The Art Of Flirting ­ How To Flirt With Women
We will begin with a question.
Have you ever met a girl you liked, and despite your best efforts, you got stuck in the "lets just be
friends" category?
Well, there is a reason that happened!
Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.
You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it
wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.
So why is flirting so important?
The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.
No sexual tension equals no attraction, when there is not attraction, what does this make you?
You guessed it ­ A FRIEND!
So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up
exponentially.
Flirting is no big secret as many might consider, flirting is a lot of fun. Flirting does not work only if it
is not done properly.
Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you
have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject.
This is called "mixed signals."
Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.
Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Too Obvious
Some men find it overwhelming when they feel attraction to a woman and then spit it all out at once
letting her know how they feel. This type of presentation of information places the woman at a
disadvantage of deciding what she feels for the man.
Keep in mind, by not laying the groundwork properly beforehand, you risk the chance of finding
rejection from the woman.

MISTAKE #2: They Are Not Obvious Enough!
On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their
minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the
girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!
MISTAKE #3: They Rely On Words Instead Of Actions
A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON­
VERBAL body language stuff. Little things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can
give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.
MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously
Flirting is fun and light when done properly. When men begin adding serious romantic gestures with
flirting, the sexual tension begins to break down.
You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.
Although, there are other mistakes, these few should give you some ideas. Would you like to learn the
proper way to begin flirting?
Use as many sexual overtones as possible, this is a good way to flirt, however, you must keep it subtle.
Here is an example, if you are in a bar and the woman with you orders a drink and then asks if you
want something, you can jokingly say, You are not trying to get me intoxicated so you can take
advantage of me, are you? Say all this of course, with a wink and a nod.
Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a
lighthearted fun form of insinuation.
On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her,
Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don't do that on the first date.
Consider how this works.
As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although
you never really step over that line.
You will notice how the attraction between you and the woman begins to build. Then one day you find
that a harmless bit of flirting has turned into seduction.
And that is when the real fun begins.
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