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Personality Development
By – N.G.Palit
Have you ever thought to ask yourself
Who are you?
How well do you know yourself?
What are you good at?
What are your weak...
How Personality Can be defined ?
What is Personality?

Dictionary meaning of ”Personality’ is
- ”to make-up, disposition, nature,
character”
Which of the following helps define the
term ‘Personality’?
•
Characteristics that are typical for a person
•
Characterist...
What is Personality?
What is Personality?

Personality is a collection of emotions,
thoughts and behavioural patterns
unique to a person that ...
PERSONALITYPERSONALITY
INCLUDES . . .INCLUDES . . .
PERSONALITYPERSONALITY
EXCLUDES . . .EXCLUDES . . .
What is Personality?

Personality is the
sum total of the
behaviours,
attitudes, beliefs,
and values that are
characteris...
What is Personality?

Personality is made-up of several factors
and is judged by:-

How a person reacts to different sit...
What is Personality?

”Personality is the sum total of our outer
personality and inner qualities”

While, outer personal...
Personality Traits

Our personality traits
determine how we
adjust to our
environment and how
we react in specific
situat...
Personality Traits

As per management
concepts, -

”Personality is the
BRAND IMAGE
of an individual”
Personality Traits

It is a combination of:
1. Physical Qualities
2. Mental Qualities
3. Social Qualities
4. Character

...
What is Personality Development?

”Personality Development” literally
means:

Development of the ’persona’, means
- grow...
Can Personality be developed?

Yes. Any person can
at any time develop
his/ her personality,
through conscious
efforts to...
Personality Development

Our personalities continue to develop
throughout our lifetimes

Personality development is more...
Physical Qualities

Appearance can make
or break our image

Good physical
appearance helps
to creat a favourable
first i...
Physical Qualities

First impression is
made during the
first seven seconds

Early judgement
is mainly based on
appearan...
Factors which boost physical
Appearance

Appropriate dressing

Cleanliness

Good posture: Erect posture projects
confid...
Personality Grooming
Outward Personality Grooming

Dress:

A proper and suitable
dress for the occasion
conveys:

- Appreciation of
situatio...
Personality Grooming

1. Don’t wear
unirioned clothes

They make you
look shabby

2. In hot weather,
wear light-colour
...
Personal Grooming

Don’t wear
synthetic, unwashed
clothes

They may cause
bad body odour
Personality Grooming

Personality grooming is
as important as what
we wear

Inspite of selecting
the right clothes,
negl...
Personality Grooming

Hair Style:
Clean trimmed and neatly combed greasy
hair and a flaky scalp gives a shabby look

Fac...
Personality Grooming

Teeth:
Brushed, white & clean teeth
Good dental hygiene means a dazzling
smile

Breath:
Bad breath...
Personality Grooming

Body:
Take regular bath
Use deodorant

Make-up:
Use make-up sparingly
Be natural looking

Perfume...
Personality Grooming

Posture:

Stand erect

Pulled shoulders

Erect head

Walk briskly
Etiquette

”Etiquette means
behaving yourselves
a little better than
is absolutely
necessary”
Etiquettes

Eye-to-eye contacts

Warmth and
friendliness

Warm, hearty and
firm handshake

Cheerful, happy
and smiling...
Mental Qualities

Mental qualities
are equally
important to
impress others
Alertness

It is the presence
of mind

- What to say?

- How to say?

- When to say?
Immagination

It helps to read
other’s minds

It is also called
empathy

It helps to
understand other’s
view points bet...
Self Confidence

Start believing in
your own ability

Gain useful
knowledge, that
will add to your
confidence
Positive Thinking

Believe in yourself
and all that you are

Know that there is
something inside you
that is greater tha...
Learning from failures

Remember, failure
is possible, but we
must learn from it
Self Reliance

Self reliance is a
vital quality, and
leads to success
Memory

It is a great asset

Has strong
positive influence
on personality

Helps to impress
others
Cheerfulness

Everybody likes the
company of a
cheerful person

Because, he / she
transmits a positive
attitude

The pe...
Social Qualities

Main factors of
social qualities
are:-

Social values,

Attitude

Economic
independence
Communication Skills

Communication skill is the
key factor in making
significant impression on others

It is the thresh...
Courtesy

Always try to be
courteous to others

Use words like:-
”Thank you”
”Please”
”Welcome”
”Excuse me”

These word...
Eagerness to meet people

One should be an
’extrovert’

Should be friendly
in nature and
enjoy mixing and
talking to peo...
Good Manners

This quality helps to
create a very strong
positive impact on
personality and is
appreciated by
everybody
Character
What is Character?

