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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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How to See the Lion in Your Mirror, a presentation by Joe Tye
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Slides used in presentation by Values Coach CEO and Head Coach Joe Tye on strategies for being your best self and for achieving your most authentic goals.

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  • 1. How to See the Lion in the Mirror – Promoting a More Positive and Productive Workplace By Joe Tye, CEO and Head Coach Values Coach Inc. Copyright © 2013, Values Coach Inc.
  • 2. Self Made Man by Bobbie Carlyle
  • 3. Breaking through the invisible ceiling on the performance potential of your people and of your organization
  • 4. This afternoon we’ll explore 7 practical strategies but first let’s look at your…
  • 5. Brain plasticity
  • 6. What modern brain science tells us
  • 7. “We are seeing evidence of the brain’s ability to remake itself throughout adult life, not only in response to outside stimuli, but even in response to directed mental effort...”
  • 8. “We are seeing, in short, the brain’s potential to correct its own flaws and enhance its own capabilities.”
  • 9. You can rewire the hardware by reprogramming the software!
  • 10. Using The Pyramid of SelfBelief™ to build a stronger level of self-belief throughout the organization.
  • 11. Self-belief is developed at four levels, each of which builds upon the other.
  • 12. 14
  • 13. One of the key responsibilities of leadership is framing the collective self-concept – is it the best of times or the worst of times, a time of great risk or of great opportunity?
  • 14. 16
  • 15. You will never on a sustained basis exceed the boundaries of what is allowed by your own self-image. That’s why…
  • 16. No one ever really “wins” the lottery.
  • 17. 20
  • 18. People with low self-esteem cheat themselves by settling for anemic dreams and goals. They cheat the rest of us by not giving us the best they are capable of giving.
  • 19. 22
  • 20. Our job as leaders includes giving people the confidence that our organization can meet and prevail over the challenges that the world will throw at us.
  • 21. Strategy #1 Make fear your ally
  • 22. “Courage is the most important of all virtues, because it makes all of the other virtues possible.” Winston Churchill
  • 23. “Courage is all of the other virtues at the point at which they are tested.” C.S. Lewis
  • 24. The absence of fear is not courage!
  • 25. The absence of fear is…
  • 26. No Fear, No Courage…
  • 27. Big Fear, Big Courage…
  • 28. Anxiety Fear Worry
  • 29. Anxiety
  • 30. Three bad things happen when you in the thrall of anxiety…
  • 31. Bad Thing #1 Memory is distorted: past successes seem small and insignificant while past failures seem huge and certain to be repeated.
  • 32. Bad Thing #2 Perception is distorted: the dangers facing you are blown out of proportion while you underestimate the resources you have.
  • 33. Bad Thing #3 Vision is distorted: you cannot see the possibilities for a great outcome because you are so fixated on images of doom.
  • 34. The Performance-Anxiety Curve
  • 35. Anxiety tries to become fear. Paul Tillich: The Courage to Be
  • 36. Fear
  • 37. Fear can paralyze or it can catalyze
  • 38. You’ve heard that the acronym F.E.A.R. stands for Fantasized Evidence Appearing Real. It also stands for…
  • 39. Fabulous Excuse for Avoiding Responsibility
  • 40. Fear is your ally when...
  • 41. Good Thing #1 It alerts you to the fact that you are not ready for some potential future event.
  • 42. Good Thing #2 It galvanizes you to take action.
  • 43. Good Thing #3 It opens your eyes to the fact you are on the wrong path in life (one reason “midlife crisis” is so often a time of searing anxiety).
  • 44. Good Thing #4 When it is a call to focus* * Procrastination is always rooted in fear
  • 45. Good Thing #5 When it is a call to faith* * Faith begins at the point where certainty ends
  • 46. Terror or exhilaration?
  • 47. Are people afraid of change?
  • 48. Worry
  • 49. Worry is like paying interest on a debt that you probably don’t even owe!
  • 50. Is it a problem or is it a predicament?
  • 51. Strategy #2 Make adversity your teacher
  • 52. Every great accomplishment was once the “impossible dream” of a dreamer who simply refused to quit when things got tough.
  • 53. Ten Laws of Adversity
  • 54. Law #1 The rain will fall and bad things will happen to good people – including you
  • 55. Law #2 Crisis creates opportunity
  • 56. Law #3 You must pass through the valley of the shadow.
  • 57. Law #4 Falling on your face is good for your head
  • 58. Law #5 Whether it’s the best of times or the worst of times is your choice
  • 59. Law #6 One door closes, another door opens
  • 60. Law #7 Without the valleys, you won’t appreciate the mountains.
  • 61. Law #8 There are millions of others who would love to have your problems
  • 62. Law #9 Dare most when times are darkest.
  • 63. Law #10 Sometimes you meet the most important people in your life when you are flat on your back.
  • 64. Don’t forget to laugh.
  • 65. No matter what happens: Thank God Ahead of Time
  • 66. Strategy #3 The Janitor in Your Attic™ to erase the malignant echo of negative self-talk 74
  • 67. Toxic emotional negativity is ALWAYS an outer projection of inner misery… Hence “co-miserate” – to be miserable together.
  • 68. There is an invisible barrier on the potential of your organization
  • 69. The collective self-talk, selfimage, and self-belief of your people will either be the wind in your sails or the anchor holding you back.
  • 70. The Inner Child is shadowed by an Inner Spoiled Brat
  • 71. The split personality of your Inner Spoiled Brat
  • 72. The Whiner If only we won the lottery!
  • 73. The Screamer You don’t deserve to win the lottery!
  • 74. The most important speech any of us ever give (the one you were never trained to give) is...
