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5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENTable of ContentsSECTION 1 – FOR MEN ..................................................
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENSECTION 1 – FOR MENChapter 1 – The First Things You Absolutely Must AvoidOK, so it h...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENOnce you have taken a day or two to let everything calm down, begin to think about b...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 2 – Learning To Live With The Break UpRight, first things first. If there is...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENbuilding up your health and making you more saleable. Do whatever is appropriate in ...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 3 – Learning To Be Yourself AgainFor a while, you are going to be alone. No-...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENgetting back at your ex. That is not only totally unfair on them, it will not do any...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 4 – When To Contact, And How OftenNow we come to one of the most difficult c...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENyour life as exciting and fun even if it isnt. Make your world appear as though it i...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 5 – Giving It A Chance To HappenAnd so, we come to the final chapter, where ...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENvery occasional. Once a month is about right. Maybe she is in deep thought about you...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENSECTION TWO – FOR WOMENChapter 1 – The First Things You Absolutely Must AvoidSo, you...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENbecause you are worth it. When you are trying to win back love, you are embarking on...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 2 – Learning To Live With The Break UpThe first few days after a break up ar...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENbeen left to you by the break up of the relationship to develop yourself as a human ...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 3 – Learning To Be Yourself AgainIt takes time to become the person you once...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENother people in an attempt to get back at your ex boyfriend. This is unethical, and ...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 4 – When To Contact, And How OftenWhen a love relationship breaks up, it has...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENto read between the lines of what he is saying, to see if you should start communica...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 5 – Giving It A Chance To HappenGiving lost love a chance to return starts w...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENon, and to make him want to hear more from you. When the replies come, start upconve...
5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENResources   1. The Ex Recovery System: Get Your Ex To Beg & Plead For You Back Again...
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  1. 1. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMEN 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMEN Discover The Secrets Of Getting Together Again!© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 1
  2. 2. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMEN 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMEN LEGAL NOTICE YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS WHATSOEVER TO GIVEAWAY OR SELL THIS EBOOK. It is for your personal use ONLYadmin@GetHerBackForGood.com© 2011 GetHerBackForGood.com - All Rights Reserved.No part of this report may be reproduced or transmitted in any form whatsoever,electronic, or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any informationalstorage or retrieval system without expressed written, dated and signed permission fromthe authors.DISCLAIMER AND/OR LEGAL NOTICESThe information presented herein represents the views of the author as of the date ofpublication. Because of the rate with which conditions change, the author reserve therights to alter and update their opinions based on the new conditions.This report is for informational purposes only and the author does not accept anyresponsibilities for any liabilities resulting from the use of this information. While everyattempt has been made to verify the information provided here, the author and hisresellers and affiliates cannot assume any responsibility for errors, or inaccuracies.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 2
  3. 3. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENResources 1. The Ex Recovery System: Get Your Ex To Beg & Plead For You Back Again! Click Here Or Go To: http://getherbackforgood.com/rexrec.php 2. M3 System: Making Up Made Easy! Click Here Or Go To: http://getherbackforgood.com/rm3.php© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 3
  4. 4. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENTable of ContentsSECTION 1 – FOR MEN ............................................................................................................... 5 Chapter 1 – The First Things You Absolutely Must Avoid........................................................ 5 Chapter 2 – Learning To Live With The Break Up .................................................................... 7 Chapter 3 – Learning To Be Yourself Again .............................................................................. 9 Chapter 4 – When To Contact, And How Often ....................................................................... 11 Chapter 5 – Giving It A Chance To Happen............................................................................. 13SECTION TWO – FOR WOMEN ............................................................................................... 15 Chapter 1 – The First Things You Absolutely Must Avoid...................................................... 15 Chapter 2 – Learning To Live With The Break Up .................................................................. 17 Chapter 3 – Learning To Be Yourself Again ............................................................................ 19 Chapter 4 – When To Contact, And How Often ....................................................................... 21 Chapter 5 – Giving It A Chance To Happen............................................................................. 23Resources ...................................................................................................................................... 25© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 4
