Why Am I Still In Love - My Ex May Not Love Me
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Falling in love is a funny thing. Sometimes it seems to happen in an instant, other times it takes longer, and other times you don't even realize just how much in love you were until after you have ...

Falling in love is a funny thing. Sometimes it seems to happen in an instant, other times it takes longer, and other times you don't even realize just how much in love you were until after you have both gone your separate ways. If the last one sounds familiar then you may be asking, "Why am I still in love with my ex?" There isn't an easy answer to that question, but let's take a look at some things you should consider.

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Why Am I Still In Love - My Ex May Not Love Me Why Am I Still In Love - My Ex May Not Love Me Document Transcript

  • Why Am I Still In Love - My Ex May Not Love MeFalling in love is a funny thing. Sometimes it seems to happen in an instant, othertimes it takes longer, and other times you dont even realize just how much inlove you were until after you have both gone your separate ways. If the last onesounds familiar then you may be asking, "Why am I still in love with my ex?"There isnt an easy answer to that question, but lets take a look at some thingsyou should consider.A good first step is to change the question you are asking yourself. Instead ofasking why you are still in love with your ex, ask yourself if you are really in lovewith them or not. What may be happening is that you are missing the relationshipitself, and not the person you were with. There is something comforting aboutbeing in a routine. Once that routine comes to an end it causes a lot of stress.That stress isnt what causes the feelings of affection, but stress makes it easy toincorrectly identify what your real feelings are. So, take the time to figure outwhat youre really feeling before making any assumptions.Assuming you have determined that you do, indeed, still love your ex then youshould know that you are not alone. As mentioned earlier, falling in love is a funnything. It is very rare that both people in a relationship fall in love with each otherat the exact same time; one or the other will feel love first. The same is true offalling out of love. While your ex may have fallen out of love with you, you stillhave strong feelings for them.At this point you have two options. You can either hope that your ex will fall backin love with you, or you can try to stop loving your ex. Only you know which one isthe best solution for you and your situation. Be careful here! Your first reactionwill be to answer quickly, but thats a mistake. Take the time to reflect on theanswer. Consider your motivations behind the answer. Do your best to be honestwith yourself and whats really going on.If you finally decide it will be best to try to patch things up and have your ex fall inlove with you again, then you need to be prepared to take the needed steps to
  • make that happen. Remember, your ex will change their feelings at a differentpace than you will. This means you need to give them the time they need to givethe relationship another chance.On the other hand, if you decide its best to move on and let your feelings fade foryour ex, then you need to start doing so as soon as you can. The quicker you canget over these feelings and move on, the better. That way, the next time you findthat youre asking yourself, "why am I still in love with my ex?” you can answer bysaying, "Im not. I have moved on to a brighter and better future!"I am interested in relationship and dating; I survived a break up with the love ofmy life and managed to get her back in less than a month, to download a free e-book on how to get back to your ex, please click here.Read more about my experience and download a FREE relationship e-book in mywebsite http://makingupofbreakup.com/