Secrets To Meeting Women
In case you've ever wanted one, here's a sure­fire, step­by­step guide any man can use to make meeting
women fun and easy!
I have a question...
(And be honest when answering, okay?)
Do you find meeting women difficult? Is your fear keeping you from taking the actions you need to
meet women, and causing you to feel lonely and helpless?
If so, don't worry. I'm going to give you some incredible bits of advice you can use that will help you
meet great women, and help you to take control of your love life and overcome your fear!
You may be under the false assumption that meeting women is supposed to come naturally to you.
After all ­ we're men! Aren't we just "supposed" to know how to do this naturally?
Nope!
Listen: despite what other people might tell you, men are not "born" automatically knowing how to
meet and attract women. (I wish that WAS the case, but unfortunately, its not.)
How to meet women is something you LEARN.
Just like any skill, you have to LEARN how to meet and talk to women, just like you have to learn to
speak Spanish, play the guitar, and recite your A­B­C's.
Meeting women is a SKILL. And you have to LEARN skills in order to develop them.
So if you currently don't know how to meet women, don't worry, there is NOTHING wrong with you!
You just haven't learned enough to make meeting women something that's comfortable and easy yet.
Unfortunately, there are many guys out there who's fear of meeting women keeps them home alone on
Friday night, and most of them will NEVER do what's necessary to overcome that fear and meet
women.
That's because they don't realize the power that fear has over them! And they rationalize their fear of
meeting women by imagining all of the bad things that could happen.
There are some guys out there who have such low self­esteem that they think every girl they approach
will either reject them, laugh in their face, or insult them right off the bat. Maybe they're afraid of
being publicly embarrassed, or the slim possibility the girl has a jealous boyfriend who will beat them
up!
If this sounds like you, then I have news for you: You are actually TRAINING yourself to NOT

approach women! You're giving yourself reasons to give into your fears and not take any action.
In other words: You're practicing FAILURE.
Look ­ truth be told, most of these fears you have hardly EVER happen in reality!
Those fears often come from experiences men suffered in junior high or middle school, when they were
starting to become sexually aware and got rejected a few times ­ or they saw stuff like this happen on
TV, and they think it actually applies to their own life.
It is highly unfortunate that so many men let irrational fears shape their beliefs and attitudes about how
to meet and date women that they keep to this very day!
In contrast, there are other men out there who were fortunate enough to have positive experiences with
girls early on in their development. These experiences helped banish irrational fears about meeting
women, which helped set them up for a lot of success with women as they got older.
But even if you started off on the wrong foot in seventh grade, you can still take control of your fears of
meeting women. You don't have to be in high school to become a superstar with the ladies!
What you need to start doing right now is re­learn how to talk to women, and you'll have to be willing
to re­examine your current beliefs and attitudes that might be holding you back from success and
change them to make meeting women easier.
Understandably, this is difficult for most guys to do. It's one thing to say "I want to meet women," but
the hard part is taking action and DOING it! You need to ask yourself how badly do you want to
improve, and if you're willing to do the work.
You don't want to be one of those guys who says, "Next time..." to himself whenever he sees an
attractive woman. Because for those guys, every time is the "next time!"
When you see an attractive woman you'd like to meet, just start talking to her, even if you don't know
what to say.
Ask her for directions. Ask for her opinion on something. Playfully tease her about something she's
wearing or something she's doing.
At the very least ­ pay her an honest compliment and take an interest in who she is!
Don't get hung up on what you're going to say, just go over and talk to her. Don't give yourself time to
talk yourself out of it. Make the decision to act and follow through. (If you need to, memorize a few
interesting stories about your life if you need something to talk about.)
Understand that the simple act of walking up to a girl and talking to her makes you a winner! Because
you're able to do something that 80% of the other guys out there would be too afraid to do! Even if you
strike out, or fail to get the phone number or a date, you're still a winner. The simple act of being able

to meet any woman will greatly increase your chances of finding that one special girl, and in the end,
isn't that the real goal?
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