http://mindpersuasion.com/ If you chase a girl who's not interested in you, it can be a very long and fruitless pursuit. On the other hand, if you spend your time looking for girls who are already interested in you, you'll find what you want much faster.

2. It's really, really easy to get your sites
set on one girl.

3. You meet her, have a conversation or
two, and your caveman brain starts
spinning.

4. She seems perfect.

5. You start to imagine a future together.

6. If only you could figure out how to
make it happen.

7. There's two ways that guys sometimes
handle something like this.

8. One is they continue to interact her,
but never really make any kind of
move.

9. I'm not talking a physical move, but
they never ask her on a date, or talk to
her so she knows the guy's interested.

10. They sit around and hope something
"just happens."

11. Of course, this will quickly put you in
the "friend zone" from which there's
really no escape.

12. Sure it happens, but it's not a good
idea to depend on it.

13. The other thing they do is suddenly
confess their feelings for her.

14. Tell her they love her with all their
hearts.

15. This usually doesn't work either.

16. Way too much, way too soon.

17. Both of these strategies are designed
to protect the male ego.

18. They are afraid of rejection, so they
never make a move and pretty much
put themselves in the friend zone.

19. Or they want to get it over as quickly
as possible, so they dump a bunch of
emotions on her.

20. If you've done either of these, you
know they don't make things any
better.

21. From an objective standpoint, going
down the middle is clearly the best
route.

22. Express your intentions, but very
slowly, in a way that's easy for her to
reciprocate.

23. If you've never done this before, it can
be very, very difficult.

24. Every single step forward means
risking rejection.

25. She may give you her number, but she
might not date you.

26. She might date you once, but not
twice.

27. She might be willing to date you, but
not get physical.

28. She might let you get to first based,
but not second. And on and on.

29. As you can imagine, the more
experience you get, the easier it will
be.

30. But this kind of gets rid of the notion
of having it go perfectly with the first
girl you ever lay eyes on.

31. This requires a completely different
mindset.

32. One is that finding your dream girl is
not a seduction process, but a sorting
process.

33. It's much, much easier to find
somebody who likes you just the way
you are, then taking some girl who
maybe likes you and spending all kinds
of time, money and energy chasing
her.

34. One thing that will help is to simply
practice flirting with girls.

35. Only flirting. Not number closing or
long drawn out conversations where
you hope something eventually
happens.

36. Short, harmless flirting with as many
girls as you can.

37. Until talking to cute girls becomes
second nature, and you don't freak out
when you find "The One.

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