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Positive attitude

  1. 1. ATTITUDE
  2. 2. Your AttitudeDeterminesYourAltitude
  3. 3. “ A young lady waswaiting her flight in theboarding room of a bigairport.
  4. 4. As shewould waitfor manyhours, shedecided tobuy a bookto spend hertime. Shealso boughta packet ofcookies.
  5. 5. She sat down ona airmchair, in theVIP room of theairport, to restand read inpeace.
  6. 6. Beside theairmchair therewas the packetof cookies, aman sat down,opened hismagazine andstarted reading.
  7. 7. When she cought thefirst cookie, the mancought one also.She felt herselfinfuriate but didn’t sayanything. She justthought:“What a nerve! If I wasin the mood I wouldpunch his eye not toforget this daring!”
  8. 8. To each cokkieshe cought, theman cought oneeither.That was lettingher infuriatedbut she couldn’treact.
  9. 9. When remainedonly one cookie,she thought:“ah... What thisabused man willdo now?”Then, the man,divided the lastcookie in themiddle, givingher the half.
  10. 10. Ah! That was too much!She was too much angry!Then, she caught her book, caught her things andheaded to the boarding place.
  11. 11. When she sat downin an armchair,inside the plane,she looked into herpurse to catch hereyeglasses, and, toher surprise, herpacket of cookieswas there,untouched, closed!
  12. 12. She felt somuchashamed!!She realizedthat she wasthe wrongone...She hadforgottenthat hercookieswere keptinto herpurse.
  13. 13. The man divided hiscookies with her,wihtout feelinginfuriated, nervousor mad...
  14. 14. ...while she wasbeen very mad,thinking that hewas dividing hercookies with him.but there was nomore time toexplain herself...Nor toapologizes!”
  15. 15. There are 4 things that u can’t recover...
  16. 16. The stone......after shot!
  17. 17. The word... ......after pronounced!
  18. 18. The occasion...... after lost!
  19. 19. The time......after gone!
  20. 20. THE FOUR CANDLES
  21. 21. THE FOUR CANDLES BURNSLOWLY.
  22. 22. THE AMBIANCE WASSO SOFT YOUCOULD HEAR THEMTALKING.
  23. 23. THE FIRST ONE SAID:”I AM PEACE !HOWEVER, NOBODY CANKEEP ME LIT .I BELIEVE I WILL GO OUT."It’s flame rapidly diminishes and goes out completely.
  24. 24. THE SECOND ONE SAYS:”I AM FAITH !MOST OF ALL, I AM NOLONGER INDISPENSABLE ,SO IT DOESN’T MAKE ANYSENSE THAT I STAY LIT ANYLONGER ."When it finished talking, a breeze softly blew on it putting itout.
  25. 25. SADLY, THE THIRD CANDLESPOKE IN ITS TURN:”I AM LOVE !I HAVEN’T GOT THE STRENGTH TOSTAY LIT. PEOPLE PUT ME ASIDEAND DON’T UNDERSTAND MYIMPORTANCE. THEY EVENFORGET TO LOVE THOSE WHOARE NEAREST TO THEM ."And waiting no longer it goes out.
  26. 26. SUDDENLY...A CHILD ENTERS THEROOM AND SEES THREECANDLES NOT BURNING.”WHY ARE YOU NOTBURNING? YOU ARESUPPOSED TO STAY LITTILL THE END."Saying this, the child begins to cry.
  27. 27. THEN THE FOURTH CANDLESAID:”DON’T BE AFRAID, WHILEI AM STILL BURNING WE CANRE-LIGHT THE OTHERCANDLES,I AMHOPE !"
  28. 28. WITH SHINING EYES, THE CHILDTOOK THE CANDLE OF HOPEAND LIT THE OTHER CANDLES.
  29. 29. The flame ofHope shouldnever go outfrom your life
  30. 30. …and that each ofus can maintainHope, Faith,Peace andLove !!!!POSITIVE ATTITUDE
  31. 31. Have a nice day...Have a nice day...PEACEFAITHLOVEHOPE
  32. 32. Attitude Is The Way You Communicate Your MoodTo Others. It Is The Way You Look At ThingsMentally.Attitude Is The Readiness To Act.Your Feelings ,Desires, Fears, Convictions, StateOf Readiness, External Environment All CombineTogether To Form Your Attitude.85 % Of Interpersonal Problems Are Caused DueTo Negative Attitude Or Biased Attitude TowardsOthers, Whether At Home Or At Work.
