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Based on the book by Gary Chapman, “The Five Languages of Love”
“The minute I heard my first
love story, I started looking
for you, not knowing how
blind that was.
Lovers don't finally m...
 There

is no one definition. It is organic, a
process, where just like a garden if nurtured
and looked after it grows in...
 Just

like a bank account, you have to make
deposits before you make withdrawls. Every
day, multiple times a day, you ha...
Important!

Married life is about
Mawada and Rahma
(Mercy)

Photo by Tela Chhe on Flickr available under a Creative Common...
‫‪love‬‬
‫حب, محبة, عشق, مودة, محبوب, محبوبة‬
‫‪friendship‬‬
‫صداقة, مودة, زمالة‬
‫‪cordiality‬‬
‫مودة, حرارة, شعور ودي‬
‫...
‫‪mercy‬‬
‫رحمة, رأفة, نعمة, شفقة, بركة‬
‫‪clemency‬‬
‫رأفة, رحمة, حلم, لين, هوادة, منح العفو‬
‫‪grace‬‬
‫نعمة, فضل, مهلة,...
“Speak a good word or remain silent”

Hadith

Photo by srizki on Flickr available under a Creative Commons Attribution Lic...
 Say

good things to your spouse and about
your spouse, eg “ I love you, appreciate
you,…”: Who did the Prophet (SAW) lov...
“When I am with you, we
stay up all night.
When you're not here, I can't
go to sleep.
Praise God for those two
insomnias!
...
“I can live for two months
on a good compliment.”

- Mark Twain
 This

is amongst other things about being in
the present.
When the Prophet (SAW) was at home he focused on the family. W...
“Your task is not to
seek for love, but
merely to seek and
find all the barriers
within yourself that
you have built again...
 Gift

giving is universal. It is an expression of
appreciation, love, and more.
The Prophet (SAW) was the most generous ...
“In your light I learn
how to love. In your
beauty, how to make
poems. You dance inside
my chest where no-one
sees you, bu...
 Show

Your Love Through Actions.

Find out the likes and dislikes of your spouse. Read his or her body language,
not eve...
“I want to see you. Know your voice.

Recognize you when you first come 'round
the corner.
Sense your scent when I come in...
 Intimacy

is built on all the senses.

Kissing, flirting, embracing, holding hands, cuddling as well as making love
are ...
 What

do you appreciate most about your
spouse?
 What makes you feel most loved?
 What do they say or do that hurts mo...
Words

of Affirmation
Quality Time
Receiving Gifts
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
 If

you enjoyed this presentation, like it,
share it.
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5 languages of muslim love

