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Choices We Make

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What do you need to be positive? …

What do you need to be positive?
Are you born positive or is it developed?

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    • 1. How to Stay POSI + IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment
    • 2. The Environment YOU Beware the Bullets! Determinism Theory Negative World View Changing Environment Negative Work Environment Past Experiences Other People’s Behavior Ouch!
    • 3. <ul><li> “ Are some people just born positive thinkers </li></ul><ul><li>. . . or is it their CHOICE ?” </li></ul>Life’s Little Question
    • 4. Choose the Right Luggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof
    • 5. The Problem With Dodging Bullets You’re going to get hit!
    • 6. Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor
    • 7. Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE
    • 8. Putting on the Armor Change 3 Things!
    • 9. How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT!
    • 10. <ul><li>I am responsible . . . </li></ul><ul><li>. . . for who I am </li></ul><ul><li>. . . for what I have </li></ul><ul><li>. . . for what I do </li></ul>So . . . Accept Responsibility ATTITUDE
    • 11. Step #2 Take Control Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE
    • 12. How to Change Your Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation
    • 13. Observe Your Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. I’d like to beat the …
    • 14. Manage Your Self - Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT ! Henry Ford THINKING This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day!
    • 15. How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination &amp; discipline
    • 16. Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR Response My Response My Choice Stimulus Stimulus
    • 17. Steps Toward Changing Behavior <ul><li>1. Unconscious Incompetence </li></ul>2. Conscience Incompetence 3. Conscience Competence 4. Unconscious Competence BEHAVIOR The New YOU!
    • 18. Add POSI + IVE Behavior <ul><li>INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! </li></ul><ul><li>Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives </li></ul><ul><li>Focus on the good of each day </li></ul><ul><li>Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” </li></ul><ul><li>Say “please” and “thank you” </li></ul><ul><li>Practice EMPATHY </li></ul><ul><li>Evaluate YOUR behavior </li></ul><ul><li>Never miss an opportunity to complement </li></ul><ul><li>Spread a SMILE around </li></ul>Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR
    • 19. More POSI + IVE Contributions <ul><ul><li>1. Is it true? </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>2. Is it harmful? </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>3. Is it necessary? </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Keep promises </li></ul><ul><li>Have a forgiving view of people </li></ul><ul><li>Keep an open mind with changes </li></ul><ul><li>Count to 1000 if necessary </li></ul><ul><li>See criticism as opportunity to improve </li></ul><ul><li>Cultivate your sense of humor </li></ul><ul><li>Before you say anything to anyone, ask </li></ul><ul><li>yourself three things </li></ul>
    • 20. <ul><li>Watch your definitions - </li></ul><ul><li>they become thoughts </li></ul><ul><li>Watch your thoughts - </li></ul><ul><li>they become words </li></ul><ul><li>Watch your words - </li></ul><ul><li>they become actions </li></ul><ul><li>Watch your actions - </li></ul><ul><li>they become your destiny </li></ul>Remember to . . .
    • 21. The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day
    • 22. Choose POSI + IVE Living

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