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Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
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  • Look at your love club for themes, such as lawyers, artists, engineers
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    • 1. 7 to 10
      Finding Your Mate with the RIGHT Dates
    • 2. Focus on 7 to 10
      Rate experiences and relationships on a 1-10 scale
      7 to 10 “good to great” Brings out the best in you.
      4 to 6 “okay to good.”
      1 to 3 “bad to okay” Brings out the worst in you.
      Purpose is to define and stay focused on building and maintaining “7 to 10” relationships and a “7 to 10” life.
    • 3. Circles of Life Assessment
      Everything is interconnected
      Work and Personal Life
      Health: physical, mental/emotional, intellectual, spiritual
      Relationships: yourself, significant other, family and friends.
      Resources: time, financial, energy, and acquaintances.
      Play or “Fun” activities: hobbies (cooking…), classes, sports, travel…
    • 4. Tools for Doing a “Big Picture” Reality Check
      Identify hidden opportunities
      Business development tool
      Killing two or more birds with one stone.
    • 5. Know and Own Your Value
      Acknowledge and accept a confidence dip or bad feelings.
      Feeling good is a good thing and so is feeling bad.
      Refocus on positives and big picture
      Why I am fabulous
      Record testimonials and compliments
      Trust what your “golden network” says about you
    • 6. Ideal Mate Profile
      Define you ideal mate
      Be specific and concise
      Write it down
    • 7. Your Niche
      A specific group of people based on personal preference
      Location, age, sex, religion, personality type…
      Going from a niche to micro niche.
      Atlanta, 40-60, male, Jewish, outgoing…
      Decatur, 45-55, conservative, outgoing and intellectual…
    • 8. Maximize Your Network
      Focus on your 7 to 10 relationships
      Helping, Giving and Caring
      Getting involved and leadership role
      Especially when there is an opportunity to create a meaningful memory.
      Attend a wedding, retirement party, “big” birthday party
      Attend a funeral, hospital visit, acknowledge of a loss (job, loved one…)
    • 9. Emotions Management Tools
      The power of the pause
      The power of the positive sandwich
    • 10. Easy to Understand and Hard to Do
      Unexpected events
      Ongoing help and support
      Support groups, family and friends, workshops, classes…
      Hire a professional counselor
      Experience and expertise
      Ideal profile and niche
    • 11. Q & A
    • 12. Thank You For Coming!

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