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The Argument of Marriage

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  • •–
  • • The Big Idea – Arguments are the key to a successful marriage and a strong relationship. (speak on how a diamond becomes a diamond and its comparison to marriage.)
  • • What ’ s in it for your audience – By acknowledging these keys you can be apart of the 35% of Americans who are ‘ happily ’ married with a healthy ‘ full of arguments ’ relationship.
  • • Why should your audience listen to you – My audience should listen to me because I have been married over three years and we have mastered the key to arguing in a marriage Explain how I have a masters in cooking cleaning reading bed time stories and picking up tampons and pads.
  • • Call to Adventure – You can have a successful marriage today if you learn how to argue.
  • • Supporting Point One – Argue but retain regretful words.
  • i. Factual or emotional evidence – Article from USA Today that elaborates the great results that are delivered from this point. A healthy argument can exist as long as there are safety boundaries in place. Elaborate on ways to produce safety boundaries and if not used how every little thing will irritate you. (hence the next slide)
  • • Supporting Point Two – Argue but don ’ t insist on being right.
  • i. Factual or emotional evidence – Use the funny story about happy wife equals happy life.
  • • Supporting Point Three – Argue but pause to listen.
  • i. Factual or emotional evidence – Use personal story with in my marriage. In my own marriage I have noticed that if we do less talking and more listening we come to solution or a end to the situation.
  • • Call to Action – Argue with your spouse but keep the three points in mind. Elaborate in a comical essence to keep the comedy involved in the story.
  • • Summarize the main points – Arguments can save your marriage by 1) retaining regretful words; 2) Don ’ t insist on being right; and 3) Pause to listen.
  • • Restate Big Idea – Arguments will create a successful marriage.
  • • Clincher/new bliss – Arguing in a marriage will be a greater unity when we retain regretful words, don ’ t insist on being right and pause to listen. a. Present my results using this technique and tell the audience; Right now argue with your spouse

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  • 1. http://www.flickr.com/photos/gdamico/4119680364/sizes/l/in/photolist-7h3rrN-5zdBYM-9o9T5-7pLtR1-9c8wHb-76Nkx1-9pRrhN-dYPzEj-5BqL8z-5BqGRt-5BqNtX-5BqPAZ-5BqHJk-5Bv6cb-5BuYty-5BqMJB-5Bv5hN-5BuZJC-5Bv4MY-5Bv25A-5BqFFi-5BqMzT-5Bv6rd-8TFDgM-Yz5uy-e8FNqx-corQAo-9piLHF-feVLmK-ffb2A7-9piL9t-9pmNs5-9GS7bZ-7ZnFk3-9xxr5N-4JcZif-5C73m3-9F9XS3-9F9XzL-4baVWy-9oWGsi-9oZMDh-fGV2Xm-9pmNVw-9pmNKL-9piLAR-9piKTD-5Cfijk-fjewUm-fiYPbp-fiZ The Argument Of Marriage By Jaquez Hodo
  • 2. http://www.flickr.com/photos/an_untrained_eye/7449684174/sizes/l/in/photolist-cmizyA-bzKw6L-8XyCdz-9ZJXLK-7oLep3-57Xf1R-bhmdTz-yMLCA-8zy1XJ-dRzE9a-5Vu7Rq-dJywVo-b6sU2F-5htmVd-5iiu1P-bKvtbP-rBzHb-6i9EPn-6ybLoF-99CkcS-deQaTg-67o1av-63K97m-9QkwsE-8DuYj1-8PCNh4-6Mw73S-9w52jL-9jFjfU-c2tq1j-8tYAvN-8nkqKe-7GEfXz-8HSrFn-8woGjE-83kyT4-e93Lmp-8qUSTJ-9eadZN-8ZGN4V-hdNCV-83DvAV-ebvtR-939tgs-cB91yA-at9DSv-5siYNE-aDGnkC-9d5LwV-6wK Love + Argument = Happy Marriage
  • 3. All rights reserved by midgetmanofsteel
  • 4. http://www.flickr.com/photos/denverjeffrey/8476801743/sizes/l/ The Price of the Diamond is. . . 
