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Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
Finding your mate with the right dates 1
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    • 1. 7 to 10<br />Finding Your Mate with the RIGHT Dates<br />
    • 2. Focus on 7 to 10 <br /> Rate experiences and relationships on a 1-10 scale<br />7 to 10 “good to great” Brings out the best in you.<br />4 to 6 “okay to good.”<br />1 to 3 “bad to okay” Brings out the worst in you.<br />Purpose is to define and stay focused on building and maintaining “7 to 10” relationships and a “7 to 10” life.<br />
    • 3. Circles of Life Assessment<br />Everything is interconnected<br />Work and Personal Life<br />Health: physical, mental/emotional, intellectual, spiritual<br />Relationships: yourself, significant other, family and friends.<br />Resources: time, financial, energy, and acquaintances. <br />Play or “Fun” activities: hobbies (cooking…), classes, sports, travel…<br />
    • 4. Tools for Doing a “Big Picture” Reality Check<br />Identify hidden opportunities<br />Business development tool<br />Killing two or more birds with one stone.<br />
    • 5. Know and Own Your Value <br />Acknowledge and accept a confidence dip or bad feelings.<br />Feeling good is a good thing and so is feeling bad. <br />Refocus on positives and big picture<br />Why I am fabulous<br />Record testimonials and compliments<br />Trust what your “golden network” says about you<br />
    • 6. Ideal Mate Profile<br />Define you ideal mate<br />Be specific and concise<br />Write it down<br />
    • 7. Your Niche<br />A specific group of people based on personal preference<br />Location, age, sex, religion, personality type…<br />Going from a niche to micro niche.<br />Atlanta, 40-60, male, Jewish, outgoing…<br />Decatur, 45-55, conservative, outgoing and intellectual…<br />
    • 8. Maximize Your Network<br />Focus on your 7 to 10 relationships<br />Helping, Giving and Caring<br />Getting involved and leadership role<br />Especially when there is an opportunity to create a meaningful memory.<br />Attend a wedding, retirement party, “big” birthday party<br />Attend a funeral, hospital visit, acknowledge of a loss (job, loved one…)<br />
    • 9. Emotions Management Tools<br />The power of the pause<br />The power of the positive sandwich<br />
    • 10. Easy to Understand and Hard to Do<br />Unexpected events<br />Ongoing help and support<br />Support groups, family and friends, workshops, classes…<br />Hire a professional counselor<br />Experience and expertise<br />Ideal profile and niche<br />
    • 11. Q &amp; A<br />
    • 12. Thank You For Coming!<br />

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