ORIGIN OF MIRRORSOne day Narcissus saw his reflection in the waterand fell in love with it, that was the first mirror.Men then made mirrors to get a close up look atthemselves.Mirrors work by reflection and People are likemirrors they only reflect back to us what weshow them.
The Most written and spoken about topics have at their center, a mirror• Leadership • Success
The Highest Common Multiple • So what is the common factor of leaders and the ultra successful people? • Confidence • It is all in the Mirror. • What do you see in yourself
• If you don’t see success no one will see it in you• If you don’t see Leadership, no one will see it in you.• Remember people will only reflect to us what we show them.
Confidence is the Key• For anyone to achieve anything of significant magnitude in their career, personal life or their finances, they must believe unequivocally that they have got what it takes to achieve that goal plan or dream.• Every leader and successful person exudes Confidence.
Elements of confidence Self Esteem Self Confidence Self Self BeliefPerception
Self PerceptionPerception is the spectacles with which yousee yourself .In essence you will project onto otherswhat you see in yourself,If you see yourself as a failure, so willothersIf you see yourself as a nobody so willothers.On the other hand if you see a Leader, asuccess, a good friend, a dependableperson only then will other people seethese qualities in you.
• There is no substitute to self belief in the building of confidence and ultimately in the achievement of significance in life.
• Your Experiences • What people say about you ( outside programming) • What you say about yourself (Internal programmingWhere does your self belief come from
YOUR EXPERIENCES• Every experience you have been through in life has been deposited forever in your subconscious mind.• If you’ve failed in the past you could adopt a belief that you are a failure• However those who live to their potential have learned to turn every negative experience into learning points
• If you want to increase your chances of success, double your rates of failure Thomas Watson founder of IBM
WHAT PEOPLE SAY we really can’t decide what people will say about us, but we can decide if we will believe it or not.What people say about us is their opinion of us not the Truth of who we are.
What you say about yourself• From the Fullness of a mans heart the mouth speaks• As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. Jesus
HOW TO PROJECT CONFIDENCE 1. How you greet people 2. Your voice 3. Your posture 4. Your facial expressions 5. Your wrapping
summery• Confidence is the common denominator between leadership and success the things we all want to achieve.• People want to be with and work with confident people because confidence rubs on.• Confident people never have to belittle others to feel better about themselves.