Relational Development & Interpersonal Communication In Computer Mediated Contexts
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Relational Development & Interpersonal Communication in Computer Mediated Contexts
Max Smith
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Computer-Mediated Communication and Relational Development
As of September 2009, there are reportedly 1.7 billion users on the internet daily
(Minwatts, 2009).With a quarter of the globe using the internet, computer-mediated
communication has never been more prevalent, and yet such a medium is still increasing. Since
the 1990’s, communication studies have been done regarding computer-mediated communication
and the ever growing facets in which people converse using technology (Craig, Cunningham,
Igiel, Ploeger, & Wright, 2007). Computer-mediated communication means communication
being sustained by the use of a machine, in most cases a computer (Walther, 1996). Mediums
developed for business purposes, such as cellular phones, social networking, or computer-
conferencing, continue branching into the interpersonal scope. As this type of communication
expands in use, scholars are more and more pressed to develop theories of how interpersonal
communication behaves over a computer-mediated environment (Craig et al., 2007).
Interpersonal communication is referenced as relational development or developing a dyadic
relationship (Griffin, 2006; Walther, 1996). The more scholars and people alike understand
interpersonal computer-mediated communication, as opposed to face-to-face, the better equipped
they are to develop a relationship via computer-mediation. Although some research has shown
similarities in interpersonal communication between face-to-face and computer-mediated
interaction, social information processing theory would explain differently (Griffin, 2006).
Demonstrating a topical structure, this review explores the effects of computer-mediated
interaction on interpersonal communication (relational development) investigating the variables
of verbal clues of affinity and chronemics as undergrid by social information processing theory.
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Social Information Processing Theory
To understand how computer-mediated interaction effects relational development an
understanding of how it communicates is necessary. Scholars have used a plethora of theories to
discuss how computer-mediated environments effect communication but for sake of parsimony a
predominant three will be mentioned; Social Presence Theory, Media Richness Theory, and
Social Information Processing Theory (Griffin, 2006).
Social Presence Theory states that textual based messages desensitize users to the feeling
of a warm body interacting with them thus creating a more impersonal and task-oriented setting
of communication (Griffin, 2006). Also, Media Richness theory suggests that computer mediated
communication leaves out highly emotional aesthetics not transferable via computer-mediated
communication (Griffin, 2006). As stated by Griffin (2006), these theories underscore the idea
that computer-mediated interaction is impersonal and set more towards business and task-
oriented jobs than social interaction and relational development. Because this review is focusing
on interpersonal communication, and more importantly relationship development, social
information processing theory is used to frame the research of this paper. Proposed to understand
interpersonal relationships over a computer-mediated environment, Joe Walther developed social
information processing theory (Craig et al., 2007; Griffin, 2006). According to Walther (1996), a
person on-line using computer-mediated interaction to communicate interpersonally, based on
the information gathered (and or any other prior social information) he or she formulates an
impression and what follows is the development of a relationship. Social information processing
theory, congruent with uncertainty reduction and social processing theory, hinges on two main
variables: verbal cues of affinity and chronemics (Griffin, 2006). These variables provide
rationale for relational development via computer-mediated interaction (Griffin, 2006). Verbal
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cues, variably speaking, are the verbal nuances users demonstrate to compensate for aesthetic
communication lost through the medium of computer-mediation (Griffin, 2006). Meaning, Non-
verbal cues of affinity one would perceive face-to-face must be conveyed textually when using
computer-mediation (Craig et al., 2007). Chronemics is the study of how people communicating
distinguish and respond to others in regards to issue of time (Doering, & Sandra, 2007; Griffin
2006). Walther states that this variable is so crucial because it is one non-verbal cue that remains
present over computer-mediated communication (Griffin, 2006). Unlike cues such as tone of
voice or interpersonal distance that are lost during computer-mediation, the availability of time is
not; making it that much more important to the development of a relationship. By looking at the
variables of verbal cues of affinity and chronemics, we can determine the effects of computer-
mediated communication in relational development (Griffin, 2006).
Computer-Mediated Environments influencing Interpersonal Communication
Although some research suggest that computer-mediated relationships act similarly to
face-to-face communication, investigating the variables of verbal clues of affinity and
chronemics provide evidence that relational development differs when communicated through a
mode of computer-mediation (Craig et al., 2007; Parks & Roberts 1996; Hara & Yum, 2006;
Walther, 1996).
For example, in given online circumstances, computer mediated-communication has
similarities to face-to-face interpersonal relationships. Hara and Yum (2006) propose that if
motivated by the rationale to communicate socially and meaningfully, the internet is a place
where individuals come to engage in meaningful interpersonal communication. Stating that
people who are motivated to engage in purposeful interpersonal communication regardless of
medium, mode, or culture relational development will follow (Hara & Yum, 2006). Also, Hara
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and Yum (2006) found, in terms of disclosure and relationship quality, more similarities are
found than differences between computer-mediated and face-to-face interaction. Stating that the
more information disclosed on both mediums leads to a more rewarding relationship (Hara &
Yum, 2006; Parks & Roberts, 2008; Walther, 1996). Even though some research does show a
comparative side between face-to-face communication and computer mediated communication,
further research demonstrates the effects of computer-mediated interaction on relational
development.
As emphasized by social information processing theory, during relational development
the use of verbal cues of affinity are necessary due to a lack of non-verbal communicating
signals (hand gestures, tone of voice, body proximity, etcetera) that are present during face-to-
face communication (Griffin, 2006). According to Craig et al. (2007), “Similarity and attraction
are two initial interpersonal perceptions that have been found to be important antecedents of
relational development in previous research in both the face-to-face world and on-line (p.13).”
