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    1. 1. BE A WINNER.
    2. 2. WINNER. <ul><li>ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING……. </li></ul>
    3. 3. Attitude is everything….
    4. 4. POSITIVE ATTITUDE. <ul><li> Think for the BEST </li></ul><ul><li> Work for the BEST……and </li></ul><ul><li> Expect the BEST </li></ul>
    5. 5. .
    6. 6. Factors determining your attitud e . EDUCATION ENVIRONMENT EXPERIENCE Attitude
    7. 7. Attitude is everything….
    8. 8. Attitude is everything….
    9. 9. Success is not accidental, it is a choice.
    10. 10. Steps for developing a positive attitude. <ul><li>1.ALWAYS LOOK FOR </li></ul><ul><li>THE POSITIVE. </li></ul>
    11. 11. .
    12. 12. Attitude is everything…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    13. 13. Attitude is everything…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    14. 14. 1.Change focus….. Look for the positive….
    15. 15. 1.Change focus….. Look for the positive…. <ul><li>LIFE WILL GIVE YOU </li></ul><ul><li>WHAT YOU ATTRACT </li></ul><ul><li>WITH YOUR THOUGHT. . </li></ul>
    16. 16. 1.Change focus….. Look for the positive…. <ul><li>DEVELOP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE. </li></ul><ul><li>IT IS NOT YOUR APTITUDE </li></ul><ul><li>BUT YOUR ATTITUDE THAT DETERMINES YOUR ALTITUDE.. . </li></ul>
    17. 17. Always look for the positive.
    18. 19. 1.Change focus….. Look for the positive…. <ul><li>Obstacles are those </li></ul><ul><li>frightful things </li></ul><ul><li>you see when you took the eyes off the GOAL……….. </li></ul>
    19. 20. 1.Change focus….. Look for the positive….
    20. 21. Thought--- Feeling--- Action--- Results---
    21. 22. Watch your… <ul><li>. </li></ul>THINK before you speak. T - is it True ? H - Will it Help ? I - is it Inspiring ? N - is it Necessary ? K - is it Kind
    22. 23. Watch your… <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    23. 24. Watch your… <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    24. 25. Attitude is everything…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>THINK before you speak T - is it True ? H - Will it Help ? I - is it Inspiring ? N - is it Necessary ? K - is it Kind
    25. 26. Watch your… <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    26. 27. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    27. 28. CHANGE FOCUS.
    28. 29. CHANGE FOCUS. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    29. 30. CHANGE FOCUS.
    30. 31. CHANGE FOCUS.
    31. 32. .
    32. 33. People will always throw Stones in your path... Now it depends on you what you make from it..? WALL or BRIDGE…? You Are The Architect of YOUR Own LIFE...
    33. 34. .
    34. 35. Attitude is everything….
    35. 36. Attitude is everything….
    36. 37. .
    37. 39. Attitude is everything….
    38. 40. Change focus…. Have an open mind…. Avoid prejudices…… <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    39. 42. 2.LEARN TO LIKE THE THINGS WE HAVE TO DO. <ul><li>LEARN TO LIKE </li></ul><ul><li>THE THINGS </li></ul><ul><li>WE HAVE TO DO. </li></ul>
    40. 44. .
    41. 45. 2.LEARN TO LIKE THE THINGS WE HAVE TO DO. <ul><li>A Ship is safe when it is in the harbor, </li></ul><ul><li>But the ship is not made for that purpose. </li></ul>
    42. 47. Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible. - -St. Francis of Assisi
    43. 50. . Attitude is everything….
    44. 52. Steps for developing a positive attitude. <ul><li>3. START THE DAY </li></ul><ul><li>WITH SOME THING </li></ul><ul><li>POSITIVE. </li></ul>
    45. 53. 3. START THE DAY WITH SOME THING POSITIVE .
    46. 54. . <ul><li>3.START THE DAY </li></ul><ul><li>WITH SOME THING POSITIVE. . </li></ul>
    47. 55. . <ul><li> START THE DAY </li></ul><ul><li> WITH SOME THING </li></ul><ul><li> POSITIVE… </li></ul>
    48. 56. Steps for developing a positive attitude. <ul><li> 4. GET INTO A </li></ul><ul><li>CONTINUOUS </li></ul><ul><li>EDUCATION </li></ul><ul><li>PROGRAMME. </li></ul>
    49. 57. <ul><li>Intellectual education influences the head and values based education influences the heart. In fact, education that does not train the heart can be dangerous. </li></ul><ul><li>If we want to build character in our offices, homes and society, we must achieve a minimum level of </li></ul><ul><li>moral and ethical literacy. </li></ul>
    50. 58. <ul><li>A person can and will be successful with or without formal education if they have the 5Cs: </li></ul><ul><li>character </li></ul><ul><li>commitment </li></ul><ul><li>conviction </li></ul><ul><li>courtesy </li></ul><ul><li>courage </li></ul><ul><li>The tragedy is that </li></ul><ul><li>there are many walking encyclopedias who are living failures. </li></ul>
    51. 59. <ul><li>Universities are turning out highly skilled barbarians because we don't provide a framework of values to young people, who more and more are searching for it. </li></ul><ul><li>--Steven Muller, President, Johns Hopkins University </li></ul>
    52. 60. <ul><li>Schools are a fountain of knowledge: </li></ul><ul><li>some students come to drink , </li></ul><ul><li>some to sip </li></ul><ul><li>and others just </li></ul><ul><li>to gargle. </li></ul>
    53. 61. .
