How To Pick Up Women
Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to
help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!
Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?
Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS
about how to get a girl than they do. Even so­called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know
what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream
media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)
Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically­correct topic!
You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found
this article. So let's get started!
Let me first tell you what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T have to be "male model" good looking.
This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man
can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.
So if you're insecure about your looks, don't sweat it! There's still hope.
Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!
Some of the best pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them
didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a very nice one!)
If a girl really likes you, she's not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to
picking up women is to get them to like you, right?
Lastly, you DON'T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you
can think of.
Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!
Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.
You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you're just starting out. But if
you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you'll find your success
with women will dramatically improve.
Go out as often as you're able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you're starting out. You
don't have to go to high­pressure environments like nightclubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but there is
no better "practice ground" in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.
Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women ­ you'll

get better the more times you do it!
You might not have a whole lot of success when you first start ­ but you'll notice a change as your confidence
with women begins to build. Every success or failure you experience will help teach you the things you need to
do to properly pick up women, and more importantly, what NOT to do!
Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it'll be.
The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!
You're going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with
women.
(Remember I didn't say you had to be "good looking." I said you need to "look good." There's a difference here.
You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance ­ what
you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)
Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you're not
into fashion and don't know where to start, ask a female friend who's very fashion conscious to help you find the
right types of clothes.
Keep in mind ­ you don't NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if
you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you'll feel.
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it's always a bad idea
to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!
Finally, every good pick­up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time
again and get similar results.
Here's the structure:
Find a girl.
Approach and meet her.
Start Talking and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
These four simple steps is all you need! You'll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain
rapport with them, you'll easily be able to build attraction with them too.
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