  5. 5. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENSECTION 1 – FOR MENChapter 1 – The First Things You Absolutely Must AvoidOK, so it has happened. You have broken up. Your first reaction is..... That is just the point – thefirst thing you need to do is avoid reacting! If you do ANYTHING right now, without thought, it isabsolutely guaranteed that what you do will be WRONG. Take whatever time you need toTHINK about the BEST way to act from now on. You cant change the past, you can only decidewhat to do for the best in the days to come. If you are reacting to negative events, it is a surething that matters will deteriorate even further. As with a golfer who hits an atrocious drive,you need to clear your mind, and start again from where you are. You cannot undo what hasbeen done.The biggest mistake men make in this situation is to PUSH. You are in a place of pain – thenatural reaction is to try to end the pain as quickly as possible. The problem is, your ex is in aplace of pain too. By their value system, you are the one who has failed. Rush in, press, and youwill be doing yourself untold harm. By backing off, you just give time for the initial wounds toheal. Leave the telephone alone, dont try to seek her out in the places you know she visits, anddont send friends as messengers to talk to her on your behalf. Leave a space.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 5
  6. 6. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENOnce you have taken a day or two to let everything calm down, begin to think about buildingyourself and your own life up again first. The natural thing to do is spend all of your timethinking about her, but no good can come from that. If you sink into a depression, other areasof your life will suffer. People have lost their jobs or let their businesses slip while they are inthis mental state, and if that happens it is only going to make matters worse. You will, in thecoming weeks, need to re-sell yourself as the man your ex needs back in her life. The morepositive your own life is, the better your chances of doing this.Im sure the last thing you want to do right now is go out and mix with other people. This is oneof those times where you will need to steel yourself to the task, and get out anyway. Make surethat any work or social commitments are met. If one part of your life isnt working, for now,concentrate on the others. If you become a recluse or hermit, you will be putting yourself at thestart of the slippery slope to losing everything. However bad you feel inside, get out there andlive. It is the one thing you simply must do.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 6
  7. 7. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 2 – Learning To Live With The Break UpRight, first things first. If there is emotional pain involved, and there invariably is when a breakup occurs, accept that it will take time to heal. Give both yourself and your ex as much spaceand time as it takes. During this time, think long and hard about why she felt the need to breakit off. Realize that men and women have different value systems, and that somehow you musthave impacted on her value system in a negative way. If there is blame, let it go. It can onlyserve to hold you back. Try to accept, and see her point of view.At this moment, there is one crucially important area of your life which is not working. Althoughyour first reaction is to spend all of your time brooding and thinking about why this ishappening, a much better approach is to spend more time thinking about other areas of yourlife, about building yourself up as a human being. This approach has the potential to give you abetter you, which you can try to sell to your ex in the coming months.If you have a job or business, get your mind on to that. Give it your best effort and your bestattention. Work on your health and fitness. If you are feeling frustrated, down and angry, putthat energy into some positive exercise. It doesnt have to be anything back breaking – justsome brisk walking can have a dramatic effect on the way you feel, while at the same time© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 7
  8. 8. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENbuilding up your health and making you more saleable. Do whatever is appropriate in yoursituation to make yourself a better human being.Also, never forget that the most important person in your life is you. Whatever happens in thefuture which cannot predict, you are the one who matters. Sometimes, it is right for bothparties that a relationship ends and that people move on. Maybe this will be true in your case,and maybe it wont, but never forget that whatever happens you are the one you need to lookout for. By building yourself up as a human being, and improving the areas of your life you cancurrently work on, you open yourself up to the possibility of many positive things happening inyour life. Winning your ex back is only one possibility, but it is a strong and significantpossibility, and it has happened many times.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 8