  1. 1. PerfectMuslimWedding.com perfectmuslimwedding@gmail.com Based on the book by Gary Chapman, “The Five Languages of Love”
  2. 2. “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.” ― Rumi, The Illuminated Rumi Photo by nono Farah on Flickr available under a Creative Commons Attribution License
  3. 3.  There is no one definition. It is organic, a process, where just like a garden if nurtured and looked after it grows into a beautiful relationship full of intimacy and love.
  4. 4.  Just like a bank account, you have to make deposits before you make withdrawls. Every day, multiple times a day, you have to make a deposit. A kind word, a look, a touch, a gesture, a call,…
  5. 5. Important! Married life is about Mawada and Rahma (Mercy) Photo by Tela Chhe on Flickr available under a Creative Commons Attribution License
  6. 6. ‫‪love‬‬ ‫حب, محبة, عشق, مودة, محبوب, محبوبة‬ ‫‪friendship‬‬ ‫صداقة, مودة, زمالة‬ ‫‪cordiality‬‬ ‫مودة, حرارة, شعور ودي‬ ‫‪intimacy‬‬ ‫ألفة, مودة, صداقة حميمة, عالقة جنسية‬ ‫‪bonhomie‬‬ ‫إنس, مودة‬ ‫‪fellowship‬‬ ‫زمالة, صحبة, منحة جامعية, رفقة, مودة, طائفة‬ ‫‪attachment‬‬ ‫التعلق, ارتباط, حجز, ربط, رابط, مودة‬ ‫‪nearness‬‬ ‫قرب, إلف, مودة, جوار, صداقة حميمة, دقيق‬
  7. 7. ‫‪mercy‬‬ ‫رحمة, رأفة, نعمة, شفقة, بركة‬ ‫‪clemency‬‬ ‫رأفة, رحمة, حلم, لين, هوادة, منح العفو‬ ‫‪grace‬‬ ‫نعمة, فضل, مهلة, رحمة, جمال, كياسة‬ ‫‪pity‬‬ ‫شفقة, أسف, رثاء, رحمة, رأفة, حنو‬ ‫‪ruth‬‬ ‫رحمة‬ ‫‪quarter‬‬ ‫ربع, حي, جانب, ربع ساعة, ربع دوالر, رحمة‬
  8. 8. “Speak a good word or remain silent” Hadith Photo by srizki on Flickr available under a Creative Commons Attribution License
  9. 9.  Say good things to your spouse and about your spouse, eg “ I love you, appreciate you,…”: Who did the Prophet (SAW) love the most? “O Messenger of Allah, who do you love most?” Prophet Muhammad replied “Aisha….” (Bukhari) Photo by Chris Kamal Zarif on Flickr available under a Creative Commons Attribution License
  10. 10. “When I am with you, we stay up all night. When you're not here, I can't go to sleep. Praise God for those two insomnias! And the difference between them.” Rumi
  11. 11. “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” - Mark Twain
  12. 12.  This is amongst other things about being in the present. When the Prophet (SAW) was at home he focused on the family. Whoever he met he gave his full and undivided attention. 110%. Togetherness has to do with focused attention not just physical proximity. Photo by am & Faiz available under a Creative Commons Attribution License
  13. 13. “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi
  14. 14.  Gift giving is universal. It is an expression of appreciation, love, and more. The Prophet (SAW) was the most generous and there are many examples of him both giving and receiving gifts. Gifts may or may not have monetary value. Make it personal, thoughtful, based on on an occasion or non-occasion. Photo by Salim Fadley available under a Creative Commons Attribution License
  15. 15. “In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.” ― Rumi
  16. 16.  Show Your Love Through Actions. Find out the likes and dislikes of your spouse. Read his or her body language, not everything is explicitly said. What can you do around the house to help? How can you take care of your self, hygiene, beautify yourself, fitness, and other ways to show your spouse, you care? The Prophet was described by his wife that ‘he was in the service of his family’ (Bukhari)
  17. 17. “I want to see you. Know your voice. Recognize you when you first come 'round the corner. Sense your scent when I come into a room you've just left. Know the lift of your heel, the glide of your foot. Become familiar with the way you purse your lips then let them part, just the slightest bit, when I lean in to your space and kiss you. I want to know the joy of how you whisper "more” ― Rumi
  18. 18.  Intimacy is built on all the senses. Kissing, flirting, embracing, holding hands, cuddling as well as making love are all parts of physical intimacy. The Prophet (SAW) would passionately kiss his wife, and then leave for prayer without performing wudu accord to Aisha (RA) Photo by dMap Travel Guide on Flickr available
  19. 19.  What do you appreciate most about your spouse?  What makes you feel most loved?  What do they say or do that hurts most?  What do you wish your spouse knew about what you desire above all else?  How do you express your love to your spouse?
  20. 20. Words of Affirmation Quality Time Receiving Gifts Acts of Service Physical Touch
  21. 21.  If you enjoyed this presentation, like it, share it. Twitter Handle @prmuslimwedding Like and comment us on our Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/PerfectMuslimWedding Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/muslimwedding/ Tumblr: http://perfectmuslimwedding.tumblr.com/ To contact us: PerfectMuslimWedding.com perfectmuslimwedding@gmail.com

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