  • 75. What is the first word a child learns to say? 84
  • 76. For a variety of evolutionary reasons, the human mind automatically gravitates toward negative, frightening and depressing thoughts. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi: The Evolving Self: A Psychology for the New Millennium
  • 77. Experts refer to ANTs – automatic negative thoughts
  • 78. Psychologists say that up to 80% of self-talk is negative – and that we can abuse ourselves at a speed of 400 words per minute!
  • 79. And much of it is below the level of conscious awareness, like graffiti on a subway car: after a while you don’t notice it
  • 80. You would never tolerate anyone else speaking to you the way you allow your spoiled inner brat to get away with.
  • 81. A crucial point! That voice will always be in the second person. It’s not you talking!!! 91
  • 82. What you are hearing is the malignant echo of nasty things said to you long ago that hurt, stuck, and metastasized (that’s what 92
  • 83. Two steps to using the power of Metaphorical Visualization™ to erase the graffiti of negative self-talk: 93
  • 84. Step #1 Visualize the words as clearly as you possibly can as graffiti that has been scrawled on the walls of your mental attic. 94
  • 85. Step #2 Visualize a janitor (The Janitor in Your Attic™) painting over the graffiti and replacing it with positive affirmations. 96
  • 86. Caveat! For your challenge to your Spoiled Inner Brat to be credible you must also take action if what Brat says is factually accurate. 98
  • 87. Strategy #4 Make your body play a constructive part in that inner dialogue… 99
  • 88. How your body tells your mind what to feel…
  • 89. Watch this TED talk by Amy Cuddy!
  • 90. How your mouth tells your mind what to think…
  • 91. An essential lesson from “the best damn ship in the Navy”
  • 92. Smile from the outside in and you’ll eventually be smiling from the inside out.
  • 93. Strategy #5 Leave behind the emotional baggage
  • 94. 109
  • 95. Strategy #6 Create memories of the future
  • 96. Do you read your horoscope?
  • 97. Joe’s Youroscope A breakthrough concept emerges back at the office today. A great day to make a difference, make a friend, and make a decision and...
  • 98. Joe’s Youroscope (contd.) A great new opportunity will come from out of the blue, but it will be well-disguised – so pay attention and focus, and…
  • 99. Joe’s Youroscope (contd.) Call your Mom
  • 100. You can remember the future more clearly and more accurately than you can remember the past. 118
  • 101. The difference between wishful thinking and positive thinking… 119
  • 102. Wishful thinking is hoping for something and waiting for someone else to make it happen. 120
  • 103. Positive thinking is expecting something and working to make it happen. 121
  • 104. The 6-As for creating Memories of the Future 122
  • 105. 1. Aspiration You gotta want it – without ambition we would all still be hunting and gathering. 123
  • 106. 2. Articulation You need to describe your dream in a way that others can see it. 124
  • 107. 3. Affirmation Because we dream in pictures but we worry in words. 125
  • 108. 4. Asking The Aladdin Factor is asking the right question of the right person at the right time. 126
  • 109. 5. Action Action transforms fear into fire; accumulation of many small actions yields big results. 127
  • 110. 6. Adaptation Because, as von Moltke said, no plan survives contact with the enemy. 128
  • 111. Wear your Dream next to your heart 129
  • 112. Five times every morning and two things every day. 130
  • 113. A Memory of the Future creates healthy cognitive dissonance 131
  • 114. 132
  • 115. Strategy #7 Take to heart the seven promises of The Self-Empowerment Pledge™
  • 116. “I attribute my success to the fact that I never gave or took an excuse.” Florence Nightingale
  • 117. Seven Simple Promises That Will Change Your Life* * One for each day of the week.
  • 118. The Pledge is a great way to foster a more empowering culture!
  • 119. 138
  • 120. Watch the YouTube video – half of these people are not reading it!
  • 121. If you knew it would change your life for the better – profoundly and permanently – would you…
  • 122. Would you give up one television commercial a day for a year?
  • 123. If your answer is yes, here’s what you need to do.
  • 124. Every morning start your day by making that day’s promise – which will take you about 15 seconds.
  • 125. Repeat the promise again in in the middle of your work day.
  • 126. Once more before you leave for home.
  • 127. And one more time right before you go to bed.
  • 128. 4 x 15 seconds = 1 minute
  • 129. Repeat these promises like you really mean them!
  • 130. Let’s take a look at the seven promises…
  • 131. Here’s WHY it works…
  • 132. You keep promising yourself that you will be responsible, accountable, and determined; make a contribution, be resilient in the face of adversity, have a positive perspective, and that your faith will shine through.
  • 133. Then you catch yourself whining and complaining, procrastinating, gossipi ng, blaming others for your problems, taking when you should be giving, and pretending that you have no power.
  • 134. You end up with what psychologists call… Cognitive Dissonance
  • 135. Which is trying to simultaneously hold two incompatible beliefs
  • 136. At that point, one of two things MUST happen. Either you take the easy way and stop making the promises…
  • 137. Or you keep making the promises until you begin to change your attitudes and your behaviors.
  • 138. And as you do that, you will begin to achieve better results in every dimension of your life.
  • 139. Read these seven promises one more time…
  • 140. Now ask yourself these two questions…
  • 141. Question #1: If you personally were to take these seven promises to heart, would you be better off than where you are headed now – personally, professionally, finan
  • 142. Question #2: If everyone where you work made a good faith effort to live these seven promises, would you do a better job of serving customers and of supporting each other?
  • 143. If your answer to these two questions is… And if you’re being honest, that’s what your answer will be.
  • 144. Then why wouldn’t you invest those 365 minutes in yourself? Do it, because no one can empower you but you.
  • 145. Will you do it? Will you give up one TV commercial a day… To change your life?
  • 146. And one last thing…
  • 147. Think Big 173
  • 148. Start Small 174
  • 149. Start Now 175
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