  9. 9. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 3 – Learning To Be Yourself AgainFor a while, you are going to be alone. No-one can know or predict how long that while may be,but you are going to have to deal with it. The best way of dealing with it, of course, is to makeyourself into the best human being you are capable of becoming. Yet, we all realize there isgoing to be a need for emotional comfort in the difficult days to come. One possibility whichhas worked for many people is to return to what made you happy in the past.Returning to activities which have given you pleasure in the past is a way of grounding yourselfin the familiar. It gives you a link back to happier times, and can help you adjust to yourtemporary solitary life. The activity may not give you the same sense of pleasure it once didstraight away, but it will come. Remember, healing is a process which needs time. While youare working on your life in this way, you are giving time for the immediate emotions to calmand be healed. You are also allowing your ex to experience the same thing.Socialising is crucially important in your quest to build up your life. Try to bring new people in toyour life as well as continuing to see old friends. Anything which moves you forward and bringsnew experiences can not only aid the healing process, it can build you up as a human being andgive you a better chance of being able to sell yourself back to your ex. It is absolutely vital,though, to retain a sense of control. Dont get sucked in to using other people as a way of© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 9
  10. 10. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENgetting back at your ex. That is not only totally unfair on them, it will not do anything but harmin your quest to bring your ex back.In the end, your ex is infinitely more likely to return to a person who is in control of their life.For now, concentrate on improving what can be improved. No matter how low you are feeling,do everything you can to build up your confidence. Even use a negative situation in your favor.If there is a hobby or sport you have been wanting to try, take advantage of the new time youhave to get involved. Busy, happy people with lives that are working are attractive to theopposite gender. Build yourself into a product worth buying before you start the salesmanship!© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 10
  11. 11. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 4 – When To Contact, And How OftenNow we come to one of the most difficult choices you will have to make. Knowing when tocontact your ex and when to back off and leave space is art you will have to master, but it is byno means easy. It is the biggest mistake you can possibly make to pester your ex with constantcontact, yet there does need to be one piece of contact made, just to leave the door open. Ifyou do nothing, she may well think that you have just moved on and that is the end of it.Just one contact, which can be by email, SMS message or even snail mail, and then leave it.Make it clear that you regret that the break up has happened, that you will just send this onecommunication and leave it at that for now, but that the door is still open to her to contact youin the future. If you have been in regular contact, especially if that contact has been strained,now is the time to back right off and allow her space. Dont say, however, that you will notcontact her again until she contacts you, because that will just leave you in trouble if it neverhappens. Just say you will leave it for now.This gives you the right, provided she is happy with it, to just maintain sporadic and casualcontact. Be very careful not to overdo this, but if you can send the odd short email, say onaverage once a month, it just reminds her that you are still there. Make sure, whatever you do,that the emails are upbeat and that they tell her what a wonderful time you are having. Portray© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 11
  12. 12. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENyour life as exciting and fun even if it isnt. Make your world appear as though it is somewhereshe would want to be.It is critical that no mention is made of the bad times of the past, and it is even advisable toavoid the good times. Keep the messages in the present time or the future, project theimpression of looking forward. If you can include details of some hobbies or new friends whichyou have picked up since the break up, so much the better. You will be showing that you haveself control, and have moved on with your life in a positive way. Pity has a zero success ratewhen it comes to winning back women, it is confidence which gives you a chance of success.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 12
  13. 13. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 5 – Giving It A Chance To HappenAnd so, we come to the final chapter, where we put everything together. Now, you will give thereconciliation a chance to happen. It may not, it doesnt always, and if it is not meant to bethere is nothing you can do to change that. All you can do is project yourself and offer yourselfin the best way possible, and leave the rest to time and your ex. Whatever happens, the mostimportant thing you can do is be yourself, develop yourself as an individual, and put yourselffirst.If the relationship was of long standing, it may take some time to adjust to the idea of beingalone. Give it this time. Day by day, try to adjust to living an independent life. This is one of themost fundamental principles of trying to win back lost love. No-one loves the needy. The moreyou can become an independent individual standing on your own two feet, the better yourchances of eventually becoming part of a couple again. Ironic, but true.The more you can bring this into your life, the more effective you will be when you do get intouch with her from time to time. Make contact just enough to let her know that you are stillaround, and that your life is working. Drop in the odd hint that you appreciated her, but make itvery subtle and low-key. Make sure that most of the communication is about how your life isgoing really well, and the exciting things you are doing. If she doesnt reply, keep the contact© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 13
  14. 14. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENvery occasional. Once a month is about right. Maybe she is in deep thought about you. After all,if she had decided beyond any doubt that you were not wanted, she should have asked you notto contact her again.The abiding principle is one of patience. Work on what you can control, and be patient withwhat you cant. What you can control is yourself, so make yourself into the best you you canpossibly be. Build yourself up while you wait with patience for her emotions to heal, and for herto decide that she wants you in her life again. Keep contact minimal, but keep yourself in hermind. By following the principles in this book, you will give yourself the best possible chance ofwinning back your lost love. If it is meant to happen, it will. I wish you all the best.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 14
