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  • 7 to 10
    Finding Your Mate with the RIGHT Dates
  • Focus on 7 to 10
    Rate experiences and relationships on a 1-10 scale
    7 to 10 “good to great” Brings out the best in you.
    4 to 6 “okay to good.”
    1 to 3 “bad to okay” Brings out the worst in you.
    Purpose is to define and stay focused on building and maintaining “7 to 10” relationships and a “7 to 10” life.
  • Circles of Life Assessment
    Everything is interconnected
    Work and Personal Life
    Health: physical, mental/emotional, intellectual, spiritual
    Relationships: yourself, significant other, family and friends.
    Resources: time, financial, energy, and acquaintances.
    Play or “Fun” activities: hobbies (cooking…), classes, sports, travel…
  • Tools for Doing a “Big Picture” Reality Check
    Identify hidden opportunities
    Business development tool
    Killing two or more birds with one stone.
  • Know and Own Your Value
    Acknowledge and accept a confidence dip or bad feelings.
    Feeling good is a good thing and so is feeling bad.
    Refocus on positives and big picture
    Why I am fabulous
    Record testimonials and compliments
    Trust what your “golden network” says about you
  • Ideal Mate Profile
    Define you ideal mate
    Be specific and concise
    Write it down
  • Your Niche
    A specific group of people based on personal preference
    Location, age, sex, religion, personality type…
    Going from a niche to micro niche.
    Atlanta, 40-60, male, Jewish, outgoing…
    Decatur, 45-55, conservative, outgoing and intellectual…
  • Maximize Your Network
    Focus on your 7 to 10 relationships
    Helping, Giving and Caring
    Getting involved and leadership role
    Especially when there is an opportunity to create a meaningful memory.
    Attend a wedding, retirement party, “big” birthday party
    Attend a funeral, hospital visit, acknowledge of a loss (job, loved one…)
  • Emotions Management Tools
    The power of the pause
    The power of the positive sandwich
  • Easy to Understand and Hard to Do
    Unexpected events
    Ongoing help and support
    Support groups, family and friends, workshops, classes…
    Hire a professional counselor
    Experience and expertise
    Ideal profile and niche
  • Q & A
  • Thank You For Coming!