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    • Heart of Loneliness
      By: Stephanie Nielson
    • Abstract
      To discuss how each of the six personality theories view loneliness and where it comes from
      To understand that loneliness is a new topic to many researchers and it is currently being studied
      To look at what loneliness is, what is being studied, how it is studied, and how it relates to individuals
    • Heart of Loneliness(What is Loneliness?)
      Loneliness is the feeling of being alone, even in a group setting
      The seemingly simple, yet truly complex, feeling of being distant from those around you, physically or emotionally
      “…a gnawing…chronic disease without redeeming features”’ which may occur when one’s intimate and social needs are not adequately met” (Boomsma, Cacioppo, Slagboom, & Posthuma, 2006).
      “Loneliness is an emotional condition that affects virtually all people from time to time and which is accompanied by such intensity that people sometimes do regrettable things to offset it’s influence” (Booth 2001).
    • To Sum up Loneliness
      Richard Booth states, “Loneliness can be found in every therapist’s office, every classroom, every workplace, and every clinic and hospital. Every family system experiences it, somehow deals with it, and proceeds with the rest of life. Yet, how many people have the skills necessary to confront the condition straightforwardly in their own lives, not to speak of the lives of family members, students, clients, and colleagues? Indeed, when this vague although pervasive phenomenon pushes itself to the fore, who can identify it so readily and correctly that it is not confused with moodiness, fleeting bad temper, depression, and even anger of global negativity? What is loneliness, and is it a condition apart from the other conditions just mentioned?” (Booth, 2001).
    • Psychoanalytical Approach
      Each individual has an unconscious need to have people around them
      Loneliness is key to everything around us and comes about when this need is not met
      Men are taught to keep others at a distance, goes against this unconscious desire
      Depicted in literature, could be a part of our collective unconscious as first discussed by Jung
      We have an unconscious need to be with others but our collective unconscious argues that loneliness is a part of who we are
      Advantages
      Appears accurate; people seem to need others in their life
      Society tells us how to ‘have friends’
      One person can change someone’s life
      Disadvantages
      Hard to test the unconscious mind
      Difficult to access the validity of the research because it cannot be measures with objects
    • Trait Approach
      Everyone has experience loneliness to some degree; people fall between rarely feeling lonely or severe loneliness
      Children experience loneliness as well as adults, appears at an early age
      Affects health: larger BMI, anxiety, depression, etc.
      Discusses the idea that each person falls on a different scale of this concept
      Advantages
      Shows a scale of loneliness, not ‘one size fits all’; no two people are the same, we are each an individual who feels and experiences different things
      Disadvantages
      Hard to measure if loneliness is specifically a trait or a relative of depression
    • Biological Approach
      Research is being done to see if certain chromosomes contain loneliness; could be genetic
      Men tend to either fight loneliness head on or distance themselves from people while women try to live with it
      There is a 48% chance that loneliness is hereditary
      Could relate back to people thousands of years ago who had to fight to stay alive, rejected others
      Advantages
      If loneliness is contained in a gene there could be a cure, which could help other biological issues like bipolar disorder, suicide, impaired sleep, etc.
      Could help further research on other emotional problems and advance the medical field
      Disadvantages
      Needs more study or research done; it is a relatively new idea that is not proven
    • Humanistic Approach
      Loneliness relates to social relationships, emotions, and the individual
      Being alone can be a good thing, time to relax and rest, but once loneliness is experience one chooses to no longer have those times alone
      Even children understood concepts of loneliness; they could be taught social skills on how to overcome this in their lives
      “It is perhaps in this silent loneliness that we paradoxically develop a greater understanding of togetherness” (Nilsson, Lindstrom, & Naden, 2006).
      Advantages
      People can choose to spend time alone or not; they can choose to overcome loneliness
      Individuals understand what they go through and can learn how it works, giving them opportunities to be responsible for themselves
      Disadvantages
      Abstract idea so it can be hard to measure how deep it goes or how social skills relate to this idea
      Hard to teach how to overcome loneliness in every situation
    • Behavioral & Social Learning Approach
      Being rejected once can lead to a fear of being rejected again; if it happens enough one learns to not bother with making friends
      The Internet teachers people to ‘be connected’ when really they are not having interactive social relationships with others
      Situations or environments can teach people how to distance themselves from others
      Advantages
      People do learn from experience, like this idea suggests
      Easier to see and measure in relation to loneliness
      Disadvantages
      More research should be done because of the relative newness of this concept in studies
      To understand this idea long-term studies should be done to relate social learning and loneliness
    • Cognitive Approach
      Different people view loneliness differently
      Hopelessness has been linked with loneliness
      “According to some research, lonely students are worried that they may not be accepted by other people, and therefore, they approach the relationships with wrong beliefs and cannot establish cordial relations” (Girgin, 2009).
      Because of beliefs one remains lonely when they so desire close relationships
      Advantages
      Studies done in middle schools and universities gave similar results showing a correlation between individuals and loneliness, despite age
      Disadvantages
      More research needed to verify reliability between people; repeat results of studies already done
    • Discussion
      Interesting topic and one I relate to because I have experienced sever loneliness
      Each approach made sense and apart from needed more research there were not many disadvantages that I saw
      I agree that loneliness has different levels and we have a need for relationships
      I think it is the heart of most every issue, people just don’t recognize that is what the real issue is
      If studied more it could help many people and what they are going through in life
      Lonely people should speak up when they feel alone rather than hide it and others should be willing to help them out
      People could help each other through this pain if they only recognized it
    • References
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      Boomsma, D., Cacioppo, J., Slagboom, P., & Posthuma, D. (2006). Genetic Linkage and Association Analysis for Loneliness in Dutch Twin and Sibling Pairs Points to a Region on Chromosome 12q23–24. Behavior Genetics, 36(1), 137-146. doi:10.1007/s10519-005-9005-z.
      Boomsma, D., Willemsen, G., Dolan, C., Hawkley, L., & Cacioppo, J. (2005). Genetic and Environmental Contributions to Loneliness in Adults: The Netherlands Twin Register Study. Behavior Genetics, 35(6), 745-752. doi:10.1007/s10519-005-6040-8.
      Booth, R. (1983). Toward an Understanding of Loneliness. Social Work, 28(2), 116-119. Retrieved from Academic Search Complete database.
      Chipuer, H. (2004). Australian children's understanding of loneliness. Australian Journal of Psychology, 56(3), 147-153. doi:10.1080/00049530412331283372.
      Coplan, R., Closson, L., & Arbeau, K. (2007). Gender differences in the behavioral associates of loneliness and social dissatisfaction in kindergarten. Journal of Child Psychology & Psychiatry, 48(10), 988-995. doi:10.1111/j.1469-7610.2007.01804.x.
      GİRGİN, G. (2009). EVALUATION OF THE FACTORS AFFECTING LONELINESS AND HOPELESSNESS AMONG UNIVERSITY STUDENTS IN TURKEY. Social Behavior & Personality: An International Journal, 37(6), 811-817. Retrieved from Academic Search Complete database.
      Hawkley, L., & Cacioppo, J. (2007). Aging and Loneliness: Downhill Quickly?. Current Directions in Psychological Science (Wiley-Blackwell), 16(4), 187-191. doi:10.1111/j.1467-8721.2007.00501.x.
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      Nilsson, B., Lindström, U., & Nåden, D. (2006). Is loneliness a psychological dysfunction? A literary study of the phenomenon of loneliness. Scandinavian Journal of Caring Sciences, 20(1), 93-101. doi:10.1111/j.1471-6712.2006.00386.x.
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