P ersonality Development which means self development in this process we need to go threw the some stages and study. This assignment for me, its was not a just study it’s a lesson for my life. In Vidyavati Ashram I found correct way of life I did case study of some children I got good experience from it. I am very Thankful of Anu madam who gave such a valuable responsibility to lead the Team.
My first day at Frankfinn… it was grand moment in my life I was placing my feet on first step of my Dream Carrier some where I was nervous because of new place, new syllabus and new environment. As a new student I was quite and watching what is going in the class when I started to speak I got panic due to nervousness and environmental changes.
But now I am friendly with this environment after this event day now I am comparing my previous days with this days now I am become judicious and rational I could manage hard sitution with correct decision making.
I found my self as Ambivert Person I checked both side of situation and holding a middle ground of situation
In terms of conditioning so every day I motivate my self. Because conditioning definition says “You cant change your past but you can develop your future by utilizing your present well.” so every day believing that I am a good Human Being this is my self conditioning now according to my environment I am conditioning my self to adjust with environment like my office, Class and family.
Strength Weakness Opportunity Threats I have Good Communication Skill Very Short Tempered Police Aggressiveness I Have lot of Patience I don’t have ability to say not Engineer I am a good leader Bad listener Businessman Understanding I am very Emotional Actor
Strength Weakness Opportunity Threats I become good listener Short Tempered Aviation Laziness Reasonable eye contact I don’t have ability to say no Hospitality Well groom I am very Emotional Businessman in travel tourism Huge confidence Not punctual Actor Friendly nature Politian
In process of personality development person should apply empathy internally that means “ put your self into other persons shoes and think accordingly” empathy help to make understand others very well with good long term relationship.
It’s a kind of skill which helps to make person wise and bold and definition says “Leadership is not about the awards or praise that you receive; it’s all about the deed.” so leadership is a positive strength for to development some ones personality.
It’s discovery to achieve what you decide provided you should encourage and remind constantly to your self that is motivation. If the person willing to get what he/she wants with appropriate action that is motivation.
As I know to develop some ones personality mentioned all factors are very important. With all factors any one can become a good human being.
Rationality:- The person who is very wise, judicious, intelligent and good command over the emotions that person called as a rational person.
Example:- During my assignment, I feel that sameer was rational personal because when we plan our event schedule he was wise with every one and as team leader he was judicious with all team mates. Every time he was taking decision with intelligently not emotionally.
Empathy:- It’s a kind a strong strength like put our self into others person’s shoes and treat according that individual’s level. With this you can become more understandable and a boost toward the success.
Example:- the best example for empathic that is Mr. Anand Gopal who is manager of that orphanage. When I approached him to give the permission for organize an event in their orphanage, so his approach was very positive he said “I understand the youth I had been form this so I will allow to do so.” After that he gave such a valuable support to us for this event.
Positive Attitude:- it is place your standpoints and viewpoints which leads to responses to different stimuli. That is attitude but with positive stand and view points. It will help you to achieve your goal within the measurable time.
Example:- While doing assignment there was one individual who name is Shrawan he very intelligent boy and he is handicap with one lag still he want to become a good Cricketer in asked him how? He said while I watching cricket I learnt the technique I will try my best to play in future with positive attitude.
Leadership:- Leadership is not about what you do in the spotlight; it’s about what you do on the spot. It means what kinds of responsibility you carrying and hitting the target with the team mates.
Example:- For Leader ship I would like to highlight my self because I believe I have completed my job well as team leader. Because as team leader with all responsibility I hit my target with all team mates and within the spot.
Motivation:- it’s an act to pushing your self to do some thing which you feels right. With motivation we can achieve what we dream it’s a self encouragement to your self
Example:- During my assignment I have noticed one small girl who named is Muskaan I spoke with her for 3-4 minutes but I realized that she has lot of motivation in her self she said I want to become an actress when we asking her about it she says I am an actress and I am beautiful.
Q 4: Relate your statement in M1 to conditioning in life and state how conditioning includes development of once personality. Quote example from what you have noticed around you during the assignment…….
C onditioning is a big turning point to make your future well like wise definition says that “ we can’t change our past but we can develop our future with good uses of present.” There are two types of conditioning.
