The document discusses men's fear of openly expressing sexual interest in women for fear of being seen as a "creep". It argues that sexual desire is natural and necessary for human survival. It suggests that men often judge themselves as creeps before women do, and that if men accepted their sexual desires as normal, women would too. It advises men to stop negatively judging themselves and to openly and positively express appreciation for women's attractiveness.

2. Most guys are terrified of openly
expressing their interest in a woman.

3. They're afraid they'll get rejected, or
worse, there're afraid they'll be
labeled as a "creep" or a "pervert" as if
they are doing something wrong.

4. But consider this.

5. Sexual desire is the most natural thing
there is, assuming everybody is age
appropriate.

6. If men never expressed their sexual
desires, humans wouldn't exist.

7. You may even say that the whole of
society is a manifestation of man's
sexual desire.

8. But, you say, I checked that girl out the
other day and she caught me, and
gave me a dirty look!

9. Consider this.

10. When you think of doing the nasty
with a hot girl you see, it likely makes
you FEEL dirty before she even sees
you.

11. Maybe because all of your experiences
are the same.

12. Maybe because when you were a kid
your mom or your kindergarten
teacher found you playing with your
little guy and gave you a creepy look.

13. But that wasn't because it was
inherently bad, it's just that grownups
DON'T feel comfortable talking about
that stuff with kids.

14. It's like one of those chicken and egg
questions.

15. What came first? Pure, honest, sexual
desire, or the feeling of creepiness
surround pure sexual desire?

16. I suggest that pure sexual desire (age
appropriate, of course) is PERFECTLY
NATURAL.

17. It's just because most people suck at
expressing it that everybody THINKS
it's creepy.

18. But it's not.

19. In a sense, when you're checking out a
girl, you're already judging yourself as
creepy or a pervert before she even
takes a look.

20. Which means she's not judging you as
a creep because you were checking
her out, she was judging you a creep
because YOU judged YOURSELF a
creep.

21. Most guys know that women want a
guy who'll lead.

22. But what if they automatically follow a
guy as their default setting?

23. Which means HOWEVER YOU JUDGE
YOURSELF is how she is going to judge
you.

24. Not just her, but society in general.

25. Which is fantastic news.

26. Because all you've got to do is STOP
JUDGING YOURSELF and so will she.

27. If you accept your sexual desire as
normal, natural, and crucially,
necessary for the survival of the
human race, so will she.

28. Which means when you express your
appreciation for her, even if it's purely
sexual, she will LOVE IT.

29. Now, this of course means you've got
to have a healthy desire to find out
about her personality, and whether or
not she's a match.

30. Because the bottom line truth is that
most women (simply by the law of
statistics) WILL NOT be a match.

31. But that doesn't mean you can't enjoy
looking.

32. Not just looking, but appreciating.

33. So next time you're out checking out
the ladies, try this out.

34. Think these words in your mind:

35. "I like looking at you. You are VERY
attractive. I get good feelings when I look
at you. And when I'm looking at you, I'm
imagining that we are PERFECT for each
other and can make each other VERY
HAPPY. I would LOVE to meet you to see if
that's true or not."

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