Because users communicating via computer have no non-verbal cues to base this attraction or
similarity, research shows that self-disclosure is a determining factor when looking at verbal cues
of affinity (Antheunis, Peter, & Schouten, 2007; Craig et al., 2007). For example, Ramirez and
Burgoon (2001) conducted a study regarding computer-mediated interaction and media-rich
environments using the social networking cites. Environments that disclose more information
regarding relational partners lead to increased interpersonal communication; suggesting this self-
disclosure is a signpost for healthy relational development (Burgoon & Ramirez, 2001).
In addition to Ramirez and Burgoon, Antheunis et al. (2007) research posits that text-only
based messages increased dyadic self-disclosure when communicating through textual
conversation as opposed to face-to-face. In congruence with social information processing
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theory, research also found that the more relevant the information disclosed amongst dyads, the
more interpersonal attraction increased (Antheunis, Peter, & Schouten, 2007). Qualitative
analysis showed that in addition to depth of disclosure, similarity amongst dyads also increased
the greater variety of self-disclosure via on-line interaction (Antheunis, Peter, & Schouten, 2007;
Burgoon & Ramirez, 2001). According to Antheunis, Peter, and Schouten (2007), dyads using a
text-based communicating service rated their relational experience higher or more meaningful
the more variety of self-disclosure witnessed. Stating that the greater variety (in breadth, as
opposed to depth) in which one self-discloses information, the better chance one has to develop a
relationship via a computer-meditation environment (Antheunis, Peter, & Schouten, 2007).
Research also suggests that this self-disclosure is reciprocal as well (Gilding & Henderson, 2004;
Craig et al., 2007). This reciprocation dictates that the more information a sender discloses the
more information he will receive (Antheunis, Peter, & Schouten, 2007; Gilding & Henderson,
2004). The data presented, as suggested by social information processing theory, shows self-
disclosure as a verbal non-cue of affinity and its importance to relational development. While
self-disclosure, a verbal cue of affinity, effects relational development via computer-mediation it
is not the only determining factor.
Chronemics, as stated above, is the study of how people communicating distinguish and
respond to others in regards to time (Doering & Sandra, 2007). According to social information
processing theory, the chronemics of relational development via computer-mediated
communication are focused with the amount of time allotted for each dyad to communicate
(Griffin, 2006). Walther (1996) states that messages online move four times slower than in-
person. During asynchronous communication a person has optimal time to comprise their
message as well as edit their message, requiring more time to accumulate information (Burgoon,
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Doering & Sandra, 2007; Ramirez, Sunnafrank, & Walther, 2001). In fact, some research has
shown that asynchronous messaging such as discussion boards and e-mail have more personal
information transferred than comparable face-to-face relationships (Antheunis, Peter, &
Schouten, 2007; Doering & Sandra, 2007; Walther, 1996). This of course is dependent on the
extent of time to communicate Griffin, 1996). An example, asynchronous chat with time
restriction has shown to provide evidence of highly impersonal communication and little
evidence to support the possibility of interpersonal relationship development (Burgoon et al.,
2001; Walther 1996). Trust is another relational factor altered by the extended time variable.
Trust, as described by Gilding & Hendersen (2004), when using computer-mediated
communication is a key component in relational development dictated much by chronemics.
Research shows that dyadic trust increases when more time is allotted for communication
regardless of impersonal or interpersonal (Gilding & Hendersen, 2004; Caplan & High, 2008).
Caplan and High (2008), found that within 206 dyadic participants, restrictions on time lead to
less trust and higher social-anxiety. These figures are congruent with data showing the absence
of ample time negatively effecting interpersonal trust amongst group members (Doering &
Sandra, 2007; Gilding & Hendersen, 2006). Because trust takes time to develop and
conversational time moves slower via computer-mediation, more time is needed to sustain
relational development (Caplan & High, 2008; Gilding & Hendersen, 2004; Griffin 2006). This
data shows the emphasis on the variable of extended time and its necessity to interpersonal
computer-mediated communication.
Self-disclosure, Chronemics, & Relational Development
Computer-mediated relational development, although similar to face-to-face
communication, hinges on two distinct differences described by social information processing
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Theory (Walther, 1996). As the paper examines, the richness of relational development via
computer-mediation is dependent on the amount of disclosure found between dyads as well as
the amount of time given for a relationship to develop. The greater breadth and depth at which
information is disclosed, the greater chance of relational development and the same can be said
for time allotted. The more time a dyad has to converse the more the relationship will develop.
This review, however beneficial, is confined by its own limitations: the constant evolution of
communicative technology or sex in relation to computer-mediated communication. Given the
fast-paced fruition of our computer-mediated technology, the combining of all computer-
mediated communication dilutes mediation effects that certain mediums may have distinct from
one another. For example, texting in certain situations may require more time than video
messaging to communicate interpersonally, or, e-mail may require higher levels of self-
disclosure than the use of a social networking cite. Little research surrounds the exact mediation
regarding individual types of computer-mediated communication and relational development.
Also, few studies regarding interpersonal communication and computer-mediation take into
account the sex of the dyad. The sex of each participant may have an effect on how each person
gears their responses and or perceives them; women converse with women differently, as women
converse with men differently, as men converse with men differently, and etcetera. The lack of
information surrounding these subjects makes good discussion for future research.
Researching the exact mediation effects of certain types of computer-mediated
technologies such as tweeting, blogging, or iChatting, in relation to interpersonal communication
could prove a better channel to develop relationships. Also, a study regarding how sex is
perceived and dictated over computer-mediated interaction could show tendencies skewing other
researcher’s data or provide new theoretical framework. Growing from these limitations is how
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we continue to compile information bettering our knowledge of a given subject. As society leans
more and more towards using technology to communicate, more will be required to better
understand how communication affects people and is affected by people.
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