  15. 15. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENSECTION TWO – FOR WOMENChapter 1 – The First Things You Absolutely Must AvoidSo, you are feeling pretty rotten now. That is highly understandable. Rather than fight thisstate, just let it be. There are some things which take time. It is important just to take a fewbreaths and calm down, because anything you do in an emotional state is likely to be wrong. Inthe first few days after the break up, do as little as you can. Above all else, dont resort to pityand try and make him feel sorry for you. Nothing is more guaranteed to drive him further away.All of the classic mistakes are absolutely guaranteed to drive him further away from you.Pleading is certain not to work, and being jealous is as big a turn off as you can find. Yet, theseare the natural reactions of so many women who find themselves in this situation. By calmingdown long enough to think, you give yourself a chance to avoid the classic errors which scupperthe vast majority of womens chances before they even start.The very first step to take is a hard one, but it has to be done. Do everything you can to get yourmind off him, and on to you. You are the most important person in your world, and you need tobuild yourself up. Not just so that you can have a better chance of winning back love, but also© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 15
  16. 16. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENbecause you are worth it. When you are trying to win back love, you are embarking on a sellingjob. You need to make the product you are selling, i.e. yourself, as attractive to the customer aspossible. Men are attracted to confident women who are in control of their lives, so doeverything you can to become one.Another vital consideration is that you need to retain social life. Now, people vary considerably.Some people are forever out at parties and social gatherings, and others are more content to sitat home and just go out occasionally. There is no need to try to become something you aresimply not, so dont try to become a party animal if that is not who you really are. What youmust try to do is work yourself back to the level of social interaction you had before theproblems started. That will be your natural level, if you like. Becoming a recluse can only havebad consequences.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 16
  17. 17. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 2 – Learning To Live With The Break UpThe first few days after a break up are very hard. Emotions will be working overtime and youwill probably feel exhausted as well as hurt. This is the time to just reflect for a moment. Thebreak up has happened, and there is nothing you can do to change that. If you are still feeling agamut of negative emotions, just be gentle with yourself and realize that now is not the time totry to do too much too soon. Just be calm and let emotional nature take its course.As the first few days fade away, you can put yourself on the first rung of the ladder to recoveryby concentrating on other areas of your life which are working. It is absolutely vital not to let asituation in one area of your life affect everything else. Losing a job or letting a business go isnot going to do your cause the slightest bit of good. Do whatever you can to keep your lifetogether, no matter what. It is your first step to recovery. By concentrating on something whichis working, you temporarily free your mind from pressure and give yourself a chance tobreathe.The situation of your break up leaves you alone, and probably with more time on your handsthan you actually need. This can be a problem, as it just gives you even more reason to wallowin mental negativity. The next task is to use that time in a productive way. Use the time that has© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 17
  18. 18. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENbeen left to you by the break up of the relationship to develop yourself as a human being. Ifthere is some hobby or skill that you have always wanted to take up, now is the time to do it.When a break up occurs, it is inevitable that much of your thinking will be on the other person.This is where you need to try so hard to keep concentrating on yourself. You are the one whomatters here. You are the most important person in your life. Do everything within your powerto maximize yourself, both in skills which you already have, and skills which you want to learn.For a while, just be as selfish as you need to be. The time to look after others will come in itsown good time. For now, you need yourself more than they do.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 18
  19. 19. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 3 – Learning To Be Yourself AgainIt takes time to become the person you once were before the break up occurred, and there areno quick and easy answers. One step you can take which has worked for many people beforeyou is to look back on a past area of your life, certainly before the break up and possibly evenbefore you met for the first time. Find what gave you pleasure and return to it. It could be ahobby, a place to visit, or just a way of getting out into nature and calming your thoughts.Whatever it is, a link with the familiar is comforting, and it is comfort you need right now.You are now forced into a position where you are alone. If you are not used to independentliving, now is the time to learn it. Even if you go quickly back into a relationship, either this oneor another, it will do you no harm to have experience of being alone, and coping with beingalone. See this as a stage in your development where you can learn another vital skill.Independence can be a great thing, if you can learn how to use it.Being independent does not mean becoming a recluse. Much the opposite. If you become anindependent being, you can organize your social life and your social calendar to suit yourself.Even if you are feeling that you just want to be alone, it is better to make some time to get outand have some human contact. It can stop the mind from continually looking inwards andputting pressure on itself. Just be sure not to use social situations in the wrong way. Never use© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 19
