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Why Is My Boyfriend Acting The Way He Is?
 

Why Is My Boyfriend Acting The Way He Is?

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People change. That's a rather simple statement, but there can also be a lot of depth hidden in those two words. If you are in a relationship, then you are well-aware of how appropriate this saying ...

People change. That's a rather simple statement, but there can also be a lot of depth hidden in those two words. If you are in a relationship, then you are well-aware of how appropriate this saying can be. However, if your boyfriend has been acting really strange lately, has been trying to avoid you, or is treating you poorly, then you are probably asking yourself "why is my boyfriend acting the way he his?"

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    • Why Is My Boyfriend Acting The Way He Is?People change. Thats a rather simple statement, but there can also be a lot ofdepth hidden in those two words. If you are in a relationship, then you are well-aware of how appropriate this saying can be. However, if your boyfriend has beenacting really strange lately, has been trying to avoid you, or is treating you poorly,then you are probably asking yourself "why is my boyfriend acting the way hehis?"If its any comfort, you should know that a lot of women have asked themselvesthat exact same question over the years. To be honest, there is a chance that youwill never find out the real reason, and thats okay. On the other hand, you areprobably worried it could be for any number of reasons, and none of the reasonsyou are imaging are good.The first thing you need to consider is that your boyfriend isnt acting differentlyat all. In other words, the only thing that has really changed is you. Eithersomething else in your life has changed, or you are only now becoming aware ofhow your boyfriend is acting...even though he may have been acting this way theentire time. Your gut reaction will be that this isnt possible, but take a step backand try to look at things objectively.Lets assume that your boyfriend really is acting differently. What you need to dois clear your mind of any preconceived ideas for the causes of his behavior. Nomatter what you think the reason is, there is a strong chance that you aremistaken. Also, if you have a preconceived idea of why hes acting a certain way,then that can lead to false accusations.Generally speaking, men dont like to talk about things; they are taught to betough and not show any signs of weakness. For example, your boyfriend may beworried about losing his job, but he wont want to tell you that hes worriedbecause that would be a sign of weakness. However, he could be expressing that
    • stress in other ways, such as having a bad temper. You see the bad temper andask why my boyfriend is acting this way.Your mind starts racing and you may even try to think of what you could havedone to make him mad. But the truth is that you havent done anything; its hisjob thats the source of the problem. Things will only get better when you get tothe root of the problem.That means you are going to have to get him to open up about whats reallybothering him. Under no circumstances should you start the conversation bysaying the four words men dread most: "we need to talk." Just tart a naturalconversation in a calm and welcoming way. A good way to do this is to ask a fewnon-threatening, non-accusatory questions. Once he opens up you will have theanswer to your question, "why is my boyfriend acting the way he is?"I am interested in relationship and dating; I survived a break up with the love ofmy life and managed to get her back in less than a month, to download a free e-book on how to get back to your ex, please click here.Read more about my experience and download a FREE relationship e-book in mywebsite http://makingupofbreakup.com/