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Importance of Bystander
Intervention
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• Please note the following information contains images
& content that viewers may find disturbing.
• These are...
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Today's presentation
• See.
• Watch.
• Listen.
• Feel.
• Impact.
• Empower.
• Change.
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Remember me?
• I’m the guy who watched you being bullied but didn’t know what to do.
• I’m your colleague who was too scar...
Remember me?
• I’m your friend that could have been that upstander but said it wasn’t my
business.
• I witnessed you repea...
Remember me?
• I’m that bystander who feels much guilt, shame, pain & regret.
• I should have been responsible to look aft...
Bullying - Process
BULLY
VICTIM
BYSTANDER
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• Bullying affects & hurts everyone involved.
• Bystanders care, want bullying to stop & have more power .
• Their power c...
• Bullying stops in under 10 seconds - 50% of the time.
• If the bystander doesn’t intervene – nothing will change.
• The ...
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• Kitty Genovese, 28 was walking home at 3:15 am - March 13,
1964.
• Attacked on a residential St in Kew Gardens, NY.
• Wi...
• 1 woman called police, after being alerted by a neighbour who said he “didn't
want to get involved.” 2nd witness made a ...
• “Bystander effect,” or “Genovese syndrome,” describes the phenomenon - an
individual is less likely to act in an emergen...
• Darley & Latane - individuals conversed over intercom & 1 pretended to have a
seizure:
• When 2 people involved - 85% as...
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• Darley & Latane conducted experiment in 1964:
• Smoke entered room:
• When alone upto 80% did something & reported it - ...
• I thought someone else was going to say or do something.
• Fell intimidated, confused & scared of reprisal – could be th...
• He/she deserves it.
• Don't want to be named or singled out.
• Don’t really know the victim or perpetrator.
• Fear losin...
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• His suicide note read;
“The pain of life overrides the joy to the point that
joy does not exist.”
• He had earlier made ...
Instigate
Join in &
Encourage
Followers
Passively
accept
Disengaged
Onlookers
Passive
Defenders
Defender Observer
Bystande...
• Instigate - bullying by prodding the bully to begin.
• Join in - bullying once it’s begun.
• Followers - positive toward...
• Disengaged onlookers - don’t get involved, take a stand or participle actively
- say its none of my business & wait unti...
Pressure
Anxiety
PowerlessFear
Guilt
Bystander Apprehension
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Bystanders who don’t intervene may experience:
• Pressure - to participate in the bullying.
• Anxiety - about speaking to ...
Intervene
Assist
Support
Helpful Bystander
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• Could be the catalyst for the victim to speak up.
• Lets the victim know they’re not alone because in most cases a bulli...
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• Everybody's responsibility & business to prevent/stop bullying.
• More upstanders = more harmonious workplace.
• Everyon...
1. Establish a sense of ownership - employees are more likely to
help others if they feel a connection: respecting, suppor...
Why the Foundation?
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Allem Halkic
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Ali & the Anti Jump Barriers
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Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means wi...
Vision
To protect & empower
Australians to live a
fulfilling life free from all
forms of Bullying.
Copyright © 2014 BZAF. ...
Point of Difference
• Not-for-profit organisation.
• Board, my PA, Committees & Volunteers.
• We target CALD Communities &...
Point of Difference
• IT specialists.
• Lawyers.
• Psychologists & Counselors.
• Marketing experts.
• Accountants.
• Workp...
Point of Difference
• Primary & secondary teachers.
• Media personnel.
• Charity Partners.
• Ambassadors.
• Various profes...
Organizational Structure
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Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means wi...
• 13 Lives saved via 24 Hour Hotline.
• We have touched over 43,276 Australians.
• Website.
• Facebook counselors on line....
Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means wi...
Questions
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Call Rachel - 0408 844 812
Oscar - 0413 850 357
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Oscar Yildiz - Bully Zero Australia Foundation - The importance of bystander intervention

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Oscar Yildiz delivered the presentation at 2014 Workplace Bullying Conference.

The Workplace Bullying Conference 2014 focused on the effects of the legislative changes to date and on implementing practical policies and programs for bullying prevention.

