Infidelity Issues Facebook

Facebook: A story to think about.....Here's a situation. Read, analyze, and tell me what you would do in this situation if you were Jennifer. Woman and Man points of views. There is a question at the end of the scenario. Please answer YES or NO. I would like an opinion from everyone. Bob and Jennifer known each other for five years. They started dating the last two years of their friendship. After dating, the couple took their relationship to another level. Love was in the air. Jennifer went away for school for half of a year and her and Bob conversed day after day to keep their relationship intact. She shared stories with him about school and he shared stories with her about home. She was content although long distance relationships are pretty hard to deal with. When Jennifer came back home, she had odd feelings about Bob. Something didn't sit with her right. He acted very different. She questioned infidelity issues and he denied question after question. After being home for two months, she got very restless. She needed to know what was bothering her. She woke up one night while Bob was sleeping and searched through his wallet and phone to find a text message from an unknown female. "Sarah???!!!! Who's Sarah?" As she read through the messages, she finds out very disturbing news. He had sex with this woman more than once and she is pregnant due the following month. So Bob lied to Jennifer and she was very upset. She cried, got mad, got angry, thought about killing him while he was asleep and cried some more. Clueless on what to do, she took it all in and fell back asleep. As a few days went on Jennifer acted different towards Bob because she knew what was going on and she wanted him to tell her the truth instead of hiding it. So Jennifer got real impatient and finally blurted it out, " Who the fuck is Sarah, Bob?" Bob says "Huh?". The typical word a man could say when he knows he's caught. Silence..........Jennifer explains what she did and how she found out and Bob was shocked by these words. He sat down and explained hisself to her. Saying that it was a long time ago when she first left, and it only happened four times. And that he doesn't love her, never did and it just happened because he was being stupid and wasn't thinking about all the good things he had in his life. Jennifer cried wondering why her man would do this to her if he loved her so much. And it seemed that Jennifer just couldn't let him go because she loved him so much and put so much time and effort into this relationship that she knows it'll just hurt more to let go. After re-evaluating the situation and all the apologetic remarks from Bob. Jennifer knew she loved her man and he loved her, she didn't want to let go so easily. Sarah knew nothing of Bob and Jennifer's relationship until after the baby was born. Now after a few months, Sarah finds a way to contact Bob thru child support. And he says he wants a DNA test. So she gives him one and weeks later...the baby boy is really his. Bob never had to pay child support but Sarah just wanted Bob to treat her son like he's his, so he would know who his father was. At this point Jennifer accepted this dent in her life and found out two months later she was pregnant. As her emotions took over her some days, she cried over that harsh situation that Bob got another woman pregnant, not intentionally, but cheating period, made her so upset, she wanted to leave Bob. But she couldn't bring herself to do it because her love for him was so strong. Sarah knows that Bob is in a serious relationship and she knows Jennifer is pregnant. Sarah and Jennifer has never spoken but know what each other looks like through Facebook. Now Facebook fans, here's the question: Although noone knows of these issues between Bob and Jennifer....Jennifer has accepted this burn on her shoulder, forgave Bob for it but hasn't forgotten it happened. Trust issues are still a little flaky but she's giving him this chance to really turn things around. Sarah befriends Bob on Facebook, he accepts. Then she posts pictures of the baby boy on his wall and then posts a picture of herself and the baby boy on his wall......Jennifer is uncomfortable with a picture of her on his wall post. She thinks its okay for Sarah to post pictures of the baby boy but not of herself and the baby boy. Bob doesn't care. Jennifer does care and takes a bit of offense to it that the girl is being disrespectful in a sense because she knows its Facebook, everyone is on it everyday viewing profiles. Do you think Jennifer is taking it too far on saying to Bob, "Take the picture of Sarah down off your wall post because I don't want to see her on there if I go to your page."???? Do you think Jennifer is jealous? Or do you think this is okay for the girl Sarah to do this knowing that Bob has a woman and it might cause confliction? Do you think Bob should take the picture down and let Sarah know that she shouldn't do that because it makes his girl feel uncomfortable? A picture of the baby boy is fine in Jennifer's eyes.....Tell me what you think Facebook. my email is mstwilliams4@yahoo.com or yahoo msgner : mstwilliams4

or hit me on Facebook for those that know me. Tamara Williams

Infidelity Issues Facebook

by mistyeyed on Mar 28, 2010

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