If some one applies these Qualities to lead the team so…
With Ambitions we will achieve what we expected. Define the height of the GOAL and Go for it ! ... Do it ! ... And get it done ! ...
Individual would have manage the time according the activity so he can get what he expect.
During any kind of activity, and as an Individual or team leader you may come across those difficulty that you didn't expect. So correct decision making will always help you to come out of it. Provided you need to think a lot about both side of difficulty. And take wise decision.
Q 6: If you were given the task to develop even one of those underprivileged individual whom you have noticed during this assignment, what action plan would adopt to enhance his/her personality? What do you think reasons for the weakness and he/she have? What could be the opportunities could he/she use henceforth to correct those weakness and convert them into the strength? What could be the threats for the individual as obstacles in doing the same?
This is Srawan Sapkal 10 years boy. I interacted with him. He is in 5 th standard very intelligent and he wants to become a doctor. He like blue color it’s shows he is very peaceful and talented he feels good in this orphanage and been from last 5 yrs. And Very sharp listener he likes to make friends. Still he has some weakness so I will adopt this Action plan.
As of now he is just 10 years old according to his age and maturity we need to encourage him for those activity which will help him to become a good human being.
Like trust on God
How to be an emotionally balanced
Be wise with every one
How to manage the time
Always be happy
No self under estimation
Reasons for Action Plan:- As I understood him like he is very conscious child and if he applies this all qualities in his so he can achieve what he dream.
Expected result :- Now he is just 10 years boy in next 12 years if he acquiring all qualities I expect he can be a doctor in next few years provided with other support also.
If he work on his this SWOT he can change his personality
Action Plan for to Turn his weakness in strength:-
He should always be happy with every one.
In every activity he should take part.
He need to seat together with his friend for study or games.
He always need to believe that he is winner.
Strength Weakness Opportunities Threats He is Talented Handicap with one leg Doctor Self Under estimation Good Mentality Under estimation Teacher He thinks that he can’t do anything Good Listener No believe in competition Singer Good Observation Like to stay alone
He is not getting those opportunities which will help him to achieve.
He is Handicap with one lag he can’t do those jobs which normal individual can do.
His environment is only his orphanage children which is not sufficient for environmental conditioning.
Weakness Action plan Result Handicap with one leg He need to go for good medical treatment to cure from it. If he gets well early so he can do which normal person can do. Under estimation He need to self aware so that he can realize what qualities he has He will become Positive person very soon. No believe in competition He need to take a part in every activity. He will achieve what he dreamed. Like to stay alone He always needs to be with his friends. So that he will not feel that I am handicap and alone.
Q 1: How do you think time management was important for the activity that you performed and why? While discussing talk about barriers that you came across of managing time effectively and thrown light on how you removed the same……?
One individual can plan the activity and manage the time. If he would have become punctual and discipline and also plan an activity he should think before plan the task Best time manager always cares about wastages of time so this thing if he keeps in mind so obviously he can be a good time manager.
When we think of time management, however, we tend to think of personal time management, loosely defined as managing our time to waste less time on doing the things we have to do so we have more time to do the things we want to do.
Q 3: Study the team that you worked with for this assignment analyze a good time manager and talk about good practices you have notice for efficient time management. Looking back, please recollect as to how you could have saved time in completing this project. How dose your approach compare with your teammate’s approach….. ?
A s per my observation from my team Ajinkya was good time manager because while performing activity, he was very enthusiastic and he was doing the task within the desired time. Every time he was participating in cultural activity like singing and dancing competition.
And on the event date he was at his town still he came on time at orphanage did the event.
Also he helped to get all those gifts and goodies from there local market from his own money.
On first day we were supposed to reach by 2:30PM at that orphanage but due some obstacles like we missed our train, team member had some Problem relates to the place which we decide earlier.
While discussing about our activity plan that time our team members was not co-operative with provided time schedule of the activity they had en numbers on concerns to plan themselves. In this activity according to activity schedules, however we planned the task but still they were not on time and there was some team mates were absent. So I feel that these barriers was which I came across while managing time and planning the task
In these two days we would have get good time to entertain them so we feel honor to entertaining them. On first day we interacted with them and after that we took entertainment session. We played with them also we distribute the some goodies and prizes among them in dance competition this all activity was commanding by our Team Leader so this was good example of good time manager. But fortunately if we would have got some extra time so we could spend more time with them.
