Building a Network – Internet Words from the Heart
Building a Network – Internet Words from the Hearthttp://www.empowernetwork.com/kevinsousa/words- from- the- heart December 10, 2012I entitled this article, “Building a Net work – Int ernet Words FromThe Heart ” because I wrote it for anyone who works in the InternetMarketing industry.Let me start by saying, you cannot please everyone with anything inlife. We make no demands of anyone in Network Marketing. You areresponsible for your own success.There are no bosses. Not all of the leaders provide live training andpresentation webinars. The leaders who choose to pay for asoftware and provide these functions, do it in order to shareknowledge and mostly for the enrichment and camaraderie of eachother. They don’t owe it to anyone.The webinars are 100% voluntary. I learned a hard lesson many yearsago that we are 100% responsible for our own success or failure withanything in life. For example, if people in your network do not want todo what it takes to succeed, you have no right to pass judgement on Words f rom the Heartthem. It’s their business, not yours.Aww…Are you angry because they are doing nothing or quitting?Then, replace them with someone else. Take responsibility! Quit whining. That’s for children whoneed to learn the lessons of life.Don’t blame your upline or your downline for your success or failure. Blame yourself! You and Ishould absolutely refuse to accept responsibility for anyone else’s success or failure, period. It’snot up to me if YOU succeed. It’s not up to you if THEY succeed.It’s up to YOU to succeed and no one else…Not your upline; not your downline.Aww…Are you having a tough time enrolling people? Then TAKE CHARGE and create ways toregister people…if and only if your goals are important enough to you.If your written goal is not important enough to you, then by all means, blame your upline anddownline for your challenges and failures along the way, but don’t expect anyone else to pay yourbills. Take responsibility for your life. Blame yourself.
What? What was that? You don’t have written specific goals?If you do, you will succeed and take responsibility for your success. If you don’t, you’ll be like themasses and blame everything and everybody else for your failures. You will quit at the first sign offailure, or even after many failures. You will refuse to spend the monthly fee to maintain yourmembership and take the ‘easy way out’ by claiming poverty.Successful people, even before they actually realize their goals, never give up and never blameothers for their temporary failures along the way. That’s right, temporary failures. You fail whenyou quit trying, not when you fail and fail again.If a webinar needs to be cancelled for any reason, let alone family emergencies, you are completelyout of line and irresponsible to pass judgement. You don’t owe anybody in your downline anythingand your upline doesn’t owe YOU anything.This industry is 100% voluntary and so is any help you are able to give anyone in your network. Getout of the ‘employer/employee’ mentality. Network Marketing is not a job. It’s a business.Again, I wrote this article entitled, “Building a Net work – Int ernet Words From The Heart ”because I am another leader, stepping out of the Network Marketing crowd, to share with themasses. I want to tell it like it is and hold no punches.It’s an industry for mature, dedicated, responsible people who are sick and tired of the rat race;people who want more out of life and are willing to do whatever it takes without violating therights of others; people who are willing to press onward, even when they are having challengesbuilding or maintaining their network.I used to think… “Am I stupid or something? Am I an idiot for pressing on when I am getting zeroresults? People join, do nothing, then quit! I must be ‘as soft as a grape’ for staying in thisridiculous business, having no success. That’s it! I’m out of here! I’m going to find a REAL businessand not put up with this anymore!”Yes…that’s how I used to think! That was the ‘old Kevin,’ when I blamed everything else butmyself. Of course with what little I did to find people, I would still blame the business and others formy miserable little failures. Of course, I did not believe in written goals. However, I quicklydiscovered that whatever other business I tried, I needed to adopt and utilize the same qualitiesand principles that I avoided or denied with the others.I finally decided that I wanted to follow STRENGTH. I decided to follow and learn from leaders inthe Network Marketing industry who are not afraid to work for what they want and willing to helpothers do the same; leaders who refuse to allow the negative attitudes of others to bring themdown. Those are the people that I decided to follow and to inspire others to travel with me on thesame road to success!It wasn’t until I made the conscious decision to write down goals, which I didn’t see how I wasgoing to achieve, that I began the road to achievement. I said to myself…That’s it! No morecomplaining. I will do whatever it takes, for as long as it takes, to succeed.If your goals are important enough to you, you will learn how to do what it takes to build and leadan organization of people. After all, this is what it takes in order to earn and sustain the BIGincome in Network Marketing.If you’re not willing to take responsibility, then quit. Go ahead. Do something else, but rememberthis…you will STILL need to learn how to take responsibility with whatever you do. There’s no
magic potion in any business. Success in business is not for lazy people who want everythinghanded to them on a silver platter; who think they can find an automated way to become rich!It takes guts, failures, responsibility, hard work and written goals to succeed.“People are not joining me!”“People are joining and doing not hing!”“People are quit t ing!”“I can’t af f ord t he mont hly f ee!”So what? I don’t care. I’m going to keep going anyway. I’ll eat less to in order to pay for themonthly fee. I’ll keep showing the opportunity in spite of all those things.In fact, even if the monthly fee increased and I don’t have the money, I would still eat less in orderto pay for it. That’s just what I would do.Some people have said, “You’re stupid, Kevin for continuing. Hardly anyone ever makes money inthat. You’ll never make money!Let them think and say those things. That just tells me I’m right on track! They were wrong. Mypersistence has paid off and so will yours if you STOP listening to negative well-meaning friends,relatives and associates who love to steal your dreams!The reason why is because my goal is important enough to me not to give up, no matter whatother people think, say or do. No matter what little results I am getting along the way, I will persistuntil I succeed and so should you.Do not allow the negative attitude of most people to affect your journey of success. What theythink about you or your industry is none of your business and irrelevant. Only what YOU thinkdetermines the level of responsibility you will take for your success in life.Whether you believe it or not, you already have all of the qualities of becoming everything youwould like to become. I don’t care what’s happening in your life. Success stories are filled withpeople who succeeded in spite of their personal circumstances. Study audios, books and videos ofsuccessful people every single day. Associate yourself with winners.Take responsibility. Quit complaining. Read, see and believe yourself already in possession of yourwritten goals. Do whatever it takes when it comes to building a net work and heed my int ernetwords f rom t he heart !You’re a winner. Start acting like one!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~If you liked this content, please ‘like and share.’Skype: www.kevinsousa.wsClick Here t o Work Wit h Me Personally.p.s. How t o Earn $1200 per Day, t he Easy Way!Click Here t o f ind out how!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
About The Author: Kevin SousaFor more t han 30 years, I have list ened t o t housands of audio recordings andpersonally counseled wit h some of t he most highly successf ul people in t heworld. I’ve at t ended hundreds of seminars and read count less books onmot ivat ion, skill wit h people, at t it ude and t he psychology of success. The very specialpeople who became my ment ors and best f riends, gave me not hing but help, pat ience,underst anding and love as I mat ured in personal growt h. For t hat I am f orever grat ef ul. Now Ipay it f orward. Decide what you want . Believe you can have it . Believe you deserve it .Believe it ’s possible f or you. Then close your eyes every day f or several minut es t ovisualize already having what you want and t he f eelings of already having it . Come out oft hat and f ocus on what you’re grat ef ul f or already and really enjoy it . Then go int o t he dayand release it t o t he universe. Trust t hat t he universe will f igure out how t o manif est it .Then be aware of t he people, circumst ances and event s t hat surround you, t o help youachieve your goals and dreams. Act on f ait h, f eel t he f eelings and be grat ef ul as t hough youhave already achieved your purpose. Commit To Your Dreams! ~ Kevin Sousa