Avoid These 7 Mistakes In Bed

If you're rolling over and going to sleep right after lovemaking, you're doing your relationship a huge disservice. Women, especially, need to feel connected with their partner after lovemaking. Take the time to be there for one another. This doesn't have to fall into any cliché suggestions like cuddling. You can connect with your partner by gently caressing their arms or shoulders. Gently rub their back with your finger tips. Even just staying awake to talk a bit is a nice way to lull them back into calm fulfillment.

Plunging right into lovemaking can be downright selfish for either parties. Without proper foreplay, you and your partner won't be warmed up for the most satisfying lovemaking experience possible. Most women in general need some form of foreplay to become properly lubricated . Without this prerequisite, sex can be unpleasant and in many cases even painful. For men, foreplay is an exercise in excitement . It teaches them to prolong their orgasm and teases them away from sexual boredom.

This advice might seem obvious but you'd be surprised at how many long-term couples ignore (or get lazy with) personal hygiene before sex and wonder why it just didn't have that spark. Always brush your teeth. Always shave. Always shower prior. Feel free to arouse your partner with perfume or cologne. Make sure your parts are well groomed. Make sure your fingernails aren't jagged from nail biting. Your goal is clean and neat. By avoiding this crucial attention to cleanliness, you'll be starting off on the wrong foot immediately.

There is nothing unsexier than faking an orgasm. It completely disconnects the two of you and you're essentially manipulating your relationship. Talk it out. Tell your partner what they're doing wrong. Tell them what they're doing right. Get your orgasm back on track and most importantly...have PATIENCE. So many women simply want to get it over with so they fake it . Let me tell you, this is a sure fire way to turn yourself into an uptight person. Enjoying the journey of sex needs to be just as important as enjoying the destination...your orgasm.

Don't be that person. Too much tongue is wet and gross. You're trying to keep it sexy here. If your partner has verbally confirmed that they're into the excessive tongue and you feel the same way, that's one thing. However, it's safe to say that most couples like to start off gentle and go from there.

If your hands are resting during lovemaking or foreplay, you're leaving plenty of pleasure on the table. Use your hands continuously during foreplay and sex to stimulate every nerve ending of your partner's skin. Your skin is the biggest organ on your body. Take advantage of this by caressing your lover during every action you both undergo. This is most effective during oral sex. Use your hands to stimulate your partner as you satisfy them intensely with your mouth.

For many women, direct stimulation of the clitoris can be uncomfortable and even painful, especially early in the lovemaking. Your partner may need you to wait until she is much more aroused before direct clitoral stimulation becomes pleasurable. It's even possible that your lover can’t stand direct clitoral stimulation at all. The nerve endings may just be too sensitive. Your best bet is to ask her how she likes her clitoris stimulated. That said, kudos to you for having the understanding that stimulation to the clitoris is responsible for nearly 70% of female orgasms.

Avoid These 7 Mistakes In Bed

by jasonellis on Mar 07, 2010

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