How To Approach Women
Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn't, he is missing out on
the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her...
You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your
pickup. The following are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting
women!
We've all had situations where we approached a girl with we thought was a smooth line, but she
immediately rejected us before we could even open our mouths.
It wasn't anything you were about to say, or even your intentions. She might have really liked you if
you approached her in a different way. But once you freak out a girl, it's not easy to turn that situation
around.
It is vitally important to make sure when approaching women, that you do so in a NON­
TREATENING way and that you don't telegraph your interest in the woman you're approaching too
early.
This is all about coming in "under the radar."
It's the woman's reality that she constantly gets guys approaching her and trying to pick her up, so her
natural inclination is to nip this in the bud quickly by outright REJECTING any man who seems
interested in her.
Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you'd
get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that
­ an annoyance.
Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.
So what's the right way to approach a woman?
First of all ­ DO NOT HESITATE.
If you wait too long before approaching a girl, you'll probably talk yourself out of doing it. Be focused,
and like Nike ­ JUST DO IT.
Secondly, know what you're going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This
will make meeting women much easier because you don't have to spend time thinking of what to say
before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her.
When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven "pick up line"
memorized that will help start a conversation.

Now, when I use the term "pick up line," I don't mean the "Nice shirt, want to have sex?" type of line
that'll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON­THREATENING!
Great pick up lines simply engage women in innocent conversation. So asking her opinion on
something and then talking about it is always preferable to a sleazy or funny line that you've seen on
TV.
When approaching a woman, it's important that you approach her from an ANGLE. Most guys charge
towards the girl they want to meet like they're marching to war! Coming in at an angle is much less
confrontational and will put the girl at ease on a subconscious level.
The simple fact is ­ great pick­ups can only occur when the girl you are talking to feels comfortable
with you! That's why you need to feel comfortable talking to the girl.
If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to build your comfort level is to go out
and practice meeting as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!
Let me tell you ­ getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about
it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets
easier the more you do it).
Don't be afraid of getting rejected when you do this. Look at it as a game and distance yourself from
the outcome. You're not trying to get a date or get her into bed, your only goal is to talk to her and
strike up a conversation. If you do that, you win!
That's it!
See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.
Finally, use a "time constraint" when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you've only
got a minute to talk to her because you've got to get back to your friends or whatever you're doing.
You want to do this because if she feels this approach is just a "momentary" distraction, and you're not
trying to "impose" yourself on her, she'll be more willing to engage you in your approach.
If the initial approach goes well and the conversation continues, she will eventually forget you said you
can only talk for a "minute" and you can talk as long as you want. The whole point is just to get your
"foot in the door."
The dating game is a numbers game. The more women you're able to meet, the greater your chances at
finding a great girlfriend, and possibly even a future wife.
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