  33. 33. • Mental Postures• Guide to Conduct• Feelings and Fear• Frame of Reference• Predisposition of Behaviour
  34. 34. As far as 5000 years back, Kunti, whileblessing her eldest son, Yudhishtira,gave the message“ If you want to rule the state, you mustdevelop a new attitude. Let your heart bebig.A little heart can’t run a great state”
  35. 35. CHANGING ATTITUDES• Can be changed by Education• Can be changed by TrainingThe following factors play important roles in inducingchange• The Credibility of person trying to induce change• The age of the person whos attitude is to be changed• The cultural context in which the change is being induced
  36. 36. POSITIVE ATTITUDE{ Life is "now"{ Time to do what you want to do is now{ Desire to achieve{ Committment to achieve{ Capacity to get along with others{ Clarity in target/goals
  37. 37. Dynamics Of Positive AttitudeDynamics Of Positive AttitudeAttitude Activator PersonalityAttitude In ActionResult• Anticipation• Expectation• Hope• Confidence• Faith• Patience• Humility• Love• Belief• Enthusiastic• Courageous• Optimistic• Cheerful• Sincere• Warm• Relaxed• Success• Recognition• Happiness• Growth• Admiration• Friends
  38. 38. Dynamics Of Negative AttitudeAttitude Activator PersonalityAttitude In ActionResult•Fear•Doubt•Envy•Anger•Conceit•Self Pity•Suspicion•Indecision•Criticism•Inconsiderate•Pessimistic•Weak•Cold•Sour•Irritable•Worry•Tension•Frustration•Failure•Sickness•No Friends
  39. 39. Building Positive Attitude•Look for goodness in people•Build a positive Self Esteem•Avoid Negative Influences•Work on Continuous SelfDevelopment
  40. 40. If you want and if you can’t - you haven’ttried.
  41. 41. A Winning Attitude
  42. 42. If it is to be … it is up to me.
  43. 43. ATTITUDEIs a little thing that makes a BIGdifference.
  44. 44. ATTITUDEKeep your face to the sunshine andyou cannot see the shadows.
  45. 45. ATTITUDEAttack every problem with enthusiasm…as if your survival depended upon it.
  46. 46. ATTITUDEAttitudes are contagious…Is yours worth catching ?
  47. 47. CHANGEIf you are not riding the waveof change… you will find yourselfbeneath it.CHANGEA bend in the road is not the endof the road… unless youfail to make the turn.
  48. 48. SUCCESSSuccess is a journey, not a destination.
  49. 49. SUCCESSSome people dream of success ….While others wake up and work hard at it.
  50. 50. CHALLENGESAnyone can hold thehelm when the sea is calmOPPORTUNITYThere is an island of opportunity inthe middle of every difficulty.RISKYou cannot discover new oceans unlessyou have the courage to lose sight of the shore.MOMENTUMA little push in the right directioncan make a big difference.
  51. 51. INSTRUCTIONS FOR YOURLIFE:
  52. 52.  Give people more than what they want, anddo it with all your heart. Memorize your favorite poem. Do not believe everything you hear, do notspend all you have, and do not sleep for as longas you wish. Whenever you say “I love You”, mean it. Whenever you say “I’m sorry”, look theperson right in the eyes.
  53. 53. • Never ignore someone’s dreams. Love deeply and passionately, you mayget hurt, but this is the only way to live lifecompletely. Tackle any disagreements in a cleanmanner, do not offend. Never judge a person based on their
  54. 54.  Whenever someone asks you something youdon’t want to answer, smile and ask “why do youwant to know”? Remember that the deepest love and thegreatest achievements are the ones bearing themost risk. Call your mother. If you can’t, at least think ofher.
  55. 55.  Remember the 3 R’s:Respect yourself,Respect everyone elseResponsible for all of your actions. Do not allow a little dispute to put an end to agreat friendship. Whenever you notice you’ve made a mistake, doall what is necessary to fix it immediately. Smile whenever you pick up the phone, for thecaller will be able to notice it. Marry to a person that likes to chat, for when your old age comes, chatting will be oneof the best qualities you can find in someone.
  56. 56.  Spend sometime alone. Embrace changes, but do not repudiate yourown values. Remember that sometimes silence is the bestanswer. Read more books and watch less TV. Lead a good and honest life. Like this, whenyou are old and remember the past, you will seehow you can enjoy it all once again.
  57. 57.  A good atmosphere in your home isimportant. Do whatever is possible to keep your homepeaceful and harmonious. If you have a quarrel with someone close toyou, try to solve only the present issue. Do not revolve the past.
  58. 58.  Be gentle towards our Planet.... Do not block mother nature. Keep yourself busy only with yourown matters. At least once a year, visit somewhereyou have never been to. If you make lots of money, do somecharity while alive. That’s the best rewardfortune can provide you with.
  59. 59.  Remember that sometimes an under-achievement is good luck. Learn well all the rules, so as to knowhow to break them in the proper manner.Remember: the best relationship is theone where the love of one for anothermatters more than the need to be witheach other. Judge your level of success from what

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