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Empowering Others… The Coach Approach Megan Raphael Courage Project Certified Professional Coach Author, award-winning boo...
“ You get the best effort from others not by lighting a fire beneath them, but by building a fire within.”   Bob Proctor
Today’s Presentation <ul><li>Your role and goals </li></ul><ul><li>Effective mindsets  </li></ul><ul><li>Great skills </li...
Your Role <ul><li>Connect  </li></ul><ul><li>Inspire </li></ul><ul><li>Empower </li></ul><ul><li>Inform </li></ul>In essen...
Your Goals <ul><li>1.  Build a  Partnership : </li></ul><ul><li>Safe, Respectful, Resolved </li></ul>
<ul><li>Help Your Client Connect with Their Inner Guidance </li></ul><ul><li>- What’s important? Why? </li></ul>
Inner Guidance =  Personal Power NOT Power  Over NOT Power  Under But,  Power WITH
Behavior  (How we Act) Attitude  (How We Feel) Thinking (What we believe) Our Core Values “ Alignment is the difference be...
<ul><li>“ How do women find their power? By being true to themselves, by starting to question, and taking control of their...
<ul><li>“ Coaching is 90% attitude, 10% teaching.” </li></ul><ul><li>Amory </li></ul>
What’s Your Attitude…  About Clients, About You? Heavy metal music Word: Hitler Words: Love & Gratitude Words: Thank you M...
3 Helpful Mindsets  About Your  Clients <ul><li>Naturally creative, resourceful and whole </li></ul><ul><li>It’s  their  l...
3 Helpful Mindsets  About  You <ul><li>Naturally creative, resourceful and whole </li></ul><ul><li>You don’t need to be th...
“ Be the change you want to see in the world”   Gandhi
How Empowered  Do YOU Feel?
Your Wheel of Life <ul><li>In what areas of your life are you: </li></ul><ul><li>Most/least satisfied? </li></ul><ul><li>M...
How Connected Are You  with Your Inner Voice?
5 Effective Skills  Creating Rapport & Momentum <ul><li>3 rd  level listening </li></ul><ul><li>-  Beneath their words </l...
Great Coaching Questions <ul><li>What do you want? </li></ul><ul><li>What’s important to you about that goal? </li></ul><u...
<ul><li>Uncovering Ambivalence </li></ul><ul><li>- Reasons I want to change? </li></ul><ul><li>- Reasons I want things to ...
<ul><li>Focusing on  Inspired </li></ul><ul><li>ACTION  (plus reflection) </li></ul><ul><li>“ Inspiration…Is remembering t...
One Way of Looking at Courage: <ul><li>Courage = Big, Bold Acts of Valor, Bravery </li></ul><ul><li>Outward actions only <...
 
What we think… <ul><li>Why aren’t I THAT courageous? </li></ul><ul><li>I couldn’t ever be that courageous! </li></ul><ul><...
What If… <ul><li>You saw COURAGE  </li></ul><ul><li>in a very different way???? </li></ul>
   Acts of Heart and Spirit    Choices…To Live…In Alignment Another Side of the Coin:    It’s unique to YOU!
 
Looking at Courage This Way: <ul><li>Following your own heart. </li></ul><ul><li>Standing up for yourself. </li></ul><ul><...
You  Are  Courageous! “ Big Acts”  of Courage” “ Everyday Acts”  of  Courage Divorce, moving to a new town, coming to this...
<ul><li>&quot;I never cease to be amazed at the power of the coaching process to draw out the skills or talent that was pr...
Megan Raphael <ul><li>For women  </li></ul><ul><li>who want to live well! </li></ul><ul><li>Crystal-clear direction </li><...
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Presented by Megan Raphael at the Annual WISEWOMAN Program Meeting May 5, 2010 Traverse City, MI

