Pasco County Association of Educational Office Professionals Wesley Chapel 09/27/08

Life Is A Journey, Are You Having Fun Yet? It is an honor and privilege to be with you all today and share some of the information we have discovered uncovered, and found in many years of facilitating self help seminars, workshops and retreats. Thank you for this opportunity. Glenn Smyly

It is an honor and privilege to be with you all today and share some of the information we have discovered uncovered, and found in many years of facilitating self help seminars, workshops and retreats.

Thank you for this opportunity.

Glenn Smyly

All Sing! I Love You Whether You Know It Or Not! I Love You Whether I Show It Or Not! There Are So Many Things I Haven’t Said Inside My Heart! So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

I Love You Whether You Know It Or Not!

I Love You Whether I Show It Or Not!

There Are So Many Things I Haven’t Said Inside My Heart!

So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

You Love Me Whether You Know It Or Not! You Love Me Whether You Show It Or Not! There Are So Many Things You Haven’t Said Inside Your Heart! So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

You Love Me Whether You Know It Or Not!

You Love Me Whether You Show It Or Not!

There Are So Many Things You Haven’t Said Inside Your Heart!

So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

God Loves Us Whether We Know It Or Not! God Loves Us Whether We Show It Or Not! There Are So Many Things We Haven’t Said Inside Our Heart! So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

God Loves Us Whether We Know It Or Not!

God Loves Us Whether We Show It Or Not!

There Are So Many Things We Haven’t Said Inside Our Heart!

So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

I Love Me Whether I Know It Or Not! I Love Me Whether I Show It Or Not! There Are So Many Things I Haven’t Said Inside My Heart! So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

I Love Me Whether I Know It Or Not!

I Love Me Whether I Show It Or Not!

There Are So Many Things I Haven’t Said Inside My Heart!

So Now Is A Good Time To Start!

About Glenn Smyly I Am a World Class Public Speaker, Master Facilitator and Premier Philosopher. For more than thirty six years I have conducted seminars, workshops, retreats and other public speaking events.

I Am a World Class Public Speaker, Master Facilitator and Premier Philosopher.

For more than thirty six years I have conducted seminars, workshops, retreats and other public speaking events.

Goals! A Goal Is A Commitment You Make To Produce A Specific Result Within A Specified Time Frame With No Evidence That You Can Achieve It.

A Goal Is A Commitment You Make To Produce A Specific Result Within A Specified Time Frame With No Evidence That You Can Achieve It.

Goals for our session together! 1) ___________________________ 2) ___________________________ 3) ___________________________ 4) ___________________________ 5) ___________________________ 6) ___________________________ 7) ___________________________ 8) ___________________________ 9) ___________________________ 10) __________________________

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Hot Chocolate Video! Group Discussion About the Video!

Group Discussion About the Video!

Formula! K x E = W T

K x E = W

T

K = Knowledge E = Experience T = Time W = Wisdom Knowledge Times Experience Over a Period of Time = Wisdom!

K = Knowledge

E = Experience

T = Time

W = Wisdom

Knowledge Times Experience Over a Period of Time = Wisdom!

In The First Thirty Years of My Life I Was Gathering Knowledge! In The Next Thirty Years of My Life That Knowledge Became Experience! Now The Next Thirty Years of My Life That Knowledge and Experience Has Become Wisdom ! Today I Will Be Sharing My Wisdom With You Which Will Become Knowledge For You!

In The First Thirty Years of My Life I Was Gathering Knowledge!

In The Next Thirty Years of My Life That Knowledge Became Experience!

Now The Next Thirty Years of My Life That Knowledge and Experience Has Become Wisdom !

Today I Will Be Sharing My Wisdom With You Which Will Become Knowledge For You!

Conversations! Listening vs Hearing Submission vs Surrender Responsibility Stands Stands Meditation Group Sharing

Listening vs Hearing

Submission vs Surrender

Responsibility

Stands

Stands Meditation

Group Sharing

Hearing Hearing is a function of the physical. If you have the right parts in your head, the stirrup, anvil, ear drum etc. you can hear.