Character is:-
”who are you, when no one is
watching”

It is a vital pre-requisite for ach...
Importance of Character

” Even the best of behavioral traits fail
if they are not based on the solid
foundation of chara...
Honesty

One has to be true
and sincere in all his
dealings to win a
long-lasting
goodwill
Reliability

Always keep your
promises

Say what you mean,
and mean what you
say

This builds reputation
of a reliable ...
Courage

Courage is the name
of moral strength

It is also called ’Guts’

One should have the
guts to speak and face
tr...
Determination

It is ”the will to
succeed”

We should have the
skill to do and will
to achieve
Determination

”I will not say I failed 1000 times.
I will say that I discovered 1000 ways
that cause failure”
---- Thoma...
Industriousness

It is true, ”No gain
without pain”

Laziness, lethargic
attitude are counter
productive for a
good pers...
Approach for good personality
Goal Setting
Time Management
Communication Skills
Leadership Qualities
Goal Setting

Immediate

Short Term

Long Term
3 Ps
Prioritization
Positive
attitude
persistence
Time Management

Plan/ Schedule
preparation (day
plan, etc)

Utilizing time for
knowledge
improvement

Utilizing free t...
Leadership Qualities

Planning

Self Discipline

Know your
responsibilities

Commitments
Developing Skills

Organizing things properly

Self Motivation and
motivating others

Optimum utilization of
Time

Hel...
How to Improve Personality?

The million dollar question is- can
we really change our personality?

The answer is an emp...
Conditioning

You can’t change
your past, but you
can shape your
future by utilizing
the present well
Improve your personality

It is true that past can’t
be changed

But, a decision right
now can improve your
personality ...
How to improve personality?

Nobody is born with
a perfect
personality

But, we can always
improve it
How to improve Personality?

All of us can
transform ourselves
into a better and
charming
personality, and
thereby achiev...
How to improve our personality?

SWOT Test

Assess your
strengths and
weakness

Then try to take
advantage of your
stro...
How to improve Personality?

One must have the
desire and
determination to
improve his/ her
personality

Then, identify ...
Change your Personality

Human body changes
every micro-seconds

The body can’t survive
without change, nor can
the mind...
Be prepared for changes

An open mind
creates amazing
personality changes
and gives self-worth,
recognition and
growth an...
Adapt to Changes

If a boat is leaking
---- fix the leak,
don’t empty the
river!
How to improve personality?

In the present highly
competitive world,
success largely
depends on the ability
to develop o...
When you develop your
personality ---

YOU BECOME CAPABLE OF -
---FINDING GREATER SELF-DIRECTION
---MAKING INTELLIGENT CH...
OUR PERSONALITIES
CONTROL OUR BEHAVIOUR,
THOUGHTS,
FEELINGS,
EMOTIONS AND
SHAPE OUR ATTITUDE ---
DETERMINING
OUR DESTINIES...

SELF - MOTIVATIONSELF - MOTIVATION

SELF - ANALYSISSELF - ANALYSIS

SELF - EFFORTSELF - EFFORT

SELF - DISCIPLINESELF...
YOUR LIFE NEEDS SELF MANAGEMENT
SELF-
MGT
LIFE MGT.
MIND MGT.
DEV. MGT.

L = E  L – E = 0

LEARN TO EXCEL IN LIFE
THE SECRET OF EXCELLENCE LIES IN LEARNINGTHE SECRET OF EXCELLENCE LIES IN LEA...
YOU ARE
YOUR
W. A. T. C.
H.
W = WORDS
A = ACTIONS
T = THOUGHTS
C = CHARACTER
H = HEAD & HEART
BE A WINNER!