  20. 20. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENother people in an attempt to get back at your ex boyfriend. This is unethical, and may wellrebound on you.The big key in using a very negative situation positively is to make sure that you are building upyour skills, your abilities, and your confidence as you go along. Some days will be better thanothers, but you can pull through if the overall trend is positive. Make yourself into a betterhuman being, primarily for yourself, but also for the possibility that one day you may be able towin back lost love, and have it stronger than before. Whatever happens, you will havestrengthened yourself, strengthened your resolve and morale, and made progress in your life.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 20
  21. 21. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 4 – When To Contact, And How OftenWhen a love relationship breaks up, it has a tendency to throw the lost lover into a state ofpanic. The reaction is to immediately reach for the telephone and try to talk to the otherperson. That is the worst thing you can do, as they will be in no frame of mind to have a rationalconversation. It takes time. Whatever you do, leave your man in peace for now. The best courseof action is to just make one communication, and then leave it at that, at least for now.If you have been talking constantly to your ex, and it has degenerated into the sort of emotionfilled argument which just drains both parties, then it is definitely time to back off and let it go.Make one communication, preferably by email, SMS message or letter so that you can sayanything you want to say without interruption, and prepare what you will say in advance. Justtell him that you realize you both need space right now, that you will not contact him for a longtime, but that you are leaving the door open for him to contact you when he wants to.So, that is the first step, to show him that you respect his space. After this, concentrate on thethings which are working in your life. Give that space the time it needs to let the emotions calmdown a little. The best course of action is to maintain a little contact. Once a month is aboutright, to start with. If no replies come, keep up this rate of communication. The chances arethat if he really didnt want to hear from you, then he would have told you so. If he replies, try© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 21
  22. 22. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENto read between the lines of what he is saying, to see if you should start communicating moreoften. Whatever you do, err on the side of caution unless you get a very positive response.Make sure the communications you send are upbeat, and full of the exciting times you arehaving and the fun people you are meeting. Let him see that your world is an exciting place tobe, and you are giving him a chance to want to be part of it. Try to cover a wide variety ofactivities and social situations, provided of course these are real and things you are actuallydoing. Where you go from there really depends on the replies, if any, which come back.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 22
  23. 23. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENChapter 5 – Giving It A Chance To HappenGiving lost love a chance to return starts with being who you are. After all, it is you you wanthim to return to, isnt it? Any act you put on will be seen through, so just be who you are. And,make that who you are into someone who is getting better all the time. Follow the advice in thefirst four chapters of this book, and you will be giving yourself the best possible chance ofwinning your love back. Whether it happens or not, you will have benefited from what you havelearned and the skills you have developed.Men do not fall in love with the needy, or with women they pity, or women who beg, plead andgrovel. Be your own independent person and you will be giving yourself a chance. It is nevereasy when he keeps coming into your thoughts all of the time, but resolve to let these thoughtsgo. Resolve to keep bringing your thoughts back to yourself. As you do, you will bestrengthening these neural pathways, and the job will become easier with time. As well asbeing independent, you need to project independence. This takes effort, but it could pay offwith the reward you are looking for.Once you have refined the product you are trying to sell, namely yourself, you can then begin tosell it. This must be done so gently that it is virtually unnoticeable. Try to keep enough contactwith him to make him curious about your life, to make him respect the way you have moved© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 23
  24. 24. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENon, and to make him want to hear more from you. When the replies come, start upconversations but dont get so enthusiastic that you spill everything in one giant email. Over-enthusiasm will backfire. Be calm and be natural.Once you have reached the level where you are sending and receiving regular communications,it really is a case of just being patient and seeing where it leads. If it does lead to you gettingback together, then your man will have got lucky. He will be treating himself to a moredeveloped and better you. There are many cases of relationships which go bad in this way beingturned around completely using the techniques in this book. A repaired relationship can bemuch stronger than the original, with two much wiser people knowing what they need to do tomake it work. I wish you every success.© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 24
  25. 25. 5 SECRETS OF MAKING UP FOR MEN & WOMENResources 1. The Ex Recovery System: Get Your Ex To Beg & Plead For You Back Again! Click Here Or Go To: http://getherbackforgood.com/rexrec.php 2. M3 System: Making Up Made Easy! Click Here Or Go To: http://getherbackforgood.com/rm3.php© 2011, http://GetHerBackForGood.com– All Rights Reserved Page 25
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