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Learn more at http://txtyourex.org/ So glad I found your TXB program... I started with -I'm thinking about...- and he totally took the bait. Thank you so much for your great Text From My Ex program! ...

Learn more at http://txtyourex.org/ So glad I found your TXB program... I started with -I'm thinking about...- and he totally took the bait. Thank you so much for your great Text From My Ex program! Elizabeth S.

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    • Text Your Ex Back - How To Create An Effective First Text Text messages always seem to be at the center of controversy when it comes to relationshipsand learning how to get your ex back. Some so called "experts" suggest any attempt to text yourex back after a breakup is a bad idea. Others see text messaging as a very powerful way toreconnect and build a new relationship with your ex.So whos right and whos wrong?Well, bothand neither. The question of right and wrong isnt really the right question to ask.Trying to text yourex back after a breakup can be both a good idea or a bad one depending on how you go about it.Text messaging itself isnt bad, but most people go about it the wrong way and end up comingacross as needy, desperate, and insecure or they put too much pressure on their ex through themessages they send and end up pushing them further away.Text Your Ex Back - How To CraftYour First Few Text MessagesWhen you start sending text messages to your ex, youll have muchbetter success if you focus on a few key points. These are:1.) Avoid nothing texts.2.) Create apositive experience.3.) Offer a subtle compliment.4.) Avoid putting pressure on your ex torespond.First, when trying to text your ex back, you want to avoid sending "nothing" texts. Theseare texts like "Hi" or "Hey, whats up?" that dont really say anything. If its something youd shootyour buddy when youre bored, then its probably a nothing text.Here are some example textmessages that are much better alternatives.1.) "I just heard Katy Perry is coming to Seattle thissummer. It made me smile because I bet youre super excited. Hope youre doing great."2.) "I justsaw the cutest kittens at the pet store. It made me think of you because I know how much you lovethose little furballs. I hope youre having a fantastic weekend."3.) "I just watched the new JeffDunham comedy show. It really made me laugh thinking about your Achmed impression. Im gladwere still friends."Do you see a pattern emerging? All these texts have several things incommon.First, they suggest you stumbled upon something positive that made you think of your ex(the positive experience). Next, they offer a subtle compliment. The key word here is "subtle".Youdont want to come out and say something like, "Youre so super hot." Instead, the complimenthere is something to the effect of "thinking about you made me smile or laugh".Lastly, the abovetext message examples dont put any pressure on your ex to respond. They dont ask a question.They dont talk about the relationship. If your ex responds, cool. If not, no big deal. Theres nopressure.When trying to text your ex back, the goal of the first few messages isnt to get aresponse or to try and repair your old relationship. Its to get your ex to think about you in apositive light so you can begin to open them up to the idea of being in a new, better relationshipwith you.text your ex