  • 5. http://www.flickr.com/photos/lel4nd/6168801346/sizes/l/in/photolist-ap7HHU-9QJXBE-fH4eHs-7HbzUD-84TGv8-4qFTHF-39sTe-bfsCh6-7BSk2x-4RQkai-byVQHB-7SAecG-dZCK5c-8cmG8X-8dSW4B-e6jr62-e6pTu3-e6qEeb-e6qFyq-e6qFjs-e6k142-fxtmur-3P2MgL-Esu1y-bVrRNw-frYufk-e6qEmQ-e6qyJA-e6k2bn-7gmdpb-7gmdu5-NDZeD-dRyrz1-crBrF9-5BuZFs “Live this day for the rest of your life.”
  • 6. http://www.flickr.com/photos/40033576@N03/3860959429/sizes/l/in/photolist-6TbqJ2-6agNLC-axWdiw-9pfP4k-3epScF-5NZWqt-9hEwRL-7C8tiB-62j8uF-zZPn4-4sn6Pr-4tbsKG-7B9PUm-bjh9jD-68dqqR-56X7LF-8inDVx-4SXvhs-81tuQ9-4ixgNb-4QV6rW-9gg4rz-4E1F53-6K1Vzh-8zsiLH-5P51Zq-7ANfeC-bukg12-947VYg-6LF8se-8K12Z9-58bT4W-8Enn1M-8PSysW-4FMBzW-9VupHt-bGWA4n-aJYnap-aoXJQN-99iQyu-cXayKA-e2M6Xk-4ihHKk-brkkW1-bVJgaz-6DhXcZ-btgHgp-77WxmS-chBm 3 Years of Experience + 2 Kids = Trained Husband.
  • 7. http://www.flickr.com/photos/eatprayphotograph/6460369795/sizes/l/in/photolist-aQT5S8-64zNDy-byVvM7-4d2p5y-oybrn-e59QUz/ Let’s Argue
  • 8. http://www.flickr.com/photos/37625406@N05/5423212602/in/photolist-9geoay-dCr44P-dCr5Dv-dCwvxG-dCr5BD-dCr5ta-dCwvwh-dCwvoj-dCwvrs-dCr5pc-dCwvno-dCr466-dCwvt5-8xwq18-NZKUt-9jwsH3-4MbxCU-aQ9fbM-dTfofg-5UskKM-4Adevv-xjaaR-ecmRBx-6nyPQD-59a5en-sFK7V-8yh697-JCxk9 Point #1: Argue but retain  regretful words. (Self­ Control)
  • 9. USA TODAY SAYS....
  • 10. All rights reserved by Andrew.gd Does this look familiar?
  • 11. www.flickr.com/photos/43699824@N06/4502010166/sizes/l/in/photolist-7RPYLW-6YXk6f-edA2HB-3Q2ABu-8uRQis-6xj6Ms-8uPC3x-8uPbCZ-dUoE1F-eiLmJZ-5mJ1Bg-5mNgEG-5mJ2pe-5mJ1pF-5mJ1uV-5mNhRj-5mNfdE-5mNhFj-5mNhLL-5mJ2Yp-5mJ2Rc-5mNhJo-5mNfmd-5mJ15T-5mNhmj-5mJ2HK-5mJ2vR-5mJ25K-5mJ3ip-5mJ1UD-5mNgdw-5mJ1Ma-5mNh83-5mJ2sF-5mNgkA-5mNhyA-5mJ2Mv-5mNgid-5mJ28x-5mNfKA-5mNgZE-66e5uM-bV89Cy-eESrem-66e4Zi-66ih2m-66ijhW-66iiJW-66e3ct Point #2: Argue but don’t insist on being right.