So, take care of
your personality
and be a
WINNER!
Questi
? ? ?
Questions
The End
By – N.G.Palit
Thank You
 In case you liked this
presentation, you can
send me your feedback &
valuable suggestions to
nandapalit@yahoo....
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Personlaity development  by N.G. Palit
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Personlaity development  by N.G. Palit
Personlaity development  by N.G. Palit
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Personlaity development  by N.G. Palit
Personlaity development  by N.G. Palit
Personlaity development  by N.G. Palit
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What is Personality? It is the total impact created by a person on others through 1. Physical Qualities, 2 Mental Qualities, 3 Social Qualities, and Character.
Nobody is born with a perfect personality. But, it can be developed through conscious efforts and regular evaluation.

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  1. 1. Personality Development By – N.G.Palit
  2. 2. Have you ever thought to ask yourself Who are you? How well do you know yourself? What are you good at? What are your weaknesses, fears, innermost strengths and desires? Where are you headed?
  3. 3. How Personality Can be defined ?
  4. 4. What is Personality?  Dictionary meaning of ”Personality’ is - ”to make-up, disposition, nature, character”
  5. 5. Which of the following helps define the term ‘Personality’? • Characteristics that are typical for a person • Characteristics that make a person unique • Acting, thinking, and feeling • All of the above
  6. 6. What is Personality?
  7. 7. What is Personality?  Personality is a collection of emotions, thoughts and behavioural patterns unique to a person that is consistent over a period of time  It originates from the Latin word ’persona’, which means ”mask”
  8. 8. PERSONALITYPERSONALITY INCLUDES . . .INCLUDES . . . PERSONALITYPERSONALITY EXCLUDES . . .EXCLUDES . . .
  9. 9. What is Personality?  Personality is the sum total of the behaviours, attitudes, beliefs, and values that are characteristics of an individual
  10. 10. What is Personality?  Personality is made-up of several factors and is judged by:-  How a person reacts to different situations, and to different people, and  What impressions are made upon people, during and after these interactions
  11. 11. What is Personality?  ”Personality is the sum total of our outer personality and inner qualities”  While, outer personality helps us to be liked, accepted and loved,  Inner qualities and traits make long-lasting impressions and relationships, helping us to succeed and grow throughout our lives
  12. 12. Personality Traits  Our personality traits determine how we adjust to our environment and how we react in specific situations
  13. 13. Personality Traits  As per management concepts, -  ”Personality is the BRAND IMAGE of an individual”
  14. 14. Personality Traits  It is a combination of: 1. Physical Qualities 2. Mental Qualities 3. Social Qualities 4. Character  Other than physical qualities, all others are inner traits
  15. 15. What is Personality Development?  ”Personality Development” literally means:  Development of the ’persona’, means - growth in personal nature - growth in personal character - progress, evolution, maturing and make-up ( physical and psychological)
  16. 16. Can Personality be developed?  Yes. Any person can at any time develop his/ her personality, through conscious efforts towards the attainment of a --- ’better self’
  17. 17. Personality Development  Our personalities continue to develop throughout our lifetimes  Personality development is more obvious during childhood, when people experience rapid physical, emotional and intellectual growth  During adulthood, personality traits change at a much slower rate
  18. 18. Physical Qualities  Appearance can make or break our image  Good physical appearance helps to creat a favourable first impression
  19. 19. Physical Qualities  First impression is made during the first seven seconds  Early judgement is mainly based on appearance
  20. 20. Factors which boost physical Appearance  Appropriate dressing  Cleanliness  Good posture: Erect posture projects confidence and authority  Gesture: Create greater impact  Voice: Pleasing and clear voice helps effective communication  Smile: Indicates positive attitude, openness and friendliness
