Women Demystified Communication skills presentation Arpit Agarwal 07927804
Background <ul><li>Recipe for disaster: </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Small town guy </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Focus  only  on ac...
Learning <ul><li>Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus </li></ul><ul><ul><li>“ Why do we always have to work for them?” ...
Ladder Theory <ul><li>One ladder for most men – that of attraction </li></ul><ul><ul><li>All women on the same scale </li>...
Ladder rules <ul><li>Ladder jumping not allowed  </li></ul><ul><ul><li>A best friend may never become  </li></ul></ul><ul>...
Takeaways <ul><li>Be clear what you want from her </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Most women set their expectation in first few minu...
References and disclaimer <ul><li>www.laddertheory.com </li></ul><ul><li>www.ladderwiki.com </li></ul><ul><li>Personal vie...
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  1. 1. Women Demystified Communication skills presentation Arpit Agarwal 07927804
  2. 2. Background <ul><li>Recipe for disaster: </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Small town guy </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Focus only on academics </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Studied at Trichy </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>That too NIT </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Searched for solutions </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Made friends </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Ladder theory </li></ul></ul>
  3. 3. Learning <ul><li>Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus </li></ul><ul><ul><li>“ Why do we always have to work for them?” </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>“ Why doesn’t she send me as many SMSs as I do?” </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>“ I stand for gender equality. Why are they given an undue advantage?” </li></ul></ul><ul><li>All women are queens and princesses </li></ul><ul><li>They are committed and extremely sensitive </li></ul><ul><li>Life is much tougher being a woman </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Prejudice, Restrictions, Glass ceilings, unwritten rules… </li></ul></ul>
  4. 4. Ladder Theory <ul><li>One ladder for most men – that of attraction </li></ul><ul><ul><li>All women on the same scale </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Higher the women, more interested he is </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Women have two ladders </li></ul><ul><ul><li>One for attraction, One for friendship </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Both equally important </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Both are equally close emotionally </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Friends constitute the sense of personal </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>‘ space’ </li></ul></ul>Attraction Men’s ladder Attraction Friendship Women’s ladders
  5. 5. Ladder rules <ul><li>Ladder jumping not allowed </li></ul><ul><ul><li>A best friend may never become </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>boyfriend </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>She may not share everything with </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>her guy </li></ul></ul><ul><li>A person higher on the ladder gets preference </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Availability at a particular time matters </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Simultaneous progress on both is a myth </li></ul>Attraction Friendship Women’s ladders
  6. 6. Takeaways <ul><li>Be clear what you want from her </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Most women set their expectation in first few minutes </li></ul></ul><ul><li>“ We are just friends” could be the truth </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Women take time to trust a person </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Don’t push and spoil a good friendship </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Observe your Ma, sister, colleagues and friends </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Rough-toughness can take you nowhere </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Being gentle mannered is a good idea </li></ul></ul>
  7. 7. References and disclaimer <ul><li>www.laddertheory.com </li></ul><ul><li>www.ladderwiki.com </li></ul><ul><li>Personal views only. Your experience may differ. </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Not an attempt to humiliate anyone. </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Just showing a way to understand relationships </li></ul><ul><ul><ul><li>May not solve all problems of your life. </li></ul></ul></ul><ul><li>Number of women in life does not mean success </li></ul><ul><ul><li>It could actually mean the opposite! </li></ul></ul><ul><li>All queries welcome – [email_address] </li></ul>
  8. 8. Thank You!
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