How to get over your first love – 5 tips for getting over your first love


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  • You all should know, i didn't just write this article for writing sake or to play with anybody trust this is the candid true and the true only.I know how it feel when you are in love with someone and they really don't realize that you love them rather they just take you as a friend they really love.I was locked in this world for 10 year with the girl i fell in love with in senior high i watch her very of 10 year data other guys that where not me.Every one knew that i loved her, but she claimed we where just good friends and then i just started living a lie and told myself that we were just friend.I was madly in love with her, i never got to tell her this until now after i got help from mutton a spell caster.I always thought telling her will kill the only thing i had with her that is her friendship i was not going to loss that and have nothing at all.I watch her get married and to a man she never really loved and watch her live a very unhappy life i could tell that she was unhappy but she never let it out she knew how to cover her unhappiness.I finally got to let her know how i feel about her which was a waste of time though after a long while of persistence and convincing her how much i love her, i guess she finally realize that she was always in love with me and feel the same way too.But there was a but. Cos she take promises very serious, she told me we can never be together cos she had made a promise to her husband to be faithful and to love him in goods or bad times.I was so frustrated i have never loved anyone as much as i was in loved her but she was just to scared to break her marriage vow.I know she deserved more than what he was giving her she deserved to be happy, she deserve a man who was going to love her right.I knew i could make her happy and that is why i asked for help from mutton a spell caster.He made me make sure i really want to do it.My mind was already made up then, there was nothing that was going make me back down.The materials needed for the spell was my only problem.It was impossible to get them here in Australia and he refuse to help me like he said most people think he want to reep them off their cash i pasted through hell and got nothing and wasted a lot of money but some how, some way, he decided to help me maybe to show and let me know how trust worthy he can be.He helped me and got them for me and was not even expensive.Take it from me if you are contact him, ask him to get the material for you.You can trust him to send down the cash to purchase he material.Like he said, he casted a direct spell and made it effective.The spell really worked cos she left her jerk husband for me .I regret not my action one day cos he didn't even give a damn if she left or not he willfully let her go cos he thought it was good for them both.mutton can really help you he one spell caster that really cares about people happiness.It up to you to contact him with this email adress i used
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How to get over your first love – 5 tips for getting over your first love

  1. 1. How to Get Over Your First LoveGetting over a break up is always hard, but figuring out how to get over your first love is thehardest. That’s because it’s not just any old break up, it’s a break up with the person who firstshowed you what it means to love.You spent almost every day together and you had a lot of great times. Everything was amazingand you just couldn’t get enough of each other. You felt like you finally found “the one.” Youprobably thought you were going to spend the rest of your lives together. Maybe you guys evenmade plans together for the future. This is all very normal, and actually quite typical, when youfall in love for the first time.“The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end” – Benjamin DisraeliNow that it ended, you feel devastated and heartbroken. You might be worried that you’ll neverfind someone again or that you’ll never be as happy with somebody else. After all, this is thefirst time you’ve ever felt this way, and it’s not easy to believe that you could ever feel the sameway about somebody else. But you can, and if you follow the 5 simple tips below, you will. 5 Tips for Getting Over Your First Love1) Don’t try to get your ex backYou have to let go of the hope that you and your ex will get back together. This might be reallyhard because you’re still in love with them, and probably will be for a while after the break up.You may feel the urge to try to get them back or tell them that you love them.
  2. 2. However, you have to realize that sometimes love alone is not enough to make a relationshipwork. You have to remember that you guys broke up for a reason, even if you can’t reallyunderstand that reason right now. If you do, it would be helpful to recall why you broke up, whatyou hated about your ex or what you guys could never agree on.After a break up, we tend to remember all the things we loved about our ex and all the happymemories we had together. Recalling all the bad things about your ex and your relationship willhelp you “fall out of love” with them.2) Cut off ALL communication with your exI know this may seem a little extreme at first but it’s the only thing that works. You simply cannotget over your ex and truly move on with your life if you guys are still friends. You have to cut allcontact with your ex while you attempt to get over each other. I know it’s really hard becauseyou feel like you’re losing your best friend and one of the only people who ever truly understoodyou. At first, it’s going to be tough to resist the urge to contact them but it’ll get easier and easierover time.3) Don’t assume that you’ll never find love againRemember that just because the relationship is over doesn’t mean that you’ll never find loveagain. I often hear people say things like, “there’s no way I’ll find anyone as good as my ex, theywere perfect, I can’t imagine loving someone else as much as I loved them”After having several relationships and looking back on them, I realize that some were betterthan others. However, it’s not really about someone being better than someone else. Everyperson was unique, and thanks to them, I grew into a different person. In fact, after everyrelationship I actually grew to want and appreciate different things.So don’t be naïve and think that you’ll never love anyone as much as your first love. Mostpeople fall in the love for the first time during their teens and early 20’s. You still have most ofyour life ahead of you to love and be loved.You may not realize this now but as you mature and grow, so does your capacity to love. So begrateful for your first love and know that this was a very valuable experience for you. It taughtyou what it means to be in love and it built your capacity to love. So when you meet the love ofyour life, you’re going to have an even deeper connection and a much richer relationship.
  3. 3. 4) Focus on becoming a better personUse the break up as an opportunity to grow and become a better person. No relationship is evera mistake if you can get something out of it, like learning something new about yourself.You might have learned that you’re a very stubborn person. This could be a good opportunity foryou to change yourself for the better, so you don’t end up recreating all the same problems inyour future relationship. You might have learned that you’re a very jealous lover. Now would bea good time to deal with your insecurities so you don’t end up getting jealous in all your futurerelationships and creating a whole lot of unnecessary stress and drama.5) Don’t be afraid to love againJust because your first love didn’t work out doesn’t mean that it’ll never work out. Rememberthat every person is different. And every relationship dynamic will play out differently withdifferent people, for better or worse. Every person we meet is unique and we love each persondifferently.A lot of people get into another relationship really quick in attempt to fill the empty void they feelafter a break up. And while it’s unhealthy to jump into another relationship for the wrongreasons, it’s equally unhealthy to avoid relationships altogether. I’m sure you’ve heard someonesay, “I just don’t want to be hurt again?”But being open to relationships isn’t just about opening yourself up to getting hurt again, it’s alsoabout opening yourself up to love again. After all, past relationships aren’t just about the badthings that happened – lots of good things come out of them too.But to love, and to experience all the good things that love brings, one must take a risk, for riskis an inevitable part of love. It is a risk that I am willing to take because I love to love. I love toget to know people. I love to share things with others and learn more about them. I love to growand see things from a new perspective. I love having that special connection and I loveexperiencing that deep feeling of intimacy with the person you love. This is what makes the riskworthwhile for me.
  4. 4. Can’t Stop Thinking about Your Ex? Click Below to Learn a Proven “Step-by-Step” Formula on How to Get Over a Break Up