Togetherness Relationships


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Togetherness Relationships

  1. 1. Relationships<br />Prepared by Miss Naugle<br />Winter 2010<br />
  2. 2. a relation between people; a state of <br />connectedness between people<br />(especially an emotional connection); <br />a state involving mutual dealings between <br />people or parties or countries; kinship.<br />Relationships<br />
  3. 3. Types of Relationships<br />4<br />Types<br />Good<br />Bad<br />Influential<br />Abusive<br />
  4. 4. Estimating, would you say most of your relationships with friends would be…<br />Good<br />Bad<br />Influential<br />Abusive<br />
  5. 5. Equal vs. Unequal Partners<br />The “power” of the relationship<br />Ages and age difference tend to influence “power” in relationship<br />Why are some older individuals<br />attracted to younger ones?<br />
  6. 6. If the ...<br />About power, have you ever been in an “uneven” relationship?<br />Yes<br />No<br />How can you change it?<br />
  7. 7. Qualities of a GOOD Relationship<br />
  8. 8. The Big<br />Trust<br />Honesty<br />Equality<br />Responsibility<br />4<br />
  9. 9. Which do you feel is most important in any relationship?<br />Honesty<br />Trust<br />Equality<br />Responsibility<br />
  10. 10. Maintaining the Good<br />It takes HARD work to stay in good and <br />healthy relationship. Every relationship<br />has problems, the important thing is to work <br />through them.<br />
  11. 11. Communication<br />Passive<br />“I think I might want to go there for dinner if you like.”<br />Aggressive<br />“We are going there, I don’t care you don’t like seafood.”<br />Assertive<br />“I would really like to go to Red Lobster, I know you don’t like seafood but they have other options as well.”<br />
  12. 12. Rules for Arguing<br />Use “I” statements<br />Argue the issue at hand<br />Volume control<br />Body language check<br />Say what you mean, mean <br />what you say<br />
  13. 13. Influential Relationships<br />A person that you will look to<br />Can be a positive and/or negative situations<br />Who influences you??<br />
  14. 14. Who positively influences you more?<br />Parents<br />Male Friends<br />Female Friends<br />Siblings<br />
  15. 15. Qualities of a BAD Relationship<br />
  16. 16. Template Provided By<br />Qualities of an<br />Abusive Relationship<br />
  17. 17. What are some “side effects” of bad and abusive relationships?<br />
  18. 18. Have you at some point in your life questioned your self-esteem?<br />Yes<br />No<br />
  19. 19. Abusive Relationships<br />Physical Abuse<br />Physical harm or pain on body<br />Emotional Abuse<br />Attacks self-esteem<br />Sexual Abuse<br />Sexual Harassment<br />Unwanted sexual overtone<br />Sexual Abuse<br />Sexual touch without consent<br />Sexual Assault<br />Sexual touch without consent and threat of violence<br />
  20. 20. power<br />TheAbuser<br />CONTROL<br />
  21. 21. The Abuse Cycle<br />
  22. 22. Have you ever been personally involved in an abusive relationship?<br />Yes<br />No<br />Abstain<br />
  23. 23. Have any of your friends been involved in an abusive situation?<br />Yes<br />No<br />Abstain<br />
  24. 24. Helping a Friend<br />Education<br />Expressing concern<br />Listening and believing<br />Don’t judge<br />Encourage without blame<br />Talk to trusted adult/counselor<br />Pass along information<br />Offer to go to help with them<br />
  25. 25. Rebuilding After the Bad<br />Getting “back on your feet” may take time. It is important to focus on yourself before you move forward and settle for something less again.<br />