Hearing is a function of the physical.

If you have the right parts in your head, the stirrup, anvil, ear drum etc. you can hear.

Listening Listening is more a function of the emotional. What you listen to has an emotional impact on you. Your Listening is Your Interpretation of What You Hear. The Spin You Put On It.

Listening is more a function of the emotional.

What you listen to has an emotional impact on you.

Your Listening is Your Interpretation of What You Hear. The Spin You Put On It.

Listening! What we listen to mostly is that little voice in our head. The one that has something to say about everyone and everything. You know the one saying what voice, I don’t hear any voice. We call that voice our “Mind”.

What we listen to mostly is that little voice in our head. The one that has something to say about everyone and everything.

You know the one saying what voice, I don’t hear any voice.

We call that voice our “Mind”.

Our Mind is a survival mechanism with basically four survival functions: 1) It makes us right and everyone else wrong. 2) When we are wrong it makes us right about being wrong. 3) It gives us all the reasons why it won’t work, why we don’t deserve it and why were not good enough to have it. 4) It gives us all the reasons why it will work, why we do deserve it, why we are good enough to have it.

Our Mind is a survival mechanism with basically four survival functions:

1) It makes us right and everyone else wrong.

2) When we are wrong it makes us right about being wrong.

3) It gives us all the reasons why it won’t work, why we don’t deserve it and why were not good enough to have it.

4) It gives us all the reasons why it will work, why we do deserve it, why we are good enough to have it.

So far we have had selective listening and what we listen to the most is that we are right and everyone else is wrong. When we listen from this perspective it makes it really hard for other people to support us because we are right and they are wrong! Right?

So far we have had selective listening and what we listen to the most is that we are right and everyone else is wrong.

When we listen from this perspective it makes it really hard for other people to support us because we are right and they are wrong!

Right?

Criticism vs Correction! When someone is trying to support us and we listen criticism we feel as if we are being attacked, we defend ourselves and then we attack back. This is the anatomy of an upset!

When someone is trying to support us and we listen criticism we feel as if we are being attacked, we defend ourselves and then we attack back.

This is the anatomy of an upset!

Listening correction however brings your power to some one else’s power. When you bring your power to their power there is a third power generated that is greater than either of you individually. With this third power you are more powerful and can solve the problem facing you.

Listening correction however brings your power to some one else’s power.

When you bring your power to their power there is a third power generated that is greater than either of you individually.

With this third power you are more powerful and can solve the problem facing you.

Submission! Submission by our definition is bringing our power to some one else’s authority. We learned submission as children with our parents. They were bigger than us, stronger than us and pretty much made us do what they wanted us to.

Submission by our definition is bringing our power to some one else’s authority.

We learned submission as children with our parents. They were bigger than us, stronger than us and pretty much made us do what they wanted us to.

Surrender! Surrender by our definition is bringing our power to some one else’s power. When we bring our power to some one else’s power together we are more powerful. It is with that power that is greater than either of us individually that we can solve what ever problem is facing us.

Surrender by our definition is bringing our power to some one else’s power.

When we bring our power to some one else’s power together we are more powerful.

It is with that power that is greater than either of us individually that we can solve what ever problem is facing us.

The Two Foundation Ideas! 1) We are each 100% responsible for the circumstances and events that are happening in our life exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren’t. 2) In the beginning at conception, in the womb before we were born, at child birth based on the circumstances of our birth or early childhood in the midst of an emotionally upsetting circumstance or event we took a Stand. We said how our life was going to be.

1) We are each 100% responsible for the circumstances and events that are happening in our life exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren’t.

2) In the beginning at conception, in the womb before we were born, at child birth based on the circumstances of our birth or early childhood in the midst of an emotionally upsetting circumstance or event we took a Stand. We said how our life was going to be.

Now the circumstances and events that are happening in our life are happening the way the are to make us right about the Stand that we have taken. Would you rather be right or alive and in love?

