Detroit & West Michigan     ConferencesMarch 19, 20, & 21, 2012
Psalm 119:10-16“I am single-minded in mypursuit of you; don’t let me missthe road signs you’ve posted.I’ve banked your pro...
I’ll transfer to my lips all thecounsel that comes from yourmouth; I delight far more in whatyou tell me about living than...
Putting This Conversation        in Context
Boundary Violation – anyviolation of sacred trust“…It is not wrong because itviolates norms. It is wrongbecause it violate...
SexualMisconduct
SexualHarassment   Sexual Misconduct
Sexual         Harassment           Sexual         MisconductSexualAbuse
Sexual         harassment           Sexual         MisconductSexualAbuse            Sexualized                  Behavior
Power andVulnerability
Video Power andVulnerabilityPower andVulnerability
Questions for Reflection
Power andVulnerability                 Dating &                Friendships
Video Dating andFriendshipsPower andVulnerability
Power andVulnerability                 Dating &                Friendships
Power andVulnerability                 Dating &                Friendships    Gifts
Power and           VulnerabilityTransference                Dating &                           Friendships               ...
Clergy Ethics &  Multi-Media  Technology
Do you have a cell     phone?
Three of the world’s most popular       brands online are      social-media related  Facebook  YouTube  Wikipedia
VideoThe Growth  of SocialPower and    MediaVulnerability
PerceptionPrivacyPersonalFeedback
The Pastor,    The Internet,         ANDPornography/Obscenity
Pornography/ Obscenity:    What’s the Difference?Pornography – sexually explicit materialthat portrays violence, abuse, co...
1.What are your personal markers to alert you when your energy and spirit are low?2.What needs do you have right now?3.Wha...
“Shadow Self” by Carl Jung
ConflictDanger + Opportunity
“Youre blessed when youreat the end of your rope.With less of you there ismore of God and his rule.”                  Matt...
M – meditationE – exerciseD – dietS – sleepS - support
Counseling1. In which areas are you    trained to counsel?2. How many sessions?3. Where do you counsel?
Pastoral Care Visits1. What boundaries have youdeveloped?2. Does anyone know who youvisit, where or when?3. In what ways d...
Dual Relationships1. In what ways do you guardagainst dual relationships?2. Who is yourlover/partner/spouse’s pastor?3. Wh...
Technology1. What guidelines have you developedregarding the use of your phone? Textmessages? To whom is your cell numberg...
1. How do you care for yourselfspiritually, emotionally, and physically?2. In what ways do you meet your needsbeyond the s...
If someone is drowning, secure yourself before you swim         out to save them.Otherwise both of you will drown.
Rev. Michelle Fostermfoster@wnccumc.net    336-442-3844
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
Clergy ethics   ppt for participants
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  1. 1. Detroit & West Michigan ConferencesMarch 19, 20, & 21, 2012
  2. 2. Psalm 119:10-16“I am single-minded in mypursuit of you; don’t let me missthe road signs you’ve posted.I’ve banked your promises in thevault of my heart so I won’t sinmyself bankrupt. Beblessed, God; train me in yourways of wise living.
  3. 3. I’ll transfer to my lips all thecounsel that comes from yourmouth; I delight far more in whatyou tell me about living than ingathering a pile of riches. Iponder every morsel of wisdomfrom you. I attentively watchhow you’ve done it. I relisheverything you’ve told me of life,I won’t forget a word of it.”
  4. 4. Putting This Conversation in Context
  5. 5. Boundary Violation – anyviolation of sacred trust“…It is not wrong because itviolates norms. It is wrongbecause it violates people.”
  6. 6. SexualMisconduct
  7. 7. SexualHarassment Sexual Misconduct
  8. 8. Sexual Harassment Sexual MisconductSexualAbuse
  9. 9. Sexual harassment Sexual MisconductSexualAbuse Sexualized Behavior
  10. 10. Power andVulnerability
  11. 11. Video Power andVulnerabilityPower andVulnerability
  12. 12. Questions for Reflection
  13. 13. Power andVulnerability Dating & Friendships
  14. 14. Video Dating andFriendshipsPower andVulnerability
  15. 15. Power andVulnerability Dating & Friendships
  16. 16. Power andVulnerability Dating & Friendships Gifts
  17. 17. Power and VulnerabilityTransference Dating & Friendships Gifts
  18. 18. Clergy Ethics & Multi-Media Technology
  19. 19. Do you have a cell phone?
  20. 20. Three of the world’s most popular brands online are social-media related Facebook YouTube Wikipedia
  21. 21. VideoThe Growth of SocialPower and MediaVulnerability
  22. 22. PerceptionPrivacyPersonalFeedback
  23. 23. The Pastor, The Internet, ANDPornography/Obscenity
  24. 24. Pornography/ Obscenity: What’s the Difference?Pornography – sexually explicit materialthat portrays violence, abuse, coercion,domination, humiliation or degradation forthe purpose of arousalObscenity – “hard core porn”pornographic material that is beyond whatmajority of society will tolerate
  25. 25. 1.What are your personal markers to alert you when your energy and spirit are low?2.What needs do you have right now?3.What needs are not being met?
  26. 26. “Shadow Self” by Carl Jung
  27. 27. ConflictDanger + Opportunity
  28. 28. “Youre blessed when youreat the end of your rope.With less of you there ismore of God and his rule.” Matthew 5:3 The Message
  29. 29. M – meditationE – exerciseD – dietS – sleepS - support
  30. 30. Counseling1. In which areas are you trained to counsel?2. How many sessions?3. Where do you counsel?
  31. 31. Pastoral Care Visits1. What boundaries have youdeveloped?2. Does anyone know who youvisit, where or when?3. In what ways do you offercompassion and care withoutbecoming enmeshed in thesituation?
  32. 32. Dual Relationships1. In what ways do you guardagainst dual relationships?2. Who is yourlover/partner/spouse’s pastor?3. What boundaries do youestablish when a dualrelationship is unavoidable?
  33. 33. Technology1. What guidelines have you developedregarding the use of your phone? Textmessages? To whom is your cell numbergiven?2. What personal boundaries have youdeveloped regarding information sharing on-line?3. What guidelines have you establishedregarding facebook “friends” who arecongregation members when you move toanother appointment?
  34. 34. 1. How do you care for yourselfspiritually, emotionally, and physically?2. In what ways do you meet your needsbeyond the setting of ministry? List theactivities in which you engage that areunaffiliated with your role as a pastor.3. In what ways do you seek to meetyour needs for love, intimacy andaffirmation as a person?
  35. 35. If someone is drowning, secure yourself before you swim out to save them.Otherwise both of you will drown.
  36. 36. Rev. Michelle Fostermfoster@wnccumc.net 336-442-3844

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