www.twitter.com/TBroh He can be contacted at Facebook and ohteikbin@gmail.com

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