Now the circumstances and events that are happening in our life are happening the way the are to make us right about the Stand that we have taken.

Would you rather be right or alive and in love?

Responsibility! We have found that we are each one hundred percent responsible for the circumstances and events that are happening to us in our life. Responsibility means we are accountable for the circumstances, we are the cause of the circumstances, we are source of the circumstances in our life being exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren’t.

We have found that we are each one hundred percent responsible for the circumstances and events that are happening to us in our life.

Responsibility means we are accountable for the circumstances, we are the cause of the circumstances, we are source of the circumstances in our life being exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren’t.

Not Responsible! We are not responsible for what other people do. We do not have power over other people. We can not make them do what we want them to do.

We are not responsible for what other people do.

We do not have power over other people.

We can not make them do what we want them to do.

Irresponsible! If we are in an abusive relationship it is important that we take some kind of corrective measures to extricate our self from that relationship. Not taking any action is irresponsible on our part.

If we are in an abusive relationship it is important that we take some kind of corrective measures to extricate our self from that relationship.

Not taking any action is irresponsible on our part.

The Power of Our Word! When we give our word in the midst of emotion it becomes a Stand. The formulae for a Stand is: M x H = C T

When we give our word in the midst of emotion it becomes a Stand.

The formulae for a Stand is:

M x H = C

T

M = The mind, words thought, spoken or written. H = The Heart, the emotions we feel whether positive or negative. T = Time we have been thinking those thoughts. C = The circumstances happening in our life exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren’t!

M = The mind, words thought, spoken or written.

H = The Heart, the emotions we feel whether positive or negative.

T = Time we have been thinking those thoughts.

C = The circumstances happening in our life exactly the way they are and exactly the way they aren’t!

The Stand About Our Self! To discover your own personal stand say the following statement to your self, listen to the next thought you have and write it down. Repeat the statement over and over and write down all of your responses. Do not judge or evaluate them just write them down.

To discover your own personal stand say the following statement to your self, listen to the next thought you have and write it down. Repeat the statement over and over and write down all of your responses.

Do not judge or evaluate them just write them down.

The Truth About My Self Is!! 1) ___________________________ 2) ___________________________ 3) ___________________________ 4) ___________________________ 5) ___________________________ 6) ___________________________ 7) ___________________________ 8) ___________________________ 9) ___________________________ 10) __________________________

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Now Review Your List! Is your list mostly positive or mostly negative? Is there something on your list that stands out more than the rest of the list? Can you begin to determine your personal stand?

Is your list mostly positive or mostly negative?

Is there something on your list that stands out more than the rest of the list?

Can you begin to determine your personal stand?

Stands Meditation! I am now going to guide you on an eyes closed visualization process which will include the opportunity for you to go back to that point in your life when you took your original stand. To see what you were doing, what others were doing, what you were saying and what others were saying and what the stand you took about your life is.

I am now going to guide you on an eyes closed visualization process which will include the opportunity for you to go back to that point in your life when you took your original stand.

To see what you were doing, what others were doing, what you were saying and what others were saying and what the stand you took about your life is.

If the stand you took was a positive one we will strengthen it, however, if it was a negative one we will complete it and take a new stand that will be more positive. So just make yourself comfortable, loosen any tight clothing, take your glasses off, close your eyes, take a deep breath and relax.

If the stand you took was a positive one we will strengthen it, however, if it was a negative one we will complete it and take a new stand that will be more positive.

So just make yourself comfortable, loosen any tight clothing, take your glasses off, close your eyes, take a deep breath and relax.

Sharing About the Meditation! Who would like to share with the group how that experience was for you. Anything you might have noticed while going through the process. Did you discover your stand?

Who would like to share with the group how that experience was for you.

Anything you might have noticed while going through the process.

Did you discover your stand?

Break Time In a moment we are going to take a fifteen minute break. Before we do however I would like to introduce some products we have available. There is an order form on the last page of your packet. Please look at it while I present these products.