  • 12. http://www.flickr.com/photos/33061156@N00/419004655/sizes/l/in/photolist-D2vuc-6PC7ZM-5oPgiW-4cmaX7-6LemGL-7wJVVX-48CDZN-f8CYVs-4KLJWL-3b1npw-66DvwG-5Yc5vw-9fpx9Z-6Zwohd-aBfgMH-9eqAVX-aAoahk-dKePe1-bLs6JH-6e7EUd-6MYi4b-aXHgyM-eiBUdy-6ZubCz-82Hvg6-7UHAvV-7uHGK-5bZMRs-ftj5kV-ftiZVe-ftysTo-ftynkd-ftyxVd-ftyrt7-ftjb9R-5QqK3v-6Sj561-2dnCC6-eE5da-6hVd3o-8aXj5A-4tTAPL-9DF3EG-aHvQNV-anvEtg-dcW5kH-dcW21U-dcW3Tp-31nyZD-dRp
  • 13. http://www.flickr.com/photos/xthread/9502238699/sizes/l/in/photolist-ftFsvH-7ZHao7-bBANR4-6Pa2cH-59DhTF-dC5Ygt-6ZMtk9-fiZGpY-5k92US-6ZRoeT-6RmmQv-cfuDSA-fut5xu-7ZA5WP-9fNX7t-9kzBdi-8xS5DC-fQ6C4C-dTa6fg-CLzJx-fpaN3e-b19hgX-oEQ5d-9pQjHk-b1arMD-bhcE9-d8McbC-9tGq7Q-bX91P7-abedmo-86NnC1-9JoZPm-fkgdAf-7CUkRB-7W21gV-8ndchg-9i7UEo-6jXv98-5NAPQX-2CRNsx-7gmc9J-apLay8-7BPXfW-7A2b1J-5H3mVi-ek31Hh-5CLxPC-c5GKrw-7Lr3fb-Pm “The Code of Marriage”
  • 14. http://www.flickr.com/photos/metrojp/92038203/sizes/l/in/photolist-98HKz-5v8iUA-7t4KYa-359VMi-4T6XDK-7Xu7FB-8KKWmP-biiyVx-aPvcLv-4ACPaR-arBLbk-3e7N4m-bzXTPW-aBhNyK-7kxjjn-b3M97n-5NdUSd-ejwKm1-dMhb5F-6c2sJN-8jtDCw-928yD7-D7sYH-3G34h-j4qd-djzf3R-dK9cQ7-7HCUBE-fmY48L-4N9Pew-8MhX5Z-66kABJ-7XScvi-cGmixL-meWsF-cGpJmU-9pBdvc-eZWt41-fS8ZWb-4kBBnw-61k2o1-8LEMkc-9cehSf-aj5hYu-7HBZMm-67nNta-83zB2V-fLR7Ra-gNSiU-6TpaEu-6C Argue but PAUSE to listen. Point #3:
  • 15. http://www.flickr.com/photos/carlarosesmith/4328059083/sizes/l/in/photolist-7Asrbk-47AHc3-HELHf-9u3jJk-dAGgFa-8yT1da-aMsujg-GT8h2-dcdAmK-5otKNz-892orF-66V2bY-7XjLig-4u4PQ-7vkCQN-5HBxMY-88Lh7x-eDwqph-3frR32-cxMLBb-9t1pgo-arbrSF-a3BmW-dwVYAo-9Ke6eC-edsmXa-JNsG7-9WAPjB-93yFV-8L2GgP-8K74ip-89fLWH-4jBVWL-4UxtXj-7BFT93-dWSx7i-6Gw4xp-dVpcAD-scUPn-dbLNGH-4R3jWH-6DzvKy-aRdndv-fgVTFY-6KDYKf-5RPK Silence is never overrated.
  • 16. http://www.flickr.com/photos/alfahim/3238881214/sizes/o/in/photolist-5Wd7xy-4P2pg2-7cYuth-dtvZo-7hpANt-6dZ8qt-dxPzKs-8poaxM-6tmz7t-4yqUMf-46hxH-6usyde-brYLJo-bbGsKp-9Xriie-7khyoc-3RAGLr-6ik8XH-avxV3F-7FPX6n-7D4XQL-9hSPdp-8543iX-JLowv-7NxyZN-3fGkzh-7D3seX-88Nfbs-5kSR4j-2iSvcf-5RNJW6-8r5fZg-5SrVWD-8z6NXA-4METDN-bYanmU-97b1c4-94uhW5-7yB7nE-76Nyk Love is worth fighting for so ARGUE!
