Nick Mandel Leading Yourself So You Can Lead Others

Leading Ourselves so We Can Lead Others How can we better lead ourselves How can we influence others so they want to be lead by us Putting First Things First in Leading Ourselves Why Should Anyone Want to be Led by You?

Leading Ourselves so We Can Lead Others

How can we better lead ourselves

How can we influence others so they

want to be lead by us

Putting First Things First in Leading Ourselves

Why Should Anyone Want to be Led by You?

How Can We Better Lead Ourselves? Family & Friends Health & Fitness Personal Self Growth Career and Education Budget & Finance Other? Your Life Your Name Spouse Son or daughter Parents or Close Friends Promotion or New Position Upgrade in Training/ Certification Spiritual/ Religious New Hobby Vacation Time Too Much Debt Volunteer / Community Holiday & Entertainment Expenses Exercise Diet

How Can We Better Lead Ourselves? Family & Friends Health & Fitness Personal Self Growth Career and Education Budget & Finance Nick’s Life Daughter – Out of State / Recent College Grad Difficulty finding suitable employment Brother-in-Law, Health Concerns & Surgery Update Resume Prepare proposals for SFCC & Other Organizations Goal Planning 2009 Increase Savings Finish reading book Budget for upcoming Holiday & Entertainment Expenses Annual Physical Diet & Exercise- exceeding idea weight Two Runs before end of year Create Website/Blogging Page New Training Courses Wife- more time

Our Circle of Influence………. My Life Circle of Control Circle of Concern Circle of Influence Family Direct Reports Co-workers Church or Civic Global Warming Financial Credit Crisis New Director / Supervisor If we do not develop our own self-awareness and become responsible for first creations, we empower other people and circumstances outside our Circle of Influence to shape much of our lives by default ~Stephen R. Covey

Family

Direct Reports

Co-workers

Church or Civic

Global Warming

Financial Credit Crisis

New Director / Supervisor

Our Circle of Influence………. My Life- What I Control Circle of Concern- What you care about Circle of Influence- What you can do something about Family Direct Reports Co-workers Church or Civic New Boss/ Personnel Changes National Economy & Impact on your Finances Presidential / Local Elections

I -Urgent/Important II- Not Urgent/ Important III-Urgent/Not Important IV-Not Urgent/Not Important Leading Yourself to Lead Others Put First Things First

I -Urgent/Important II- Not Urgent/ Important III-Urgent/Not Important IV-Not Urgent/Not Important Leading Yourself to Lead Others Put First Things First Report due to Supervisor-today Child Sick – needs attention Upcoming Family Issues End of the year closeouts Alarm Clocking Ringing Meeting You Don’t need to Attend Dancing w/ the Stars Opening Junk Mail Watching NFL Football Planning & Preparation for 2009

Leading Yourself to Lead Others YOUR LIFE OTHER VALUES IMPORTANT TO YOUR LIFE PERSONAL SELF-ESTEEM & DEVELOPMENT SPIRITUAL FINANCES & BUDGET HEALTH & FITNESS FAMILY & FRIENDS Source- Jim Rohn & Dr. Charles Maxwell JOB & CAREER

Leading Yourself to Lead Others YOUR LIFE SPIRITUAL FINANCES & BUDGET HEALTH & FITNESS FAMILY & FRIENDS JOB & CAREER OTHER VALUES IMPORTANT TO YOUR LIFE PERSONAL SELF-ESTEEM & DEVELOPMENT Circle of Influence Circle of Concern

Leading Yourself to Lead Others YOUR LIFE SPIRITUAL FINANCES & BUDGET HEALTH & FITNESS FAMILY & FRIENDS JOB & CAREER OTHER VALUES IMPORTANT TO YOUR LIFE PERSONAL SELF-ESTEEM & DEVELOPMENT Urgent/ Important Not Urgent Important Urgent/ Not Important Not Urgent/ Not Important Goal #1 Goal #2 Goal #3

A leader is... someone you choose to follow to a place you wouldn’t go by yourself. Why Should Anyone be Led by You?

Why Should Anyone be Led by You? Level 5 Leadership Jim Collins, “Good to Great”

Level 5 Leadership

Jim Collins,

“Good to Great”

Level 5 Leadership Personal Humility but Professional Will, Ambitious, for the organization Foremost, Set up successors for greater success, Driven to produce sustained results

Personal Humility but Professional Will,

Ambitious, for the organization Foremost,

Set up successors for greater success,

Driven to produce sustained results

Characteristics of a leader Loyalty Compassion Communication Courage Commitment Trust Integrity Inspiration Why Should Anyone be Led by You?

Characteristics of a leader

Leading Ourselves so We Can Lead Others How can we better lead ourselves How can we influence others so they want to be lead by us Putting First Things First in Leading Ourselves Why Should Anyone Want to be Led by You?

Leading Ourselves so We Can Lead Others

How can we better lead ourselves

How can we influence others so they

want to be lead by us

Putting First Things First in Leading Ourselves

Why Should Anyone Want to be Led by You?

Leading Ourselves so We Can Lead Others Be Better Leader of Ourselves to be Leader of Others Consider Our Circle of Influence so we can Better Influence Those we Care About Put Our First Things First in Leading Ourselves to Lead Others Be a Leader of Integrity so Others will Willingly Follow