How To Generate Attraction ­ No Matter Your Looks
One of the biggest issues I have to deal with when it comes to my students is the idea that they are too
ugly to attract women.
Their insecurity comes from their various aspects and natures, such as some of them think they may be
too:
They could be too old.
Some men think they are too fat.
They could be too short.
They could be too ugly.
Because of this, these men feel they are helpless when it comes to getting the kind of woman they
desire.
However, it is not true.
We should take just a moment to drive out these few myths of attraction, since they do hold many men
back from having a successful love life.
Myth #1 ­ Women are only attracted to good looking men.
Look around this world and notice the different types of men, who date beautiful women, you will find
this myth is not true.
As a general rule of thumb, I like to say: It's important to look good, but it's not important to be good
looking!
What's the difference?
Well, you can't help if you're good looking or not. But you have COMPLETE control over how you
present yourself. You control the type of clothes you wear, how you groom yourself, how you wear
your hair, how you smell, etc.
All these appearance factors contribute to "looking good."
Taking control of your appearance makes any man more attractive.
Myth #2 ­ Women and Men Think Alike
Naturally, you and I think that everyone else sees the same things the same way in which we see others.
Take for example; you have a zit on your nose that feels so big that you are sure everyone notices it

there. However, in reality the pimple is under your skin and not viewable to everyone else in the world.
You can see it plainly, while others may not notice it at all.
Naturally, we practice this attitude while summing others up. Do you judge a woman by the way she
looks? Of course you do, since you are able to determine by visually appraising her whether you think
she is attractive.
So naturally, you assume women are going to size you up the same exact way.
This is incorrect.
Women have a different set of standards when determining their attraction than men have. This does
not mean they have no care as to the attractiveness of a man; they just do not use physical
characteristics as a means of judgment as men do.
To women, attraction is based more around how men make them feel, rather than how the men look.
That is why women are attracted to confidence and social status. They're attracted to men who make
them laugh. They're attracted to men who are good at what they do. See how this works? Looks have
very little to do with any of this.
Myth #3 ­ Women Notice Our Insecurities
Since we know our own selves, much better than anyone in the world ever will, we easily find and pay
attention to our every single shortcoming, such as our receding hairline, weak chin, and our big ears
and nose and so on.
We see it, no matter what it is.
And because we see it, we assume everyone else does too. But the fact is, most people aren't very
observant, and unless they specifically look for something to criticize you about, they're not going to
care about your insecurities, whatever they may be.
Many men may call attention to their shortcomings while trying to dismiss and diffuse the things that
make them feel insecure. Consequently, all this type of behavior does is managing to call the attention
of the woman to the area of insecurity; otherwise, she may not even notice it.
Besides, insecurity is very unattractive. Think about it.
It's important, in every situation, that you always focus on the good stuff about you, instead of your
shortcomings, and have the positives outshine the negatives.
Myth #4 ­ Attractive Men Have It Easy
Get a grip guys, this is the biggest myth of them all. Women do not automatically flock to a good
looking man.

Physical attractiveness may initially assist, however ultimately, good looking men suffer from the same
types of problems as other men, while managing their own types of struggles with women they find
attractive. Attraction is the art of magnifying the emotional connection that a woman feels for you,
when you are around, this connection will only occur when you are around her, therefore to feel those
feelings she will want you to be around her.
If a man matches a woman's physical type, she'll gravitate to him because those features make her feel
good. But if the guy is boring, or a jerk, or just not compatible, those feelings will go away.
For example, take a man that a woman is not physically attracted to initially and then give them some
time while he causes her to experience pleasure, excitement and fun, eventually, she will become
attracted to him.
Others want to be around you when you make them feel good; this is one of the basics of attraction.
You need to learn how to interact with women, since you do not have to be a good looking man to
make women feel good.
==>This equation has a second factor and that is of sexual attraction.
==>This is where, in addition to making people feel good, you also turn them on.
==>This is where the aspect of seduction comes into play.
Despite any shortcoming you may think you have, once you begin leading a woman down the path of
sexual attraction, she begins to see you in a much different light, so you do not have to look like the
cover guy on GQ.
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