For more information about the event, please visit: http://www.informa.com.au/workplacebullyingevent14

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  1. 1. Importance of Bystander Intervention Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  2. 2. Disclaimer • Please note the following information contains images & content that viewers may find disturbing. • These are shown for educational purposes only & do not intend to cause any physical or mental discomfort. • Viewer discretion is advised. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  3. 3. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  4. 4. Today's presentation • See. • Watch. • Listen. • Feel. • Impact. • Empower. • Change. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  5. 5. Remember me? • I’m the guy who watched you being bullied but didn’t know what to do. • I’m your colleague who was too scared to say something because I didn’t want to be the next target – I didn’t want to lose anyone's friendship. • I’m the guy that sat behind you & felt just as hurt by the bullying, it still affects me today. • I worried, was stressed & didn’t want to come to work because I felt helpless, guilty, shameful & powerless. • I’m the guy who heard the verbal criticism, name-calling & teasing. I just walked away because I didn’t want to see you being bullied. • I like you, felt that knot in the pit of my stomach when she entered our work station. I should have spoken up. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  6. 6. Remember me? • I’m your friend that could have been that upstander but said it wasn’t my business. • I witnessed you repeatedly being asked to do tasks, you should not have, I had the power to change things & did nothing. • I’m the bystander who laughed at the bullies behaviour. • I’m the guy who watched the bullying from a distance but continued tapping away at my keyboard. • I’m the Apprentice that heard the verbal abuse, belittling & poor behaviour by the Boss. I said nothing, kept on turning a blind eye & you resigned . • Do you know who else I am? Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  7. 7. Remember me? • I’m that bystander who feels much guilt, shame, pain & regret. • I should have been responsible to look after your health & safety. • I should have displayed courage, said something & stepped in. “To understand a person’s world view, you have to view the world through their eyes. Walk a mile in their shoes, live a day in their life, then you will understand.” Brett Murray Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  8. 8. Bullying - Process BULLY VICTIM BYSTANDER Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  9. 9. • Bullying affects & hurts everyone involved. • Bystanders care, want bullying to stop & have more power . • Their power cannot be underestimated. • Those who stand by & watch are part of the bullying – known as part-bullying. • 70% of employees fall into the largest most powerful group but yet only 15% do something. • Greater the number of bystanders - less likely for intervention. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Bystander Facts
  10. 10. • Bullying stops in under 10 seconds - 50% of the time. • If the bystander doesn’t intervene – nothing will change. • The bystander knows the behaviour is wrong but unless they’re asked for help or made to feel they have a responsibility or duty to act, they will remain silent. “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” Edmund Burke Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Bystander Facts
  11. 11. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. VIDEO - 1 • video
  12. 12. • Kitty Genovese, 28 was walking home at 3:15 am - March 13, 1964. • Attacked on a residential St in Kew Gardens, NY. • Winston Moseley stabbed Genovese several times before being scared away by Bystander Robert Mozer, who said: “Hey, leave that girl alone!” • Moseley returned 10 minutes later, attacked a dying Genovese in an alleyway, stabbing her more & raping her as she died. • 2 attacks took place over 30 minutes - 38 people saw the attack, heard the screams & ignored it. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Kitty Genovese
  13. 13. • 1 woman called police, after being alerted by a neighbour who said he “didn't want to get involved.” 2nd witness made a similar remark, saying, “I didn't want my husband to get involved.” • 1 couple thought the attack was “a lover’s quarrel.” Another witness claimed he heard the second attack but was too tired & went back to bed.” • Loudon Wainwright wrote “we are becoming a callous, chickenhearted & immoral people.” • Case generated a national scandal & prompted psychological studies on the behaviour of bystanders. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Kitty Genovese
  14. 14. • “Bystander effect,” or “Genovese syndrome,” describes the phenomenon - an individual is less likely to act in an emergency situation if others are present. • Keltner & Marsh found witnesses of the murder may have seen other apt lights go on, or seen each other in the windows & assumed someone else would help. • End result - bystander effect - bystander apathy - bystander indifference. Bystander effect is caused by people assuming someone else will step up to the plate & solve the problem. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Bystander Effect
  15. 15. • Darley & Latane - individuals conversed over intercom & 1 pretended to have a seizure: • When 2 people involved - 85% assisted. • 3 involved - 62% assisted. • 6 involved - 31% assisted. • Greater the number of bystanders - less likely for intervention. • Study attributed results to “diffusion of responsibility” (when people are witness to a situation, they felt less personal responsibility to intervene & looked to each other for help). Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Power of Bystander - Research
  16. 16. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. VIDEO - 2 • Video
  17. 17. • Darley & Latane conducted experiment in 1964: • Smoke entered room: • When alone upto 80% did something & reported it - Pluralistic ignorance (individuals stay idle because no one else is helping). • In a group 10% responded – this proved that bystander effect is real. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Power of Bystander - Research
  18. 18. • I thought someone else was going to say or do something. • Fell intimidated, confused & scared of reprisal – could be the next target & the bully could turn on me. • None of my business, I don’t want to get involved. • Afraid of confrontation & process. • Nothings wrong really – why make a fuss about it. • Lack confidence to do something. • Not sure what actually occurred, don’t know what’s going on. • Can’t be bothered. Why Not be an Upstander? Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  19. 19. • He/she deserves it. • Don't want to be named or singled out. • Don’t really know the victim or perpetrator. • Fear losing my job or being made redundant. • Nothing was actioned when I last complained to HR, so why bother. • Don’t want to step outside the comfort zone, better to ignore it as it will go away. • Not qualified to handle issue, don’t know what to do & can’t make a decision. Bystanders who don’t intervene or don’t report often suffer negative consequences such as guilt. Why Not be an Upstander? Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  20. 20. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Photographer Kevin Carter