During this assignment my team mate was forcing to post pone the event date by next two days and eventually orphanage management gave us only two days that is Friday and Saturday as per time availability But other team mates was forcing me to change event date if I compares my approach with their approaches so I realize some barriers leads to fall down good time management like them.
With respect of Interpersonal Behavior, analyze and present your observation, factors that influenced the same positively and otherwise, in your Team and in the groups of other individuals that you noticed around you. Use your class room learning, with reference to Johuri Window , Ego states , Transactional Analysis and the Four basic attitudes . In speaking about this throw light on your own interpersonal skills and where you need to change and how you plan to change….[M1/M2/M3, D1/D2/D3]
The most useful method describing the process of human interaction. A four paned "window," as illustrated above, divides personal awareness into four different types, as represented by its four quadrants open self, hidden self, blind self, and unknownself.
It is named after the first names of its inventors, Jo seph Luft and Harry Ingham.
It is a communication window for giving and receiving information.
It is one of the most useful models describing the process of human interaction.
The Adult ego state is about direct responses to the here and now. We deal with things that are going on today in ways that are not unhealthily influenced by our past. While a person is in the Adult ego state, he/she is directed towards an objective appraisal of reality.
The Child ego state is a set of behaviors, thoughts and feelings which are replayed from our own childhood.
Example:- A person who receives a poor evaluation at work may respond by looking at the floor, and crying or pouting, as they used to when scolded as a child. Conversely, a person who receives a good evaluation may respond with a broad smile and a joyful gesture of thanks. The Child is the source of emotions, creation, recreation, spontaneity and intimacy.
What are the most important parts of Communication Discuss in details throwing Light on the barriers you faced while doing this assignment. Give an OHP presentation for the same, highlighting how you could remove them… [P]
Physical Barrier:- The barrier comes due to the physical or virtual object and it effects to the communication process that is called as physical barriers. Like noise or partition between sender and receiver.
Example:- During the assignment I was talking with some children some children was playing and dancing because of that noise it was interrupting our conversation.
Plan for another project likewise for future, in the areas of Aviation or Hospitality or Travel or all combined and highlight you stepwise Communication channel for executing the project taking the corrective measures form the current one… [D2/D3] You may use white board to sketch it out or use and OHP sheet or verbally discuss it. This task is also going aid you for your research unit, Unit 10 … [D2/D3].
Make and OHP presentation of 5 minutes on what you understand about Moral values and Character Building, highlighting the process of development of the same in a person and how state how this helps in one’s career…[P2b]
Trust:- There is a Loving Intelligence that pervades all things. All that is necessary is for us to maintain our trust and hope even though we live in the midst of uncertainty. Faith is our willingness to take the next step without fear or looking back
Compassion:- understanding of our situation, we are now free to extend mercy and compassion to ourselves and to those who have wronged us. This reconnects us back
Generosity :-If we want to attract more prosperity into our lives, we need to start the process of thinking and being generous to all of life. All of this opens up the flow of supply into our world because whatever we give to life returns to us.
Modesty:- Through an attitude of modesty i realize that we don't have to raise ourselves up with self-importance. God in his own way and time will reward us with whatever we need, as long as we rid ourselves
Truthfulness:- Our connection to our inner reality is strengthened when we align our thoughts, words and actions with truth and have the courage act with sincerity and honesty . This is the act of letting go of our own will and honoring the Divine Will instead
An example of the impact of changing laws on moral values may be seen in the case of marriage vs. “living together.” In past generations, it was rare to see couples who lived together without the benefit of a legal matrimonial ceremony. In recent years, couples that set up household without marriage are nearly as plentiful as traditional married couples. But, not only are such couples more plentiful, they are also more accepted by other individuals in our society. In earlier society, the laws and morals simply came from the Roman system of law, which was largely based on the Ten Commandments. As society moved into the modern era, that earlier system of laws became more and more eroded.
Plan/give a suggestion for other and self building a strong character and imbibing a strong value system highlighting and analyzing the importance of the same in both personal and professional life …[M2/D2/D3]
Action plan for Self building and strong character