  21. 21. Personality Grooming
  22. 22. Outward Personality Grooming  Dress:  A proper and suitable dress for the occasion conveys:  - Appreciation of situations  - Neatness  - Carefulness
  23. 23. Personality Grooming  1. Don’t wear unirioned clothes  They make you look shabby  2. In hot weather, wear light-colour cotton clothings and socks.  These absorb less heat 
  24. 24. Personal Grooming  Don’t wear synthetic, unwashed clothes  They may cause bad body odour
  25. 25. Personality Grooming  Personality grooming is as important as what we wear  Inspite of selecting the right clothes, neglecting personal hygiene can ruin our personality
  26. 26. Personality Grooming  Hair Style: Clean trimmed and neatly combed greasy hair and a flaky scalp gives a shabby look  Facial Hair (men) Freshly shaved Mustache or beard neatly trimmed  Finger Nails: Neat, clean, and properly clipped
  27. 27. Personality Grooming  Teeth: Brushed, white & clean teeth Good dental hygiene means a dazzling smile  Breath: Bad breath is the biggest turn-off Pop a mint or a mouth freshner after every meal Beware of food which causes bad breath
  28. 28. Personality Grooming  Body: Take regular bath Use deodorant  Make-up: Use make-up sparingly Be natural looking  Perfume / After-shave: Scent should not linger after you leave
  29. 29. Personality Grooming  Posture:  Stand erect  Pulled shoulders  Erect head  Walk briskly
  30. 30. Etiquette  ”Etiquette means behaving yourselves a little better than is absolutely necessary”
  31. 31. Etiquettes  Eye-to-eye contacts  Warmth and friendliness  Warm, hearty and firm handshake  Cheerful, happy and smiling face  Empathy  Basic mannerism 
  32. 32. Mental Qualities  Mental qualities are equally important to impress others
  33. 33. Alertness  It is the presence of mind  - What to say?  - How to say?  - When to say?
  34. 34. Immagination  It helps to read other’s minds  It is also called empathy  It helps to understand other’s view points better
  35. 35. Self Confidence  Start believing in your own ability  Gain useful knowledge, that will add to your confidence
  36. 36. Positive Thinking  Believe in yourself and all that you are  Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle
  37. 37. Learning from failures  Remember, failure is possible, but we must learn from it
  38. 38. Self Reliance  Self reliance is a vital quality, and leads to success
  39. 39. Memory  It is a great asset  Has strong positive influence on personality  Helps to impress others
  40. 40. Cheerfulness  Everybody likes the company of a cheerful person  Because, he / she transmits a positive attitude  The person must possess good health and sense of humour
  41. 41. Social Qualities  Main factors of social qualities are:-  Social values,  Attitude  Economic independence
  42. 42. Communication Skills  Communication skill is the key factor in making significant impression on others  It is the threshold of entering the very competitive corporate world  Without this skills no one can ever climb the ladder of success 
  43. 43. Courtesy  Always try to be courteous to others  Use words like:- ”Thank you” ”Please” ”Welcome” ”Excuse me”  These words create good impression
  44. 44. Eagerness to meet people  One should be an ’extrovert’  Should be friendly in nature and enjoy mixing and talking to people
  45. 45. Good Manners  This quality helps to create a very strong positive impact on personality and is appreciated by everybody
  46. 46. Character What is Character?  Character is:- ”who are you, when no one is watching”  It is a vital pre-requisite for achieving a better personality
  47. 47. Importance of Character  ” Even the best of behavioral traits fail if they are not based on the solid foundation of character” --- Steven Covey
  48. 48. Honesty  One has to be true and sincere in all his dealings to win a long-lasting goodwill
  49. 49. Reliability  Always keep your promises  Say what you mean, and mean what you say  This builds reputation of a reliable person
  50. 50. Courage  Courage is the name of moral strength  It is also called ’Guts’  One should have the guts to speak and face truth.  ”Courage is the ladder on which all other virtues mount.”