  21. 21. • His suicide note read; “The pain of life overrides the joy to the point that joy does not exist.” • He had earlier made the comment: “Inside something is screaming. My God. But its time for work. Deal with the rest later. If you can’t do it get out of the game.” Kevin Carter Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  22. 22. Instigate Join in & Encourage Followers Passively accept Disengaged Onlookers Passive Defenders Defender Observer Bystanders
  23. 23. • Instigate - bullying by prodding the bully to begin. • Join in - bullying once it’s begun. • Followers - positive towards the bullying - take active part but don’t usually initiate the bullying, (don’t play the leading role). • Supportive or passive bullies - don’t join in but actively & openly support & encourage the bullying by watching, laughing, cheering or making comments that further stimulate the bully - (like the bullying but don’t show outward signs of support - don’t realize they’re contributing to the problem). • Passive bystanders provide the audience - (the bully wants this & silent acceptance allows them to continue their behaviour). Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Bystanders
  24. 24. • Disengaged onlookers - don’t get involved, take a stand or participle actively - say its none of my business & wait until someone else does something. • Passive defenders - dislike the bullying & think they should help but do nothing. • Defender - dislikes the bullying & tries to help. • Observers - see the bullying & may feel they’re in an unsafe environment & won’t act. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Bystanders
  25. 25. Pressure Anxiety PowerlessFear Guilt Bystander Apprehension Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  26. 26. Bystanders who don’t intervene may experience: • Pressure - to participate in the bullying. • Anxiety - about speaking to anyone. • Powerlessness - to stop it. • Fear - of associating with the victim or the bully. • Guilt - for not having defended the victim. Bystander Apprehension Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  27. 27. Intervene Assist Support Helpful Bystander Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  28. 28. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. VIDEO - 3 • Video
  29. 29. • Could be the catalyst for the victim to speak up. • Lets the victim know they’re not alone because in most cases a bullied person does have overwhelming feelings of isolation, alienation & loneliness. • Directly intervene - discouraging the bully, defending victim or redirecting situation. • Assist & seek assistance - rally support from colleagues to stand up against behaviour & report it. • Support - approach victim & inform them they’re aware of the situation & say it’s not right & display empathy & sympathy. Helpful Bystander Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  30. 30. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. VIDEO - 4 • Video
  31. 31. • Everybody's responsibility & business to prevent/stop bullying. • More upstanders = more harmonious workplace. • Everyone needs to play by policies, rules or boundaries. • Don’t respond aggressively - explain assertively 1 on 1. • Treat co-workers fairly, equally, with dignity, respect & free from fear. Effective Communication Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  32. 32. 1. Establish a sense of ownership - employees are more likely to help others if they feel a connection: respecting, supporting, recognizing, sympathising, complimenting, recognising & visualizing good qualities. 2. Educate others in the workplace about the bystander effect. 3. Explain the power of responsibility & their role to report, support & manage situations of bullying. Effective Communication Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  33. 33. Why the Foundation? Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  34. 34. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. CALDcom Storyboards
  35. 35. Allem Halkic Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  36. 36. Ali & the Anti Jump Barriers Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  37. 37. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Sheniz Erkan
  38. 38. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. The People left behind
  39. 39. Vision To protect & empower Australians to live a fulfilling life free from all forms of Bullying. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  40. 40. Point of Difference • Not-for-profit organisation. • Board, my PA, Committees & Volunteers. • We target CALD Communities & Non-English Speaking Communities. • Look after the families left behind. • Cyber Safety sessions to schools, workplaces, sporting clubs & community groups. • Deliver effective evidenced based parenting skills programs. • Awareness initiatives. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  41. 41. Point of Difference • IT specialists. • Lawyers. • Psychologists & Counselors. • Marketing experts. • Accountants. • Workplace experts. • Graphic designers. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  42. 42. Point of Difference • Primary & secondary teachers. • Media personnel. • Charity Partners. • Ambassadors. • Various professionals from employment to fundraising backgrounds. • 100% of all donations contribute to programs & initiatives. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  43. 43. Organizational Structure Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. BOARD CEO Education Workplace & Technology Fundraising & Support Functions Events Marketing & Media
  44. 44. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Office
  45. 45. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Foundation Opening
  46. 46. • 13 Lives saved via 24 Hour Hotline. • We have touched over 43,276 Australians. • Website. • Facebook counselors on line. • Twitter. • Email requests. • Psychologist. • Lawyers. Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. Achievements
  47. 47. Copyright © 2013 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation. VIDEO - 5 • Video
  48. 48. Questions Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
  49. 49. Call Rachel - 0408 844 812 Oscar - 0413 850 357 1800 0 Bully (1800 028 559) Twitter - @BullyZeroOz Facebook - Bully Zero Contact Copyright © 2014 BZAF. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written permission of Bully Zero Australia Foundation.
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