The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU

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Understand the Seven Habit of Highly Effective People.
What are your needs?
How to change yourself?
How to change the world?

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The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU

  1. 1. The Seven Habit of Highly Effective People Stephen Covey The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  2. 2. The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  3. 3. What do people need? The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  4. 4. Basic human needs Leave a legacy Live Learn Love The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  5. 5. How mature are you? The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  6. 6. Levels of Maturity Dependent Independent Interdependent Stephen Covey “The Seven Habit of Highly Effective People” The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  7. 7. The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  8. 8. In a strict sense, we are all dependent! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  9. 9. It is about emotional dependency! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  10. 10. You are dependent if: • You need to be recognized for what you do • You seek gratification through the thanking of others • You feel secure by the assurance of others MOST OF THE TIME! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  11. 11. Do not get me wrong! You CAN NOT be happy without people! Wait until we talk about interdependence. The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  12. 12. To be Independent … • You need to be … The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  13. 13. Your life is a product of your values not your feelings The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  14. 14. The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  15. 15. Your life is a product of your decisions not your conditions The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  16. 16. You and I have the capacity to choose our response The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  17. 17. To be Independent … • You need to take the initiative! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  18. 18. The last human freedom “the power to chose my response to any condition” The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  19. 19. Between the stimulus and the response lies your freedom to chose the response The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  20. 20. To be Independent … • You need to focus on what you can affect! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  21. 21. I have to revenge! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  22. 22. It is not what people do to us that hurts us, it’s our chosen response that hurts us The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  23. 23. Reactive people think about how to get back on people who tried to hurt them The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  24. 24. “Nothing can make you feel inferior without your consent” Eleanor Roosevelt The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  25. 25. Language of the proactive person: I chose to, I prefer to, yes, no, I will … The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  26. 26. To be Independent … • You need to set you own goals! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  27. 27. Develop a mission statement The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  28. 28. Let it become your eye glasses  you see everything through it The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  29. 29. SMART Goals The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  30. 30. The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  31. 31. Focus on relationships rather than schedules The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  32. 32. Focus on leadership not management The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  33. 33. Focus on your roles in life The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  34. 34. Becoming Independent Be Proactive Begin with the End in Mind The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik Put first things First #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  35. 35. Now that you became independent … The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  36. 36. Let’s go for interdependence! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  37. 37. To become interdependent … You need to think about what makes others happy The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  38. 38. Think Win-Win The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  39. 39. Nurture competency higher than yours without feeling threatened The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  40. 40. Share knowledge, recognition, gain, profit The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  41. 41. Builds a quality of a relationship The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  42. 42. No deal is always an option! Agree to disagree agreeably. The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  43. 43. To become interdependent … • You need to listen and understand what others need The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  44. 44. You need to be influenced to be able to influence The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  45. 45. You need to diagnose before prescribing the medicine The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  46. 46. Understand! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  47. 47. It requires patience and openness The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  48. 48. It requires a lot of time, but it saves a lot of time on the long run The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  49. 49. Understanding does not mean that you agree … it means that you accept the other The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  50. 50. Relationships are more important than efficiency The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  51. 51. To become interdependent … • You need to work out the solutions that will make everyone satisfied The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  52. 52. Differences – Do not respect differences! – Do not accept differences! – Do not tolerate differences! – CELEBRATE differences! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  53. 53. Be Objective! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  54. 54. The key to objectivity is to realize that we are subjective! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  55. 55. You see the world as you are, not as it is The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  56. 56. You look through the eyeglasses of your experience! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  57. 57. Synergy is the fruit! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  58. 58. Becoming interdependent Think WinWin Seek first to Understand … The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik Synergize #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  59. 59. Don’t forget your machine! The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  60. 60. Sharpen the Saw! Stephen Covey, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com
  61. 61. The four “Dimensions” of your life! Body Soul Relationships Mind The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik #WikiCourses http://WikiClourses.WikiSpaces.com

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