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Presence Training

  By James Westly, MC, LPC
Key Concept
 You are not your mind!!

The mind is a powerful tool,
  it creates personal reality.
If we do not master the tool,
        we are it’s slave.
Basic Psychology
 Mind and body are hard wired together
 The body reacts to every thought the mind
  thinks
 That reaction is physical and is called
  emotion: think a thought, have a feeling.
 That feeling produces a behavior
 That behavior evokes a new thought
Fragmentation of
       Consciousness
 If your % of attention focused here/now is
  less than 100%, your consciousness is
  fragmented.
 Each fragment is a group of thoughts
  producing an emotional reaction.
 Whatever % of your attention is not
  here/now, is a corresponding reduction in
  your intelligence.
Multitasking
 The mind naturally multitasks
 This trait enabled primitive humans to
  survive in a dangerous environment


Multitasking our attention outside
 the Moment is unnatural and
 dangerous.
Presence Training
   Provides tools to defragment Consciousness
   Increases intelligence and effectiveness
   Enhances Creativity
   Improves quality of work and productivity
   Facilitates communication
   Reduces stress
Seven Principles of

   Mind Mastery
BE
 HERE/NOW!
Full attention into the
 Present Moment
 The only place/time
         Life
Is actually happening
OBSERVE
Inner Self-Observation

   Mind Watching
LISTEN
Deep inner listening called:
        Intuition
       Gut instinct
     Inner Guidance
Active Listening
Practice principles 1 & 2
Do NOT rehearse a response
Do NOT take attacks personally
Reflect back to the speaker, let them
know they’re being heard
Work on solutions, let go of problem
definitions
DIE
 To the past

Every Moment
EXPECT
   The
Unexpected
REMEMBER
  Your Self!
The awareness
  Behind the
    Thinker
SURRENDER
     To What Is

Complete Acceptance

Release All Resistance
B.O.L.D.E.R.S.
Seven Principles of Mind Mastery
               BE
           OBSERVE
            LISTEN
              DIE
            EXPECT
          REMEMBER
         SURRENDER
IRONCO
COVENANTS
1. No one fails alone, no secrets.
    In a moment of Presence
       there are no secrets.
 The inner and outer worlds are in
               Harmony,
         all is transparent.
2. We tell the truth.
Zero tolerance for dishonesty.
      It is impossible to lie
     in a state of Presence.
The activity of lying removes one’s
         Precious Attention
              from the
           Truth of Now.
3. Brother’s keeper.
  We look out for our
       teammates.
 The emotion of Compassion
is the natural consequence of
           Presence.
4. Keep our word.
       Say what we mean,
         Do what we say.
In a state of Presence, Consciousness
 is unified. You become single minded,
  eradicating all internal conflicts that
  defray commitment, making it much
    more likely you will say what you
       mean and do what you say.
5. No panic
   Keep your heads,
  roll up your sleeves

There is no greater cool than
         PRESENCE
6. Pride in self-improvement.
     Set high standards.
The pursuit of personal excellence
and growth naturally arises out of a
              state of
           PRESENCE
7. Unselfish
  Care about each other
       In a state of Total
            Presence
 There is no ‘other’ all is Self.
Thus caring for others is caring
            For Self.
8. No Growth without conflict
  Surface the disagreement
    In a state of Presence there is no
disagreement but different perspectives.
Giving up the need to be right opens the
  door to creative cooperation, working
 together as different aspects of a single
   mind, each offering a unique angle.

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Presence Training A

  • 1. Presence Training By James Westly, MC, LPC
  • 2. Key Concept You are not your mind!! The mind is a powerful tool, it creates personal reality. If we do not master the tool, we are it’s slave.
  • 3. Basic Psychology  Mind and body are hard wired together  The body reacts to every thought the mind thinks  That reaction is physical and is called emotion: think a thought, have a feeling.  That feeling produces a behavior  That behavior evokes a new thought
  • 4. Fragmentation of Consciousness  If your % of attention focused here/now is less than 100%, your consciousness is fragmented.  Each fragment is a group of thoughts producing an emotional reaction.  Whatever % of your attention is not here/now, is a corresponding reduction in your intelligence.
  • 5. Multitasking  The mind naturally multitasks  This trait enabled primitive humans to survive in a dangerous environment Multitasking our attention outside the Moment is unnatural and dangerous.
  • 6. Presence Training  Provides tools to defragment Consciousness  Increases intelligence and effectiveness  Enhances Creativity  Improves quality of work and productivity  Facilitates communication  Reduces stress
  • 7. Seven Principles of Mind Mastery
  • 8. BE HERE/NOW! Full attention into the Present Moment The only place/time Life Is actually happening
  • 10. LISTEN Deep inner listening called: Intuition Gut instinct Inner Guidance
  • 11. Active Listening Practice principles 1 & 2 Do NOT rehearse a response Do NOT take attacks personally Reflect back to the speaker, let them know they’re being heard Work on solutions, let go of problem definitions
  • 12. DIE To the past Every Moment
  • 13. EXPECT The Unexpected
  • 14. REMEMBER Your Self! The awareness Behind the Thinker
  • 15. SURRENDER To What Is Complete Acceptance Release All Resistance
  • 16. B.O.L.D.E.R.S. Seven Principles of Mind Mastery BE OBSERVE LISTEN DIE EXPECT REMEMBER SURRENDER
  • 18. 1. No one fails alone, no secrets. In a moment of Presence there are no secrets. The inner and outer worlds are in Harmony, all is transparent.
  • 19. 2. We tell the truth. Zero tolerance for dishonesty. It is impossible to lie in a state of Presence. The activity of lying removes one’s Precious Attention from the Truth of Now.
  • 20. 3. Brother’s keeper. We look out for our teammates. The emotion of Compassion is the natural consequence of Presence.
  • 21. 4. Keep our word. Say what we mean, Do what we say. In a state of Presence, Consciousness is unified. You become single minded, eradicating all internal conflicts that defray commitment, making it much more likely you will say what you mean and do what you say.
  • 22. 5. No panic Keep your heads, roll up your sleeves There is no greater cool than PRESENCE
  • 23. 6. Pride in self-improvement. Set high standards. The pursuit of personal excellence and growth naturally arises out of a state of PRESENCE
  • 24. 7. Unselfish Care about each other In a state of Total Presence There is no ‘other’ all is Self. Thus caring for others is caring For Self.
  • 25. 8. No Growth without conflict Surface the disagreement In a state of Presence there is no disagreement but different perspectives. Giving up the need to be right opens the door to creative cooperation, working together as different aspects of a single mind, each offering a unique angle.