    54. 62. How come one man goes through life crossing one hurdle after another, accomplishing his goals while another struggles and gets nowhere? If the answer to these two questions can become part of the curriculum, it could revolutionize the educational system.
    55. 63. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    56. 64. . <ul><li>Steps for developing a positive attitude. </li></ul><ul><li>6.BUILD A </li></ul><ul><li>POSITIVE </li></ul><ul><li>SELF ESTEEM. </li></ul>
    57. 65. .
    58. 66. . <ul><li>. What is Self-Esteem? </li></ul><ul><li>Self-esteem is the way </li></ul><ul><li>we feel about ourselves. </li></ul><ul><li>When we feel good within, our performance goes up, our relationships improve both at home and at work. The world looks nicer. </li></ul><ul><li>What is the reason? </li></ul><ul><li>There is a direct correlation between feeling and </li></ul><ul><li>behaviour. </li></ul>
    59. 67. . <ul><li>. How Do We Build </li></ul><ul><li>Positive Self-Esteem? </li></ul><ul><li>Contributing member </li></ul><ul><li>If you want to build positive self-esteem quickly, one of the fastest ways is to do something for others who cannot repay you in cash or kind. </li></ul>
    60. 68. SELF ESTEEM.
    61. 69. SELF ESTEEM.
    62. 71. Attitude is everything….
    63. 72. SELF ESTEEM. <ul><li>, </li></ul>
    64. 73. SELF ESTEEM.
    65. 74. , <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    66. 75. SELF ESTEEM. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    67. 76. SELF ESTEEM. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    68. 77. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    69. 78. 6.SELF ESTEEM. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    70. 79. 6.SELF ESTEEM. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    71. 80. , <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    72. 81. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>6.SELF ESTEEM.
    73. 82. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    74. 83. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>6.SELF ESTEEM.
    75. 84. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>6.SELF ESTEEM.
    76. 85. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    77. 86. . <ul><li>6.BUILD A POSITIVE </li></ul><ul><li>SELF ESTEEM. </li></ul>
    78. 87. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    79. 88. 6.SELF ESTEEM.. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    80. 89. 6.SELF ESTEEM.. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    81. 90. 6.SELF ESTEEM.. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    82. 91. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    83. 92. 6.SELF ESTEEM. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    84. 93. .
    85. 94. Attitude is everything…. <ul><li>Be A Good Listener. </li></ul>
    86. 95. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    87. 96. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    88. 97. Don’t Argue…..But discuss.
    89. 98. . <ul><li>POSITIVE ATTITUDE. </li></ul><ul><li>7.DEVELOP AN </li></ul><ul><li>ATTITUDE OF </li></ul><ul><li>GRATITUDE.. </li></ul>
    90. 99. 7.Be Thankful.
    91. 100. 7.Be Thankful.
    92. 101. 7.Be Thankful.
    93. 102. Mental Techniques.
    94. 103. 7.Be Thankful. <ul><li>, </li></ul>
    95. 104. 7.Be Thankful. .
    96. 105. . 7.Be Thankful. .
    97. 106. . 7.Be Thankful.
    98. 107. Develop an attitude of gratitude.
    99. 108. Develop an attitude of gratitude.
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    102. 111. <ul><li>. </li></ul>8.Manage your time effectively..
    103. 112. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management. <ul><li>, </li></ul>
    104. 113. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management. <ul><li>Time, and time again To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed his exams... </li></ul><ul><li>To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby... To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper... To realize the value of ONE DAY, ask a daily wage laborer... </li></ul>
    105. 114. . <ul><li>To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet... To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train... To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident... To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND, ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics... </li></ul><ul><li>Treasure every moment that you have!! </li></ul>
    106. 115. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    107. 116. Don’t Wait. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    108. 117. Time is not an enemy unless you try to kill it.. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    109. 118. Time is not an enemy unless you try to kill it.. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    110. 119. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    111. 120. .. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    112. 121. Time Management is Life Management. <ul><li>Organise your Activities. </li></ul><ul><li>Avoid Procrastination……… </li></ul><ul><li>Give priority……………. </li></ul><ul><li>Delegate effectively…………. </li></ul>
    113. 122. LIVE IN THE PRESENT. <ul><li>YESTERDAY is history. </li></ul><ul><li>TOMORROW is a mystery. </li></ul><ul><li>TODAY is a gift. That's why it's called the </li></ul><ul><li>PRESENT!! </li></ul>
    114. 123. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management.
    115. 124. LIVE IN THE PRESENT. <ul><li>, </li></ul>
    116. 125. LIVE IN THE PRESENT. Life is XXX. Yesterday is Xperience. Today is Xperiment. Tomorrow is Xpectation. So use your Xperience in your Xperiment to achieve your Xpectation.
    117. 126. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management. .