  • 17. http://www.flickr.com/photos/youngfoee_recap/8047281477/sizes/l/in/photolist-dg7qqn-dg7nkZ-dg7qa5-dg7pi4-dg7q4T-dg7nGc-dg7obD-dg7qZf-dg7ovR-dg7s5Y-dg7rc6-c8frDG-bXMHFN-534yx3-534yH1-7YcKzy-7oo5Ch-b4WmoD-eLaii-aEYyDC-awZGtQ-aoB2Ct-aAW5sW-avQhZE-amDTup-bXMHBf-dk78Lf-dn6La5-dn6Hu8-dn6HFa-dn6HKe-dn6Low-9E7CF4-9a1JEV-aDrTQi-dg11pb-doZGme-doZRrj-doZGqF-9SYGr7-8Qt9ry-9o54tZ-9o86Fd-9o8813-9o89cw-9o88fQ-9o87R1-9o54CV-9o53CH-
  • 18. www.flickr.com/photos/carolinasneves/7889710912/sizes/l/in/photolist-d2bQbu-5rYNSF-e9KaTM-5s48z9-4fV1FF-5fLcwr-6VdRFH-5zyKxh-8zwdRU-4T7tPp-9VdBa8-9Ur6Kp-8kizje-6w9SWZ-6ZzqRg-s4vhi-9UuTVp-4R55wG-c2jqw9-8yArZh-73SbfX-8GJJnX-5aKHhX-efVD1Y-6iCpBo-2SZmWx-4o6BTM-98f2gN-33c7k-7gmMEd-9RhD13-o1Kcs-532nJK-5MYCBf-8gZFSF-7LVQcz-bkY7UM-8JW99T-aC9tbZ-GPLbH-D16VH-9Xmn2z-9XmgNR-9Xv28g-9XmkCz-9XmnsK-9Xpawo-9XmktR-9Xpauo-9Xpf1L- I haven’t had as many years as this couple but
  • 19. http://www.flickr.com/photos/epsos/4327124010/sizes/l/in/photolist-7AnDdo-6KuFRK-bVqMCX-cn3Ld5-8P2cq9-4Z9Vjm-ccN1Ub-f5oSVo-dg4biw-6KxQ15-cbZ5ME-8G3ukZ-312Pcb-bcBaev-9GXB4B-e2VMps-8FEvBW-4Pc4Xo-6AgBvq-72NBxF-bisY8H-8eSjLQ-bujdMP-9TBqag-4Ka54b-z8mkJ-8gMYgC-9vek6Z-84mqo8-fDcPuk-arNrGH-9NL9QM-8dUE1V-z4tnA-2WVPHs-a6UvJH-4Ka5e7-9j3GdR-4S37qw-9dwFZo-9dwFZm-4XqzyD-9gTq35-9dwFZq-9gTq39-7Aw7Dc-9hm3FQ-9r11U http://www.flickr.com/photos/epsos/4327124010/sizes/l/in/photolist-7AnDdo-6KuFRK-bVqMCX-cn3Ld5-8P2cq9-4Z9Vjm-ccN1Ub-f5oSVo-dg4biw-6KxQ15- cbZ5ME-8G3ukZ-312Pcb-bcBaev-9GXB4B-e2VMps-8FEvBW-4Pc4Xo-6AgBvq-72NBxF-bisY8H-8eSjLQ-bujdMP-9TBqag-4Ka54b-z8mkJ-8gMYgC-9vek6Z- 84mqo8-fDcPuk-arNrGH-9NL9QM-8dUE1V-z4tnA-2WVPHs-a6UvJH-4Ka5e7-9j3GdR-4S37qw-9dwFZo-9dwFZm-4XqzyD-9gTq35-9dwFZq-9gTq39- 7Aw7Dc-9hm3FQ-9r11UZ-9h4Aig-9dGnAg-fjYwWD/ I made it past this point and so can you.
  • 20. //www.flickr.com/photos/emikaf/4727539899/sizes/l/in/photolist-8cKSUB-6bdUSB-diZGpC-8v9kkA-7xreAM-9a2JJw-ci2bV1-67CGLX-7BMT3m-5Qy9tb-bpt42s-4hEub9-9Ar4HR-4E1WAF-99eSwQ-5nd6o6-9XXDJz-99ojGB- TU-8Gpszh-7KrPba-rWZN8-bWHEsz-9ByJ9a-66Mfsw-awFmSE-5o4JgE-4GRpai-9rPi2s-61EtWa-5X9cT2-5xbuxp-8Btf47-9mDVuE-Swht9-8vFUe-7AiREJ-47Eh6X-59Dxxq-5gFY9B-6ZuqDT-aByXgC-83HmJP-8aVKzr-dLGkCU- 5vDDcu-9oeMaM-7yC27k-fQngdu-5pbaJz-c5PYAj/