In a moment we are going to take a fifteen minute break. Before we do however

I would like to introduce some products we have available.

There is an order form on the last page of your packet. Please look at it while I present these products.

Welcome Back! Does anyone have any questions about anything we have discussed so far? Thank You

Does anyone have any questions about anything we have discussed so far?

Thank You

Invisible Woman Video! I believe that video is quite an acknowledgement for all of you who are doing the work you are to make sure everything continues to run smoothly.

I believe that video is quite an acknowledgement for all of you who are doing the work you are to make sure everything continues to run smoothly.

List 5 Most Fun Experiences! 1) _______________________ 2) _______________________ 3) _______________________ 4) _______________________ 5) _______________________ Sharing about these times.

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Sharing about these times.

What was present in those situations? How long did your enjoyment last? Are fun experiences in your life abundant? What was the word you were giving?

What was present in those situations?

How long did your enjoyment last?

Are fun experiences in your life abundant?

What was the word you were giving?

Now everyone get together with a partner and choose an A and a B. A – B Process How did sharing in that process make you feel?

Now everyone get together with a partner and choose an A and a B.

A – B Process

How did sharing in that process make you feel?

Questions and Answers! Now I would like to open the session for you to ask any questions you might have or any support you might need for a situation going on in your life. Does anyone have any questions?

Now I would like to open the session for you to ask any questions you might have or any support you might need for a situation going on in your life.

Does anyone have any questions?

God’s Top Ten List: 1) Become a solution rather than a problem! 2)The cost of giving is receiving; give of your time, energy, and money to share your abundance with those who don’t have it. What you receive when you give is Satisfaction!

1) Become a solution rather than a problem!

2)The cost of giving is receiving; give of your time, energy, and money to share your abundance with those who don’t have it.

What you receive when you give is Satisfaction!

3) Open your heart and feel the pain you are causing in the other person, “Feel Their Pain” then change your behavior that is causing their pain! 4) Stop buying and watching gory and treacherous movies and television shows! Listen to beautiful, peaceful and relaxing music and watch videos that promote peace and harmony.

3) Open your heart and feel the pain you are causing in the other person, “Feel Their Pain” then change your behavior that is causing their pain!

4) Stop buying and watching gory and treacherous movies and television shows! Listen to beautiful, peaceful and relaxing music and watch videos that promote peace and harmony.

5) Spend ten minutes each night just before going to bed to write a grateful list and give thanks for all the gifts I have given you. 6) Stop the unnecessary brutal child abuse known as Circumcision 7) Stop the use of harmful drugs and alcohol which are causing you to go unconscious to avoid experiencing and being responsible for your reality.

5) Spend ten minutes each night just before going to bed to write a grateful list and give thanks for all the gifts I have given you.

6) Stop the unnecessary brutal child abuse known as Circumcision

7) Stop the use of harmful drugs and alcohol which are causing you to go unconscious to avoid experiencing and being responsible for your reality.

8) Turn your armed forces into unarmed forces who are dedicated to helping people survive natural disasters provided by Mother Nature. 9) Find a need and fill it. Do what you love to do and bring your passion to it. 10) There is only one Race, “The Human Race” There is only one Language, “The Language of Love” in our heart. There is only one God and He//She is in everyone and is everywhere. If you can do no good at least do no harm Love All and Serve All

8) Turn your armed forces into unarmed forces who are dedicated to helping people survive natural disasters provided by Mother Nature.

9) Find a need and fill it. Do what you love to do and bring your passion to it.

10) There is only one Race, “The Human Race”

There is only one Language, “The Language of Love” in our heart.

There is only one God and He//She is in everyone and is everywhere.

If you can do no good at least do no harm

Love All and Serve All

Thank you for the opportunity to share with you today. May all your hopes, wishes and dreams come true! Good Luck and God Bless You!

Thank you for the opportunity to share with you today.

May all your hopes, wishes and dreams come true!

Good Luck and God Bless You!