  51. 51. Determination  It is ”the will to succeed”  We should have the skill to do and will to achieve
  52. 52. Determination  ”I will not say I failed 1000 times. I will say that I discovered 1000 ways that cause failure” ---- Thomas Edition
  53. 53. Industriousness  It is true, ”No gain without pain”  Laziness, lethargic attitude are counter productive for a good personality.
  54. 54. Approach for good personality Goal Setting Time Management Communication Skills Leadership Qualities
  55. 55. Goal Setting  Immediate  Short Term  Long Term
  56. 56. 3 Ps Prioritization Positive attitude persistence
  57. 57. Time Management  Plan/ Schedule preparation (day plan, etc)  Utilizing time for knowledge improvement  Utilizing free time for good hobbies
  58. 58. Leadership Qualities  Planning  Self Discipline  Know your responsibilities  Commitments
  59. 59. Developing Skills  Organizing things properly  Self Motivation and motivating others  Optimum utilization of Time  Helping Others
  60. 60. How to Improve Personality?  The million dollar question is- can we really change our personality?  The answer is an emphatic ”yes”
  61. 61. Conditioning  You can’t change your past, but you can shape your future by utilizing the present well
  62. 62. Improve your personality  It is true that past can’t be changed  But, a decision right now can improve your personality beyond the wildest expectations
  63. 63. How to improve personality?  Nobody is born with a perfect personality  But, we can always improve it
  64. 64. How to improve Personality?  All of us can transform ourselves into a better and charming personality, and thereby achieve the Winning Touch
  65. 65. How to improve our personality?  SWOT Test  Assess your strengths and weakness  Then try to take advantage of your strong points & try to eleminate the weak areas
  66. 66. How to improve Personality?  One must have the desire and determination to improve his/ her personality  Then, identify the direction for achieving the goals
  67. 67. Change your Personality  Human body changes every micro-seconds  The body can’t survive without change, nor can the mind  But many people live with a growing body and ’stagnant’ mind  This leads to failure
  68. 68. Be prepared for changes  An open mind creates amazing personality changes and gives self-worth, recognition and growth and ---- also success!
  69. 69. Adapt to Changes  If a boat is leaking ---- fix the leak, don’t empty the river!
  70. 70. How to improve personality?  In the present highly competitive world, success largely depends on the ability to develop our personality matching the requirements of the new millennium
  71. 71. When you develop your personality ---  YOU BECOME CAPABLE OF - ---FINDING GREATER SELF-DIRECTION ---MAKING INTELLIGENT CHOICES  -- BECOMING HAPPIER & MAKING OTHERS ALSO HAPPIER. WHAT MORE YOU WANT?
  72. 72. OUR PERSONALITIES CONTROL OUR BEHAVIOUR, THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, EMOTIONS AND SHAPE OUR ATTITUDE --- DETERMINING OUR DESTINIES.  THEN, WHY SHOULD WE NOT EXPERIENCE THE DIFFERENCE BY CHANGING
  73. 73.  SELF - MOTIVATIONSELF - MOTIVATION  SELF - ANALYSISSELF - ANALYSIS  SELF - EFFORTSELF - EFFORT  SELF - DISCIPLINESELF - DISCIPLINE  SELF - CONFIDENCESELF - CONFIDENCE  SELF - DEVELOPMENTSELF - DEVELOPMENT  SELF - EVALUATIONSELF - EVALUATION  SELF – MASTERYSELF – MASTERY  SELF -SELF - REALISATIONREALISATION SS
  74. 74. YOUR LIFE NEEDS SELF MANAGEMENT SELF- MGT LIFE MGT. MIND MGT. DEV. MGT.
  75. 75.  L = E  L – E = 0  LEARN TO EXCEL IN LIFE THE SECRET OF EXCELLENCE LIES IN LEARNINGTHE SECRET OF EXCELLENCE LIES IN LEARNING SS == SELFSELF MM == MOTIVATEDMOTIVATED II == INITIATIVE (TO)INITIATIVE (TO) LL == LEARN (AND)LEARN (AND) EE == EXCELEXCEL
  76. 76. YOU ARE YOUR
  77. 77. W. A. T. C. H. W = WORDS A = ACTIONS T = THOUGHTS C = CHARACTER H = HEAD & HEART
  78. 78. BE A WINNER!  So, take care of your personality and be a WINNER!
  79. 79. Questi ? ? ? Questions
  80. 80. The End By – N.G.Palit
  81. 81. Thank You  In case you liked this presentation, you can send me your feedback & valuable suggestions to nandapalit@yahoo.co.in
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