The Right Person Myth
We look for the one. That one person that will make us happy. That one person that we can look at all day. But the problem is, one does not simply find the one. I hope we can shift our perspective and learn a better principle we need to live by – search inside not outside. Let me clarify that as I discuss, and debunk the “Right Person” Myth. Instead of spending all your time and energy trying to find the "right person," intentionally work on becoming the right person. Prepare for your future "right person." The Bible doesn't tell us too much on how to find Mr or Mrs Right, but it does have lots of principles on how to prepare for a relationship. After all, we were created for a relationship but it doesn't happen accidentally or magically - it takes work, intentionality, research, time, and effort. I know sometimes it’s hard to love and our capability to love can only be strong once we learn how much God loves you. The bible says that God is Love and we love because He first loved us. Immerse yourself in the love of God and allow it to change you. Only through the love of God will be have the capability to love others. Don’t get hung up on looking for the right one. Be right first. Are you the person you are looking for, is looking for?