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  • Stress is caused when we’re not in alignment with our core values…which changes our thinking, affects our attitudes and ultimately our behavior with others.
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    1. 1. Empowering Others… The Coach Approach Megan Raphael Courage Project Certified Professional Coach Author, award-winning book The Courage Code
    2. 2. “ You get the best effort from others not by lighting a fire beneath them, but by building a fire within.” Bob Proctor
    3. 3. Today’s Presentation <ul><li>Your role and goals </li></ul><ul><li>Effective mindsets </li></ul><ul><li>Great skills </li></ul>
    4. 4. Your Role <ul><li>Connect </li></ul><ul><li>Inspire </li></ul><ul><li>Empower </li></ul><ul><li>Inform </li></ul>In essence…you are their coach!
    5. 5. Your Goals <ul><li>1. Build a Partnership : </li></ul><ul><li>Safe, Respectful, Resolved </li></ul>
    6. 6. <ul><li>Help Your Client Connect with Their Inner Guidance </li></ul><ul><li>- What’s important? Why? </li></ul>
    7. 7. Inner Guidance = Personal Power NOT Power Over NOT Power Under But, Power WITH
    8. 8. Behavior (How we Act) Attitude (How We Feel) Thinking (What we believe) Our Core Values “ Alignment is the difference between a happy person and a divided spirit.” John Maxwell
    9. 9. <ul><li>“ How do women find their power? By being true to themselves, by starting to question, and taking control of their lives.” </li></ul><ul><li>Flora B. </li></ul>
    10. 10. <ul><li>“ Coaching is 90% attitude, 10% teaching.” </li></ul><ul><li>Amory </li></ul>
    11. 11. What’s Your Attitude… About Clients, About You? Heavy metal music Word: Hitler Words: Love & Gratitude Words: Thank you Masaru Emoto, Hidden Message in Water
    12. 12. 3 Helpful Mindsets About Your Clients <ul><li>Naturally creative, resourceful and whole </li></ul><ul><li>It’s their life </li></ul><ul><li>Success starts with alignment </li></ul>
    13. 13. 3 Helpful Mindsets About You <ul><li>Naturally creative, resourceful and whole </li></ul><ul><li>You don’t need to be the expert </li></ul><ul><li>It’s about progress, not perfection </li></ul>
    14. 14. “ Be the change you want to see in the world” Gandhi
    15. 15. How Empowered Do YOU Feel?
    16. 16. Your Wheel of Life <ul><li>In what areas of your life are you: </li></ul><ul><li>Most/least satisfied? </li></ul><ul><li>Most/least aligned? </li></ul><ul><li>Most/least empowered? </li></ul>Financial Career Personal Growth Making a Difference Spirituality Recreation Health and Appearance Relationships
    17. 17. How Connected Are You with Your Inner Voice?
    18. 18. 5 Effective Skills Creating Rapport & Momentum <ul><li>3 rd level listening </li></ul><ul><li>- Beneath their words </li></ul><ul><li>- To your intuition </li></ul><ul><li>2. Questioning </li></ul><ul><li>“ Probably my best quality as a coach is that I ask a lot of challenging ?’s and let them come up with their own answers.” Eddie Robinson </li></ul>
    19. 19. Great Coaching Questions <ul><li>What do you want? </li></ul><ul><li>What’s important to you about that goal? </li></ul><ul><li>What brings you joy? </li></ul><ul><li>What fulfills you? </li></ul><ul><li>What drains you? </li></ul><ul><li>How would your life look different if… </li></ul><ul><li>What would you do if you absolutely knew you wouldn’t fail? </li></ul>
    20. 20. <ul><li>Uncovering Ambivalence </li></ul><ul><li>- Reasons I want to change? </li></ul><ul><li>- Reasons I want things to stay the same? </li></ul><ul><li>4. Looking to Past Successes/Strengths </li></ul><ul><li>- What worked? Lessons learned? </li></ul><ul><li>- Done it once…do it again </li></ul>
    21. 21. <ul><li>Focusing on Inspired </li></ul><ul><li>ACTION (plus reflection) </li></ul><ul><li>“ Inspiration…Is remembering the future.” John Cahill </li></ul><ul><li>- Pulls forward, see around obstacles </li></ul><ul><li>- Action steps each time. </li></ul><ul><li>6. Reinforcing their Courage </li></ul>
    22. 22. One Way of Looking at Courage: <ul><li>Courage = Big, Bold Acts of Valor, Bravery </li></ul><ul><li>Outward actions only </li></ul><ul><li>One size fits all </li></ul>
    23. 24. What we think… <ul><li>Why aren’t I THAT courageous? </li></ul><ul><li>I couldn’t ever be that courageous! </li></ul><ul><li>I’m not courageous. </li></ul>
    24. 25. What If… <ul><li>You saw COURAGE </li></ul><ul><li>in a very different way???? </li></ul>
    25. 26.  Acts of Heart and Spirit  Choices…To Live…In Alignment Another Side of the Coin:  It’s unique to YOU!
    26. 28. Looking at Courage This Way: <ul><li>Following your own heart. </li></ul><ul><li>Standing up for yourself. </li></ul><ul><li>Holding true to your own values. </li></ul><ul><li>Being resilient. </li></ul><ul><li>Creating a life you want…helping others create a life they want. </li></ul>
    27. 29. You Are Courageous! “ Big Acts” of Courage” “ Everyday Acts” of Courage Divorce, moving to a new town, coming to this class, etc. Speaking up, resolving conflict, taking quiet time for yourself, etc.
    28. 30. <ul><li>&quot;I never cease to be amazed at the power of the coaching process to draw out the skills or talent that was previously hidden within an individual, and which invariably finds a way to solve a problem previously thought unsolvable.&quot; </li></ul><ul><li>John Russell, Managing Director, Harley-Davidson Europe Ltd . </li></ul>
    29. 31. Megan Raphael <ul><li>For women </li></ul><ul><li>who want to live well! </li></ul><ul><li>Crystal-clear direction </li></ul><ul><li>Mastery of your psychology for getting what you want </li></ul><ul><li>Courage to take action . </li></ul>www.courageproject.com
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