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    119. 128. LIVE IN THE PRESENT.
    120. 129. LIVE IN THE PRESENT.
    121. 130. Worry pulls tomorrows cloud over todays bright sunshine . % There is more then one chance in life for everything. But there is no chance of another “LIFE&quot; EXPRESS n ENJOY Every Moment.... 8.Time Mangement is Life Management.
    122. 131. Worry pulls tomorrows cloud over todays bright sunshine . %
    123. 132. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management .
    124. 133. 8.Time Mangement is Life Management.
    125. 134. .Avoid Procrastination.
    126. 135. DECIDE TODAY…...
    127. 136. DECIDE TODAY…...
    128. 137. .Avoid Procrastination.
    129. 138. 9.Stay away from negative influences. STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE INFLUENCES.
    130. 139. .
    131. 140. 9.Stay away from negative influences. STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE.
    132. 141. 9.Stay away from negative influences.
    133. 142.
    134. 143. 9.Stay away from negative influences.
    135. 144. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    136. 145. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    137. 146. . <ul><li>9.Stay away from negative influences. </li></ul>
    138. 147. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    139. 148. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    140. 149. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    141. 150. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    142. 151. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    143. 152. , <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    144. 153. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    145. 154. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    146. 155. YOUR people <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    147. 156. Don’t Compare…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    148. 157. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    149. 158. . <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    150. 159. 10.Accept Change..
    151. 160. 10.Accept Change. <ul><li>, </li></ul>
    152. 161. ACCEPT CHANGE . You have only two options in life 1) Accept 2) Change 1. Accept what you can't change. 2. Change what you can't accept.
    153. 162. 10.Accept Change.
    154. 164. 10.Accept Change. <ul><li>11.Think Differently…. </li></ul><ul><li>Have realistic expectations. </li></ul><ul><li>Reframe problems. </li></ul><ul><li>Maintain your sense of humor. </li></ul><ul><li>Express your feelings instead of bottling them up. </li></ul><ul><li>Don’t try to control events or other people. </li></ul>
    155. 165. don't try to control things that are uncontrollable - instead adjust response, adapt. 11.Think Differently .
    156. 166. . 11.Think Differently
    157. 167. . 10.Accept Change. Think Differently .
    158. 168. 11.Do things differently…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    159. 169. 11.Do things differently…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    160. 170. Do things differently…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    161. 171. Do things differently…. <ul><li>. </li></ul>
    162. 173. Success in life is not determined by how we are doing compared with others, but by how we are doing compared with what we are capable of doing. Successful people compete against themselves. They better their own record and keep improving constantly. Success is not measured by how high we go up in life but by how many times we bounce back when we fall down. It is this bounce back ability that determines success.
    163. 174. Nature's greatest gift to man is the ability to think. He can create his own environment, whereas animals adapt to their environment. Sadly, very few people use the greatest gift the ability to think to its full potential.
    164. 175. We can choose our attitude even though we cannot always choose our circumstances. The choice is either to act like a victor or a victim. It is not our position but our disposition that determines our destiny.
    165. 176. A burning desire is the starting point of all accomplishment. Just like a small fire cannot give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results.
    166. 177. Ships that go out into the open water face risk from a storm. But if they sit in the harbour, they would rust and that is not what they were built for . That is the difference between playing to win and playing not to lose. One cannot be committed and not take risks. People who play to win thrive on pressure and those who play not to lose don't know how to succeed
    167. 178. There is no magic wand for success. In the real world, success comes to doers, not observers. Without hard work there is no success. Nature gives birds their food but does not put it in their nest. They have to work hard for it.
    168. 179. If you want to get ahead in life, go the extra mile. There is no competition on the extra mile. Are you willing to do a little more than you get paid for ? How many people you know are willing to do a little bit more than what they get paid for? Always think in terms of giving value added whether to customers, friends, your spouse, parents or children. Whenever you do anything, ask yourself, &quot;How can I add value to what I am doing?&quot; or &quot;How can I give added value to others?&quot;
    169. 180. When we give or do more than what we get paid for, we eliminate our competition. In fact, we become the competition. This attitude is much more important than intelligence or a degree.
    170. 183. Break the boundaries………… Leave your comfort zone ….
    171. 184. Break the boundaries…………
    172. 187. 12.Dont QUIT.
    173. 188. 12.Dont QUIT. Quitters Never Win…. Winners Never Quit…
    174. 189. 13.forgive.
    175. 190. Mental Tehniques.
    176. 191. 13.forgive. This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive, Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.
    177. 192. Mental Tehniques.
    178. 193. 13.forgive. Two children playing in a park begin to argue. One says, “I hate you! I’m never going to play with you again!” For a few moments, they play separately, and then they are back playing together and sharing toys. How do children manage to be so angry one minute and best of friends the next? The answer is simple, - it is more important to them to be happy than to be right.
    179. 194. 13.forgive.
    180. 196. “ Please forgive me.” Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
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    187. 209. . <ul><li>T.J Joseph. </li></ul><ul><li>Adhikarathil. </li></ul><ul><li>S H Mount. </li></ul><ul><li>Kottayam. </li></ul>
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